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Rude, Racist or Right?

132 replies

tarmactreacle · 29/10/2024 07:44

I rarely travel by bus but yesterday I was queuing behind a man for a bus to town.

When he got on he said "name of destination". The driver replied "no, it's "single to name of destination PLEASE". Have some manners, We're in England"

The man then politely repeated what the bus driver had asked him to say, took his ticket and sat down.

The man was black and the "we are in England" felt unnecessary and made me feel uncomfortable.

What are your thoughts?

OP posts:
MsMarch · 14/11/2024 15:17

Wow, that's one heck of an update. Well done.

LadyGabriella · 14/11/2024 15:42

Poor man. I would take that as racist. What a twat of a driver.

LadyGabriella · 14/11/2024 15:44

dcbgr · 29/10/2024 13:15

"I have now reported the driver", I hope you can live with yourself if he loses his job, suffers from extreme stress, gets ill as has happened to many people who have been cancelled for perceived (and often mistakenly perceived) racism. It is shocking how people are 100% mind readers over hearsay. Be kind.

Why shouldn’t he be reported? I would report him. I would not call that perceived racism, it was extremely rude and racist.

Wordsmithery · 15/11/2024 13:45

tarmactreacle · 14/11/2024 13:51

Update:

I received a reply from the bus company.

"Based on your information and CCTV reviews, we have identified the driver. The behaviour described is not acceptable. The driver will be reminded of our standards and they may face disciplinary action if deemed necessary. Additional training will be provided to prevent future incidents."

Well done, and I'm glad the bus company agrees with you. This might not change the bus driver's underlying views but it will hopefully make him think twice before criticising people in future.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 15/11/2024 13:47

Racist and incredibly rude.
Yes it’s annoying when people don’t say please but you don’t correct other adults like that.

MinaHarker1897 · 15/11/2024 14:49

Wordsmithery · 15/11/2024 13:45

Well done, and I'm glad the bus company agrees with you. This might not change the bus driver's underlying views but it will hopefully make him think twice before criticising people in future.

This is what concerns me, how many racists, xenophobes and people with extreme views are living amongst us and we don't know because they keep it all in?

Wordsmithery · 16/11/2024 00:15

MinaHarker1897 · 15/11/2024 14:49

This is what concerns me, how many racists, xenophobes and people with extreme views are living amongst us and we don't know because they keep it all in?

It's probably just as well we can't mind read. Although it seems to me that those with extreme views are generally only too happy to hold forth.

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