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TW - Upsetting information: XL Bully attack *edited by MNHQ

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Citylightsarebright · 10/08/2024 23:43

Another xl bully attack, this time it was in my home town last week.
An xl bully ran out of the house down the road and attacked the nearest dog it saw a little dauchshund ripping both its legs off, it took 4 men and two women to get the xl bully off the other dog. The other little dog is alive thanks to the bravery of other people there at the time , however it had to have both legs ( what was left of them ) amputated.
Its extremely sad. The owner of the dauchshund is an elderly lady who was out walking the little dog ans she is utterly traumatised as expected.
The dog has been seized and owners will be prosecuted we have been told.
The reason I'm posting this is because I feel prosecution and dog being seized hasnt really solved anything has it? What is being done to prevent what happened in the first place? Nothing?? These dogs are still attacking / killing animals and children/ adults
Am I being unreasonable in thinking enough isnt being done to get rid of these hurrendous dogs?????

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Lorapots · 11/08/2024 14:16

I think some people probably grew up surrounded by many others who feel those dogs are safe and so they grew up believing that too. It was normalised to have whatever was the strongest most intimidating breed.

But I do feel there’s a lot of them that know fine well the dog is very dangerous, but the issue is they are smug in the belief that others are at risk - which they don’t care about as much - and they believe it won’t turn on them.

I do still feel very sad for owners when dogs kill them, it’s a horrid way to die, aside from the pain it must be soul destroying to see your pet turn like this, as you lie there dying.

Of course rather them than an innocent man woman or child going about their business. People like this not only signed themselves up to the risk, but also signed up their neighbours/the public to the risk of their dogs.

It’s unpleasant to think of when I read these cases I can’t help thinking if the dog hadn’t turned on its owner, it could later have killed someone else :/

Watermel · 11/08/2024 14:16

BlackShuck3 · 11/08/2024 14:04

Regarding Nicole Morey, I understand why people don't have sympathy for her but I still think it's awful and horrifying that anyone should be torn apart by a dog like that.
I can only assume that she lacked the intelligence/judgement required to evaluate the danger posed by the animal.
As has been pointed out on this thread the owners of these dogs appear to be mostly barely literate, they lack the intelligence required to understand the dangers pose by these animals.
All Pitbull type dogs and other dogs with the capacity to maul and kill humans should be banned. They are not suited to being kept as domestic pets.

It was an awful way to die, no doubt. She was a full on pit apologist though, and risked the rest of us through her choices. I am glad it was her and not some innocent passer-by.
Of course she lacked intelligence, and I agree with you that that is why we need a total ban on these breeds, and not trust our fellow humans to make good choices.

johnson39 · 11/08/2024 14:21

I saw one last week sitting at the front door of someone's house, if it wanted to it could have got out , it's because they are so powerful and mostly belong to a certain type of person that these attacks happen.
Some people should not be allowed to have dogs full stop, whatever it does is the owner's responsibility and tbey should have their dog pts , fined and banned from keeping dogs, do they realise how traumatic an attack on your dog/ child etc is.
Something needs to change now to stop this it's far too common these days , I e also seen them unmuzzled as some owners just don't care about time or anything else , so sad for that poor dog and the owner.

caramac04 · 11/08/2024 14:44

Not rtft but if ever a dog attacks your dog or a person try and grab its collar and twist it as hard as you can. The dog will let go in order to breathe. If no collar try and use your lead or a belt to choke it.
I really hope you are never in this situation but we know it does happen.

BlackShuck3 · 11/08/2024 14:46

Watermel · 11/08/2024 14:16

It was an awful way to die, no doubt. She was a full on pit apologist though, and risked the rest of us through her choices. I am glad it was her and not some innocent passer-by.
Of course she lacked intelligence, and I agree with you that that is why we need a total ban on these breeds, and not trust our fellow humans to make good choices.

You're right I hadn't thought it through properly, even so a civilized society shouldn't allow people to keep dangerous animals as pets.
We can't rely on people having good judgment or being good owners because so many people have their rose tinted spectacles glued to their faces when it comes to dogs.
And no matter how good of an owner you are you will not be able to restrain your dog if it tries to attack, it's too powerful even for a fully grown adult man to restrain. Ergo it can never be a pet. A pet, by definition, is submissive and under the control of its owner.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 11/08/2024 14:54

Ilovemyfreedom · 11/08/2024 00:25

Has anyone heard the saying ' there are no bad dogs, just bad owners'?
Any dog can be dangerous if they are mishandled. It's just that some of the bigger ones are very strong and can cause a lot of damage. Plus I find it's usually the smaller dogs who have very bad attitudes.

I have heard that saying and where you have a yappy little dog who could be trained not to bite peoples ankles and not to bark all the time which could be put down to bad ownership, this is nothing like it. There is no training any owner could do to prevent these dogs from doing what they have been doing and it's pure arrogance of any owner who has one of these dogs that say "oh my dog is so soft and I'm a brilliant owner" human stupidity at its finest

rainfordays · 11/08/2024 15:20

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And as my post demonstrates, those 99%+ of owners you mention are absolutely correct. Their dogs have not, do not and never will hurt anyone. They aren't pretending anything.

As the stats show, the breed is not inherently aggressive. You're just not paying attention because you are determined that the problem is with the dogs and decline to hear anything else. I'm not surprised, people don't like to admit they are wrong.

I'm not an XL Bully owner, so I have zero skin in this game, and if you read to the end of my post, you'll see you are making the same conclusion I did - some people cannot be trusted to be responsible dog owners of large and powerful dogs, which is why the ban was unfortunate but the correct thing to do. However, there's no need for people to label the breed as inherently aggressive when they clearly aren't.

oakleaffy · 11/08/2024 15:30

BlackShuck3 · 11/08/2024 13:58

Awful just awful. As I understand it the situation is much worse in the USA.
I used to go on the Reddit forum but I can't go there anymore, it's too distressing see attack after attack after attack and then people still want to have these awful creatures as pets.

Oh goodness the Reddit Pitbull/XLB site is so relentlessly depressing.
Horrific injuries.
I went on it after my XLB incident
One blurred pic was called NSFL

I had no idea what that acronym meant and clicked
and almost vomited

A poor man had had his face torn off but was still alive.
He was an innocent passer by attacked by these vile dogs.

The poor man died , unsurprisingly.

There are endless incidents of children maimed by escaped Pits / XLB’s

They aren’t like other dogs

They have even partially consumed their owners.

The owners I feel less sorry for as they had the ignorance to take one or more on with jaw jutting arrogance, and reaped the consequences of their Ill- considered choices.

AllyMcdonald · 11/08/2024 15:36

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oakleaffy · 11/08/2024 15:41

caramac04 · 11/08/2024 14:44

Not rtft but if ever a dog attacks your dog or a person try and grab its collar and twist it as hard as you can. The dog will let go in order to breathe. If no collar try and use your lead or a belt to choke it.
I really hope you are never in this situation but we know it does happen.

Yes, this seems to be the only way according to sites that advise against XLB / Pit attacks

cutting off airway is only way, but far harder to do in reality.
There are videos online about how to do it.

In USA they can at least use firearms in legal
states- But the XLB who killed Mia Derouen (?) took about 11 rounds by police to get it to release Mia’s body

This dog was supposedly a child lover, and was “ Mia’s dog” according to the male owner.

The dog just flipped - The mother said it crashed through the bedroom door to get to the little girl.

Hardened Cops needed counselling afterwards.

rainfordays · 11/08/2024 15:45

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rwalker · 11/08/2024 15:53

EatTheGnome · 10/08/2024 23:53

Ignore the breed a moment.

We're the owners good, responsible people? I'm guessing not. People are a huge part of all problems.

Whilst I agree with that you can’t solve that problem
so it’s better the dogs pay the price for that by being euthanised than the people dogs kill

Timeforaglassofwine · 11/08/2024 15:55

What makes me cross is that I know two women with small children who own XL Bullies. Neither of them knew about Killer Kimbo and the inbreeding that started up the breed, and the sudden rage gene these "big softies" carry. What I don't understand is, unregistered ownership of Pit Bulls had always been illegal in this country before the XL Bully and Pocket Bull Pit Bull crosses were allowed to spread through the country. Breeders made a fortune and are very much a type (white Range Rovers, designer tracksuits and chunky gold chains), whilst charging anything from £7K+ for their pups, impregnating the bitches artificially with 3 lots of seman to ensure highest yield possible.

gamerchick · 11/08/2024 16:00

What boggles my head is people still maintain that this is an owner thing with the XLs. It isn't, there's a massive problem with one bloodline that makes up the majority of these dogs in the UK and the more they're bred, the more dogs with this one bloodline.

https://bullywatch.link/2023/08/01/finding-kimbo/

They can't stay sane, no matter how they're raised and since these dogs are so powerful. It's not like dealing with a fucking little rat thing people keep in handbags.

Those who can't get it through their heads are part of the problem.

Finding Kimbo

At Bully Watch, we began delving into the pedigrees—essentially, the family trees—of dogs from the most well-known Bully XL kennels across the UK. Our investigation steered us down a trail where on…

https://bullywatch.link/2023/08/01/finding-kimbo

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2024 16:01

SpeechieE · 11/08/2024 03:28

I am terrified of these dogs. They do not stop attacking once they start, and the ferociousness and barbarity of their attack is like nothing I have ever seen before, even with aggressive dogs of any other breed. They are different. I witnessed one tear a neighbour's cat to pieces. He didn't stop for about 10 minutes, despite the owner screaming at it and even kicking it at one point... None one could stop it, no one dared go near it was so aggressive. We and the poor neighbours who witnessed it were absolutely traumatised. My husband, bless him, cleaned up the aftermath as the owner ran off as soon as the attack stopped (not before swearing at us all and telling us he will come back and smash our windows in if we called the police... Counterintuitive!) and our poor elderly neighbour whose cat it was was totally distraught.... There were bits of the poor old cat strewn across the street. My husband was sick cleaning it up. Honestly it was the most horrific thing I've ever seen. I cried for days afterwards and I am traumatised in truth. They are not pets, they are killing machines.

Oh my God

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2024 16:02

Heretotalk1207538 · 11/08/2024 03:29

What i mean is how does it get to the stage that the dogs are causing this no matter what breed? how does it get allowed to happen? i have seen these dogs be as tame as anything so im not going to tarnish them
all however their genetic make up when bred wrong and not trained properly makes them
dangerous theres no doubt about that but where does it all start? Its not with the dogs…its with the breeders

No amount of training can totally get rid of the genetic impulses to attack and attack to the death.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2024 16:11

Bullbreedbliss · 11/08/2024 05:35

Dog on dog attacks are very common but you won’t hear much on them as it’s not usually considered a police matter.

Banning breeds doesn’t work. We’ve had the DDA for over thirty years and dog bites have only gone up.

The way people talk about these dogs, the sheer amount of hate people display towards them is really very sad.

Of course banning works, you can’t count how many dog attacks were prevented by pit bulls as it doesn’t appear in figures.
And the reason dog bites are now up is because the breeders have circumnavigated the rules by breeding XL bullies which have pit in them.

Kumquat24 · 11/08/2024 16:12

rainfordays · 11/08/2024 15:20

And as my post demonstrates, those 99%+ of owners you mention are absolutely correct. Their dogs have not, do not and never will hurt anyone. They aren't pretending anything.

As the stats show, the breed is not inherently aggressive. You're just not paying attention because you are determined that the problem is with the dogs and decline to hear anything else. I'm not surprised, people don't like to admit they are wrong.

I'm not an XL Bully owner, so I have zero skin in this game, and if you read to the end of my post, you'll see you are making the same conclusion I did - some people cannot be trusted to be responsible dog owners of large and powerful dogs, which is why the ban was unfortunate but the correct thing to do. However, there's no need for people to label the breed as inherently aggressive when they clearly aren't.

I’m more inclined to listen to the opinion of David Sargan, the chief geneticist at Cambridge Veterinary School.

I’m paraphrasing, but he says it’s strange that people believe that genetics around physical attributes can be bred into dogs, but with this breed some people don’t apply the same genetic principle that behavioural genetics can also be passed on.

KrisAkabusi · 11/08/2024 16:17

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Okay, here's a statistic:
"Between 2021 and 2023, around half of fatal dog attacks were caused by a single breed, the American Bully XL"

Given that Bully's don't make up anything even close to half the population of even large dogs, how do you explain this, other than that they are more aggressive than other breeds?

rainfordays · 11/08/2024 16:29

KrisAkabusi · 11/08/2024 16:17

Okay, here's a statistic:
"Between 2021 and 2023, around half of fatal dog attacks were caused by a single breed, the American Bully XL"

Given that Bully's don't make up anything even close to half the population of even large dogs, how do you explain this, other than that they are more aggressive than other breeds?

That's not what the statistic says, it is referencing fatal attacks. It's not taking into account non-fatal attacks, of which there are many more and most likely spread across a huge range of breeds. You can't conclude XL Bullies are more aggressive than other breeds because that's not the data here. You CAN conclude that XL Bully attacks are more likely to be fatal compared to attacks by other dog breeds, which is not something I disupte.

Again, I am in no way arguing that the ban is not sensible and the dogs cannot be dangerous - some clearly can (also true for most other breeds). I am stating that more than 99% of the dogs themselves are not inherently dangerous or aggressive and it's unfortunate to see people buying into an alternative narrative.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2024 16:31

KimKardashiansLostEarring · 11/08/2024 07:57

What?? 😂😂 ‘It’s the responsible owners making the decision’….. to euthanise their aggressive dogs after they’ve attacked or killed? That’s how your post reads but surely that’s not what you’re saying. It’s irresponsible to own these dogs, not just to not decide to euthanise them. Deciding to euthanise them is too little too late.

I believe she means the more responsible of the irresponsible.The even more irresponsible will not have their dog pts even after it has attacked.

WagnersFourthSymphony · 11/08/2024 16:53

@rainfordays

A PP has already linked to Bullywatch and I urge you to read what it says there about the inbreeding of the UK XLB population, so many descending and interbreeding from a particularly ferocious individula called Killer Kimbo.

Here's an LBC article about the same issue.
https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/killer-kimbo-xl-bully-half-of-uk-pets-descended-one-us-dog/

No way are 99% of these dogs temperamentally safe.

Edited

How half of all XL bully dogs in Britain are descended from ‘notorious’ LA fighting dog ‘Killer Kimbo’

Half of XL bully dogs in Britain are descendants of an inbred pet from the US linked to multiple deaths and violent incidents, it has emerged.

https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/killer-kimbo-xl-bully-half-of-uk-pets-descended-one-us-dog

caramac04 · 11/08/2024 16:54

@oakleaffy i hadn’t heard about poor Mia, what a horrific way to die and to see your child suffer.
It’s not clear why the dog turned but it need only be an excited squeal from a child for prey drive to kick in.
whilst I’ve met some lovely, calm bullies, I would never ever own one and I have a staffie and a German shepherd

HappiestSleeping · 11/08/2024 17:22

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 11/08/2024 16:11

Of course banning works, you can’t count how many dog attacks were prevented by pit bulls as it doesn’t appear in figures.
And the reason dog bites are now up is because the breeders have circumnavigated the rules by breeding XL bullies which have pit in them.

It is an interesting discussion. There are now more pitbulls in the UK than there were before they were banned. Since part of the ban included them all being neutered, and no breeding being allowed, it is hard to fathom how this is possible as none of those alive at the time the ban was introduced will have lived this long.

Reported incidents of pitbull attacks have indeed reduced though, so it is a conundrum.

BlackShuck3 · 11/08/2024 17:28

caramac04 · 11/08/2024 14:44

Not rtft but if ever a dog attacks your dog or a person try and grab its collar and twist it as hard as you can. The dog will let go in order to breathe. If no collar try and use your lead or a belt to choke it.
I really hope you are never in this situation but we know it does happen.

If you choke the dog it will let go because the lack of blood flow to it's brain causes it to lose consciousness.
Dont stop choking it when it loses consciousness, if you do it will spring back to life & carry on attacking.
You'll probably have to get behind the dog and pull up hard using it's weight to crush/block it's windpipe, risky and you'll need to be pretty strong, but better than being mauled to death🙁

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