Come on! Someone, please, tell me why Afghan women (and women internationally) no longer need a word. Please?
There are so many posts above about the horrors of discrimination, the importance of inclusion, the need for respect for self-determination - yet a resolute refusal to even mention this group.
Please at least try to explain, people! It's starting to look as though you can't, or, worse, as if this group doesn't matter to you...
Here's another attempt from me to engage with this...
My solution is that, in a majority of contexts, the word "woman" needs to be retained as a necessary descriptor for the 51% or the population oppressed due to their biology. My reason is that it seems dangerously short-sighted and complacent to support the forcible removal of this word's meaning (used for millennia) from people who want to retain it, and to characterise this removal as a progressive or trivial change.
This group I'd like to keep a word for (women) only got the vote about 100 years ago in the UK. Still in the UK, women were, in a very real sense, seen as their husband's property when marital rape was entirely legal about 30 years ago. Women in Afghanistan are still, effectively, enslaved.
If women's need for a word was acknowledged and respected, I think I'd actually be OK with referring to transwomen as women in a wide range of contexts as a simple courtesy that costs me little.
As long as women's need for a word is denied, and framed as bigotted or trivial (the irony of both these accusations is, frankly, terrifying!) how can I possibly risk making such concessions?