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Survey at work using the term cis woman

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SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 13:16

So I filled all the survey, very happy at work, public secror.
Note that this survey is outsourced by another survey organisation.

Then I come to the last bit please describe your role in the organisation, did that, and then how would you describe your sex or gender?

( Can’t remember exactly how the question was phrased )but the only option for women was “cis woman.”

Quite cross about this and I’m not sure how to best articulate this to my managers who, to be fair never use this term and will not have had any input to designing the survey. Any input welcome.

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IAmAWarriorPrincessHonestGuv · 06/10/2024 17:02

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 16:52

Thought by who?
Do you have a source /link for that please

Various women’s groups have done calculations over the years using available data but I think it was featured on the Sex Matters and Transgender Trend websites. Both full of useful facts on this topic.

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 17:02

ilovesooty · 06/10/2024 16:50

That's not what I asked.

Am I not doing as told? Immune to that scolding I suppose.

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:02

"... I am also a ‘disabled women’ and happy to refer to myself as such when relevant to the situation.
I don’t expect women without disabilities to constantly describe themselves as ‘an able bodied women’ or ‘non-disabled women’ it’s just not necessary..."

This ^ is correct.

Just because some individuals identify as something called "transwomen" doesn't mean that women need to identify as "cis women" or "non-transwomen" to distinguish themselves from those inviduals.

The lunatics have taken over...

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:03

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 17:01

Ask the people who object I meant

I can’t see anyone objects. It works for everyone!

Diomi · 06/10/2024 17:03

KeyboardMash · 06/10/2024 13:26

It's like complaining about being asked to identify your race and foaming at the mouth because "just because she's a black woman doesn't mean I'm a white woman". It's ludicrous.

No it’s not. It’s like some white women deciding they wanted to identify as black and then making up a new term for black women to use on forms.

It is high handed and completely unnecessary.

EdgeOfSixty · 06/10/2024 17:03

SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 13:33

I disagree that there should be only male only female, obviously if you’re transgender this is relevant.

It depends what the question is because it does matter. Sex is a biological fact, gender isn't.

SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 17:04

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:53

Why would anyone object to the words trans if that is what they are?

If you read the thread from the beginning, you’ll see it was the only option for a woman to use

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IAmAWarriorPrincessHonestGuv · 06/10/2024 17:06

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:50

Another grotesquely transphobic comment.

Please explain how?

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 17:08

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:02

"... I am also a ‘disabled women’ and happy to refer to myself as such when relevant to the situation.
I don’t expect women without disabilities to constantly describe themselves as ‘an able bodied women’ or ‘non-disabled women’ it’s just not necessary..."

This ^ is correct.

Just because some individuals identify as something called "transwomen" doesn't mean that women need to identify as "cis women" or "non-transwomen" to distinguish themselves from those inviduals.

The lunatics have taken over...

When was the last time you or anyone else referred to themselves as a cis woman in RL?!
I know I don't, I just refer to myself as.a woman.
I've never called myself a cis woman as like others say, I'm just a woman
Woman will do, and does quite nicely in everyday life away from the internet.
If you're talking about being trans like in online "discussions" like this one though or a medical setting, it makes sense to differentiate.
Hence the word cis.

Mumofthreealldifferent · 06/10/2024 17:08

KeyboardMash · 06/10/2024 13:26

It's like complaining about being asked to identify your race and foaming at the mouth because "just because she's a black woman doesn't mean I'm a white woman". It's ludicrous.

That is not the same thing at all. White Woman and Black Woman are subcategories within the category Woman, whereas a biological woman of any characteristic does not need a subcategory, they are just a woman. The word ‘cis’ is irrelevant and seems to have been coined to persuade women to shove up and allow trans identifying males into their category.
‘Trans-woman’ is a subcategory of Man.

KendraTheVampyrSlayer · 06/10/2024 17:09

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:50

Another grotesquely transphobic comment.

Another grotesquely testerical comment.

Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 17:10

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:56

“So?”
Do you think it’s ok to be transphobic?

No, I just feel if you keep throwing the word around it loses all meaning and impact. Asking why a transwoman still has a penis if they say they're a woman is a valid question. Women don't have a penis so it would be fine to question why men are women and women should accept that.

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:10

SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 17:04

If you read the thread from the beginning, you’ll see it was the only option for a woman to use

Yes and it’s clearly ridiculous and you must complain. This stranglehold on language has to stop.

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:10

Diomi · 06/10/2024 17:03

No it’s not. It’s like some white women deciding they wanted to identify as black and then making up a new term for black women to use on forms.

It is high handed and completely unnecessary.

And that is exactly the correct analogy in this context

IAmAWarriorPrincessHonestGuv · 06/10/2024 17:11

NewFriendlyLadybird · 06/10/2024 16:51

How many trans people have you met? Had a conversation with? Listened to their experience?

I know a few - that is partly how I formed my current opinions.

It’s funny how so many trans activists assume that people with views like mine have never met these people. Why is that?

Have you?

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 17:14

It’s funny how so many trans activists assume that people with views like mine have never met these people. Why is that?

It's funny how anyone who doesn't automatically toe the "GC" line of thinking is automatically branded a "trans activist."
Why is that?

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:15

How many trans people have actually sat and listened to the lived experience of women? And why this is so important to US.

IAmAWarriorPrincessHonestGuv · 06/10/2024 17:16

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 16:52

Thought by who?
Do you have a source /link for that please

Found it! This one says 85% but it’s quite old so given the vast increase in numbers and lack of capacity in the gender clinics , I’d say 90% is a good estimate.

fairplayforwomen.com/penis/

PollyDactyl · 06/10/2024 17:17

Oh OK could someone tell me what makes a transwoman a transwoman, please? I do know they are a transwoman because they say so, is it more complex than that?

IAmAWarriorPrincessHonestGuv · 06/10/2024 17:19

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 17:14

It’s funny how so many trans activists assume that people with views like mine have never met these people. Why is that?

It's funny how anyone who doesn't automatically toe the "GC" line of thinking is automatically branded a "trans activist."
Why is that?

If you are advocating for the interests of trans people and therefore against the interests of women and refuse to acknowledge women when we object, I’m going to refer to you as trans activists for the sake of brevity.

Feel free to correct me or suggest a different term to use? ‘Anti woman activist’ perhaps?

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:20

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:54

Well If a significant % of the population started calling themselves unicorns and that label described a particular group of people with some shared characteristics, then yes data collectors would almost certainly want to add that category .

So if women won’t understand and tick the cis box, then how about we just have “woman (not trans)”? Would that work for you?

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If a significant % of the population with shared characteristics started calling themselves unicorns, I'm sure data collectors might want to record it.

But they wouldn't be recording it because it was real, or because unicorns existed.

They'd be recording it as an interesting but inexplicable* human phenonemon - just as the ONS set up a specific code to record people who identified their religion as "Jedi". Having a word for something or identifying as something doesn't make it real in any meaningful sense of the word "real".

*Or possibly explicable as a large (or perhaps small) scale delusion...

IAmAWarriorPrincessHonestGuv · 06/10/2024 17:20

PollyDactyl · 06/10/2024 17:17

Oh OK could someone tell me what makes a transwoman a transwoman, please? I do know they are a transwoman because they say so, is it more complex than that?

I think that concurs with the most used Stonewall definition.

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:20

I find it exasperating that every opinion is more important than ours. That anyone can use our identities and claim they are just like us, when they have had all the advantages of growing up male.

No you don’t get to try and rebrand us for a tiny minuscule portion of society, that have already benefited disproportionately at the expense of natural women.

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 17:23

PollyDactyl · 06/10/2024 17:17

Oh OK could someone tell me what makes a transwoman a transwoman, please? I do know they are a transwoman because they say so, is it more complex than that?

First, I think you have to be male.

Then...

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 17:26

I find it exasperating that every opinion is more important than ours. That anyone can use our identities and claim they are just like us, when they have had all the advantages of growing up male.

To me it just demonstrates the sexist society we live in.

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