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If you voted for brexit did you get what you wanted?

258 replies

Poutl · 08/09/2024 12:43

I’m definitely not a sneery anti-brexiter. I get that 50% of the population had legitimate concerns and did what they thought was best for the country. But my question is: did the thing that was so intolerable as a result of being a part of the EU get resolved for you by way of brexit?

I just don’t see what the point of it all was.

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StarDolphins · 08/09/2024 18:40

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 17:40

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

And I don't know a single person who voted for it who doesn't deeply regret it.

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

🤣 Are you sure?

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 18:40

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 18:37

It has been pretty widely reported and discussed that a lot of people didn't know exactly what they were voting for with Brexit and they didn't understand the widespread implications.

A lot of people voted for it simply because they thought it would solve illegal immigration (or low paid legal immigrants).

I think it is fair to say that unless people are proactive in educating themselves and are politically minded, it is easy to see how they may vote for something because social media says it will solve a particular issue.

Edited

I was being ironic. The information was there but people chose not to do any research or listen. There was a lot of talk at the time of how we shouldn't trust 'experts'.

They instead believed utter nonsense without doing the bare minimum of fact checking. Then millions voted for Farage again this year.

HoppityBun · 08/09/2024 18:42

DrRiverSong · 08/09/2024 18:11

another Reasons lots of people I know had for voting to leave were the stated aims of “ever closer union” and the various things that had the potential to entail l. I never thought it unreasonable to have doubts about an overreaching government for the whole of a continent when that was the stated aim.

I personally have doubts that the European project in its current form can last. Not for the very long term. Trying to tie nations together under the same rules as if they all operate the same way and have the same culture and goals is risky. Without absolutely stellar leadership it’s easy for things to go off the rails.

But the ever closer union was just political rhetoric. Cameron had in any case removed references to this at the beginning of 2016. By the time of the referendum it had lost what little force it ever had.

https://fullfact.org/europe/explaining-eu-deal-ever-closer-union/

Explaining the EU deal: an "ever closer union" - Full Fact

The EU deal says that the UK should no longer have to commit to an "ever closer union". Professor Sionaidh Douglas-Scott shows why this has no legal effect.

https://fullfact.org/europe/explaining-eu-deal-ever-closer-union

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 18:42

StarDolphins · 08/09/2024 18:40

The vast, vast majority of people didn't know what they actually were voting for.

🤣 Are you sure?

Yes actually.

As I said in a prior comment, it has been widely discussed and recognised that people were ill informed about Brexit.

That to me has been proven true in the many conversations I have had with people about it (from various demographics).

Perplexed20 · 08/09/2024 18:42

StarDolphins · 08/09/2024 18:36

Not according to MN there aren’t….

There has been at least 4 in the last 10 days. I can get you the link to everyone if you are really that bothered.

StarDolphins · 08/09/2024 18:45

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 18:42

Yes actually.

As I said in a prior comment, it has been widely discussed and recognised that people were ill informed about Brexit.

That to me has been proven true in the many conversations I have had with people about it (from various demographics).

Must be true then!

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 18:46

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 18:40

I was being ironic. The information was there but people chose not to do any research or listen. There was a lot of talk at the time of how we shouldn't trust 'experts'.

They instead believed utter nonsense without doing the bare minimum of fact checking. Then millions voted for Farage again this year.

Ah, tone is a bit hard to gauge on here.

And I agree, many people are politically lazy and don't want to put in the time.

Social media doesn't help as the algorithm turns people's feeds into echo chambers and they aren't exposed to differing opinions.

I maintain that many people didn't know exactly what they were voting for, but it was due to a combination of not spending the time to learn... and also a lot of people (and politicians) muddying the waters (lying) with bold claims and social media campaigns etc

ginasevern · 08/09/2024 18:47

iNoticed · 08/09/2024 17:04

I didn’t really expect anything in this time frame, but being able to set out own VAT rules was one of my reasons so that’s working out well.

We were always able to set our own VAT rules, the only thing we couldn't do was abolish it. VAT was introduced in Britain in 1973 and has little or nothing to do with the EU. It was called Purchase Tax before that, which was introduced in 1940. Unless the Government (any government) decides to abolish VAT or reduce it to below 15% (the EU minimum on most goods and services) then I don't see how anything has changed or "worked out well".

StarDolphins · 08/09/2024 18:48

Perplexed20 · 08/09/2024 18:42

There has been at least 4 in the last 10 days. I can get you the link to everyone if you are really that bothered.

Edited

No thanks, I’m happy with this one!

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 18:49

AsYouWiiiiiiiiiiiiish · 08/09/2024 18:46

Ah, tone is a bit hard to gauge on here.

And I agree, many people are politically lazy and don't want to put in the time.

Social media doesn't help as the algorithm turns people's feeds into echo chambers and they aren't exposed to differing opinions.

I maintain that many people didn't know exactly what they were voting for, but it was due to a combination of not spending the time to learn... and also a lot of people (and politicians) muddying the waters (lying) with bold claims and social media campaigns etc

Caveat Emptor. It's the responsibility of everyone to take their vote seriously and do their research.

The information was there, for and against for a very long time.

LondonLass61 · 08/09/2024 18:50

I think that since post WW2, the UK has had an identity crisis particularly since the loss of the empire.
People also forget that it took us many attempts to get into the Common Market in part because De Gaulle voted against us and thought that we'd treat it as another empire and put our own and USA's interests first. My grandparents who'd been through the two World Wars were delighted when we joined. I think that they would have been saddened by Brexit as am I.

Beekeepingmum · 08/09/2024 18:55

I'm still not clear there have been any benefits? Didn't Boris appoint a minister to be responsible for promoting the benefits? Not sure what happened to them...

TheBers2024 · 08/09/2024 19:01

The question was " if you voted Brexit".
Yet the majority of respondents appear to be from Remain voters.

I'd say it's not Leave voters who don't understand questions....

Menopausalsourpuss · 08/09/2024 19:04

As of May 2024 31% of the electorate agree that uk was right to leave the EU. That is skewed by people who thought it was right originally but think the govt made a pigs ear of leaving. 20% of the electorate voted for Labour so Brexit is still more popular than Labour (and 17.5m people voted for leave v 9.5m people for Labour). And alot of them have regret over voting Labour (they didn't know what they were voting for as per all recent elections where subsequently the govt have done major things which weren't in their manifesto and not done major things in their manifesto). Faith in politicians is at an all time low).

RafaistheKingofClay · 08/09/2024 19:05

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 18:40

I was being ironic. The information was there but people chose not to do any research or listen. There was a lot of talk at the time of how we shouldn't trust 'experts'.

They instead believed utter nonsense without doing the bare minimum of fact checking. Then millions voted for Farage again this year.

There’s also the issue that fairly prominent vote leave people were talking about Brexit not leaving the single market, Rees-Mogg was talking about a second referendum to determine what sort of Brexit and a lot of stuff was written off a project fears.

It’s difficult to imagine that anyone who voted, whichever way they voted, knew what Brexit meant.

Menopausalsourpuss · 08/09/2024 19:08

Of course people didn't know what Brexit meant any more than people know at any election as govts just veer off and do their own thing which is rarely what the public want. Which is why Labour are already v. unpopular with ks ratings in negative figures even though only been in for 7 weeks.

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 19:12

RafaistheKingofClay · 08/09/2024 19:05

There’s also the issue that fairly prominent vote leave people were talking about Brexit not leaving the single market, Rees-Mogg was talking about a second referendum to determine what sort of Brexit and a lot of stuff was written off a project fears.

It’s difficult to imagine that anyone who voted, whichever way they voted, knew what Brexit meant.

I wasn't aware of the suggestion of a second referendum. I knew that we'd have to leave the single market as part of Brexit as that was part of the condition of being in the EU, that along with freedom of movement.

The project fear nonsense came alongside the don't believe the experts rhetoric. It was impossible to talk to some people about the facts because anything with evidence was dismissed.

Most people I spoke to about Brexit, were voting because of immigration. They just thought that immigration would stop after the vote. Farage pulled a blinder with his racist poster.

Isleoftights · 08/09/2024 19:14

TheBers2024 · Today 19:01

The question was " if you voted Brexit".
Yet the majority of respondents appear to be from Remain voters.

I'd say it's not Leave voters who don't understand questions....

Yes, what part of 'if you voted Brexit' do they not understand ?

Menopausalsourpuss · 08/09/2024 19:15

Anyway can't believe people on mn still moaning about brexit, they're are so many other things that have negatively affected your quality of life, lockdowns being the main one which mumsnet thought was great at the time! I don't remember many people trying to find out facts then or thinking about the long term consequences! It was 8 years ago ffs.

poppyzbrite4 · 08/09/2024 19:16

Isleoftights · 08/09/2024 19:14

TheBers2024 · Today 19:01

The question was " if you voted Brexit".
Yet the majority of respondents appear to be from Remain voters.

I'd say it's not Leave voters who don't understand questions....

Yes, what part of 'if you voted Brexit' do they not understand ?

You obviously voted leave. What did you vote leave for and did you get it?

hellywelly3 · 08/09/2024 19:17

I don’t think we were given all the facts just lots of lies for political gain. My vote wasn’t anything to do with immigration it was the EU membership fee that I stupidly thought would be put into the NHS.

Sourisblanche · 08/09/2024 19:18

I voted remain so can’t answer the OP.

However at a recent family gathering, my older relations who voted for brexit were all a bit annoyed in one way or another by it, from the restricted travel, to increased immigration since brexit and the country basically being in a bit of a mess. There was low level grumbling and some sort of acceptance that leaving the EU hadn’t worked out as they’d hoped.

I’ve had so many arguments over brexit in the past that I realised you can’t force anyone to change their minds but there is a slow realisation that much damage has been done to the UK because of brexit.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 08/09/2024 19:18

No I didn’t because the opportunities have never been exploited. I now believe that there was never a hope that the powers that be would allow us the freedoms we voted for. I no longer believe in democracy. 😔

EasternStandard · 08/09/2024 19:19

hellywelly3 · 08/09/2024 19:17

I don’t think we were given all the facts just lots of lies for political gain. My vote wasn’t anything to do with immigration it was the EU membership fee that I stupidly thought would be put into the NHS.

I thought the amount did go up by more than that anyway

SnakesAndArrows · 08/09/2024 19:21

Redlettuce · 08/09/2024 17:20

It wasn't mainly about the economics but it hasn't proved too bad. Growth is roughly the same as the EU since Brexit.

It did mean we were able to negotiate our own vaccine deals during covid.

The problem is we had a lot of people running the UK that didn't believe in Brexit and were actually trying to undermine it so we got a poor deal.

No it really didn’t. The U.K. has always been able to licence its own medicines and make its own deals with manufacturers. You fell for Johnson’s lie.

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