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To ask if you think the Olympic boxers are male?

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ArabellaScott · 06/08/2024 15:22

The finals for both boxers are tonight and tomorrow.

I'm curious to hear whether people think they are females with a DSD, or males with a DSD.

YABU - they're female
YANBU - they're male

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IncompleteSenten · 06/08/2024 19:11

Yes, I believe they are genetically male.

Helleofabore · 06/08/2024 19:12

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 18:58

Try telling a woman with complete AIS and female genital presentation, who is karyotype XY that she is a male, and see how you get on.

Odds are that you’ve actually MET such a woman at some point in your life, without ever knowing. Such a woman has never had a body able to react to androgens, and so to all intents and purposes in both appearance and largely in body, she is a woman - just one with XY chromosomes.

Do you think that people will deny their genotype when it comes to these discussions?

Because let‘s be very clear here. If a person who is male who does not process testosterone at all, for any reason, is not currently excluded (and may never be) from
competing in female sports.

You are censuring people using clear language for your very own purposes here. If a male person with CAIS or another DSD that does not process testosterone (or produce it) wishes to deny the nature of their medical condition, that has nothing to do with discussing the regulations protecting female sport (where they are included at the moment).

People are calling these athletes male athletes because they are. Clear language is needed to avoid this mass of confusion. You are the one leveraging phenotypes here to censure others. By saying ‘some XY chromosome people are not ‘male’ you are discussing what might be relevant phenotypically at the overall genotype level.

Your personal choice. But people are not inaccurate or incorrect yet you are trying to tell us we are.

DaisyFloop · 06/08/2024 19:13

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:11

Look, I expect you are part of the “everyone is entitled to an opinion” camp, but I suggest that you actually do some reading and research and broaden your mind in order to form those opinions, and before you state those opinions.

Though broadly and largely true, it is absolutely not a fact.

It is a fact or are you one of those crazy people who think you can just decide to identify as whatever you want and everyone else has to accept it?

TheKeatingFive · 06/08/2024 19:13

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:11

Look, I expect you are part of the “everyone is entitled to an opinion” camp, but I suggest that you actually do some reading and research and broaden your mind in order to form those opinions, and before you state those opinions.

Though broadly and largely true, it is absolutely not a fact.

It's pretty irrelevant to this discussion though as neither of these individuals fit the profile of an XY female

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:14

Helleofabore · 06/08/2024 19:12

Do you think that people will deny their genotype when it comes to these discussions?

Because let‘s be very clear here. If a person who is male who does not process testosterone at all, for any reason, is not currently excluded (and may never be) from
competing in female sports.

You are censuring people using clear language for your very own purposes here. If a male person with CAIS or another DSD that does not process testosterone (or produce it) wishes to deny the nature of their medical condition, that has nothing to do with discussing the regulations protecting female sport (where they are included at the moment).

People are calling these athletes male athletes because they are. Clear language is needed to avoid this mass of confusion. You are the one leveraging phenotypes here to censure others. By saying ‘some XY chromosome people are not ‘male’ you are discussing what might be relevant phenotypically at the overall genotype level.

Your personal choice. But people are not inaccurate or incorrect yet you are trying to tell us we are.

That was a pseudo scientific word salad, but what I’m trying to do is refute the very reductive and over-simplistic view that XY is the be all and end all. It’s not. It’s complicated.

HowardTJMoon · 06/08/2024 19:16

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I remember back when Obama was in power there were people on the Internet who were obsessed with posting pics of Michelle's crotch that they thought showed that she was a man.

Same energy. Just as creepy.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 06/08/2024 19:18

HowardTJMoon · 06/08/2024 19:16

I remember back when Obama was in power there were people on the Internet who were obsessed with posting pics of Michelle's crotch that they thought showed that she was a man.

Same energy. Just as creepy.

Michelle wasn’t punching women in the head, with testosterone boosted strength.

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Helleofabore · 06/08/2024 19:18

ailicis · 06/08/2024 19:05

So you're claiming she knew she was male but passed herself off as female, in Algeria no less, to participate in boxing?

This thread is full of supposition and conjecture.

This person certainly knew from May 2023.

It is actually, to be blunt, irrelevant when this male athlete knew they were male. They knew from last year.

They have made this choice to compete with full knowledge. This male athlete bears the ultimate responsibility here.

Have you any thought to the Algerian female boxers that this male boxer has caused harm to? Maybe physical but certainly through loss of opportunity.

And why are you only focusing on the Algerian boxer? Is it because it is a more emotional discussion for you ? What about the Taiwanese boxer?

Helleofabore · 06/08/2024 19:19

HowardTJMoon · 06/08/2024 19:16

I remember back when Obama was in power there were people on the Internet who were obsessed with posting pics of Michelle's crotch that they thought showed that she was a man.

Same energy. Just as creepy.

What a bizarre comparison.

It is totally not comparable and irrelevant.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 06/08/2024 19:20

Indeed, @HowardTJMoon , Michelle bad every right to be where she was. These two boxers do not.

They are not allowed to box women- punch women- anywhere except at the Olympics.

Fascinating.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 06/08/2024 19:20

And they wouldn’t be allowed in other Olympic categories. Equally interesting.

Asherrain · 06/08/2024 19:20

DaisyFloop · 06/08/2024 19:11

Why are you determined he is female when all the evidence says otherwise? Looks like a man, sounds like a man, chromosomes of a man, rearranges and guards a male penis or ginormous clit if you're being ridiculous.

Lea Thomas was crap at swimming until he decided to be a woman. Whose to say the boxer couldn't get into the sport as a man so decided to be a woman since that seems to work for other chap athletes? Whether it's ignorance or done on purpose a male shouldn't be boxing a female and it should be that simple.

Have you seen the pictures of her as a girl growing up? And you do realise most of the photos showing a huge bulge are fake? If you watch the matches, you never actually see a bulge even if you look really closely!
I honestly think if people watched boxing regularly they would realise how many of the female competitors look quite a bit like men!

Helleofabore · 06/08/2024 19:21

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:14

That was a pseudo scientific word salad, but what I’m trying to do is refute the very reductive and over-simplistic view that XY is the be all and end all. It’s not. It’s complicated.

It is actually not complicated at all. You want it to be.

Which part of my post did you not understand? I am happy to got through it.

HowardTJMoon · 06/08/2024 19:21

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 06/08/2024 19:18

Michelle wasn’t punching women in the head, with testosterone boosted strength.

So it's ok to post crotch pics if the person who's crotch you're posting is doing something you think is underhand?

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:22

DaisyFloop · 06/08/2024 19:13

It is a fact or are you one of those crazy people who think you can just decide to identify as whatever you want and everyone else has to accept it?

What are you on about? Read about then 37 or more conditions under the “intersex” umbrella. And about the history and current paradigm of so called treatment for people (children, babies) diagnosed as intersex at birth.

the assignment and identity forming is done by the doctors, not the individuals.

DaisyFloop · 06/08/2024 19:23

Asherrain · 06/08/2024 19:20

Have you seen the pictures of her as a girl growing up? And you do realise most of the photos showing a huge bulge are fake? If you watch the matches, you never actually see a bulge even if you look really closely!
I honestly think if people watched boxing regularly they would realise how many of the female competitors look quite a bit like men!

Children before puberty all look very similar, a boy with long hair wearing a dress or a girl with short hair in shorts and t shirt, you obviously don't question it. The facts, regardless of appearance, is he has xy chromosomes. He wasn't allowed to compete before due to his gender but is allowed to compete in the olympics despite being biologically a man.

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:24

Helleofabore · 06/08/2024 19:21

It is actually not complicated at all. You want it to be.

Which part of my post did you not understand? I am happy to got through it.

I don’t want it to be. Nature just is. It’s amazing and curious and complex. Can’t be reduced to such inanities on a Mumsnet chatboard. 🤷‍♀️

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 06/08/2024 19:25

Asherrain · 06/08/2024 19:20

Have you seen the pictures of her as a girl growing up? And you do realise most of the photos showing a huge bulge are fake? If you watch the matches, you never actually see a bulge even if you look really closely!
I honestly think if people watched boxing regularly they would realise how many of the female competitors look quite a bit like men!

What Imane wore as a child is irrelevant.

I agree the photos aren’t reliable. I have no way of knowing what’s real in a photo. The classic boy adjustment move can’t be faked though.

Are you genuinely unable to tell the difference between a gender non conforming woman and a man? Clue- it’s not about short hair and clothes. Look up q angles. Look up pictures of runners. Look- with your eyes. Strip away your innate desire to be kind- better yet, focus it on the opponents being punched- and check whether you really can’t tell the difference between these boxers and gender nonconforming women.

DaisyFloop · 06/08/2024 19:26

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:22

What are you on about? Read about then 37 or more conditions under the “intersex” umbrella. And about the history and current paradigm of so called treatment for people (children, babies) diagnosed as intersex at birth.

the assignment and identity forming is done by the doctors, not the individuals.

It's easy to see a baby has a vulva and says congratulations it's a girl. However when tested and it shows xy chromosomes that means the baby is biologically male. Maybe intersex people and trans people should just no compete unless they're willing to compete against those of the same biological sex.

HowardTJMoon · 06/08/2024 19:28

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@GargoylesofBeelzebub Personally I'd be embarrassed to act like a r/thedonald shitposter but there you go.

It's not about "supressing evidence" or whatever self-serving justification you want to give. It's about realising that repeatedly posting pics of people's groins is fucking creepy whether you think the person in question is a man or a woman. Grow up.

BigPussyEnergy · 06/08/2024 19:28

InfoSecInTheCity · 06/08/2024 18:29

I think Knelif has been handed a really shitty deck.

It must have been traumatising to find out at 11/12 years old that a significant part of how you identify yourself and what your future will bring, was wrong.

Khelif was socialised as a girl, and will according to culture and social norms have probably been foreseeing having a baby at some point, getting married, etc

Finding out about having a DSD would have been very very difficult.

Khelif does know about this diagnosis though, it would have been evident by age 15 at the latest when normal puberty did not start, when none of the usual changes happened, this is a professional athlete who will have undergone a huge number of medical assessments, physio, blood tests for all manner of reasons over the years, who will have been examined by different medical professionals who will have identified discrepancies. Every time they enter the ring and punch a woman in the face, with the full knowledge that they have an unfair advantage they put a woman at risk of serious injury and they take away an opportunity.

I know it's not fair at a human level that their own dreams were dashed by this diagnosis, but that does not give them the right to repeatedly take those dreams from the women unlucky enough to be put against them in a match.

I’d imagine that having a man’s life open up in place of marriage and babies at that point was more likely a relief. I can’t imagine most preteens would be thinking seriously about their adult life and what lies ahead. Given that trans people say they’ve always known that they were in the wrong body, these athletes may also have had a feeling that they weren’t actually girls all along?

JJathome · 06/08/2024 19:30

ailicis · 06/08/2024 18:32

Surely the discussion should be centred around their participation in female sports and not conjecture of gender tests we've not been privy to? I just don't understand this obsession with calling these individuals out as male. In Khelif's case in particular, if you consider her conservative upbringing, her family back in this tiny Algerian village coming out to defend her and insisting she is a woman, it's cruel.

Based on the evidence we can see she is female, who probably has a DSD. until we see evidence of the contrary, it would be kinder to keep discussions around permitting such individuals in participating in female sports/sports in general, or around participation and exclusion criteria, or around assessing such criteria.

I dislike this type of one sided emotive response. What about the fairness of the women he is hitting. The biological women. Of the Olympic athlete who took 45 seconds in the ring and had to forfeit, shattering her Olympic dream, and who forefeited for her own safety as she said she’d never been hit like that before.

notone person is taking issue with them identifying as a woman. Not one person doesn’t have some grasp of the complexity of this. The discussion is on the fact irrelevant if any gender disorder, of any identification, these are biological men, in the ring , hitting women.

and more than that. Before they entered that ring they knew they were biologically male. They knew the advantage that gave them and they know full well why men and women box their own gender only.

yes of course emotionally this is difficult for them. Yes of course they can identify as women. But they are biological men and as such, they cannot get into the ring with women.

because those women count too.

KeirSpoutsTwaddle · 06/08/2024 19:30

BenchyMcBenchFace · 06/08/2024 19:24

I don’t want it to be. Nature just is. It’s amazing and curious and complex. Can’t be reduced to such inanities on a Mumsnet chatboard. 🤷‍♀️

It really is amazing.
That doesn’t mean that two labs, two tests several doctors and the IBA, WBA and EUBA are all unable to work out the status of these boxers.

Intersex conditions aren’t really relevant, though they could explain how these particular people have female passports.
Many countries allow you to change sex on your passport with minimal effort.

So what’s most likely- two people with fast and massive success in boxing who look very much like men are considered men by all boxing authorities and the labs that tested, the opponents and coaches that asked for the tests, and almost everyone that looks at them- are actually female, or that they happen to have female passports but are actually male?

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