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Survey at work using the term cis woman

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SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 13:16

So I filled all the survey, very happy at work, public secror.
Note that this survey is outsourced by another survey organisation.

Then I come to the last bit please describe your role in the organisation, did that, and then how would you describe your sex or gender?

( Can’t remember exactly how the question was phrased )but the only option for women was “cis woman.”

Quite cross about this and I’m not sure how to best articulate this to my managers who, to be fair never use this term and will not have had any input to designing the survey. Any input welcome.

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fetchacloth · 06/10/2024 17:49

SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 13:23

I’m not cis

I’m a woman.

Same here for me.
Frankly if there isn't a 'woman' box to tick, leave it all blank. I've had to do that before at my GP surgery and no-one bothered to question it.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/10/2024 17:50

Oh and it's SUCH a gift to cross dressing men who get a sexual kick out of involving their wives/ the general public in their fetish.

If women/ the wives complain THEY're the bigots.

Absolutely unbelievable that so many have fallen for it.

soupfiend · 06/10/2024 17:50

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:23

This debate is honestly so ridiculous. It only makes sense from a trans exclusionary perspective.

How about instead of “cis” we just say “woman (not trans)” it would mean exactly the same thing. That ok with you?

Woman (not a stamp collector)
Woman (not a pisces)
Woman (not a retired one)

The list of things is endless isnt it?

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 17:50

cavalier · 06/10/2024 17:38

To be absolutely clear a all they have to do is say “all female at birth are entitled to a free smear test.
Simple.

Then people would be complaining that the word woman wasn't used!

TheHereticalOne · 06/10/2024 17:51

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:47

Is that really true?!?!

I hope it is!

Can you provide some sort of link?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna89307

I expect I may have or could find the archived link itself somewhere but this should do for now! Certainly not the only secondary news source available, either.

Johns Hopkins pulls 'lesbian' definition after uproar over use of 'non-men' instead of 'women'

The university's online glossary of LGBTQ terms and identities defined the word “lesbian” as a “non-man attracted to non-men" before it was taken down.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna89307

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:51

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:39

Transphobic comment.

Why was that observation transphobic?

What is your definition of transphobic and how does that observation meet it?

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 17:54

It’s fucking outrageous that men can come on here and tell us they are going to be called women from now on, regardless of their biology, and we will be called cis from now on. The sheer audacity of it

I've read the thread, and don't think anyone has said they're a man? Apologies if I've missed where they have though.
Or is this that thing on here again that goes "anyone disagreeing with me is a man?"

ILikeDungs · 06/10/2024 17:54

Women of the world unite
We will not give up the fight
To be a woman is our right
Fuck cis labels they are shite

Gruttenberg · 06/10/2024 17:56

Differentstarts · 06/10/2024 16:06

This is what I would of done, I would of created my own box saying woman

OP didn't have the option - it was online only.

Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 17:58

I feel like this is a 4chan trolling venture gone too far

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 17:58

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:37

I genuinely can’t understand why a trans box is an issue. It’s surely about time there was clarity around terms. Trans is an empowering term and conveys and respects a change of identity as it is supposed to. It also means they are adequately represented in stats results accurately.

Empowering for who? Being trans is fine, what isn't fine is the rights of women and girls being eroded for the sake of men.
Yes lets have clarity shall we, if you are born a man you are a man til you die, if you are born a woman you die a woman, whatever you identify as between birth and death is irrelevant you are still biologically a man or a woman.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 17:59

I feel like this is a 4chan trolling venture gone too far

What, gender identity ideology? Could be, I guess.

Gruttenberg · 06/10/2024 18:00

I have no decent response to the OP - I usually tick other then add a rant about what nonsense it is. When explaining to those who don't understand my explanation is that CIS is offensive but means REAL, and TRANS means FAKE. That explains it in a nice straightforward way.

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 18:00

Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 17:58

I feel like this is a 4chan trolling venture gone too far

I’ve seen plenty of forms like these. The most annoying at a doctor’s office.

Hunnymonster1 · 06/10/2024 18:00

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 17:58

Empowering for who? Being trans is fine, what isn't fine is the rights of women and girls being eroded for the sake of men.
Yes lets have clarity shall we, if you are born a man you are a man til you die, if you are born a woman you die a woman, whatever you identify as between birth and death is irrelevant you are still biologically a man or a woman.

I don't think you think being trans is fine because then you go on about being born a man etc. Sorry you guys many of you are simply disingenuous about this you would much prefer it if trans people didn't exist bloody well admit it

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 18:00

BMW6 · 06/10/2024 17:43

I don't care if transwomen want to call themselves women generally - I can spot they're men from 50 feet away.

I really object to transmen being reported and recorded as women in criminal proceedings.
Especially when he's committed rape.

Trans men are born female though? I think you meant trans women there for clarity

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 18:01

soupfiend · 06/10/2024 17:50

Woman (not a stamp collector)
Woman (not a pisces)
Woman (not a retired one)

The list of things is endless isnt it?

Perhaps there’s an easier way…

Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 18:02

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 17:59

I feel like this is a 4chan trolling venture gone too far

What, gender identity ideology? Could be, I guess.

Yes

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 18:05

Gruttenberg · 06/10/2024 18:00

I have no decent response to the OP - I usually tick other then add a rant about what nonsense it is. When explaining to those who don't understand my explanation is that CIS is offensive but means REAL, and TRANS means FAKE. That explains it in a nice straightforward way.

Being trans isn't fake though.
People who are trans clearly exist.
Are you saying you want them all to "stop pretending" as they're fake?
Just stop being trans and "go back to just being male or female"?!
As I hate to break this to you but I don't think it quite works like that.
You presumably can't stop being trans any more than you can stop being gay.

Hunnymonster1 · 06/10/2024 18:05

Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 18:02

Yes

Are you kidding me the far right hate trans people. What i think is that many of your side stand with them now I wouldn't want ho be on an argument where the far right agrees with me

OchonAgusOchonOh · 06/10/2024 18:06

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:37

I genuinely can’t understand why a trans box is an issue. It’s surely about time there was clarity around terms. Trans is an empowering term and conveys and respects a change of identity as it is supposed to. It also means they are adequately represented in stats results accurately.

I don't think anyone has objected to their being a trans box. What is being objected to is there not being a box for those of us who do not have a gender identity.

Possible questions that would be more reasonable:

What was your sex at birth?

Do you have a gender identity? y/n

If yes, are you:
Non binary
Cis
Trans
Other

Simple. It covers everyone.

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 18:07

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:37

I genuinely can’t understand why a trans box is an issue. It’s surely about time there was clarity around terms. Trans is an empowering term and conveys and respects a change of identity as it is supposed to. It also means they are adequately represented in stats results accurately.

But for the results to be a truly accurate and complete reflection of the group of people responding, you would need to have categories for both biological or birth sex and for gender identity.

And one of the options under gender identity would need to be "I don't believe in this bollocks in the first place"

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 18:07

Hunnymonster1 · 06/10/2024 18:00

I don't think you think being trans is fine because then you go on about being born a man etc. Sorry you guys many of you are simply disingenuous about this you would much prefer it if trans people didn't exist bloody well admit it

But you are born male or female that is a fact, do NOT tell me how I think, I don't care what people identify as I have 2 transwomen in my extended family it doesn't bother me unless they start infringing mine and other womens rights. If that happens then I will speak up and say no. All my family are aware of my views and they respect my right to voice them.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 06/10/2024 18:07

Hunnymonster1 · 06/10/2024 18:05

Are you kidding me the far right hate trans people. What i think is that many of your side stand with them now I wouldn't want ho be on an argument where the far right agrees with me

I agree with Hitler wrt vegetarianism. That doesn't make me a nazi.

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