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Survey at work using the term cis woman

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SuzanneRogers · 06/10/2024 13:16

So I filled all the survey, very happy at work, public secror.
Note that this survey is outsourced by another survey organisation.

Then I come to the last bit please describe your role in the organisation, did that, and then how would you describe your sex or gender?

( Can’t remember exactly how the question was phrased )but the only option for women was “cis woman.”

Quite cross about this and I’m not sure how to best articulate this to my managers who, to be fair never use this term and will not have had any input to designing the survey. Any input welcome.

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NewFriendlyLadybird · 06/10/2024 16:41

republicofjam · 06/10/2024 16:40

Are those women in the room with us now?

I am, if that helps

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 06/10/2024 16:41

YES Of course there is!!!!! It’s to distinguish between trans men and men who are not trans.

Men who are not trans are men. Transmen are a subset of women.

Waitwhat23 · 06/10/2024 16:42

CoffeeGood · 06/10/2024 16:29

Well, they shouldn't should they? It's not that hard. Why should I have to have a label put on me, because a man in a skirt doesn't want to use the term "transwoman" when that is what they are?! (Well, they should actually choose "man" but that's a different opinion and not relevant here). I have to change the way I describe myself because a man doesn't want to use the correct term?

How is that fair? Oh, wait, because I'm a woman, so I have to change MY feelings to accomodate a mans? Give me a break!

It's when you see pish like John Hopkins University defining lesbians as 'non men attracted to non men' that you realise that in intensely regressive gender ideology, women can only be defined in terms of their not being male. Not as humans in their own right.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/10/2024 16:42

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:39

Transphobic comment.

sorry we’re well past the time when pointing out facts is ‘transphobic’

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:42

Yes the obvious solution is to offer trans men and trans women and all the other rainbow terms of which I can’t keep up with.

Plus Male and female

MartinCrieffsLemon · 06/10/2024 16:42

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:40

Is there such a term as cis men?

Yes

Because Cis just means "not trans"

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 06/10/2024 16:43

"How about instead of “cis” we just say “woman (not trans)” it would mean exactly the same thing. That ok with you?"

No. I am a woman. That's all that's necessary thank you.

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:43

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 16:41

They can use transwoman, that is what the trans is for, I am simply a woman no prefix needed.

Ok but if we write “women” and “trans. Women” it isn’t clear from an analysis perspective because the categories are not mutually exclusive.

Trans women identity as both trans women and as women, so some trans women will select one box and some the other.

I get you don’t like it, but that’s how it is and the reality of how other people fill out surveys.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/10/2024 16:44

Because cis just means you subscribe to a belief that ppl have some kind of undefinable gender identity to their biological sex. I think thats bollocks

EasternStandard · 06/10/2024 16:44

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 16:35

People who are trans exist though - so surely it makes sense to have a word that clarifies if you're talking about a trans man or a trans woman or one who isn't trans?!

There is you’ve just used it in your post.

Although gender ideology isn’t the right way to go

ilovesooty · 06/10/2024 16:44

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 06/10/2024 16:27

Regardless of how much I'm scolded, I can't look at a man and believe he's a woman. Just like I can't get scolded into a particular religious belief.
If you want to believe the unprovable, go for it, but stop trying to force your beliefs on others.

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So it's not scolding to refer to those with an alternative point of view as handmaidens?

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 16:44

@MartinCrieffsLemon cis means on this side of, on this side of what? It doesn't mean not trans!

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 16:44

It's like complaining about being asked to identify your race and foaming at the mouth because "just because she's a black woman doesn't mean I'm a white woman". It's ludicrous.

No it would be like a white woman identifying as a black woman and enforcing surveys that say ‘cis black woman’ as a category. That sound ok?

lifeturnsonadime · 06/10/2024 16:45

TofuTart · 06/10/2024 16:35

People who are trans exist though - so surely it makes sense to have a word that clarifies if you're talking about a trans man or a trans woman or one who isn't trans?!

Trans identifying male / man (currently trans woman)

Trans identifying female / woman. (currently trans man)

This is more linguistically correct, doesn't erase current sex based language and can't be used to insist the erasure of single sex spaces and sports.

No doubt it will piss some men off, but they weren't great at consent anyway were they. They have no concern, seemingly that many women don't consent to the erasure of our language and spaces.

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:45

MartinCrieffsLemon · 06/10/2024 16:42

Yes

Because Cis just means "not trans"

It’s a pointless term though - as women and men are simply that and then there is transwomen and transmen. It’s simple as that.

I have no idea why some have felt the need for made up terms! We don’t need them. The above does the job perfectly well.

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:45

Hunglikeapolevaulter · 06/10/2024 16:41

YES Of course there is!!!!! It’s to distinguish between trans men and men who are not trans.

Men who are not trans are men. Transmen are a subset of women.

According to you, but that’s unfortunately not how other people use and understand these words.

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 16:45

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 16:28

Well they refer to themselves as ‘trans’ so that’s the (linguistic) clue.

You make a good point about accurate data collection though. It certainly became a big issue when we started to include men within women’s data sets.

Edited

Some transwomen don't though they just want to be women.

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 16:45

ilovesooty · 06/10/2024 16:44

So it's not scolding to refer to those with an alternative point of view as handmaidens?

We might be getting a little tired of being told to be ‘be kind.’

AmeliaEarache · 06/10/2024 16:46

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:18

Man, male

Some trans people are male - transwomen. Some are female - transmen.

Transwomen wish to present as feminine; that’s fine. Be as gendered or ungendered as you like, this isn’t Iran.

Sex won’t change, whatever you wear.

Observing facts isn’t imposing a label or identity on anyone. They are also the height and age they are, whether or not they wear heels or have facelifts. They are humans; they are mammals; they breathe in oxygen and exhale carbon dioxide. (Yes, I know that’s a simplified explanation of respiration)

Material reality doesn’t stop existing and being relevant because of personal preferences.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 06/10/2024 16:46

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 16:44

@MartinCrieffsLemon cis means on this side of, on this side of what? It doesn't mean not trans!

In terms of gender, Cis means not trans

lifeturnsonadime · 06/10/2024 16:46

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:39

Transphobic comment.

Why? it's factually correct.

Are facts transphobic nowadays? Seems so?

DogsAkimbo · 06/10/2024 16:46

Thfrog · 06/10/2024 16:45

Some transwomen don't though they just want to be women.

Don’t what? Sorry I’m not sure what you’re referring to.

ChishiyaBat · 06/10/2024 16:46

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:43

Ok but if we write “women” and “trans. Women” it isn’t clear from an analysis perspective because the categories are not mutually exclusive.

Trans women identity as both trans women and as women, so some trans women will select one box and some the other.

I get you don’t like it, but that’s how it is and the reality of how other people fill out surveys.

Then we simply go back to 2 terms, not how you feel or how you identify, but how you were born- man/male, woman/female.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2024 16:46

@MartinCrieffsLemon

Yes

Because Cis just means "not trans"

It doesn't just mean "not trans". At all. It presupposes that I share your gender identity belief, which I don't. If it just meant "not trans", and a biological woman is a "cis woman" then a "trans woman" would be a biological female who identifies as a man. But that's not what your ideology says.

PiggleToes · 06/10/2024 16:46

Savingthehedgehogs · 06/10/2024 16:45

It’s a pointless term though - as women and men are simply that and then there is transwomen and transmen. It’s simple as that.

I have no idea why some have felt the need for made up terms! We don’t need them. The above does the job perfectly well.

It’s simple as that.

This is the problem. As with so much in life, it’s not at all simple. I get that you want life to be black and white and simple for you to understand. It’s not.

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