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Why would someone keep an empty envelope?

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Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 15:59

To ask why a person would keep an open but empty envelope with their name on the front. They haven't mistakenly kept it. I know this because it has been deliberately moved from its original place and hidden in a new place while they were tidying up.

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Lurkingandlearning · 20/09/2024 13:01

These things are much easier resolved on Gransnet. The answer is always “dementia”.

Would that work for the envelope?

Justmeee22 · 20/09/2024 15:46

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 16:07

It has been hidden inside a packet of printed photos.

It's obviously important to them, leave it alone.

Apollo365 · 20/09/2024 21:03

Uhhh was hoping we would know the answer by now

Jesslovesengineering · 21/09/2024 18:10

Well, I'm glad I saw this post. Now I know what to do if I ever need to figure out if someone is a bit unhinged.

GhostMum · 21/09/2024 18:40

Witchcraft.

Snowflakeslayer · 21/09/2024 21:20

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 15:59

To ask why a person would keep an open but empty envelope with their name on the front. They haven't mistakenly kept it. I know this because it has been deliberately moved from its original place and hidden in a new place while they were tidying up.

Just ask them? Long sigh

Coco1379 · 21/09/2024 23:41

Probably it has some particular meaning for them. I keep envelopes my GCs have written on, or some that are just pretty. It’s private to this person and not for you to speculate on.

HR517 · 22/09/2024 09:06

Only the person keeping the envelope will know. The rest of us can only hazard a guess. It may have a symbolic value or is an ‘act’ required in some “ritual”? You could ask the person concerned if you MUST know?

Pherian · 22/09/2024 13:29

are you normally paranoid about weird things ?

Goodtogossip · 25/09/2024 14:28

has the name been written by a loved one who has passed away? Could be kept for sentimental reasons like this. Just ask them if you're so intrigued by it.

Sumthingsweet · 06/10/2024 19:24

I keep all the envelopes saying mum mamma wifey one says my queen from hubby old cards etc don’t have the heart to chuck - hubby keeps little notes from me shopping list which says at the end by the way I love you xx lol we been married 24 years I guess it’s sentimental and annoying to some but each to their own

Sumthingsweet · 06/10/2024 19:26

Saying that when mother in law died and we sorted her things we found all her old Mother’s Day cards and things from kids - was really sad and also touching I think we put them in the drawer somewhere and the now adult kids appreciated she kept them in her special drawer - also their Mother’s Day gifts unused etc smellys bags bits etc

Pickled21 · 06/10/2024 19:33

I have kept a birthday card, an envelope and gift tag with dad's (my fil) writing on it. Dh doesn't attach importance to stuff like that but I do so I've kept them.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/10/2024 09:27

Did you ever ask, @Anothernamebite?

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