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Conservatives and Labour - is there really any difference for middle class working families

208 replies

Sweetcup · 28/10/2024 08:14

Please convince me otherwise as I'm feeling utterly depressed.

I really can't see what is on offer to middle class families from either party - it appears to be exactly the same. High taxes, no guarantee of decent state education or access to medical care, horrible driving on roads, criminals out of prison early picked up in luxury cars. Our salaries are worth less than they were 7 years ago.

In principle I don't mind paying high taxes but it really doesn't seem to be a guarantee of anything. Our local state secondary is dreadful as a few (non-working) families seem able to disrupt the education of the rest. As a tax payer I don't feel either the Conservatives or Labour have ever spoken to me directly about what my money is doing and what they are guaranteeing for it.

We cut right back (no Netflix, eating our, no takeout) to put money into our pensions and now I just feel like that means we will have done it to pay for other people's state funded retirements.

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User135644 · 29/10/2024 12:38

Didimum · 28/10/2024 08:33

I agree, but think that was obvious from their manifestos. Both parties are central leaning and fiscally very similar. The difference to me was from a moral and characteristic standpoint.

They need to be central leaning to get voted in. Corbyn lost.

User135644 · 29/10/2024 12:58

LarkspurLane · 28/10/2024 10:24

I am always amazed at the number of first time posters who hate Labour!
It also surprises me the number of first time posters who voted Labour but now regret it.
We are still recovering from years of Tories, I'm prepared to wait a bit longer before deciding that Labour are worse than that.

Labour are always held to far higher standards than the Tories. The Tories are like an institution that the English are in awe of. They have to mess up catastrophically to be voted out

ForMintUser · 29/10/2024 13:01

User135644 · 29/10/2024 12:38

They need to be central leaning to get voted in. Corbyn lost.

Interestingly Labour got a similar % of the popular vote in 2019 and 2024 (32.1% and 33.7%). But in 2019 got the worst Labour election results in a century and in 2024 got them a majority of something like 162 seats.

It’s fairly clear that Labour didn’t win the election as much as the Conservatives lost it spectacularly.

I think this is why lots of people are unsure of them - they were elected because there was no viable alternative rather than they were what the electorate really wanted.

Hateam · 29/10/2024 13:04

thepariscrimefiles · 29/10/2024 12:32

The government isn't taking the money from you. You would be paying for the care home from the money you have saved. If you didn't have any money, the government would pay for the care home. 84% of care homes are privately owned, so paying your own care home bill would be giving money to the private owners of the care homes and not the government.

If we want all care home places to be funded by the government, we would all need to pay a lot more tax and national insurance and, apparently, nobody wants to do that.

Or pay out less in benefits.

User135644 · 29/10/2024 13:09

ForMintUser · 29/10/2024 13:01

Interestingly Labour got a similar % of the popular vote in 2019 and 2024 (32.1% and 33.7%). But in 2019 got the worst Labour election results in a century and in 2024 got them a majority of something like 162 seats.

It’s fairly clear that Labour didn’t win the election as much as the Conservatives lost it spectacularly.

I think this is why lots of people are unsure of them - they were elected because there was no viable alternative rather than they were what the electorate really wanted.

I agree that there was no enthusiasm for Labour. I suppose it was similar in 2010 when the Tories got in. Labour's time was just up but Cameron still didn't win the majority.

In 1997 there was a real enthusiasm for Labour when they won.

thepariscrimefiles · 29/10/2024 13:31

Hateam · 29/10/2024 13:04

Or pay out less in benefits.

Which benefits would you cut? You obviously think that more of tax payers' money should be going to higher earners and less to lower earners and people on benefits.

4.4 million children are growing up in povery in the UK. Do you think that the benefits that these families receive should be even lower?

BIossomtoes · 29/10/2024 13:58

Hateam · 29/10/2024 13:04

Or pay out less in benefits.

You mean pay out less in benefits that aren’t in your favour. Your fully tax funded residential care wish would definitely come under the heading of benefits.

Mlanket · 29/10/2024 14:01

Or pay out less in benefits.

what on earth does this mean? Cut disability payments so care homes are free? This would then be a benefit..,

Sofaspot · 29/10/2024 14:08

You just mean for your personal finances? We'll have to wait and seen but for me, the improvement of having people who appear sensible and actually want to solve the problems in health and social care, education, prisons, environment, infrastructure etc rather than score personal points all the time is huge.

I don't know if they can succeed, and no doubt there will be mistakes along the way, but so far it is such a breath of fresh air.

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:08

BIossomtoes · 29/10/2024 13:58

You mean pay out less in benefits that aren’t in your favour. Your fully tax funded residential care wish would definitely come under the heading of benefits.

Pay only people who are truly deserving.

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:10

Mlanket · 29/10/2024 14:01

Or pay out less in benefits.

what on earth does this mean? Cut disability payments so care homes are free? This would then be a benefit..,

I do not believe that everybody who gets a disability payment is deserving of that payment.

Alexandra2001 · 29/10/2024 14:11

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:08

Pay only people who are truly deserving.

Back to the 'deserving and undeserving poor...

Got any suggestions as to who you would give too and take from?

Alwaystired94 · 29/10/2024 14:16

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:10

I do not believe that everybody who gets a disability payment is deserving of that payment.

and what qualifies you to make such an assessment?

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:22

I'm very intelligent.

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:24

Alexandra2001 · 29/10/2024 14:11

Back to the 'deserving and undeserving poor...

Got any suggestions as to who you would give too and take from?

I do believe there are undeserving poor.

Give generously to the deserving.
Not give to the undeserving.

Alwaystired94 · 29/10/2024 14:24

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:22

I'm very intelligent.

ahhh ragebait troll it seems.

crawl away and go and be boring elsewhere if you can't at least be creative.

Mlanket · 29/10/2024 14:28

I do not believe that everybody who gets a disability payment is deserving of that payment.

You can say that about every benefit though, it doesn’t mean we scrap the benefit for everyone else.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 29/10/2024 14:29

Public services, economic growth and social mobility were all way better under the last Labour government.
They are the opposite of the Tories. Trouble is it will take years to repair the damage the Tories have done and people will start blaming Labour for thing outside their control. It's already happening.

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:29

Mlanket · 29/10/2024 14:28

I do not believe that everybody who gets a disability payment is deserving of that payment.

You can say that about every benefit though, it doesn’t mean we scrap the benefit for everyone else.

Didn't say we should.

twistyizzy · 29/10/2024 14:30

AzureLemon · 28/10/2024 21:13

Well as a middle class person I'm hoping for improvements to the NHS and schools under this government. Even if I have to pay more tax.

Am so sick of the fake furore and fearmongering in the right wing press.

You know you can already make voluntary contributions to HMRC and could do that monthly, plus state where you want your money to go?

Mlanket · 29/10/2024 14:30

I'm very intelligent.

And self aware?

BIossomtoes · 29/10/2024 14:37

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:08

Pay only people who are truly deserving.

Like elderly people with money in the bank and houses they don’t need any more? I don’t think so. We got rid of the deserving and undeserving poor with the Victorians.

Mlanket · 29/10/2024 14:38

People are desperate to go back to the Victorian times, well for others not them of course.

Bluefields96 · 29/10/2024 14:40

On the deserving/undeserving question, I have an idea.

HMRC should ask people to tick boxes saying where they want their tax revenues to go: eg Defence, Education, Health Care for Deserving People, Health care for those with drug and drink addictions, Environment, Roads, Elderly care, State Pensions, Child Benefit, Infrastructure, Deserving Poor, Undeserving Poor, MP Salaries, Prisons etc.

Obviously the money would still be divided up as it is today but it might make a lot of people feel a lot better about the deductions made from their incomes!

IVFmumoftwo · 29/10/2024 14:46

Hateam · 29/10/2024 14:24

I do believe there are undeserving poor.

Give generously to the deserving.
Not give to the undeserving.

Edited

I will bite. What happens to the undeserving?

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