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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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Combattingthemoaners · 06/11/2024 08:32

Sdpbody · 06/11/2024 07:43

We would have voted Trump in our household.

We also voted conservative here.

It has becoming increasingly apparent that you are demonised for having any different view other than the left is best.

People are allowed to vote in their best interests.

How is this becoming increasingly apparent? And why is anyone who doesn’t support Trump on the left? There is a very wide and nuanced political spectrum people are turning into a binary left or right.

QuantumPanic · 06/11/2024 08:32

turbonerd · 06/11/2024 08:10

The world will be very interesting from 2025. Ukraine will lose to Russia, I Wonder if NATO will respond when Putin invades the Baltic states?
(I hope it’s an IF, not a WHEN, but this will embolden Putin and North Korea).

And it is not just the next four years. Trump promised if he won no-one will need bother to vote again in the US. That is quite the promise.

Demographically, Russia is not in a position to invade the Baltic states. And why would Putin want to? This is a popular talking point, but it's extremely unlikely to happen (within the next 50 years or so - who knows what tides will shift after that).

The world has 'supported' Ukraine just enough to draw out the war an inflict maximum harm on that country (and on Russia, to be fair). Should have fully committed to assist or not involved themselves at all. Ukrainians don't want to fight. Time for negotiation, for better or worse. I am disappointed that Harris lost, but at least it may force an end to a pointless conflict.

Coolasfeck · 06/11/2024 08:33

Why won’t some people own their decisions in regard to who they vote for or support? Why are they cowards? Instead of saying stuff like ‘the left said mean things to me so I was forced to vote this way!’ or ‘Harris spoke funny so I was forced to vote this way!’ Just admit you were seduced by the rhetoric of the person you voted for.

If you’re confident you did the right thing then there’s no need to blame others. I’d respect them more if they just said ‘I align with Trumps values and actions’. Simple.

Didimum · 06/11/2024 08:33

ZippyDoodle · 06/11/2024 08:27

Yes, there was a lot of incoherent rambling about NATO, Putin, Tehran last time he was in office. That's what the US voters should be concerned about but the country as a whole are so insular they don't understand the implications of this for the rest of the world.

Be prepared for turbulent times ahead.

What does ‘prepare for turbulent times ahead’ even mean? We are permanently in turbulent times. Same old story time again. You can politically aware and compartmentalise what at the end of the day you have no influence in changing.

moimichme · 06/11/2024 08:33

Trump said repeatedly that people (his supporters) wouldn't have to worry about voting again after this election, as long as he won. Will he really go quietly into the night and give up power after 4 years?? He didn't want to last time. He now has a majority in the Senate so they could potentially change rules around term limits. That's if he cares about following the law (not very much). Scary times for the U.S. and the world if another larger war develops on top of all the other issues facing us.

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 06/11/2024 08:33

wowzelcat · 06/11/2024 08:30

I’m worried for my niece who will few reproductive rights.

She will not have a few, she will have none, unless she can fly to a state that isn't a Republican hell hole.

BMW6 · 06/11/2024 08:34

Butchyrestingface · 06/11/2024 07:40

I knew this would happen. America would never elect a woman, ANY woman, over a man. Doesn’t matter if the man is the most disgraceful, criminal cunt to have ever sat in the Oval Office - country would take him over a woman, esp a black one.

You and me both. I posted many months ago that I can't see a female USA President within 50 years, if not longer.

dottiehens · 06/11/2024 08:34

The really good people would accept the results and try not spout more hate and division. Where do you fit OP?

Trump is calling for healing the country.

turbonerd · 06/11/2024 08:34

Prescottdanni123 · 06/11/2024 08:13

@turbonerd

This is what worries me. If Putin attacks a NATO country, will NATO wade in without the support of US/the risk of US siding with Russia?

NATO has to. I hope.
My country borders Russia. I’m stocking up on tinned goods + the govt just issued a pretty hefty Prep leaflet. Finland and the Baltic countries must also be preparing frantically (stoically) now.

My guess is USA wont side with Russia, but wont support nato either in a worst case scenario.
Mind you, they have just had two years on the trot of massive nato marine exercises in the North Sea (the US together with European countries, with their enormous war ships).

I can’t see Russia being satisfied with Ukraine, even if they clearly are stretched too thin already. But North Korea is on the scene too, and they seem to have functioning nuclear weapons. So even though Russia’s own are defunct they now have access to NK’s Stock. That makes Putin’s nuclear threat a little more serious by the looks of it.

Butchyrestingface · 06/11/2024 08:34

Unless the Dems fielded a puppy kicking, child fiddling, nazi saluting nutjob wearing a literal straight jacket & a fucking hockey mask wielding a goddamn chainsaw ANYONE was better... Like, anyone!

Said person, as long as they were male, would still stand a better chance of being elected in the US than a woman.

CraftyPlumViewer · 06/11/2024 08:34

DancefloorAcrobatics · 06/11/2024 07:01

a white male v black female in a nation that is still widely and openly racist sexist and misogynistic in large swathes of the country it’s was always odds on for the white male

This and that:

Biden's selfish initial determination to run for a second term jinxed the chances of a Democratic win

Yup, all that.

MyKookyUmberTraybake · 06/11/2024 08:34

silentwallflower · 06/11/2024 08:25

I live in Surrey and no-one thinks that Tory vote means your racist, even a Reform will raise eyebrows but a flag waving neo -nazi? Not really,

if you say you support Britain First, they would think your're a racist POS, perhaps going on Tommy Robinson marches would label you as 'radical' and not their cup of tea.

This polarised world doesn't exist in the real world. There's a unreal, online world , where people echo chamber their bollocks to each other that they think this is the real world, it isn't.

The polarised world very much exists in the 'real world'. There were numerous threads on MN around Brexit with people going no-contact because of their families political views and around conduct during COVID too.

Which i've seen in 'real life' and not just on MN too.

HebburnPokemon · 06/11/2024 08:35

How is it in 2024 they still have never had a female leader and many women would rather vote for a rapist and to probably get pardons for rapists and ban abortion than have a female President. It’s absolutely bonkers.

This is what I cannot grasp. What is going on with American women???

MargotwithaT · 06/11/2024 08:35

localnotail · 06/11/2024 08:31

Not your place to control other people thoughts and emotions, sorry. Also, feeling anger and disappointment is not the same as a having tantrum.

I personally never met anyone happy about Brexit. A lot of people are indifferent, but saying "I benefitted from Brexit" - never happened.

How odd. I have never, ever said I wanted to control other people’s opinions. I do however think a lot of people’s response to Brexit was bizarre. Social media has fuelled people’s belief that theirs is the only opinion that matters and anyone who holds is different one is stupid and deserving of their anger.

GrouachMacbeth · 06/11/2024 08:35

SpunkyKoala · 06/11/2024 06:49

Well there was always a 50/50 chance trump would win from the outset and a white male v black female in a nation that is still widely and openly racist sexist and misogynistic in large swathes of the country it’s was always odds on for the white male - the US is a completely different beast to the UK there’s little in the way of ‘moderate views’ and they are fervent in their core beliefs.

The voters were not taken on by identity politics. Trump gained amongst black voters, lanino voters.

EmeraldDreams73 · 06/11/2024 08:36

Utterly depressing and terrifying. I despair. What is the matter with people?

Demonhunter · 06/11/2024 08:36

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 06/11/2024 08:31

American living in the UK here and YANBU. America and the world are truly fucked. Americans seem to be obsessed with their own self destruction and that is exactly what is going to happen. My husband and I were contemplating moving back but now I know I am never going back bc a Trump term isn't just bad for 4 years, the damage he will do is going to ruin America for the next 50.

Now, how do I go about explaining to every international person I meet for the next 4 years that I am not in fact one of the fuckwits who voted for this shit show?

I don't know enough about the everyday life and struggles of the USA to make a fully informed opinion (the same as many commenting) so I do seek out Americans so I hope its OK to ask you.

What is it that's happening there, to make so many people vote Trump over the Democrats? I read that Republicans won battlegrounds that could swing either way. What, in your opinion, has happened or is happening, to sway that?

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 08:36

Shakeoffyourchains · 06/11/2024 08:21

I am absolutely sick of this rhetoric. The left are not to blame for anything.

Wanting a more equal society, where everyone, regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation, nationality and status is treated fairly is not woke. Wanting to ensure the planet and all it's inhabitants aren't exploited and decimated for the benefit of a few isn't woke. Both of those should be everyone's aim, yet here we are pursuing isolationism, xenophobia, bigotry, racism and elitism at the behest of rich, elitist men.

The left, here and abroad, have tried to explain time and time again why the issues working class natives face are not the fault of the equally downtrodden and working class migrant, but they don't want to hear it. Far easier to blame an asylum seeker for "getting all our money" than to accept that the elitist man they voted for lied.

If they don't want to listen to reason because they're wedded to the idea that "elitist man has my best interests at heart" despite all evidence to the contrary then that's on them, not the left.

It's not rhetoric at all @Shakeoffyourchains. It's an accurate explanation of what has happened on several occasions. Not say that the left are not to blame for anything is very naive. I do agree with you re the right's nasty, divisive, racist tones though.

HebburnPokemon · 06/11/2024 08:36

Didimum · 06/11/2024 08:33

What does ‘prepare for turbulent times ahead’ even mean? We are permanently in turbulent times. Same old story time again. You can politically aware and compartmentalise what at the end of the day you have no influence in changing.

Got any tips on how to do this?

I feel genuinely upset.

pollyhemlock · 06/11/2024 08:36

ruffler45 · 06/11/2024 08:27

Its the will of the people - thats how democracy works...get over it

Do you prefer a puppet run by some unknown unelected people?

Unfortunately it’s also the way democracy dies. If it’s ‘the will of the people’ to elect a tyrant then the seeds of destruction are right there. We’ll just have to hope that the American system is enough to prevent this but not feeling optimistic rn.

GoldenPheasant · 06/11/2024 08:37

Lickthips · 06/11/2024 07:17

Honestly, this.

Now we have 4 more years of the orange baboon on our screens spouting bollocks.

Not sure he'll last that long. He's demonstrably got dementia.

Caerulea · 06/11/2024 08:37

Butchyrestingface · 06/11/2024 08:34

Unless the Dems fielded a puppy kicking, child fiddling, nazi saluting nutjob wearing a literal straight jacket & a fucking hockey mask wielding a goddamn chainsaw ANYONE was better... Like, anyone!

Said person, as long as they were male, would still stand a better chance of being elected in the US than a woman.

Ain't that the truth.

timetodecide2345 · 06/11/2024 08:37

The US is heading back to the 1800s. God bless America !

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 08:38

HebburnPokemon · 06/11/2024 08:35

How is it in 2024 they still have never had a female leader and many women would rather vote for a rapist and to probably get pardons for rapists and ban abortion than have a female President. It’s absolutely bonkers.

This is what I cannot grasp. What is going on with American women???

It is because the bottom line for most people is the $/£ in their pocket. The majority of the US and UK population have become poorer in real terms for many, many years. They are not voting for a moral leader. They are protesting and voting against the establishment because this establishment have let them down. Badly.

BurntBroccoli · 06/11/2024 08:38

DancefloorAcrobatics · 06/11/2024 07:01

a white male v black female in a nation that is still widely and openly racist sexist and misogynistic in large swathes of the country it’s was always odds on for the white male

This and that:

Biden's selfish initial determination to run for a second term jinxed the chances of a Democratic win

Yes totally agree.

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