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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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Boobygravy · 06/11/2024 09:00

Well as we all know when the US sneezes the UK catches a cold.
We had Boris.
Rapists in the UK currently have a 95% chance of getting away with it.
Starmer as head of the cps apparently knew nothing of Savile or Al Fayed.
The US has Trump supporters we have Brexiteers. And Farage.

Democracy doesn’t seem to be working for the good does it?

nokidshere · 06/11/2024 09:00

@Another2Cats thank you

Butchyrestingface · 06/11/2024 09:00

JRSKSSBH · 06/11/2024 08:54

Or field a woman who can describe her policies in detail and answer a question, clearly and simply. She lost in part because she came across as drunk or a bit thick on many occasions - word salad sums it up. Miserable voters who can’t afford a frozen chicken (price has doubled) don’t give a shit about trans rights. You can’t win an election on a single issue (abortion) and waltz into the White House if voters don’t trust you to improve their lives materially.

No, I'm afraid I don't believe the calibre of the female candidate would make any difference.

Field a man, ANY man, over a woman in the US if you want to stand a chance of winning the election. America is not there yet.

ruffler45 · 06/11/2024 09:00

Beekeepingmum · 06/11/2024 08:54

Really feel for women who care about their bodily autonomy. Will abortion be banned in its entirety?

While abortion is an important issue that some have used it to decide who to vote for, there are wider global and national issues that also have to be considered when voting. Is Kamala really competant/experinced/wise enough to cope considering she has been effectively invisible for the last 4 years and Michelle Obama was not interested?

Katbum · 06/11/2024 09:00

Backwoods57 · 06/11/2024 07:02

Brit in the US:

Over the past 10 years the liberal's have shut down friendly political debate. If you are not a Democrat you are automatically shot down as being a Nazi supporter. This obviously has upset a majority. However they have just kept quiet and nodded along to maintain friendships, saving their true views for the privacy of the voting booth.

You cannot win thoughts and minds by shouting them down and demonizing them.

I think this is true. If saying a woman is a woman and a man is not a woman gets you called a nazi, you might as well vote for the candidate they call a nazi. But compounding all this is the influence of propaganda through algorithms, and the utter partiality of social media. Most of the electorate here and overseas are getting their information from social media posts, reels and shares that are targeted - far from a neutral informed electorate.

Noname99 · 06/11/2024 09:01

silentwallflower · 06/11/2024 08:05

You do know plenty of people fighting in trade unions and on the streets you talk about are WHITE WORKING CLASS. Many of those who are fighting for the working class have long left the Labour party.

They have no idea what it’s like to live in an area where there are no jobs, send your child to a school that are overwhelmed with social issues and live somewhere opportunities are scarce.

And Reform leaders do? And Ex City trader, public school educate Farage is the man of the people ...for fucks sake. They see the white working class as useful tools to whip up populist ideas , but they don't give two fucks about them.

Tommy Robinson has more credibility actually coming from the working class but still uses populist bollocks to delude the working class that immigrants on boats are the problem, nothing about the rich who pay no tax and sit back in real power while Farage and Robinson ensure they divide and rule- woke vs anti-woke and other meaningless bollocks

No I sincerely don’t believe reform have any answer whatsoever but they are the only ones pretending to listen so how can you be surprised when people reach out to them in hope when the other side, the side that’s supposed to be for them is the side condemning them at every turn.

summershere99 · 06/11/2024 09:01

TTPDTS · 06/11/2024 07:43

It's not that she's not got a strong government background - it's that she was no where near any campaign / media / rally at all, until part way through the process - she only appeared when Biden failed (which he had been for ages and they should have admitted much earlier!).

She was an unknown - who then spent time on stage with celebrities, instead of perhaps better communications about who she was and what she stood for. Coming on stage with Beyoncé etc is great to show you've got support, but when you only entered the race partway through you need to create a stronger identity for yourself imo. Her social media was mainly mocking Trump and celebrity endorsements - that's not going to help you win a majority when you've got such a wide range of voters.

None of that is to do with her as a candidate - that's poor campaign strategy and due to the fact she was very late to the race.

But other PPs have said the Dems need a better candidate .. and I too would like to know what people mean by that? It feels like there is an undercurrent, of 'better candidate' = old white man.

Driedonion · 06/11/2024 09:01

Both candidates are poor. People we know in the USA said it was a case of voting for the person you disliked the least. 🤷‍♀️

Beekeepingmum · 06/11/2024 09:02

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 08:55

No. Trump has said that he'll leave it for individual states to decide their own rules on it.

What Trump says and what Trump does bare very little co-relation.

MuchuseasaChocolateTeapot · 06/11/2024 09:03

We are walking into a dystopian future with our eyes wide open…

CaveMum · 06/11/2024 09:03

We (collectively) overestimated how much people care about politics. Most people don’t give a damn, and that’s why people like Trump get elected. If you don’t engage people why should they pay attention?

I also, sadly, have to agree with The Mooch - never underestimate how many people in large parts of the US are sexist/racist. It’s not a nice thing to say, but I bet there’s an awful lot of people (and I’ve seen people say that they’ve heard US family members say it) that they would not vote for Harris purely on the basis she is a woman.

TheKeatingFive · 06/11/2024 09:03

Boobygravy · 06/11/2024 09:00

Well as we all know when the US sneezes the UK catches a cold.
We had Boris.
Rapists in the UK currently have a 95% chance of getting away with it.
Starmer as head of the cps apparently knew nothing of Savile or Al Fayed.
The US has Trump supporters we have Brexiteers. And Farage.

Democracy doesn’t seem to be working for the good does it?

What do you suggest as an alternative?

ABirdsEyeView · 06/11/2024 09:03

I have family in America and they are of the opinion that the Democrats could have dealt with the abortion issue earlier, but chose to leave it as a vote winner in this election. If that's true, then they have a hand in what's happened to women over there.
Theres also a feeling that in Democrat states they have overstepped and lost the plot when it comes to interference in family issues, I think around transitioning kids and not informing parents or undermining them.
I'm not sure how true any of this is, but if that's the perception voters are getting of the Democrats, then it's not inspiring confidence. The left generally (not only in the USA), has a tendency to think that anyone who doesn't agree with them on all issues is a nasty bigot.

Idk, seems like the Democrats once again picked a candidate that couldn't inspire support. I think a lot of this is on Biden for pushing for his second term and for being a useless president - it didn't bode well for his VP. She was seen as having had an opportunity to perform well and didn't.

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 09:03

Beekeepingmum · 06/11/2024 09:02

What Trump says and what Trump does bare very little co-relation.

In the world of politics, that is unfortunately not a trait unique to him.

User37482 · 06/11/2024 09:03

Backwoods57 · 06/11/2024 07:02

Brit in the US:

Over the past 10 years the liberal's have shut down friendly political debate. If you are not a Democrat you are automatically shot down as being a Nazi supporter. This obviously has upset a majority. However they have just kept quiet and nodded along to maintain friendships, saving their true views for the privacy of the voting booth.

You cannot win thoughts and minds by shouting them down and demonizing them.

Yeah this, it’s the progressive left really. I genuinely believe that many voters find trump repulsive in many ways yet still voted for him. Not because they think he will make things better but that the democrats will be worse.

The democrats should have been able to do a lot better, you can’t run a campaign on vibes. Kamala Harriss should never have been the candidate. She was poor, it pains me to say it, I was really excited that a woman of asian heritage made it as VP but she’s a dumbass.

Theres no point in attacking his character (which is vile, stupid and narcissistic) thats priced in, people are voting on what they think each candidate will do.

I actually miss Bill Clinton he was pretty gross but he was a bloody good president.

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 06/11/2024 09:05

Demonhunter · 06/11/2024 08:36

I don't know enough about the everyday life and struggles of the USA to make a fully informed opinion (the same as many commenting) so I do seek out Americans so I hope its OK to ask you.

What is it that's happening there, to make so many people vote Trump over the Democrats? I read that Republicans won battlegrounds that could swing either way. What, in your opinion, has happened or is happening, to sway that?

Honestly, I wish I knew. I can't fathom how anybody would vote for Trump or Republicans in geneal. However (and I'm basing this entirely on social media so I could be wrong), it seems like people have grabbed onto one issue and haven't seen past that. I can't even count the number of stupid posts I have seen on here about keeping men out of women's sports, or trans kids and gender reassignment surgery. Those same people screaming protect women are also supporting a rapist and misogynist who wants to take away all reproductive rights for women. Yeah, let's protect women 🙄. It's really just mind boggling and I feel like I'm in some bizarro timeline where humanity has just gone off the rails.

I wish I had a better answer for you.

HebburnPokemon · 06/11/2024 09:05

motheronthedancefloor · 06/11/2024 08:55

this is conflicting for women's rights.

On the one hand, the right believe women don't have penises but on the other, disagree with abortion, even in cases of rape or incest.

Agreed. Very conflicting.

I always found the right's anti-choice abortion argument directly conflicts with their "small state" argument. How do they square that one?

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 09:05

YankTank · 06/11/2024 08:58

He is on record saying exactly that.

Yes, he has. He also said he would have Liz Cheney shot in the face nine times and enact retribution against his enemies. I fully expect this to happen. He has made fun of people of colour and the disabled and he is a convicted felon who will pardon himself. America is a racist and misogynistic place. I know, I was born there, and I got the hell out. Thank God.

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 06/11/2024 09:05

Nanny0gg · 06/11/2024 08:55

I would be good if convicted criminals weren't allowed to stand though

Couldn't the Republicans have done better too? They've had decent men leading before

You would have thought, that with 350M people in our country, we could have fielded two better candidates. Mind-boggling that the two parties thought those two were the best of the bunch.

Sadly, money talks and intelligent people don't always have money for backing. The ones with backing these days have extreme views and are unwilling to learn to spell and use the word "compromise".

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 09:06

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 06/11/2024 09:05

Honestly, I wish I knew. I can't fathom how anybody would vote for Trump or Republicans in geneal. However (and I'm basing this entirely on social media so I could be wrong), it seems like people have grabbed onto one issue and haven't seen past that. I can't even count the number of stupid posts I have seen on here about keeping men out of women's sports, or trans kids and gender reassignment surgery. Those same people screaming protect women are also supporting a rapist and misogynist who wants to take away all reproductive rights for women. Yeah, let's protect women 🙄. It's really just mind boggling and I feel like I'm in some bizarro timeline where humanity has just gone off the rails.

I wish I had a better answer for you.

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And yet for the Democrats choosing to alienate women by dying on the hill of mutilating children and exposing women and girls to increased assaults in what should be single sex spaces, is that not stupid?

JRSKSSBH · 06/11/2024 09:07

Shakeoffyourchains · 06/11/2024 08:21

I am absolutely sick of this rhetoric. The left are not to blame for anything.

Wanting a more equal society, where everyone, regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation, nationality and status is treated fairly is not woke. Wanting to ensure the planet and all it's inhabitants aren't exploited and decimated for the benefit of a few isn't woke. Both of those should be everyone's aim, yet here we are pursuing isolationism, xenophobia, bigotry, racism and elitism at the behest of rich, elitist men.

The left, here and abroad, have tried to explain time and time again why the issues working class natives face are not the fault of the equally downtrodden and working class migrant, but they don't want to hear it. Far easier to blame an asylum seeker for "getting all our money" than to accept that the elitist man they voted for lied.

If they don't want to listen to reason because they're wedded to the idea that "elitist man has my best interests at heart" despite all evidence to the contrary then that's on them, not the left.

Your post is amusing since it absolutely highlights the issue with left wingers. You make no attempt to address the substantive issues raised about why US voters are unhappy instead you use extreme language. Then you launch into a self-congratulatory rant about how virtuous the left is wanting world peace and an end to world hunger as though simply by dint of wanting good things your argument is obviously right. I am guessing you are comfortably off and many issues to do with wages, housing, availability of services, etc are not ones that directly affect you.

viques · 06/11/2024 09:07

YankTank · 06/11/2024 08:44

But VPs never shine. Name one “shiny” thing that Mike Pence did. I can only name one—refusing to overturn the election on the Senate floor—that was only at the end as the shit was hitting the fan; not an actual policy during the 4 years of the administration. Can you name any “shiny” things that Joe Biden did as VP? What about Dick Cheney?

I heard someone say the other day that VP don’t have a brief, they are there for one reason only, to step over the Presidents dead body.

And yes, if Biden and his advisors had read the signs about his health and not ignored them, planned his exit , and taken time to find the best candidate and VP candidate ( which might or might not have been Kamala, who let’s face it got handed the shitty end of the stick) then the Democrats would have had a good shot at winning. I think Kamala has done better than many thought she would under the circumstances, but the failure of the campaign lies more at the Biden camp’s door than hers. We can only hope that the Democrats spend the next three years before the next declaration finding, supporting and training up a decent candidate, male or female, black or white.

Then if there is still an America left there will be a chance for its people to have a President deserving of the title.

Lonely40 · 06/11/2024 09:07

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 06:47

Democrats need to field better candidates.

And stop insulting the electorate

This is 2016 all over again - they just refused to listen to what people were telling them.

Yep, stop insulting voters and stop putting ridiculous pop stars on platforms with them. When I saw the video of Kamala hugging Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom I felt my insides cringe. All that behavior does is make voters feel like the politicians are completely out of touch

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 09:08

dottiehens · 06/11/2024 08:47

Disgusting of Thonberry to say that only N Korea and Moscow are happy.

She should have also included Hungary and Belarus.

No normal European democracies will be happy with this outcome.

We know that you love the orange maniac and hate the Labour Government, but in the same way as we need to suck up the fact that Trump has won, you need to suck up the fact that Labour won here.

MillyMichaelson · 06/11/2024 09:08

dottiehens · 06/11/2024 08:34

The really good people would accept the results and try not spout more hate and division. Where do you fit OP?

Trump is calling for healing the country.

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He also called Puerto Rico garbage.
He has talked about getting political revenge on Dems he just disagreed with.
He made threatening remarks towards Liz Cheney.
He alluded to approving of journalists being shot at rallies.
He's a rapist.
He's a convicted felon.

Now, which of those things is likely to bring peace and unity to the states?

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