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AIBU?

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To say that people in Sussex are awful?

262 replies

iambeyonddone · 19/09/2024 15:23

Can't quite put my finger on what it is, but generally in Sussex when working or travelling there, whether in towns, coast or countryside, people do seem to have this awful, cold and arrogant demeanour about them that they are somehow something they aren't?

Just seem to look down their noses at anyone else and must say I don't think you see that as much even in London!

Must add as well, there do seem to be a rather large proportion of quite aggressive elderly ex-Londoners who almost come across as ex football hooligans?

AIBU or is there something I'm missing? anyone know anywhere else like this?🤔

OP posts:
Arlanymor · 19/09/2024 15:44

iambeyonddone · 19/09/2024 15:40

Where I'm from doesn't matter! Not from there, and although there is an unfriendly 'snooty south' stereotype in the UK, a lot of people there seem very unfriendly or have a very 'fake friendly' demeanour

Is it just Sussex (still haven’t made it clear WHICH Sussex or where) that you look down upon? I live in Swansea, have at us too if you like? Seem to need to get some stuff off your chest…

AllGrownUp1465 · 19/09/2024 15:44

I was born and grew up in East Sussex, and have lived all over the country

Sadly I agree, it’s very snooty and rude!

pilates · 19/09/2024 15:45

So what towns have you visited op?

poppyzbrite4 · 19/09/2024 15:45

AllGrownUp1465 · 19/09/2024 15:44

I was born and grew up in East Sussex, and have lived all over the country

Sadly I agree, it’s very snooty and rude!

Is that you OP?

forclean · 19/09/2024 15:45

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This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines - previously banned poster.

Missmarplesknittingbuddy · 19/09/2024 15:46

I am not in Sussex and I am quite awful . I must be lost ! .

Shodan · 19/09/2024 15:46

iambeyonddone · 19/09/2024 15:40

Where I'm from doesn't matter! Not from there, and although there is an unfriendly 'snooty south' stereotype in the UK, a lot of people there seem very unfriendly or have a very 'fake friendly' demeanour

Could I please just make it known that we put an awful lot of effort into being the 'snooty south' and no-one ever gives us the credit for that effort. It's almost as if you think everyone is just naturally like that.

It's very disheartening.

SocksAndTheCity · 19/09/2024 15:48

I've no interest in Sussex, but kudos to the OP for managing to get a couple of cheap shots in at London and Londoners on a thread which is nothing to do with either. You have learned Mumsnet well.

OneTC · 19/09/2024 15:49

I used to live in Sussex but was exiled to Croydon as part of a cultural exchange programme. It was because I wasn't sufficiently awful.

poppymango · 19/09/2024 15:49

Gelasring · 19/09/2024 15:28

Are you a Mancunian getting your revenge for the other thread?!

😆

DejaTu · 19/09/2024 15:50

iambeyonddone · 19/09/2024 15:23

Can't quite put my finger on what it is, but generally in Sussex when working or travelling there, whether in towns, coast or countryside, people do seem to have this awful, cold and arrogant demeanour about them that they are somehow something they aren't?

Just seem to look down their noses at anyone else and must say I don't think you see that as much even in London!

Must add as well, there do seem to be a rather large proportion of quite aggressive elderly ex-Londoners who almost come across as ex football hooligans?

AIBU or is there something I'm missing? anyone know anywhere else like this?🤔

Harsh.

A massive generalisation.

AllGrownUp1465 · 19/09/2024 15:50

poppyzbrite4 · 19/09/2024 15:45

Is that you OP?

Erm no… are you living in East Sussex and can’t take criticism… seems about right (from experience)

willitevergetwarm · 19/09/2024 15:50

I live in snooty sussex and I have to say, I haven't found that at all in my many years of living here
If we are all that bad, then please feel free to stay well away

Runningupthecurtains · 19/09/2024 15:50

Missmarplesknittingbuddy · 19/09/2024 15:46

I am not in Sussex and I am quite awful . I must be lost ! .

There is a house for sale in the street behind ours if you feel the need to relocate to an awful county (well two counties or two and bit of you include Brighton) full of awful people. We guarantee to make you feel utterly unwelcome. 🖕

OneTC · 19/09/2024 15:50

Brighton fucking blows though

belindawolves · 19/09/2024 15:51

I'm from Sussex and I agree with the OP @iambeyonddone

Arlanymor · 19/09/2024 15:52

It’s about the time for a Shameless reboot isn’t it? We all need to write to Channel 4 and suggest Havant, Crawley, etc… (tongue firmly in cheek).

Chrishelle · 19/09/2024 15:52

squashyhat · 19/09/2024 15:27

Happy for you to stay away OP. We'll do fine without you.

Absolutely- stupid of the OP to post this gross insult.

poppyzbrite4 · 19/09/2024 15:52

AllGrownUp1465 · 19/09/2024 15:50

Erm no… are you living in East Sussex and can’t take criticism… seems about right (from experience)

Are you from that particular location full of halfwits? Seems apt.

Arlanymor · 19/09/2024 15:53

belindawolves · 19/09/2024 15:51

I'm from Sussex and I agree with the OP @iambeyonddone

Where in Sussex then - at least identify the county!

AllGrownUp1465 · 19/09/2024 15:53

Are the people offended, those that moved from London to Sussex to get a bigger house? Or those that were born there (like me)? 😂I am not offended, East Sussex is full of a lot of awful stuck up people

Runningupthecurtains · 19/09/2024 15:54

OneTC · 19/09/2024 15:49

I used to live in Sussex but was exiled to Croydon as part of a cultural exchange programme. It was because I wasn't sufficiently awful.

We may have taken you place in Sussex under that scheme as we were relocated from S E London - I accidentally spoke to someone on the tube once which made me so awful I had to be forcefully relocated instantly.

SecondFavouriteDinosaur · 19/09/2024 15:54

belindawolves · 19/09/2024 15:51

I'm from Sussex and I agree with the OP @iambeyonddone

So you’re rude and unfriendly? Or just everyone else in Sussex except you? What about your friends and family in Sussex? Are they exempt from the generalisation too?

Twiglets1 · 19/09/2024 15:54

I applied to Sussex uni but didn't get in as too nice.

tobee · 19/09/2024 15:54

Oh it's Sussex this month is it? Usually it's Surrey. 🤷🏻‍♀️