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"Loving" XL Bully mauls 10yo to death

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HeadacheEarthquake · 04/11/2024 15:40

www.lbc.co.uk/news/schoolgirl-malton-xl-bully-attack/

When will people wake the fuck up

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Firstimpressions · 05/11/2024 01:12

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 01:04

Oh, my last dog who was a Labrador would've killed a cat instantly - it never happened because I'm responsible. My bull breed runs out and greets them.

Admirable & I'm sure you would have your bull breed muzzled in public. They may be wonderful pets to responsible owners but the fact is they are subject to the dangerous dogs act. If the rules are not adhered to & they cause serious injury the consequences are extremely serious.

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 01:15

Firstimpressions · 05/11/2024 01:12

Admirable & I'm sure you would have your bull breed muzzled in public. They may be wonderful pets to responsible owners but the fact is they are subject to the dangerous dogs act. If the rules are not adhered to & they cause serious injury the consequences are extremely serious.

But they aren't though are they? I don't disagree that penalties should be harsh, it's just that they aren't.

echt · 05/11/2024 01:15

Firstimpressions · 05/11/2024 01:02

I suppose that's the chance you take. I'm presuming retrievers unlike the breeds specifically bred to fight are far less likely to maul a child to death.

Edited

Any dog, in the right circumstances, will go for it.

In relation to mauling children, same thing. A dog does not do things for no reason, it's just that the bar might be set very low for a particular dog on a particular day. An XL, bred to kill, is different kettle of fish once it's started.

None of this excuses biting a human.

I love my dog. Do I trust him in all circumstances? Absolutely not.

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 01:21

BreadInCaptivity · 05/11/2024 01:12

Golly you are trying very hard to patronise.

It's not just about size/weight but bite strength and aggressive tendencies.

Please feel free to make all the arguments you wish in favour of your dog and your choices.

It's an open forum and all the better for being so.

However you didn't respond to my post really. Just deflected by playing the player and not the ball in your post.

You are happy not to obey the rules for your dog if it you see fit, yet can't see the parallels in so many tragic utterly preventable deaths caused by irresponsible owners whose dogs are sweethearts incidents where owners have given similar narratives to yourself.

Yeah, I'm not sure you understand the word patronise. I was just saying how it was for me, before the DEFRA measurements that were sent out.

Have you felt it? Have you spent many hours trying to safeguard your pet who has suddenly become potentially illegal?

Have you made sacrifices because your dog can not tolerate a muzzle? (Ours is extremely lucky that he had access to many acres - unmuzzled and untethered)

Unless you have, do not patronise.

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 01:23

@BreadInCaptivity what rules haven't I obeyed. Are you unable to read?

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 01:30

Ihopeithinkiknow · 05/11/2024 01:11

@TheDogsBalls I think that was the point they were trying to make mate, but you don't need someone less cleverer than you to point that out so i apologise.

@Ihopeithinkiknow

I apologise if I've missed something here. I'm outrageous that people would call for a cull on dogs, even though they wouldn't be able to identify their actual breed, because as I said, the government can't or didn't.

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 01:38

I'm not even outrageous, I'm outraged 🤣

oakleaffy · 05/11/2024 02:04

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 00:59

@echt then I hope you feel better knowing that I'm a man, a vegan man, who is very kind to animals. My DH is also a man, and so if our dog who has never shown an inch of aggression, does suddenly show aggression, we would be able to contain it and get him to the vets to be PTS. I'm not worried, you have no need to be either.

Doubt you would be able to ''contain it''.
like this man.

oakleaffy · 05/11/2024 02:21

If you can't even train a Bull breed to accept a muzzle then something is very off in it's intelligence or your training.

Whippets and Greyhounds routinely wear muzzles and accept them for Lure coursing - Rescued Greyhounds when going in to new homes routinely are asked to wear one- there is no bleating and wailing from the owners, just good training and the dog soon forgets it is wearing a muzzle.

Strange how only Bully owners kick up a stink over muzzles- none of the sighthound people do.

Probably because of the dunderheaded ''you can't tell ME wot to do'' that seems to go hand in hand with Bull breed owners.

https://www.hershamhounds.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Greyhounds-and-Muzzles-October-2020.pdf

https://www.hershamhounds.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Greyhounds-and-Muzzles-October-2020.pdf

BelgianBiscuit · 05/11/2024 05:53

@TheDogsBalls can I ask how you tried to condition your dog to accept a muzzle?

Presumably he's being much more isolated from the world in secure fields. How is he being kept socialized?

Cailin66 · 05/11/2024 06:11

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 00:59

@echt then I hope you feel better knowing that I'm a man, a vegan man, who is very kind to animals. My DH is also a man, and so if our dog who has never shown an inch of aggression, does suddenly show aggression, we would be able to contain it and get him to the vets to be PTS. I'm not worried, you have no need to be either.

And so said every man ever owning one of these killing machines when their daughter, girlfriend, wife, aunt, grandmother got attacked and died.

Anonimouse12345 · 05/11/2024 06:39

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 00:31

@Babycatsarenice and @BreadInCaptivity clearly can't read.

Where did I say I rescued a powerful dog? He is 30kg. My last dog was also a rescue who was 52kg when we got him, we got him down to 40kg and he was a big dog. He was a Labrador.

Our current dog is certainly a bully breed - not necessarily a XL Bully, because they don't exist. We had no choice but to register for exemption - you might want to familiarise yourselves with the DEFRA measurements yeah.

It’s just not about the size. It’s about the way they hang onto to the victim tearing it to bits until it’s dead. It’s very different grappling with a Labrador going for a cat and an XL bully trying to murder a human.

Theres very few breeds bred to ignore appeasement signals, bred to continue the job against its own self preservation instincts. Bred to give almost no signals or warning so as not to give the game away. Yet out of all of the breeds in the world people choose these to live with? Many of them are so uneducated they dont even know the background of what own. They spout nanny dog despite this being disproven a hundred times.

It’s even more scary that people don’t believe in genetics. Firstly owning a dog descended from human killers which traditionally would have been euthanised at the first sign of aggression is madness. Genetics exist, collies herd, retrievers retrieve and dogs bred to kill things want to kill things. Even if you own one and think it’s lovely to deny that is stupidity.

Also any dog that is unable to be muzzled by its own owner shouldn’t be allowed to be owned…don’t care what breed it is it’s basic training!!

KoalaCalledKevin · 05/11/2024 06:41

ZoeCM · 04/11/2024 23:20

One of the excuses I've heard is "poodles and Labradors are just as dangerous, but the media doesn't report on it because it's not what middle England wants to hear". But there are so many news stories where it's reported that a human has been killed by a dog whose breed is currently unspecified... and then, a few days later, it emerges that it was an XL bully. How can the media be biased against XL bullies if the breed isn't even known when the story goes to press?

It's bollocks isn't it. If a poodle killed a child, it would be reported.

IVFmumoftwo · 05/11/2024 06:56

Anonimouse12345 · 05/11/2024 06:39

It’s just not about the size. It’s about the way they hang onto to the victim tearing it to bits until it’s dead. It’s very different grappling with a Labrador going for a cat and an XL bully trying to murder a human.

Theres very few breeds bred to ignore appeasement signals, bred to continue the job against its own self preservation instincts. Bred to give almost no signals or warning so as not to give the game away. Yet out of all of the breeds in the world people choose these to live with? Many of them are so uneducated they dont even know the background of what own. They spout nanny dog despite this being disproven a hundred times.

It’s even more scary that people don’t believe in genetics. Firstly owning a dog descended from human killers which traditionally would have been euthanised at the first sign of aggression is madness. Genetics exist, collies herd, retrievers retrieve and dogs bred to kill things want to kill things. Even if you own one and think it’s lovely to deny that is stupidity.

Also any dog that is unable to be muzzled by its own owner shouldn’t be allowed to be owned…don’t care what breed it is it’s basic training!!

That Irish lady had her arm ripped off by them when they killed her.

EasternStandard · 05/11/2024 07:12

TheDogsBalls · 05/11/2024 00:09

To all the people calling for a cull, you need to wake up, I bet you can't even identify an XL bully, because the government couldn't - what they did was send out a bunch of measurements, and if your dog fit them you could choose to exempt and stick to the rules imposed. We did. Nobody is culling my dog, which might be an XL Bully or not. DNA tests are not admissable.

We rescued a 'staffy x' 3 years ago. When I took him to the vets after eventually gaining the right from his disgustingly, cruel abusive owner, I asked what she thought his breed was. She said she thought he was a Staffordshire Bull Terrier crossed with an American Staffordshire Bull Terrier. She identified him by her knowledge and his 'mascara'.

When the DEFRA measurements came out we chose to exempt him, and only because we wanted to safeguard him (he fit the height measurements). He was already chipped and neutered and so we only had to pay for liability insurance and he would need to be muzzled and tethered in public. Fortunately, we don't have to tether and muzzle him because we have available private fields for him to run and be free.

I've been to university twice and my DH is an engineer. We own our own business. We are not stupid or irresponsible. We've all been done over by the lax rules about dog ownership that the government(s) enforce or don't. This ban was meant to mean tough sentences for the people who decided to ignore the rules and it doesn't seem to be the case.

Whilst I'm a firm believer that it isn't breed and it is the way the dog is handled, I know many will disagree, but it doesn't negate the fact that people aren't being sentenced sufficiently for their our of control dogs, even though rules were put in place.

Nobody is going to cull my dog, and I'd unregister from the exemption, pay £££s and go to court if needed to prove he isn't a threat.

I'm pretty sure everyone who ends up discussed on these threads thought the same at some point

I doubt you can be certain. Just limit the risk to your household and not other people or their children

Errors · 05/11/2024 07:21

Interestingly I was thinking I had never before read a MN thread where everyone was in agreement until @TheDogsBalls showed up and did absolutely nothing to change our minds about these breeds OR their owners

Oldseagull · 05/11/2024 07:37

Errors · 05/11/2024 07:21

Interestingly I was thinking I had never before read a MN thread where everyone was in agreement until @TheDogsBalls showed up and did absolutely nothing to change our minds about these breeds OR their owners

Absolutely.

I can only hope those who believe that the power of bad genetics and a hair trigger aggression response can be defeated with the power of love are only endangering themselves.

Unfortunately that is unpredictable because these owners love to pretend they are sooo responsible, when anyone can easily see they haven't got a fucking clue.

IVFmumoftwo · 05/11/2024 07:46

I am curious why that poster is so confident they would be able to control that dog when several men have been killed by an XL bully. Surely they should have been able to get them to stop attacking then? 🤷

KnottedTwine · 05/11/2024 07:48

I think some people things it makes them seem tough, or brave?

I think the owners who come on and bleat about how their dog is the bestest boy, the softest lump, so well trained etc etc aren't being tough or brave - the tough XL bully owners are the ones hangingi around street corners dealing drugs and enjoying imtimidating people.

The people who think their dog is different from all the others of its type, well trained and perfectly under control are just stupid and deluded. Irrespective of how many times they've been at Uni.

Errors · 05/11/2024 07:51

IVFmumoftwo · 05/11/2024 07:46

I am curious why that poster is so confident they would be able to control that dog when several men have been killed by an XL bully. Surely they should have been able to get them to stop attacking then? 🤷

I think it’s because they believe that past behaviour is a reliable indicator of future behaviour. They think because they’ve never acted aggressively before that they never will. Maybe for most dogs, it is a reliable indicator - not a perfect one, I grant you. The issue as far as I can see is that one of the defining characteristics of this breed is that they can snap and act completely ‘out of character’
not to mention that, unlike some other breeds, when they do snap the results are catastrophic.

If your pet spaniel is usually docile but something does wrong and they all of a sudden begin behaving aggressively, it’s very easily dealt with. Probably even fairly small children could defend themselves against one if they needed to. A grown adult male could (and has!) be brought down by an XL bully quite easily

Whatafustercluck · 05/11/2024 07:59

KoalaCalledKevin · 05/11/2024 06:41

It's bollocks isn't it. If a poodle killed a child, it would be reported.

Indeed, Labs are responsible for the most bites in the UK (owing to them being the most popular breed) but I don't remember the last time a Lab killed a person.

Dsis had an absolutely beautiful staffie, gorgeous temperament, KC registered, responsibly bred. She never bit anyone in her long and docile life. But would I have left my newborn daughter in a room with her? Not a chance. I don't dispute that it's often how a dog is raised that matters, but breed temperament and responsible breeding is a big factor, and I wouldn't trust a dog who is capable of biting and hanging on until its own death or the death of the animal/ person it's biting.

Packetofcrispsplease · 05/11/2024 08:23

T4phage · 04/11/2024 23:10

That's awful. That dog has no love or affection in its eyes. It's constantly looking around and on the alert. It looks like it's on a hair trigger. I look after my friend's Labrador and you can see the doggy love in his eyes, body language and expressions. There's a connection there and I feel safe around him. That XL thing makes me shudder.

I love Labradors , each one I know is so docile , calm , loving 🥰 or when young a big daft goofball that can clear a coffee table of 1) food 2) all the coffee cups with one wag of the tail 😆
I don’t have a Labrador though , I have a non shedding type sassy terrier because of allergies

Fizbosshoes · 05/11/2024 08:29

IVFmumoftwo · 05/11/2024 07:46

I am curious why that poster is so confident they would be able to control that dog when several men have been killed by an XL bully. Surely they should have been able to get them to stop attacking then? 🤷

To be fair I think they said it wasnt an XL bully but fitted some of the criteria in the new rules.

Still whether they could overpower it if it attacked someone or another animal, is anyone's guess.

The problem with that is that unless you had successfully pulled off the same dog from an attack before ....how would you know? How would you ever be able to test your reactions, strength or ability to control it, unless you had had practice? (And why would you want to keep a dog capable of that?)

I saw an article once about a woman who had a dog who was 12st. I would imagine most adults would struggle to control it if it started to pull ot run, even if not aggressive.

AutumnLeaves24 · 05/11/2024 08:32

EalingLucy · 05/11/2024 00:20

what a bizarre comment too.

but @AutumnLeaves24 has form for that. Are they honestly jealous you started a thread lol

@EalingLucy

i don't know why you'd say that, I don't.

but even if I did, so what? We don't need a load of threads on the same thing, people needing to be the OP.

jealous??? What a ridiculous thing to say?! Why would anyone be jealous of someone starting a thread? Any idiot can do it.

Expletive · 05/11/2024 08:34

KoalaCalledKevin · 05/11/2024 06:41

It's bollocks isn't it. If a poodle killed a child, it would be reported.

I wouldn’t underestimate poodles. I went out for a walk with a friend and his mum’s pretty poodle and the poodle ran off and killed a pheasant.

I suspect it was octogenarian pheasant because it was as tough as old boots when we ate it later. Even so, it wasn’t what we were expecting and out of character for the dog.