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To want the fireworks to stop now?

157 replies

QuestionableMouse · 05/11/2024 19:37

They started here at about 2pm (yes, really!) and haven't stopped since. My cats are hiding and won't eat. I have a thumping headache from the noise and just want some quiet for a bit. They started at the same time yesterday and didn't stop until 11pm ISH.

OP posts:
K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 21:32

Coatsoff42 · 05/11/2024 21:27

There’s an anxious dog on our road that barks and barks whenever anyone goes in their garden, and thats ruining the peace 52 weeks a year, I can’t be bothered about a week or so of fireworks, especially when they are so beautiful.

Ah so everyone deserves it then

K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 21:33

SadSadGirl · 05/11/2024 21:30

It's not only kids who are autistic...

Well aware. I'm sure the list is huge who fireworks impact. I didn't list them all.

What a daft comment.

Coatsoff42 · 05/11/2024 21:36

K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 21:32

Ah so everyone deserves it then

I think there’s a lot of irritations in life, I think fireworks are really beautiful.

Screamingabdabz · 05/11/2024 21:38

EmpressaurusDelleGatte · 05/11/2024 21:01

Quiet fireworks are available in most supermarkets now.

There’s no reason people need to buy the noisy ones any more.

Actually the noise of a firework is as much fun as the colours…

And pet owners don’t give a shit when their cats are killing birds for fun, or shitting in your flower beds and dogs are annoying the hell out of people in all kinds of inappropriate places now…

And that’s all year round. Not a few nights a year.

K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 21:39

Coatsoff42 · 05/11/2024 21:36

I think there’s a lot of irritations in life, I think fireworks are really beautiful.

Me too. At organised displays held by professionals. Not for weeks and weeks as soon as the nights get dark

samarrange · 05/11/2024 21:40

Not sure if this will help everyone, but: DD discovered that her dog is OK with fireworks if he can see them. So she sits by the front window with him. He's still only OK, not a huge fan, but he no longer whimpers in panic.

biedrona · 05/11/2024 21:41

Please sign if you haven't already:
www.change.org/p/officeforsands-review-firework-rules-to-protect-animals-from-injury-and-distress

bitsalty · 05/11/2024 22:03

They've just started again at fucking 10pm. What a bunch of cunts.

arinya · 05/11/2024 22:06

It’s been continuous fire works here since 5pm. Local display was at 8pm and less than 10 mins long. The rest is random garden fire works, I just checked out the window and still plenty going off so will need to wait maybe another hour to try and get the dog out for a wee in the garden. Tv on very loud since 5pm to drown it all out. Dog has emerged from under the blanket but we still can’t go to bed as she needs a wee first. It’s very tedious.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 22:06

Halloween is a night. Ignore the door. Or go out.

The decorations which scare my niece aren't one night, they started ages ago. Ignoring the door doesn't stop my cat freaking out about people knocking.

What tradition is it when fireworks are going off at 10am on a Sunday?

Fireworks in the garden is a tradition of bonfire night round here. Most are on the 5th, some the weekends before and after. There were some last night too, but I assume that's people who (for whatever reason) couldn't do them tonight. I expect Sunday morning was the same, or people trying to be considerate of those who don't want them disturbing bedtime routines of babies / small children.

Fireworks are also a tradition of Diwali, which was Thursday and Friday last week, so I'd assume that in many areas the extended firework period (rather than just one night) is because we live in a multicultural society where some families celebrate Diwali, some celebrate bonfire night, some celebrate both,

K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 22:09

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 22:06

Halloween is a night. Ignore the door. Or go out.

The decorations which scare my niece aren't one night, they started ages ago. Ignoring the door doesn't stop my cat freaking out about people knocking.

What tradition is it when fireworks are going off at 10am on a Sunday?

Fireworks in the garden is a tradition of bonfire night round here. Most are on the 5th, some the weekends before and after. There were some last night too, but I assume that's people who (for whatever reason) couldn't do them tonight. I expect Sunday morning was the same, or people trying to be considerate of those who don't want them disturbing bedtime routines of babies / small children.

Fireworks are also a tradition of Diwali, which was Thursday and Friday last week, so I'd assume that in many areas the extended firework period (rather than just one night) is because we live in a multicultural society where some families celebrate Diwali, some celebrate bonfire night, some celebrate both,

And the ones at the end of September? All the way through October? The ones which will go on now here until they die off in the new year? No traditions. They shouldn't be available to the general public. Full stop.

Tanfastic · 05/11/2024 22:12

arinya · 05/11/2024 20:30

I don’t think it’s a miserable war on joy to feel frustrated about fireworks going off every day for 7-10 days straight. But it is hard to feel joyful when you are dealing with a distressed animal. I don’t expect everyone to get that though. Some people treat their pets like shit. Maybe some people would suggest I have my dog put to sleep instead. I just want my dog to be able to relax again. It starts to wear you down after the first week.

Absolutely!
I have no issue with fireworks on bonfire night (I.e one night) because I'd just ride it out with my petrified dog who is currently trembling, drooling and panting with fear. It's the unpredictability of it and the length it goes on for. I swear they never uses to be as loud either, sounded like World War 3 tonight, no TV or classic FM will drown that noise out. My last dog was never bothered by them at all.

I've even heard people banding about the term "bonfire season" now to excuse the endless nights of torture.

WonderingWanda · 05/11/2024 22:13

Laserwho · 05/11/2024 21:02

The dog I had as a kid was a rescue dog. Very nervous scared dog, his old owner used to hit him. We cared for and trained him but no amount of training would cure him if the fear caused by fireworks. He used to tremble and try to hide behind the toilet. We used to sedated him for 1 night because in the 80s it didn't go in for weeks on end like it does now. So no you carnt just train dogs esp rescue dogs

@Laserwho have you quoted the wrong person. I haven't said anything about pets being able to be trained out of their fear. I expressed regret that the op's cats were scared and then shared an anecdote about my very fickle cat who finds the moving of furniture more distressing than fireworks. I would go so far as to say that you can't train a cat to do anything.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 05/11/2024 22:21

ELLEMAY87 · 05/11/2024 20:51

Can't I? We let them off as it's 05/11 and a nice experience for the children at a reasonable time after tea. It's now nearly 9pm and they are still going strong.
The fireworks themselves is a tradition that brings people together and for families and friends to share memories - but to set them off constantly, into the night, after a while becomes quite selfish. Oh well, only a few nights out of the year I suppose. 😊

Well no not really, you set them off at a time that’s convenient to you and if you want to do that you have to accept that others will set them off at a time that convenient to them. And therein lies the problem, everyone sets them off at different times, making it last all night and over several days.

Orrrr a better solution might be to restrict fireworks to organised displays, keep the kids up for an extra hour or so, give a few quid to the local cricket/ rugby/ whatever club, enjoy a bigger display with adequate safety measures, reduce fire brigade and Police call outs, reduce A&E visits with burns, everyone knows what time it’ll be on so they can either go or go away from the area and it’s all done and dusted by 8pm so everyone can enjoy a calm and peaceful evening. It’s win, win really!

PurpleThistle7 · 05/11/2024 22:33

There are riots here (again) so I have explosions plus endless helicopters circling overhead. My son and I were surrounded in a parking lot by teenagers throwing fireworks at police at 6pm and the night has gone downhill since. I actually like fireworks (if I pretend to forget the environmental devastation of them) and absolutely love the fire pit / s'mores / sparklers version of bonfire night but tonight is horrible.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 22:40

They shouldn't be available to the general public. Full stop.

Fortunately, in a normal society you can't just ban stuff cos you don't like it. Fireworks upset dogs and cats. Dogs maim and kill people, cats poo in gardens and kill birds. Fireworks make noise. People at barbecues make noise, as do cars, dogs, mobile phones, stereos.

Anyone who wants the 100 acres around their home to run exactly how they want it to are gonna have to save up a lot of money and retire to a house with a 100 acre garden.

K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 22:45

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 22:40

They shouldn't be available to the general public. Full stop.

Fortunately, in a normal society you can't just ban stuff cos you don't like it. Fireworks upset dogs and cats. Dogs maim and kill people, cats poo in gardens and kill birds. Fireworks make noise. People at barbecues make noise, as do cars, dogs, mobile phones, stereos.

Anyone who wants the 100 acres around their home to run exactly how they want it to are gonna have to save up a lot of money and retire to a house with a 100 acre garden.

I do like fireworks. At organised displays.

Gingerbee · 05/11/2024 22:46

We found if we let our dogs see the fireworks they were less upset. Saying that one dog never got use to living under a flight path and would get upset at helicopters, petrol mowers or motor bikes.
We live up a steep drive and I watched displays from our upstairs windows tonight. I watched a woman who walks her dog at the same time every night. The dog didn't seem upset and I could spot and hear two different gardens letting off fireworks.
It is very much a British tradition.

Gingerbee · 05/11/2024 22:47

PurpleThistle7 · 05/11/2024 22:33

There are riots here (again) so I have explosions plus endless helicopters circling overhead. My son and I were surrounded in a parking lot by teenagers throwing fireworks at police at 6pm and the night has gone downhill since. I actually like fireworks (if I pretend to forget the environmental devastation of them) and absolutely love the fire pit / s'mores / sparklers version of bonfire night but tonight is horrible.

Gosh, hope you are all OK. Sounds awful.

Tigertigertigertiger · 05/11/2024 22:48

When the neighbourhood dogs stop barking 365 days a year I'll join the campaign to ban fireworks

Bazinga007 · 05/11/2024 22:49

No chance, I love the fireworks.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 22:57

I do like fireworks. At organised displays.

And I like dogs. In zoos.

I shouldn't be allowed to stop you getting a dog and you shouldn't be allowed to stop me having fireworks.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 23:00

Also, organised displays are crap. You're too far away to smell the fireworks, there's no rubbish ones to boo at, no Catherine wheels and rarely sparklers. They're expensive to attend and you simply cannot get a decent hotdog. Plus, there's too many people in too small a space.

K0OLA1D · 05/11/2024 23:10

JemimaTiggywinkles · 05/11/2024 22:57

I do like fireworks. At organised displays.

And I like dogs. In zoos.

I shouldn't be allowed to stop you getting a dog and you shouldn't be allowed to stop me having fireworks.

Me personally no. But the law should

friendlycat · 05/11/2024 23:40

I moved from inner London to Hampshire a few years ago and boy the difference. In London they start a week early and continue each night and well into late night.

There was a public display on Saturday and nothing tonight.

It’s really noticeable. But I also think being surrounded by farms and livestock people are so much more aware of the distress it causes.

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