too fussy about my blind date's shoes???

[VinegarTits]

Went on a blind date on Friday night, nice looking guy, tall (6 ft 6) and handsome in a rough looking way, we got on very well and he liked me a lot, in fact he told me yesterday in a phone conversation, that when he saw me come across the pub car park he was blown away! but i didnt like his shoes and its really putting me off him....

In my effort to not let this affect my perception of him, i agreed to go out with him again yesterday for lunch, in hope he would be wearing better shoes.....

His shoes were not as bad this time, but not great either, and i didnt like his t-shirt...wtf is wrong with me, i know IABU, why am i being so fussy when i cant afford to at my age!

Can i take him shopping for new shoes??

How bad were his teeth?

Message withdrawn

He wore black sports socks that were almost as bad as his shoes

Oh dear.

Message withdrawn

Teeth were not too bad, clean but a bit yellow

Does that apply to women too KerryMum, I wear a £15 watch from Asda and often a pair of New Balance trainers (well made IMO, but definitely not the trendy end of the trainer market)?

If his socks are that bad then the underpants...is he even wearing any? What colour hair has he got?

MMJ yes i think the same as you do, but feel bad for doing so....but he came out of a 10 year relationship last year and im his first date since then, so maybe he just needs more practice

mmmmm It doesnt sound like he is ringing your bell

We meet at a local hotel bar, so we relaxed into a big leather sofa and drank wine and chatted, it was nice...but all the time i couldnt get the shoes out of my head

Look at the positives. He's 6ft6, handsome, nice, clean teeth, he thinks you're gorgeous.
Negatives, bad shoes, socks and a manky hanky.

He drinks wine and not lager - another positive.