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To be glad that people are realising the effects of filler!

187 replies

GentleOliveFatball · 09/10/2024 19:50

Just that really. It's been advertised by the media, plastic surgeons and the beauty industry for years as a safe, temporary procedure, however evidence is now finding that that is not the case at all!
I'm glad the truth is coming out now although it's still so new I expect we won't know the full damage for years too come.

I also found this video particularly interesting if anyone else is interested:

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Gummybear23 · 10/10/2024 07:38

Young women I.e 20s getting fillers is sad.
This whole Industry is playing havoc with mental health too.

SidekickSylvia · 10/10/2024 07:40

I'm late 40's and quite a few of my friends are starting to have filler and botox. Obviously I wouldn't say anything, but it's just so obvious and they don't look younger, just a bit odd. One of my friends looks as though somebody broke a pencil in half and put each half on top of her cheekbones, under her skin. She is extremely wealthy so it would have been the best money can buy. She seems very happy with it though, so that's the main thing.

Onand · 10/10/2024 07:46

I find it quite depressing. Nothing screams insecure and easily influenced than when you see a person (females and male too) full of filler, lips done, Turkey teeth, vaping (or worse, smoking) and drinking an energy drink. Walking around Manchester and you would be shocked how many times you see such a combination. People filled with these poisonous chemicals, the damage they are doing to their insides astounds me.

soupfiend · 10/10/2024 07:47

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/10/2024 21:31

It’s not done to look good, it’s done as a status thing - shows you can afford to do it.

It’s meant too look obvious and “in your face”, so people don’t miss that you’ve had it done.

A bit like the orange fake tans. It needs to look unnatural otherwise people wouldn’t know you paid for it.

I dont think its necessarily about status, its about a certain look that people want, its just fashion. Something else will be along some time

I would imagine thats whats happened to Sharon Osbournes face, not only has she had face lifts but also filler and lost a huge amount of weight, so her face is suffering as its all moved in the wrong way. People are keen to say she has Ozempic face, but this isnt what it is, its becuase the skin and flesh has been affected by the procedures, they dont compliment each other

I have been looking at face lift information for some time now, they say the best people to do it on, are people that have never had any filler or other modifications at all, so I wouldnt touch anything as one day I might want a face lift.

AmICrazyToEvenBother · 10/10/2024 07:48

Who'd have thunk fulling your body full of shite was bad for you, eh?

Pusheen467 · 10/10/2024 07:52

The general tone of this thread has become pretty nasty.

KateMiskin · 10/10/2024 07:55

I don't think people who get fillers care about the risks, as others have said.

Pumpkincozynights · 10/10/2024 07:56

It’s a shame people, manly women feel under pressure to have these procedures.
I do find it odd though, and yes flame me all you like, when people are shocked and horrified when something goes wrong.
There was a post on here recently about a woman who had died after having a cosmetic procedure.
I found it bizarre that so many people were saying how shocked/surprise they were. As if the idea that it is a dangerous procedure never entered their head.
Its not like she was volunteering somewhere and got shot whilst in the cafe.
Like already pointed out, it carrys a risk. The same as eating crap. Or drinking. Or taking drugs. Sometimes it goes wrong.

bombastix · 10/10/2024 07:57

Well I’ve never really believed filler dissolved. How? Sounded very convenient and too good to be true.

I would do plastic surgery before filler.

HarrietTheFireStarter · 10/10/2024 08:00

Recently I was in Thailand and it was awash with cosmetic surgery tourists, many of whom looked ridiculous, almost comical. It blows my mind that anyone would choose to make themselves look so awful.

KateMiskin · 10/10/2024 08:01

Even on MN, I am alarmed by the number of stunning women with clearly raging body dysphoria who post asking how to 'fix' their already gorgeous faces. Everybody has to look like Julia Roberts, it seems.

sHREDDIES19 · 10/10/2024 08:02

I truly hope the potential impacts of using these injectables become common knowledge as the use seems to be very prevalent amongst extremely young people who clearly don’t need it. If you watch the women on Married At First Sight there are so many that have gone down that path with over inflated lips and filled out faces. What on earth will happen to these women who use fillers for decades?

JustJoinedRightNow · 10/10/2024 08:04

GreengrassofW · 10/10/2024 07:30

I want something done to my face just not this. Has anyone had face acupuncture?

Yep I've had it, it's fantastic. It helps relax the tightness in my face and forehead which is where I hold most of my stress (I frown a lot).

Augustus40 · 10/10/2024 08:07

I have had it done three times but don't fancy it done again. I just had a low amount of filler each time. I looked fresher but nobody could tell.

biglipslittleblips · 10/10/2024 08:10

HarrietTheFireStarter · 10/10/2024 08:00

Recently I was in Thailand and it was awash with cosmetic surgery tourists, many of whom looked ridiculous, almost comical. It blows my mind that anyone would choose to make themselves look so awful.

Of course they looked bad. They would literally be recovering from the surgery. It takes months to settle and about 2 years to get to the completely settled state. But weird to look at people who have had surgery days prior and think they look bad

biglipslittleblips · 10/10/2024 08:13

@Gummybear23

Yes, we know the risks with other substances and posters are saying that in future fillers will be similar.
'Posters'. You mean random people 😂
Bit dumb to freak out about something with no hard evidence of cancer risk whilst partaking in things that do have hard evidence don't ya think?

In other words, stop doing things KNOWN to cause cancer before fretting about other people doing things that aren't known to cause cancer.

KateMiskin · 10/10/2024 08:15

I don't do any things known to cause cancer. I don't drink or smoke and my BMI is below 25 though I could lose half a stone.
The reason I have never got fillers isn't anything to do with cancer though. I have other reasons.

merrymelodies · 10/10/2024 08:18

Thanks for posting this. I'm 60 and have thinking about getting some work done... a bit of filler here and there. I assumed filler gradually dissolved to be excreted through the kidneys. Now I know better!

Gretagarbaled · 10/10/2024 08:22

I saw a picture of a scan of a face with fillers, that stuff had migrated everywhere. I think it's insanity to inject this stuff into your face and it never looks good. I was at the dentist yesterday, all the young receptionists had face/lip fillers, they all look awful and much older than they are and none of them could give me any actual advice when I had a dental emergency last week.

BanksysSprayCan · 10/10/2024 08:23

GentleOliveFatball · 09/10/2024 20:33

I know the video is quite long, so here's some key points in case anyone is interested but can't watch the video 🙂

Filler doesn't dissovle, however it can migrate which I think is pretty frightening personally. Theres MRI scans that show this.

Heres some information I found on the potential side affects from the British Association of Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons
"Hyaluronic acid – the key compound in most fillers – has been found to block lymphatic channels, which help the body drain fluid and are a key part of the immune system that helps to fight disease. Research is now being planned to see if the treatment affects the risk of diseases including cancer. Fillers have also been linked to cysts, lumps, swelling and facial pain."

Many filler injections are not done by fully qualified professionals and have low sanitation standards. There is no mandatory training needed to buy or inject lip fillers.

I completely understand that not everyone cares and it's your choice what you do with your body, however I do think this information should be made available to everyone so it can be an informed decision at least. (Similar to smoking/vaping I suppose)

This is an important message.

HollyLollyMollyJolly · 10/10/2024 08:26

Augustus40 · 10/10/2024 08:07

I have had it done three times but don't fancy it done again. I just had a low amount of filler each time. I looked fresher but nobody could tell.

Or so you think. How would you know that nobody could tell? It's not as if they'd tell you about it. It's usually very obvious - just that a few people look nicer afterwards but most look awful or very typically filled and botoxed - which is a specific way most people seem to look afterwards.

happybee1 · 10/10/2024 08:32

fashionqueen0123 · 09/10/2024 21:32

it makes people look older that’s what I find bizarre. It’s like 25 year olds looking like they’re in their late 40s because you can see they’ve had work done.

This! I wish there wasn’t so much unrealistic expectation put on people, particularly women, to look a certain way. Young women , that have it, definitely end up looking older. It does look obvious and make people look strange. I wish there was more of a push to embrace natural beauty, acceptance and aging, which is natural, but that doesn’t make industry large amounts of money 🙄!

Ginmonkeyagain · 10/10/2024 08:36

Those young women with sore looking rubbery lips freak me out.

Gummybear23 · 10/10/2024 08:41

biglipslittleblips · 10/10/2024 08:13

@Gummybear23

Yes, we know the risks with other substances and posters are saying that in future fillers will be similar.
'Posters'. You mean random people 😂
Bit dumb to freak out about something with no hard evidence of cancer risk whilst partaking in things that do have hard evidence don't ya think?

In other words, stop doing things KNOWN to cause cancer before fretting about other people doing things that aren't known to cause cancer.

It is an industry that is spinning off peoples insecurities.

There is always a risk of injecting anything into your body.

Of course people should avoid known carcinogenic like smoking.

However, evwryone should also avoid unknown risks such as fillers.

Besides the fact everyone looks morphed and It screams insecurity.

The impact on mental health as a result of this insecurity is horrific.

Stop the fillers and embrace your natural beauty.
Don't fall for this awful industry.

Augustus40 · 10/10/2024 08:42

I did it to soften lines but my skin is very good anyway. I have got put off since the aesthetician in ject ed small amount around my lips too. A year later I used an exfoliator from Aldi and ever since then I have the Tyndall effect ie faint hue of blue in light so I have to use concealer under my make-up or it really shows. Was unlucky I guess. Two years later not faded either! She was a practising private dentist too. I did not fancy removing the lip filler more fiddling and faffing. Now I leave well alone. They say The Tyndall effect is very rare. It is literally only around the lip area. I bet it won't disappear for years!

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