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To find August( especially mid-August) a sad affair?

283 replies

rewilded · 17/08/2024 19:13

I can't put my finger on it but I always feel depressed in August. June on the other hand is the perfect month.Grin

OP posts:
Wombbaalaa · 19/08/2024 11:54

I also hate it
I remember reading it’s a terrible month for domestic violence.

DBSFstupid · 19/08/2024 12:04

OneBadKitty · 17/08/2024 21:54

I don't like the dryness of the garden in late August- the lushness of spring and early summer is gone- the grass is browning and patchy, the lime trees are shedding their dried up flower heads everywhere, the leaves are looking tired on the apple trees, the flowers in my pots are looking spent now, and there's a dustiness in the air.

The evenings feel too short and the sense of change everywhere.

I'm already trimming everything back for winter and looking ahead to next spring. May the winter prove short and sweet and spring come quickly and the next summer be more sunny and milder and longer than this one.

Don't trim everything too far back - the birds/insects can feast on seeds/berries etc until lmid to late November! 😊

DBSFstupid · 19/08/2024 12:04

Wombbaalaa · 19/08/2024 11:54

I also hate it
I remember reading it’s a terrible month for domestic violence.

God - really?? How bloody awful.

Wombbaalaa · 19/08/2024 12:28

@DBSFstupid well to be specific, it is the month where most family annihilations take place. Possibly a little dark for a lighthearted thread but there you have it.

DBSFstupid · 19/08/2024 12:37

Wombbaalaa · 19/08/2024 12:28

@DBSFstupid well to be specific, it is the month where most family annihilations take place. Possibly a little dark for a lighthearted thread but there you have it.

Thanks for the reply!
I wonder if the pressure cooker of the school holidays/actual holidays and being stuck with each other just boils over...

Wombbaalaa · 19/08/2024 12:40

Exactly and I think it can be a very difficult time financially.

StoneTheCrone · 19/08/2024 14:17

Sorry but I love it. It's warm and relaxed and there's no frenetic activities to keep up with. I hate February.

strawberryshortcakescat · 19/08/2024 16:08

I totally get this.
I feel down, my kids are another school year older, heck one of them has finished altogether this year.

I always feel nostalgic about summer holidays gone by.
And back to work is looming (teacher)
Plus Summer is drawing to a close.

KimberleyClark · 19/08/2024 16:16

When working I always felt depressed after the August bank holiday. Thinking "that's it now until Christmas". .

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:06

GoTigers · 17/08/2024 20:22

August is the sexiest month
Warm skin
French doors open
Light clothing revealing comfortable and hot summer body shapes.
Straps falling off shoulders.
Late night drinks in gardens with failing light.
Jasmin.
The capturing of ‘now’ as the dark of tomorrow approaches.
The most louche of months - 31 days of feeling like you’ve woken after a mid week, off work, afternoon nap. In dappled sun.

Edited

You sound ridiculous and embarrassing

KimKardashiansLostEarring · 19/08/2024 17:08

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:06

You sound ridiculous and embarrassing

‘Jasmin’ 😂
I can see it now, @GoTigers in his mum’s conservatory watching the next door neighbour’s warm skin by the open french doors!

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:10

KimKardashiansLostEarring · 19/08/2024 17:08

‘Jasmin’ 😂
I can see it now, @GoTigers in his mum’s conservatory watching the next door neighbour’s warm skin by the open french doors!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

LadyRoughDiamond · 19/08/2024 17:37

Existingbudhet · 17/08/2024 19:23

There are no wasps, hadn't you noticed? This is not good

You’re right! Fewer bees too.

It’s very dry here dry here (Suffolk) - leaves are falling already.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 19/08/2024 22:19

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/08/2024 07:29

I'd take a bunch of wasps over LARPers any day.

I'm waiting for the first bite in the air - I love Autumn.

Me too. Bloody love autumn and you have a point; fewer LARPers at large.

SunsetandCupcakes · 19/08/2024 22:24

LyndaSnellsSniff · 19/08/2024 22:19

Me too. Bloody love autumn and you have a point; fewer LARPers at large.

Sorry if I'm thick, I don't understand LARPers, and even less so after googling

NeverDropYourMooncup · 19/08/2024 22:45

SunsetandCupcakes · 19/08/2024 22:24

Sorry if I'm thick, I don't understand LARPers, and even less so after googling

That's a perfectly normal response to them, tbh.

Existingbudhet · 19/08/2024 22:50

Kittynoodle · 19/08/2024 17:06

You sound ridiculous and embarrassing

Agree, what a load of utter twaddle

Murphs1 · 19/08/2024 22:51

Oh stop being mean you lot!

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 19/08/2024 23:15

strawberryshortcakescat · 19/08/2024 16:08

I totally get this.
I feel down, my kids are another school year older, heck one of them has finished altogether this year.

I always feel nostalgic about summer holidays gone by.
And back to work is looming (teacher)
Plus Summer is drawing to a close.

I always feel like this.

Im one of the underground movement who really enjoys having the kids at home over summer.

End of summer always feels like that song in Mamma Mia where she sings about time "slipping through my fingers all the time ". 😥

GingerPirate · 19/08/2024 23:22

Wow.
Love Autumn and Winter, get depressed with
Spring (since childhood).
March is really a month where I have to keep it together. ☹️🤔

HighlandCow78 · 19/08/2024 23:34

I’ve been thinking of this thread all day OP! Autumn seems to have arrived here in NI - rainy, stormy weather, dusk at 8pm and leaves already falling off the trees.

So depressing considering we haven’t even had a summer this year 😞

Tumbleweed101 · 20/08/2024 06:57

I’d usually agree but this has been a lovely warm, sunny August (although grey today atm). I think
because the nice weather started late it feels different this year.

I’m off work this week and away on holiday next week (uk one). The nights drawing in are becoming very noticeable though.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 20/08/2024 19:52

SunsetandCupcakes · 19/08/2024 22:24

Sorry if I'm thick, I don't understand LARPers, and even less so after googling

Live Action Role Playing

Essentially, they are re-enactors but I was reading about one of the groups at a local joust we visited recently, and they call themselves a Medieval Fighting Team.

xxSideshowAuntSallyxx · 21/08/2024 10:06

Tumbleweed101 · 20/08/2024 06:57

I’d usually agree but this has been a lovely warm, sunny August (although grey today atm). I think
because the nice weather started late it feels different this year.

I’m off work this week and away on holiday next week (uk one). The nights drawing in are becoming very noticeable though.

Yes the sun is setting at just after 8pm now, I turned the lights on at quarter to nine last night and it was already dark. There's no gentle sunsetting it just gets dark really quickly, all of a sudden I'm sat in the dark.

And it's dark at 5am when I get up to let the cat out.

It's starting to feel like early autumn which I suppose it will be in a week.

Girasoli · 21/08/2024 10:37

I like August...I always try to coincide my visits to Italy in the summer to include 15th August which is the biggest bank holiday in Italy (I'm there right now)

August in the UK isn't as fun because it's usually started raining a lot by then...June and July are the best summer months in the UK imo. Its a shame the schools break up so late.