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Why do people think it’s cool?

599 replies

Emz1212 · 14/08/2024 20:15

To pretend they don’t know who trashy celebs are?

I think the whole MM news has highlighted it. But I notice it all the time on social media media when there is something about say the Kardashians and you get a comment saying “who?”

Now to be clear I don’t follow this type of celebrity and I have never watched a single episode of the Kardashians in my life - but I find it impossible that anybody under 60 doesn’t know who they are.

why do people do this?

OP posts:
Teanbiscuits33 · 14/08/2024 21:52

I have literally never seen or heard anyone say ‘’who?’’ when hearing about the likes of Donald Trump, and as far as David Beckham goes, he was everywhere in the 90s and early 00’s on account of the fact he was more than just a footballer, he was married to one of the most well known pop stars of the time, and was the front man of Calvin Klein. Had he been just a footballer I doubt he would have been such a big name.

As for Taylor Swift, I can definitely see why some people might not know who she is if you’re not her target audience or into her sort of music.

You’re comparing apples and pears trying to make your point. I think if anyone says ‘’who?’’ when referring to a well known, global personality, they are probably using it sarcastically to be dismissive, as if to indicate that they find that person’s opinions irrelevant. I don’t think it’s that they genuinely don’t know who the person is.

ThatFlightyTemptress · 14/08/2024 21:52

RubberyChicken · 14/08/2024 20:16

Who or what is MM?

Edited

lol at this comment which kind of proves OPs point

Rummly · 14/08/2024 21:52

Ohjustpeasoff · 14/08/2024 21:49

Marshall Mathers aka Eminem. Defo.

Edited

Oh for Pete’s sake. Do you live in a cave?

MM is Mad-Eye Moody. Everyone knows that.

OlympicBlue · 14/08/2024 21:56

i don’t think it’s cool. I know there is a kardashian family and Kim, but that’s it. I saw a post about Molly-Mae and genuinely don’t know who that is. I don’t watch love island and have no idea who is in it each year. My friendship group is similar.

Waitformetoarrive · 14/08/2024 21:57

Emz1212 · 14/08/2024 21:37

It’s amazing how many people are missing the point. No I don’t know who he is - and nor would I expect you to know people I like who aren’t globally famous.

But if you are a fully grown adult I simply won’t believe you don’t know who Taylor Swift, Mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Simon Cowell, Kamala Harris et al - no matter how little interest you have in them or what they do.

I don’t know who Kamala Harris is so that makes me a liar and uncool. Crushed, I will go hang my head in shame.

LiterallyOnFire · 14/08/2024 21:58

I’ve said multiple times I don’t include her in that list.

So why is your OP about your accusation that people who say they don't know her are lying ("to be cool").

Conniebygaslight · 14/08/2024 21:58

Emz1212 · 14/08/2024 21:23

it isn’t hard to belive. I’m not sure how many times I need to say the same thing.

Just because you don’t care about football I still would expect you to know David Beckham. Just because you don’t care about politics I would still expect you to know Donald Trump.

I’ve heard of the Kardashian’s but wouldn’t know anything about them or who is who. I’ve only vaguely heard of Molly Mae because our kids have mentioned her but no clue about her. It’s possible for famous names to pass you by if you’re not interested.
I don’t think you can compare reality stars/influencers to people who have achieved massive things in sport/music etc.
Does that make me cool or uncool….🤣🤣

SloaneStreetVandal · 14/08/2024 21:59

MM are my initials 😂

I don't do any social media, I only post on here. I try to avoid the news sites too, so I'm a genuine 'who'? person.

RowenaVerbena · 14/08/2024 21:59

DinaofCloud9 · 14/08/2024 21:37

I've heard of MollieMae but couldn't tell you anything about her and I don't know what she looks like.

I've just learnt that her now ex is not Tyson Fury.

She's nowhere in the same league as David Beckham, Taylor Swift or Donald Trump so I don't know why you keep linking them.

I don't know what she looks like either but I bet I can guess:
Long, blonde, carefully tousled hair. Slim but curvy. Tanned. Pouty lips. Slightly vacuous expression. Eyebrows darker than her hair.
Am I close?

Shawdee · 14/08/2024 22:02

Who is Kamala Harris?

Rummly · 14/08/2024 22:02

RowenaVerbena · 14/08/2024 21:59

I don't know what she looks like either but I bet I can guess:
Long, blonde, carefully tousled hair. Slim but curvy. Tanned. Pouty lips. Slightly vacuous expression. Eyebrows darker than her hair.
Am I close?

Good Lord. Are you psychic?

Misthios · 14/08/2024 22:02

I know who the Kardashians are in a general sense, as in rich US family and all the girls have names starting with K. Couldn't tell you which was which though.

Never watched a series of Love Island, or the Essex thing, Geordie Shore, real housewives or any of that sort of reality so wouln't know any people from that. It's not about thinking it's "cool" not to know, it's that I literally have zero interest.

BiscuityBoyle · 14/08/2024 22:02

I’d never heard of these two before today when I had heard they had split up. I don’t think I’m cool or better than anyone else for not knowing.

Gingernaut · 14/08/2024 22:05

I don't watch television
I work full time away from social media
I don't follow the Gossip columns
I don't read the Fail's Sidebar of Shame

I have no idea who these nonentities are

I'm 56 year old menopausal woman

I am so far from 'cool', I'm in another solar system

howaboutchocolate · 14/08/2024 22:05

This thread is so meta.

WiddlinDiddlin · 14/08/2024 22:05

I've heard of the Kardashians, so I am aware theres more than one of them and assume them to be a family and I know one is Kim Kardashian.

I could not pick any of them out of a line up. (Just asked DP if he knows who they are and he suggested theres Kim, Khloe, Kolostomy and Klunge, but i suspect he's lying. If not he knows more than I!)

I have no idea who Molly-Mae is, or who she was with or has split up from.

Mostly, this is because I genuinely do not want to know.

I am pretty sure I am not stupid, these people do not interest me, if what they did was of interest to me, I'd know who they were... therefore... it is not and I do not.

I know who Irving Finkel is... only one of the greatest living wizards of our time, the like of which we will not see again.

If you don't know who he is you are either pretending or stupid...

No? Unfair comment?

LaurieFairyCake · 14/08/2024 22:06

I STILL don't know what Taylor swift looks like though I know that she's been doing concerts

Funnily enough I'm not her target audience Confused

I do obviously know what Kamala Harris looks like as she's the next president of the United States 🇺🇸

HideousKinky · 14/08/2024 22:06

I would have assumed MM referred to Megan Markle - it usually does

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 14/08/2024 22:06

Shawdee · 14/08/2024 22:02

Who is Kamala Harris?

I find this far more weird which goes to show that we follow our own interests and it's perfectly plausible that people haven't heard of trashy celebs.

Kamala Harris is the Vice President of the US and is now the democratic nominee for president as Boden has stepped down. Her running mate is a lesser known man called Tim Walz.

tribalmango · 14/08/2024 22:06

Can't quote property on phone.

Anyway - I do not equate not knowing who a recent US president is with not knowing an influencer!

CurlsnSunshinetime4tea · 14/08/2024 22:07

long ago i got the distinct impression that "celebrities" are relatively well known for doing nothing fancy in particular.
and so to NOT support that type of wasted existence i purposefully do NOT stay on top of any such self centered behavior.
so no, i have zero knowledge of current celebrities.
mm= mickey or minnie mouse??

JudgeJ · 14/08/2024 22:08

To pretend they don’t know who trashy celebs are?

Nothing to do with 'being cool', a phrase that MN has adopted in a negative way. In relation to the people about who a lot seem to be very invested, I've never heard of them and have no idea what they do to be deemed 'celebrities', sorry love. I have never watched any 'reality' programme but apparently they're something to do with that genre.
As far as the Karkrashians, yes, I've heard the name but I have no idea what they do for their 'fame' and couldn't pick one out in a line-up.

Shawdee · 14/08/2024 22:08

Noonelikesasloppytrifle · 14/08/2024 22:06

I find this far more weird which goes to show that we follow our own interests and it's perfectly plausible that people haven't heard of trashy celebs.

Kamala Harris is the Vice President of the US and is now the democratic nominee for president as Boden has stepped down. Her running mate is a lesser known man called Tim Walz.

Yeah I googled straight after and was highly embarrassed at myself. However, it's not something I take an interest in therefore there's no reason I'd know.

Dymaxion · 14/08/2024 22:09

I don't think I am cool not knowing who they are, l just don't watch much telly for a variety of reasons, so genuinely don't know who they are. I have heard of the Kardashian's but would struggle to recognise or name them, but know some very clever professional people who could !

SweetcornFritter · 14/08/2024 22:10

Emz1212 · 14/08/2024 20:15

To pretend they don’t know who trashy celebs are?

I think the whole MM news has highlighted it. But I notice it all the time on social media media when there is something about say the Kardashians and you get a comment saying “who?”

Now to be clear I don’t follow this type of celebrity and I have never watched a single episode of the Kardashians in my life - but I find it impossible that anybody under 60 doesn’t know who they are.

why do people do this?

I am 61 and had never heard of this (now ex) couple until tonight. I don’t think I’m cool or otherwise and literally couldn’t care less.