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Feminists against sex segregation in sports

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:22

AIBU to share a different perspective on a subject that seems to be almost entirely taken for granted on mumsnet? This is not something I have a definite opinion on myself (although I am against sex testing and I fully support the rights of trans women and women with differences in sex development to compete alongside other women in sporting competitions at all levels).

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I started looking into opinions on the issue, starting with a search on “feminists against sex segregation in sport”. I came across this really interesting article.

AIBU to share?

journals.library.wustl.edu/lawreview/article/3150/galley/19983/view/

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C0rdeliaChase · 03/08/2024 22:39

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:35

I am a feminist

You're a feminist in the same transwomen are women.

cupcaske123 · 03/08/2024 22:39

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:29

I am a feminist and I know a lot about feminism.

What does feminism mean to you?

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 22:39

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines. Previously banned poster.

Certainly in motor racing men have an advantage. In something like F1 the strength of men's neck muscles makes it easier to withstand G forces at very high speed. There will also be other physiological advantages due to the high speed and pressure on the body.

In Snooker men generally have height advantage - can lean further over the table. They have longer wing spans which is also an advantage. Male strength is an advantage when breaking.

Synchronised is swimming is similar to dance/gymnastics so I imagine that yes men do have a strength and stamina advantage in many respects. At the moment women and men still have separate events probably for the same reasons as gymnastics. From this year team events at the Olympics can be mixed.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:40

Nameychangington · 03/08/2024 22:35

Trans issues have nothing to do with DSDs. Rare medical conditions and personal identities are nothing alike. So forgive me if I have similar respect for your self identified expertise in both as I do for the PhD in developmental biology you claimed to have on a previous thread.

This blog by a person with a DSD may be interesting to some without OPs extensive expertise:
https://differently-normal.com/

That’s fine my dear , you may believe what you like about me.

For your info, while they are very diff things, trans people and people living with DSDs have a lot in common. For a start there is a huge empirical overlap in the two. Secondly they undergo many of the same medical treatments. Thirdly they often have common experiences in relation to gender dysphoria , discrimination and exclusion from society. As per the issue that started these threads, where this poor boxer has been mistaken for a trans woman, when in fact she (most likely) has a dsd (although nothing confirmed).

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NonPlayerCharacter · 03/08/2024 22:41

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:08

I don’t want to get in trouble with mumsnet , so all I will say is this post is barmy and I shan’t be engaging with you .

Given the absolute absurdities and cognitive dissonance you have been posting so intensely for days on end, I'd frankly be worried if you didn't think I was nuts.

Igneococcus · 03/08/2024 22:41

in what circumstances it should happen, and if we should start using more nuanced/ diff criteria

What kind of nuanced criteria?

MyDogsPaws · 03/08/2024 22:41

I compete in a sport in which men are generally inherently stronger than women, I accept this biological difference without finding it anything to get upset about, just marginally annoying when you can imagine the satisfaction you’d get from beating a lot of the men in the same club.

I don’t know any women in my sport who are personally offended by biological facts and of course there are always women who can and do have a competitive edge over men, both by luck of their own biology and because of the huge amount of work they put into training, but overall statistics show that biological sex difference in sports is very real and caused by the factors that make men ‘men’ and woman ‘woman’ no matter how they choose to identify- hormones, bone and muscle structure, body composition, aerobic capacity capacity, and metabolism to name a few!

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 03/08/2024 22:41

IncyWincyEyeroll · 03/08/2024 22:35

yes I am. You don’t get to define feminism or police who is and isn’t a feminist.

FFS, feminism is not just "I believe some nice things that might vaguely sound like equality for women". It's a political and philosophical theory about how women are impacted by patriarchy and what should be done about it. There are numerous disagreements within it, and a massive breadth of feminist thought, but in the same way you aren't a conservative if you believe in violent revolution, or aren't an anarchist if you think having a police force is overall a good thing, you aren't a feminist if you don't see the misogyny and impact of patriarchy in what you've been arguing in this thread or others. You're obviously free to believe it, but we're right to point out it's not something that can be accurately described as feminism, in the same way as Liz Truss can't accurately be described as socialist.

Wasn't going to post again as this thread is pointless but this one should not go unnoticed.

Arse on plate time for the OP, it would seem!

WorriedRelative · 03/08/2024 22:42

Even sports where men and women do compete on equal terms the differences are recognised it is just that it can be swings and roundabouts. Sometimes being small and light is an advantage another day being taller and stronger is an advantage.

There was lots of moaning on social media that Ros Canter had an unfair advantage when she won a very wet 5* last year because her low weight was considered an advantage. There was even a call for a return of lead weights.

However on another day Ros would be at a disadvantage to a stronger taller man.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:42

GailBlancheViola · 03/08/2024 22:34

I am a feminist and I know a lot about feminism.

No you are not and no you do not.

what I’m interested in thinking about is whether sex segregation in sports should happen at all, when /
in what circumstances it should happen, and if we should start using more nuanced/ diff criteria

Yes sport should be sex segregated. Nuanced criteria are already there in certain sports.

You can stop thinking now.

*I am a feminist and I know a lot about feminism.

No you are not and no you do not.*

I mean this is very childish

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titchy · 03/08/2024 22:43

Are you going to answer my questions OP? For reference:

OP if we didn't sex segregate sports, how many women do you think we would be seeing at the Olympics this fortnight?

If we didn't have separate women's football teams, how many actual women footballers do you think we would see?

Thank you

Soontobe60 · 03/08/2024 22:43

Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:37

Like mumsnet? Yeh I’ve been meaning to take a break, it’s toxic recently.

Anyone actually read the article?

Toxic in what way? In the way that your misogynistic views are not applauded?

Soontobe60 · 03/08/2024 22:44

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:42

*I am a feminist and I know a lot about feminism.

No you are not and no you do not.*

I mean this is very childish

Anyone who thinks a man can be a woman just on his say so is no feminist - but nice try.

SidewaysOtter · 03/08/2024 22:44

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:35

I am a feminist

Whitney Houston Whatever GIF

Oh you are funny.

Go on, tell us another.

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 22:44

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:08

I don’t want to get in trouble with mumsnet , so all I will say is this post is barmy and I shan’t be engaging with you .

It's an exact précis of everything you believe in documented across numerous threads. If it looks barmy when presented back to you that's because it is.

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/08/2024 22:44

Soontobe60 · 03/08/2024 22:44

Anyone who thinks a man can be a woman just on his say so is no feminist - but nice try.

When you can define a man as a woman, you can define feminism as male supremacism. War is peace, freedom is slavery.

boobleblingo · 03/08/2024 22:45

Anyone else getting Trump vibes from OP?

"I'm a feminist, I'm the best at feminism"
"I know more about trans issues than anyone else"

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/08/2024 22:47

boobleblingo · 03/08/2024 22:45

Anyone else getting Trump vibes from OP?

"I'm a feminist, I'm the best at feminism"
"I know more about trans issues than anyone else"

I'm starting to wonder if they're actually undercover on a mission to peak as many people as possible and make them GC. I'm deadly serious. It would truly be the most sensible explanation.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:48

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 03/08/2024 22:41

Wasn't going to post again as this thread is pointless but this one should not go unnoticed.

Arse on plate time for the OP, it would seem!

i Can’t find the original post, but I’m certainly not going to allow myself to be schooled on feminism.

I am a feminist. Transphobia is not feminism, transphobia is rooted in misogyny

If you are a so-called “gender critical” feminist, you are part of a movement of people who are destroying feminism because you fail to have a sufficiently sophisticated grasp on definitions of sex and gender and the dynamics of gender based oppression. you do not define feminism, and luckily there are huge numbers of feminists who don’t subscribe to your particular brand of feminism. Thank god

But this is not what this thread is about and I am allowing myself to get derailed.

This thread is about dofferent perspectives on sex segregation I. Sport.

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CocoapuffPuff · 03/08/2024 22:48

Was something added to drinking water over the last few decades? How, how, HOW, has this happened???

Helleofabore · 03/08/2024 22:49

How about car racing? Snooker? Synchronised swimming?”

Car racing ? Car racing is incredibly physical. It requires arm strength, particularly cornering I am told by a race driver, but also neck strength. To maintain the driving position under that amount of force for hours, it needs neck strength. We already know that female bodies have weaker necks than male bodies. The Swansea Uni study on women’s concussion documented this disparity in neck strength. Even in very strong and fit female rugby players.

Snooker? That is all about height, reach and hand span. And grip strength will certainly help. And being able to take longer between breaths to get the minute movements needed to adjust aim. Will a female player beat some male players, sure? But how many will? And those male players have physical advantages. Those physical advantages mean it is less likely for female players to win.

Synchronised swimming? Lung capacity here would be a great advantage. Also larger hands to enable greater water displacement when needed for moves.

WickedSerious · 03/08/2024 22:49

ResisterOfTwaddleRex · 03/08/2024 22:14

So no expertise but confident statements about football. Just like...all the other statements then. Glad we cleared that up. What a pointless thread.

I guess it's kept us off the streets for another hour or so.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:50

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:48

i Can’t find the original post, but I’m certainly not going to allow myself to be schooled on feminism.

I am a feminist. Transphobia is not feminism, transphobia is rooted in misogyny

If you are a so-called “gender critical” feminist, you are part of a movement of people who are destroying feminism because you fail to have a sufficiently sophisticated grasp on definitions of sex and gender and the dynamics of gender based oppression. you do not define feminism, and luckily there are huge numbers of feminists who don’t subscribe to your particular brand of feminism. Thank god

But this is not what this thread is about and I am allowing myself to get derailed.

This thread is about dofferent perspectives on sex segregation I. Sport.

This is for @IncyWincyEyeroll , @TheKeatingFive and others.

But I’m not going to keep posting “your’re not a feminist” because that has about as much point as sticking your tongue out at someone in the playground.

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C0rdeliaChase · 03/08/2024 22:50

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:48

i Can’t find the original post, but I’m certainly not going to allow myself to be schooled on feminism.

I am a feminist. Transphobia is not feminism, transphobia is rooted in misogyny

If you are a so-called “gender critical” feminist, you are part of a movement of people who are destroying feminism because you fail to have a sufficiently sophisticated grasp on definitions of sex and gender and the dynamics of gender based oppression. you do not define feminism, and luckily there are huge numbers of feminists who don’t subscribe to your particular brand of feminism. Thank god

But this is not what this thread is about and I am allowing myself to get derailed.

This thread is about dofferent perspectives on sex segregation I. Sport.

Do you even understand what the term "gender critical" means?

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 22:51

Tandora · 03/08/2024 22:40

That’s fine my dear , you may believe what you like about me.

For your info, while they are very diff things, trans people and people living with DSDs have a lot in common. For a start there is a huge empirical overlap in the two. Secondly they undergo many of the same medical treatments. Thirdly they often have common experiences in relation to gender dysphoria , discrimination and exclusion from society. As per the issue that started these threads, where this poor boxer has been mistaken for a trans woman, when in fact she (most likely) has a dsd (although nothing confirmed).

I recall very few people in the first threads thinking the boxer was trans. It was well understood that this was an issue of DSDs. It was you and some fellow activists that came along and muddied that up. Deliberately so in my opinion.

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