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Survey at work using the term cis woman

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SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 13:16

So I filled all the survey, very happy at work, public secror.
Note that this survey is outsourced by another survey organisation.

Then I come to the last bit please describe your role in the organisation, did that, and then how would you describe your sex or gender?

( Can’t remember exactly how the question was phrased )but the only option for women was “cis woman.”

Quite cross about this and I’m not sure how to best articulate this to my managers who, to be fair never use this term and will not have had any input to designing the survey. Any input welcome.

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Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 16:52

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:39

Transphobic comment.

So?

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 16:53

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:50

Another grotesquely transphobic comment.

Nope just fact!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:53

Language is an evolving concept

It evolves naturally, not just because a minority of loud, entitled voices want people to redefine common terms.

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:53

Why would anyone object to the words trans if that is what they are?

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 16:54

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:53

Why would anyone object to the words trans if that is what they are?

Ask them

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:54

DisappearingGirl · 06/10/2024 16:51

I suppose the problem is that "woman" now has two different meanings depending on who you ask:

  1. adult human female
  2. someone who identifies as a woman in terms of their gender

So now we have the same word with two different meanings.

To which I would ask, exactly what are these people identifying as?

Catiette · 06/10/2024 16:54

MartinCrieffsLemon · 06/10/2024 16:52

Errr

The meaning of words changes ALL the time

Language is an evolving concept

True. This kind of artificial, imposed evolution (as opposed to the organic, Darwinian necessity spanning decades) is most familiar in the context of the forcible colonialist removal of a native population's language to neuter their sense of identity as a distinct group worthy of their own words and respect.

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:54

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:49

And I can tick the box for unicorn, and then what? I can do as I like. Identify as I please. Statistics aside, most women wouldn’t even know what cis even is, so incredibly unlikely to ever tick it anyway so the results are flawed anyway.

Well If a significant % of the population started calling themselves unicorns and that label described a particular group of people with some shared characteristics, then yes data collectors would almost certainly want to add that category .

So if women won’t understand and tick the cis box, then how about we just have “woman (not trans)”? Would that work for you?

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 16:55

DisappearingGirl · 06/10/2024 16:53

Some judges are about to decide what a woman is, so we're all good ...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5180156-lord-reed-how-we-will-decide-what-constitutes-a-woman

Er... what? That's really odd

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 16:55

DerekFaker · 06/10/2024 13:36

No it is not. People mostly agree that race exists. Not everyone has a gender identity.

I know what you mean in the context of the poster you quoted, but isn't the problem that unlike "sex" - which does have a scientific basis - there is generally considered these days to be no scientific basis for the concept of "race"?

In fact "race" could be considered to be as much a social or cultural construct as "gender" or "trans".

It's been superseded by "ethnicity" - which I suppose is just as much a social or cultural construct as "race" - or "gender" for that matter...

NB - I'm certainly not arguing that the concept of gender identity is anything other than a load of bolleaux. It is a load of bolleaux and has no foundation in reality whatsoever whereas sex is real and has a scientific foundation.

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:55

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:53

Why would anyone object to the words trans if that is what they are?

Why would you object to the word cis if that is what you are?

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 16:55

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:54

To which I would ask, exactly what are these people identifying as?

An adult human female

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:56

Namechangedforthisthreadhere · 06/10/2024 16:52

So?

“So?”
Do you think it’s ok to be transphobic?

MartinCrieffsLemon · 06/10/2024 16:57

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:53

Language is an evolving concept

It evolves naturally, not just because a minority of loud, entitled voices want people to redefine common terms.

Language evolves because people using it change its meaning

Gay changed meaning because of what would be described as "a minority of loud, entitled voices"

Young people redefine terms all the time by using them differently

Think "spill the tea" meaning "give me the gossip" or "slay" meaning "boss it"

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:57

An adult human female

Then that's what "woman" means, and males by default don't qualify.

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 06/10/2024 16:57

How many trans people have you met? Had a conversation with? Listened to their experience?

Several deeply unhappy middle-aged men, in fact. Straight, some had children.

Manxexile · 06/10/2024 16:57

DietrichandDiMaggio · 06/10/2024 13:37

That analogy doesn't make sense at all.

Females do not need to add anything to the word woman, because that is the correct word for an adult human female.

It's not so much that the analogy doesn't make sense.

It's that the whole post doesn't make any sense...

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:58

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 16:54

Ask them

I have and most seem very happy to call themselves trans - so the issue is just a storm in a teacup.

unless you are suggesting they should feel shame around the term trans? I certainly don’t think so, it is good to keep things simple, additionally takes into account it is sometimes fluid. It’s also important that stats and companies take into account the number of trans people for positive reasons.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:59

Gay changed meaning because of what would be described as "a minority of loud, entitled voices"

So would you say a gay man can mean a man who is attracted to women?

Runningupthecurtains · 06/10/2024 16:59

MartinCrieffsLemon · 06/10/2024 16:52

Errr

The meaning of words changes ALL the time

Language is an evolving concept

Great so pleased give us a definition of woman because if you reject adult human female as it's meaning then we need an alternative.

Please note anyone who says/feels they are is not a definition because we need to know what the thing is they feel like/identify as.

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 17:00

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:55

Why would you object to the word cis if that is what you are?

Cis is meaningless to me.

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 17:00

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:57

An adult human female

Then that's what "woman" means, and males by default don't qualify.

My head hurts but I think I follow you

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 17:01

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:58

I have and most seem very happy to call themselves trans - so the issue is just a storm in a teacup.

unless you are suggesting they should feel shame around the term trans? I certainly don’t think so, it is good to keep things simple, additionally takes into account it is sometimes fluid. It’s also important that stats and companies take into account the number of trans people for positive reasons.

Ask the people who object I meant

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 17:01

"Why would you object to "heathen" if that is what you are"

"Why would you object to heretic if that is what you are"

"Why would you object to sinner if that is what you are"

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