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To be so disappointed in people - Trump voters especially

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notsorighteousthesedays · 06/11/2024 06:43

I feel absolutely stunned that despite all that has been said and done Trump is likely to get the chance to make the world burn a little faster.

I am afraid for a future so full of anger and hate.

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AlecTrevelyan006 · 06/11/2024 08:15

I know hindsight is annoying but those years spent claiming Biden was fit enough to complete one let alone two terms were utterly wasted. They needed a proper debate to find a proper candidate.

Babadookinthewardrobe · 06/11/2024 08:16

AliceBunny · 06/11/2024 08:08

It is important to remember that the majority view is not always the right one. This is one such case.

But who made you the arbiter of what is right? I think this attitude has been part of the problem turning US voters off. Their individual opinions matter too and the condescension shown towards them has now reaped predictable results.

Wordau · 06/11/2024 08:16

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 06/11/2024 07:42

I was about to agree with you- I don't want Farage in power but unless the ruling parties look into why they are not appealing to voters then he will get votes.

But then you get sucked into the lazy trope 'right wing fascist voters' and I realised you are just like them, unable to see the reasons.

Only 18% of UK voters support Trump Vs 75% supporting Harris / not supporting him.

I don't think our political landscape is the same.

RedToothBrush · 06/11/2024 08:17

SpudleyLass · 06/11/2024 06:47

Democrats need to field better candidates.

And stop insulting the electorate

This is 2016 all over again - they just refused to listen to what people were telling them.

I agree with this.

The issues of this election have been glaringly obvious since 2016.

Democratics haven't done anything to really address that. They have not offered anything that moderate Americans felt was important enough to vote for.

This isn't actually about the nutcase Trump supporters.

That's the mistake.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 06/11/2024 08:17

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 08:02

Give me one example of a trans child being castrated by the Democrats.

The language is hyperbolic but the standard drug treatment offered to children and young teens as part of 'gender affirmation' is puberty blockers followed by 'cross-hormones'. The long-term effects have been extremely poorly researched, not least because this is all very new for gender confused youngsters - they used to get psychological treatment and the vast majority outgrew that confusion once they were through puberty - but what is known is that both male and female adolescents on this regime are likely to become infertile and incapable of a normal sexual response, i.e. having an orgasm and feeling sexual attraction. If the teen proceeds to the barbaric surgical treatment on offer to remove their reproductive organs and fashion a very poor facsimile of the opposite sex's external sex organs, they lose their fertility beyond doubt. There is no good evidence that any of this helps them live their lives as happy, fulfilled adults. There is plenty of evidence of very poor health as a direct result of having the surgery because of the high infection risk, and higher risk of heart disease, osteoporosis and other serious health conditions as a result of the hormone treatments.

I loathe Donald Trump and everything he stands for but there is unfortunately no doubt that the Republicans have been a lot more sceptical about gender affirmation than the Democrats. They are no friends to women's rights and the safeguarding of vulnerable people, and probably very keen on traditional gender roles, so their reasons for opposing gender ideology would be different from mine and most other British gender critical people. The Democrats just appear to have swallowed this very new ideology whole without subjecting it to any critical thinking whatsoever, and that's proved very harmful to a growing number of children, adolescents and young adults.

Whatafustercluck · 06/11/2024 08:17

Coolasfeck · 06/11/2024 08:13

When did ‘the left’ shut down debate? Last time I checked Fox News had a big voice and ‘X’(Twitter) where most of the mainstream press seem to get their stores from is owned by Musk.

This whole ‘the left has shut down debate’ is bollocks and you know it. X etc has poisoned social discourse, Facebook is a sewer, Daily Mail has comments from around the world.

Um, yeah - that was kind of my point. I.e. so many shouting that, so many believing it. But even if you accept that argument (I don't) they've still elected a rapist and pretty fucking despicable human being.

Outandinbout · 06/11/2024 08:17

MargotwithaT · 06/11/2024 08:10

The tantrums on here after Brexit were something to behold. I’m a lefty remainer but also from a working-class town so understood that people had their reasons to vote leave beyond being stupid. There was a poster who said she and her husband were so angry their colleagues were frightened to speak to them. The anti working-class rhetoric was disgraceful and made me think differently about this site ever since.

I agree, except the remainers' response ( and I voted remain but like you come from a working class background) made me think very differently about my middle class friends. They had always pretended to be social justice warriors who believed in empowering the poor, and their response after brexit showed that was always paternalistic patronising bollocks as they were outraged that working classes held the democratic power with the brexit vote.

thepariscrimefiles · 06/11/2024 08:17

Butchyrestingface · 06/11/2024 07:40

I knew this would happen. America would never elect a woman, ANY woman, over a man. Doesn’t matter if the man is the most disgraceful, criminal cunt to have ever sat in the Oval Office - country would take him over a woman, esp a black one.

I didn't want to believe this, but you are right.

Lentilweaver · 06/11/2024 08:17

Wordau · 06/11/2024 08:16

Only 18% of UK voters support Trump Vs 75% supporting Harris / not supporting him.

I don't think our political landscape is the same.

Or admit to.

ZippyDoodle · 06/11/2024 08:17

MargotwithaT · 06/11/2024 07:21

If there is one phrase I hate it’s ’turkeys voting for Christmas.’ It’s such a trite fucking thing to say and only ever results in a backlash.

I think it sums up the situation perfectly!

RedToothBrush · 06/11/2024 08:18

AlecTrevelyan006 · 06/11/2024 08:15

I know hindsight is annoying but those years spent claiming Biden was fit enough to complete one let alone two terms were utterly wasted. They needed a proper debate to find a proper candidate.

It massively undermined the credibility of the Democrats.

They lied about Biden right until they couldn't lie about him anymore.

Livelovebehappy · 06/11/2024 08:18

Wordau · 06/11/2024 08:16

Only 18% of UK voters support Trump Vs 75% supporting Harris / not supporting him.

I don't think our political landscape is the same.

This is madness. How was the figure of 18% reached? By canvassing MN posters??

AliceBunny · 06/11/2024 08:19

I am mystified at how much gender identity discussions have taken over political debates in the west. I have worked with transgender people in my long career in mental health. We were doing ok and treated people with respect in the 90s and 2000s though of course intolerant idiots have always existed. An issue which affects a relatively small number of people has just ballooned disproportionately.

I am passionate about tolerance and acceptance but perhaps controversially, I think the current preoccupation with gender identity has become really unhelpful for all. And distracting from other important issues in politics.

Savemydrink · 06/11/2024 08:19

fishyrumour · 06/11/2024 08:15

Oh come on! I've seen Democrats being likened to communists too. Have you watched Fox news at all?

I agree with the view that it's a lot to do with racism and misogynism. But also the fact that politics has swung very strongly towards people's feelings and is very influenced by SM sound bites rather than analysis and evidence. Same as Brexit, people believed what was on the side of a bus rather than the evidence from a slew of economists.

Same with Trump. Biden has in fact produced more jobs and Trump has no detailed policies at all but people fall for the rhetoric.

Edited

Biden has not produced more jobs. They fudged the figures and later had to own up to having elevated the number by 800,000

You can’t believe what they say, they lie

SweetBaklava · 06/11/2024 08:20

Dreadful news, but entirely predictable unfortunately... it was lost when Biden decided to run again when he was clearly not capable 🤷🏻‍♀️ it was too big a mountain to climb for Harris.

Menopausalsourpuss · 06/11/2024 08:20

Coolasfeck · 06/11/2024 08:13

When did ‘the left’ shut down debate? Last time I checked Fox News had a big voice and ‘X’(Twitter) where most of the mainstream press seem to get their stores from is owned by Musk.

This whole ‘the left has shut down debate’ is bollocks and you know it. X etc has poisoned social discourse, Facebook is a sewer, Daily Mail has comments from around the world.

Oh so you must have missed the plan for Ofcom to shut down GB News. And before Musk bought X all sorts of people were banned from there (all perceived as "right" including people like KJK). I don't think Musk had banned anyone has he (unless they are breaking the law of course) as he believes in free speech which the left don't for their opponents.

AliceBunny · 06/11/2024 08:21

Babadookinthewardrobe · 06/11/2024 08:16

But who made you the arbiter of what is right? I think this attitude has been part of the problem turning US voters off. Their individual opinions matter too and the condescension shown towards them has now reaped predictable results.

I am just commenting on those who say their views have been proven right because Trump has won. That’s not necessarily the case.

alottobedone · 06/11/2024 08:21

skippy67 · 06/11/2024 08:11

Do you really need to ask?

I am not commenting on the results as they aren't in now, but need to point out that legally Trump is not a proven racist or a convicted racist. If you want to slur, try to be accurate with the slurs or otherwise it comes across as crazy. Most people haven't a clue what has changed in the last 4 years and what the policies actually are of the two runners - we should be focusing on the policies and reasons behind them, not trying to get personal.

Dr13Hadley · 06/11/2024 08:21

Backwoods57 · 06/11/2024 07:02

Brit in the US:

Over the past 10 years the liberal's have shut down friendly political debate. If you are not a Democrat you are automatically shot down as being a Nazi supporter. This obviously has upset a majority. However they have just kept quiet and nodded along to maintain friendships, saving their true views for the privacy of the voting booth.

You cannot win thoughts and minds by shouting them down and demonizing them.

Well said.

Shakeoffyourchains · 06/11/2024 08:21

rainingsnoring · 06/11/2024 07:48

'The failure to try and understand why people are voting Trump will be the downfall of the left'- Exactly.

It's a protest vote. People are unhappy. They are struggling financially. They hate the establishment and Trump cleverly portrays himself as anti establishment (obviously that isn't true). They don't want to vote for the same thing.
This happened when Trump was voted in before and with Brexit here. Labour were also an anti Tory vote rather than a pro Labour vote. They will be out next time.

I am absolutely sick of this rhetoric. The left are not to blame for anything.

Wanting a more equal society, where everyone, regardless of race, religion, sexual orientation, nationality and status is treated fairly is not woke. Wanting to ensure the planet and all it's inhabitants aren't exploited and decimated for the benefit of a few isn't woke. Both of those should be everyone's aim, yet here we are pursuing isolationism, xenophobia, bigotry, racism and elitism at the behest of rich, elitist men.

The left, here and abroad, have tried to explain time and time again why the issues working class natives face are not the fault of the equally downtrodden and working class migrant, but they don't want to hear it. Far easier to blame an asylum seeker for "getting all our money" than to accept that the elitist man they voted for lied.

If they don't want to listen to reason because they're wedded to the idea that "elitist man has my best interests at heart" despite all evidence to the contrary then that's on them, not the left.

Didimum · 06/11/2024 08:21

A big part of me can’t get too het up about this, because I only have so much capacity to absorb worry and panic when the world keeps turning. Over 50% of the electorate have voted the guy in. He’s the president they want. Good luck to them. I feel desperately sorry for the women and minorities of the US but his last term was pretty unremarkable from an international view – mostly hot air and 4yrs of rambling that he’d do things that he never did. I don’t think he’s got an appetite for significant foreign policy, he just wants to control the American people.

AliceBunny · 06/11/2024 08:22

Babadookinthewardrobe · 06/11/2024 08:16

But who made you the arbiter of what is right? I think this attitude has been part of the problem turning US voters off. Their individual opinions matter too and the condescension shown towards them has now reaped predictable results.

And I love this idea that trump voters are poor downtrodden souls who are being patronised by themiddle classes. The ones I have seen are assertive and confident and more than able to stand their ground and insult others who don’t think like them!

hattie43 · 06/11/2024 08:23

Kamala lalalala was far too weak to win .

Noisylass · 06/11/2024 08:24

They haven't counted all the votes yet yet he's claiming victory i just looked and she's got 227 and he's got 267 you need to get to 270 but still a few states left to count

Fishcake18 · 06/11/2024 08:24

NewStartOct2024....yes I know. I meant at the end of this four (or 8..) year term.

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