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Why would someone keep an empty envelope?

214 replies

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 15:59

To ask why a person would keep an open but empty envelope with their name on the front. They haven't mistakenly kept it. I know this because it has been deliberately moved from its original place and hidden in a new place while they were tidying up.

OP posts:
loropianalover · 18/09/2024 16:12

I suspect you’ll have a better idea than any of us, OP.

BabyofMine · 18/09/2024 16:12

People still print out photos??

ThisPresetIsSelected · 18/09/2024 16:13

Probably a specific photo was previously kept in it, then got taken out and either hasn't been put back in it, or has been put back with the rest of the photos.

NannyR · 18/09/2024 16:13

takealettermsjones · 18/09/2024 16:03

I have a post it note with my name on (amongst other words of course) in a deceased relative's handwriting. Maybe something like that?

This. I have several random post it notes and gift tags and an old shopping list that my mum wrote. They probably look like rubbish to other people but they are very precious to me.

DeCaray · 18/09/2024 16:13

What are the photos of?

Idontjetwashthefucker · 18/09/2024 16:13

Who gave the envelope, what did the envelope contain?

Seas164 · 18/09/2024 16:14

It's clearly imbued with magical properties, be careful you don't open the envelope under a full moon OP, it could be a portal to another dimension.

GalileoHumpkins · 18/09/2024 16:14

Just to wind you up and it's clearly working.

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 16:14

Yes, it is my husband, my husband's name written on the front.
Now the envelope is inside a packet of photos, photos that I had never seen printed before, random photos from his photo stream from seven years ago. Yes I will ask him but wanted to get some ideas first.

OP posts:
DoIWantTo · 18/09/2024 16:15

Well in this instance I’m assuming you live with the person that kept the empty envelope so the most logical thing to do is ask them and not people that aren’t keeping an empty envelope?

Sceptical123 · 18/09/2024 16:16

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 16:14

Yes, it is my husband, my husband's name written on the front.
Now the envelope is inside a packet of photos, photos that I had never seen printed before, random photos from his photo stream from seven years ago. Yes I will ask him but wanted to get some ideas first.

For sentimental reasons.

The person who wrote it means something to him and it is a part of them that he wants to hang onto.

TheChosenTwo · 18/09/2024 16:16

I have a random envelope with my name on it from my mum after she had a stroke which very nearly killed her. She has really distinct handwriting and she couldn’t hold a pen and write for a long time afterwards. My stepdad wrote my birthday card one year but she wanted to try on the envelope because she presumed I would throw it in the bin immediately but would keep the card up for a bit so didn’t want her ‘messy’ writing being kept. Couldn’t tell you what I got for my birthday that year but seeing that envelope made me cry because I could see it was her handwriting and it had been such a long time since I’d seen it. It lives in my drawer and it’s really special. I’m the least sentimental person I know but that envelope will stay with me forever.
sometimes envelopes mean more than you think!

Idontjetwashthefucker · 18/09/2024 16:16

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 16:14

Yes, it is my husband, my husband's name written on the front.
Now the envelope is inside a packet of photos, photos that I had never seen printed before, random photos from his photo stream from seven years ago. Yes I will ask him but wanted to get some ideas first.

Do you suspect something OP, if so what? Can't think why you'd be this concerned about an old envelope otherwise.

What were the photos of?

kierenthecommunity · 18/09/2024 16:17

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 16:14

Yes, it is my husband, my husband's name written on the front.
Now the envelope is inside a packet of photos, photos that I had never seen printed before, random photos from his photo stream from seven years ago. Yes I will ask him but wanted to get some ideas first.

So where was it before…?

LaineyCee · 18/09/2024 16:17

I keep old envelopes for scrap paper (to jot down shopping lists, use as bookmarks etc.) The only way you’ll know why this person has kept this particular envelope is if you ask them.

(The true crime fan in me has loads of utterly improbable suggestions- fingerprints, DNA on seal)

Anothernamebite · 18/09/2024 16:18

There are photos of me, photos of DD, some family shots.

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LonginesPrime · 18/09/2024 16:19

Could there be something written on the inside of the envelope that he wants to keep?

Could it be that he was looking through the photos and used the envelope as a bookmark to remember where he was up to, or to separate the photos into two sets (e.g. those to keep and those to scrap, given they're from a camera roll)?

Aquamarine1029 · 18/09/2024 16:19

Why won't you say what it is you're so paranoid/concerned about?

dontcallmelen · 18/09/2024 16:20

Probably best if you ask him OP, my Dh has an old envelope which I had had written my name & telephone number on the night me met, we’ve been married 45years so could be all manner of reasons possibly sentimental or not hope the explanation doesn’t upset you.

takealettermsjones · 18/09/2024 16:20

What is your concern about it OP?

MrTiddlesTheCat · 18/09/2024 16:23

Ask him.

angellinaballerina7 · 18/09/2024 16:23

Does it matter?

viques · 18/09/2024 16:24

Maybe there was something small and apparently insignificant
inside the envelope, like a hair , which had a meaning for the envelope owner.

You didn’t notice the hair, it’s gone now, the envelope is meaningless.

Well done.

SidekickSylvia · 18/09/2024 16:24

I would guess it has sentimental value. Like previous posters, I've kept an envelope with my name on because it's the last thing written to me by them (my late grandma). Is it from someone who is no longer in his life?

bifurCAT · 18/09/2024 16:24

I would do this if it was a lost family member or lost love. Just to have something of them.

I'm guessing it's hand-written? This is a sentimental keepsake.

Or he's a hoarder!

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