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Feminists against sex segregation in sports

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:22

AIBU to share a different perspective on a subject that seems to be almost entirely taken for granted on mumsnet? This is not something I have a definite opinion on myself (although I am against sex testing and I fully support the rights of trans women and women with differences in sex development to compete alongside other women in sporting competitions at all levels).

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I started looking into opinions on the issue, starting with a search on “feminists against sex segregation in sport”. I came across this really interesting article.

AIBU to share?

journals.library.wustl.edu/lawreview/article/3150/galley/19983/view/

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Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 10:38

IcedPurple · 04/08/2024 10:30

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I'm going to repeat something I wrote - and you ignored - on a similar thread yesterday.

John McEnroe said a few years ago that, if placed alongside men, Serena William would probably rank about 700 in the world. He caused some minor outrage, but he was not wrong. I believe Williams herself said as much.

A Swedish schoolboy's football team beat their country's national women's team.

Anyone who has been through male puberty has massive advantages over a female. To the point that a good male amateur could beat a world class female athlete. There is no point pretending otherwise. To do away with sex segregation means the end of female sport.

Former Olympic swimmer Sharron Davies is very good on this. Her Twitter account is worth following if you're interested.

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Sadly, any suggestions for reading or expert input must fit the narrow anti-fash parameters open to mischaractisation. . Anyone who has supported women’s sports being maintained as a protected category is highly likely to fail!

midgetastic · 04/08/2024 10:38

I am never mistreated for my femininity but for my femaleness
Often mistreatment comes from my lack of femininity and my refusal to conform

I am not alike to transwomen because we are all feminine - because I don't see myself as feminine

By assuming women are feminine as a default you are being rude and sexist

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:39

midgetastic · 04/08/2024 10:38

I am never mistreated for my femininity but for my femaleness
Often mistreatment comes from my lack of femininity and my refusal to conform

I am not alike to transwomen because we are all feminine - because I don't see myself as feminine

By assuming women are feminine as a default you are being rude and sexist

Not at all, logic of misogyny and how it targets GNC (non feminine women) above.

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RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:40

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:37

agree

So why are you blathering on about GNC women and lesbians at all then?

It's about sex not gender!

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:41

RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:40

So why are you blathering on about GNC women and lesbians at all then?

It's about sex not gender!

I got called misogynistic for referring to someone’s posts as “rambling” earlier. (Don’t see how this is misogynistic but does the same go for “blathering”?

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Angrymum22 · 04/08/2024 10:42

ErrolTheDragon · 04/08/2024 10:25

Unfortunately as soon as you walk into the examination room you are easily identifiable as transgender. In 40 yrs as an HCP I have never seen a trans patient who can absolutely pass as their identifying gender.

There have been some cases where transgender people haven't been identified as such, with bad consequences. A combination of obfuscation by the patient and negligence on the part of the medics I suppose. However, the cases I can think of were females not males (in one case a baby was lost).

I was going to add that transwomen are actually harder to identify but also are more likely to be transparent. Also men find it much harder to pick up on non visual cues so are more likely to miss trans individuals.
I have a long winded story regarding this but can’t be bothered to recount it.
Summarised, show a group of men a photo of a transwomen and 100% will identify them as female, show the same photo to a group of women and 100% will identify them as male. Interestingly all of the men knew the trans woman as a man, admitted that they looked very familiar but still didn’t make the connection.
The individual in question had been competing in international women’s sport for a decade. They had transitioned abroad, orchestrated a rather glamorous death of their male persona and returned to the UK with a new identity. Years later they made contact with an old friend, but did not let on they who they were. Old friend sussed it out. They made no further contact.
So they have successfully competed at high level sport, won medals and cheated multiple women out of those medals.
They took advantage of the lack of sex testing during the 90s/20s and clarity within sport.

ErrolTheDragon · 04/08/2024 10:43

Not at all, logic of misogyny and how it targets GNC (non feminine women) above.

Your 'logic' isnt correct though. Maybe you should believe women who've experienced misogyny on this one?
Misogyny targets 'feminine' women and GNC women. It targets women for reasons completely separate from their 'femininity' or lack thereof (women entering 'male' professions for instance....'femininity' is such a surface characteristic).

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:44

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:30

Yes - this is how the misogynistic logic works:
GNC women are not behaving like “real women”. Women are inferior because of femininity and should know their place. Hence gender non conforming women must be punished. Hence rape of lesbians to “turn them straight”.

*turn them straight and experience sexual domination by a man. horrific

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Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 10:45

ErrolTheDragon · 04/08/2024 10:35

You're making that argument re 'femininity' far too complicated. Misogynistic men think women are inferior because of our sex.

Some people will attack all manner of perceived 'otherness'. I'm going to bet the rioters have a large intersection of racism, religious intolerance, misogyny, homophobia and transphobia.

You're making that argument re 'femininity' far too complicated. Misogynistic men think women are inferior because of our sex.

I remember reading the horrific account of a female transgender person who believed that telling their rapist that they were a man would stop the horror that was happening.

Sex. It is the basis of misogyny.

Runningupthecurtains · 04/08/2024 10:45

Tandora · 04/08/2024 07:59

Yes, I agree with the current rules around letting trans people compete.

I meant I don’t have a strong opinion about sex segregation in sports more generally. I suppose I think it’s probably necessary to ensure women can fully compete, but I worry about the impact that it has on gender stereotypes, reinforcing simplistic binary ideas about gender, perceptions of female inferiority, and the denigration of female sports in general. I was reflecting on whether there was a better way of doing things, and came across that article. I was interested in the views/ knowledge of others .

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Which rules?
The brave bold IOC were too scared to tackle the issue so has passed the matter to individual sports many of which have barred anyone who has undergone male puberty (regardless of their feelings) from the female category.
So do you agree with swimming, triathlon, rugby etc or do you agree with boxing (but just Olympic boxing as the IBA and WBO have XX policies)?

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:46

ErrolTheDragon · 04/08/2024 10:43

Not at all, logic of misogyny and how it targets GNC (non feminine women) above.

Your 'logic' isnt correct though. Maybe you should believe women who've experienced misogyny on this one?
Misogyny targets 'feminine' women and GNC women. It targets women for reasons completely separate from their 'femininity' or lack thereof (women entering 'male' professions for instance....'femininity' is such a surface characteristic).

Your 'logic' isnt correct though
will have to disagree on that one I suppose.

Im not denying any women’s experiences of misogyny, I’m simply analysing the logics through which misogyny sustains itself and targets all women, including feminine, gnc and trans women. And trans men who don’t “pass”.

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RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:46

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:41

I got called misogynistic for referring to someone’s posts as “rambling” earlier. (Don’t see how this is misogynistic but does the same go for “blathering”?

You are blathering.

You can't string a coherent argument together.

It's not about what sex you are.

It's also not a gendered word.

Bloodyredface · 04/08/2024 10:47

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:22

there is plenty of evidence that the development of sex produces differences in bodies that mean that , for some individuals, there is ambiguity as to where they rightfully belong in binary sex categories- male / female. This isn’t just a “knowledge” problem- ie the sex of people is hard to “identify”, it’s a problem with how we define “sex” itself. Which factors do we prioritise when we make a determination about whether a person is properly described as male or female? For example,
some people say chromosomes, others say going through male puberty, etc.

Despite these realities/ ambiguities , people want to reassert the sanctity of binary ,
biological sex as an unambiguous fact. Two (related) arguments people like to emphasize- sex is defined by reproduction - there is no role for sex variations in reproduction- reproduction involves two and only two sexes;, sex variations are rare and prove the rule (binary sex) because people were meant to be one sex or the other but they have a medical disorder which made them different.

Hence my analogy with sexuality. Sexuality is also part of reproduction, - sex and sexuality are two parts of the same biological/ evolutionary function. Yet we also have diverse sexualities. We don’t start quibbling about how these sexualities don’t have a reproductive purpose , and therefore they are actually not real differences, or how diverse sexualties are just straight people who developed wrong/disordered , which in turn proves how human sexuality is binary/ straight (the exception that proves the rule). All of this would be a scientific nonsense and recognised as being offensive/ discriminatory

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They don’t have a “role” in reproduction . (. What’s the “role” of homosexuality in “reproduction”?)

This quote from you above I think best illustrates the way you have to recreate reality to make your argument make sense. You wrote this in response to me saying make and female relates to one’s role in sexual reproduction. Here you are explicitly stating that you reject that male and female sexes have a role in reproduction. Which is a manifestly untrue assertion. If you have to make manifestly untrue statements to make your case, you should really have the honesty and integrity to admit you do not have a case.

There is no analogy with sexuality. No matter how much you try to state there is to bolster a thin case. Gay and lesbian people are male or female, just as infertile people are, celibate people and children.

for some individuals, there is ambiguity as to where they rightfully belong in binary sex categories- male / female. This isn’t just a “knowledge” problem- ie the sex of people is hard to “identify”, it’s a problem with how we define “sex” itself

It really isn’t. Sex relates to one’s potential role in reproduction, in terms of being male or female. What is really going on is that some people like you are desperate for political and ideological purposes to deny the sex binary as this fits your wider goals to replace the organisation of the society based on sex. Thing is, you don’t really have a good case for that, so you grab onto rare disorders of the male and female sex and claim it means there is not really a male or female sex, and male and female doesn’t really have a role in reproduction and anyway, isn’t this a bit like being gay? The only people who make this rather far fetched case are people who have a political and ideological motivation for doing so.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:47

RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:46

You are blathering.

You can't string a coherent argument together.

It's not about what sex you are.

It's also not a gendered word.

You are blathering. You can't string a coherent argument together.

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Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:48

Bloodyredface · 04/08/2024 10:47

They don’t have a “role” in reproduction . (. What’s the “role” of homosexuality in “reproduction”?)

This quote from you above I think best illustrates the way you have to recreate reality to make your argument make sense. You wrote this in response to me saying make and female relates to one’s role in sexual reproduction. Here you are explicitly stating that you reject that male and female sexes have a role in reproduction. Which is a manifestly untrue assertion. If you have to make manifestly untrue statements to make your case, you should really have the honesty and integrity to admit you do not have a case.

There is no analogy with sexuality. No matter how much you try to state there is to bolster a thin case. Gay and lesbian people are male or female, just as infertile people are, celibate people and children.

for some individuals, there is ambiguity as to where they rightfully belong in binary sex categories- male / female. This isn’t just a “knowledge” problem- ie the sex of people is hard to “identify”, it’s a problem with how we define “sex” itself

It really isn’t. Sex relates to one’s potential role in reproduction, in terms of being male or female. What is really going on is that some people like you are desperate for political and ideological purposes to deny the sex binary as this fits your wider goals to replace the organisation of the society based on sex. Thing is, you don’t really have a good case for that, so you grab onto rare disorders of the male and female sex and claim it means there is not really a male or female sex, and male and female doesn’t really have a role in reproduction and anyway, isn’t this a bit like being gay? The only people who make this rather far fetched case are people who have a political and ideological motivation for doing so.

Here you are explicitly stating that you reject that male and female sexes have a role in reproduction.

I stopped here as I’m unbelievably confused why you wrote / think this.

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cupcaske123 · 04/08/2024 10:50

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:46

Your 'logic' isnt correct though
will have to disagree on that one I suppose.

Im not denying any women’s experiences of misogyny, I’m simply analysing the logics through which misogyny sustains itself and targets all women, including feminine, gnc and trans women. And trans men who don’t “pass”.

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Misogynists don't care what you look like, they hate women.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:51

cupcaske123 · 04/08/2024 10:50

Misogynists don't care what you look like, they hate women.

Agree. (Well they do care what you look like but they wil hate you regardless).

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RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:54

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:47

You are blathering. You can't string a coherent argument together.

I think I can.

In fact. I think there are many posts on this subject that show I can.

I just can't be arsed to engage with you at this present time because you have come out with such a level of incomprehensible nonsense which has depth to it other than 'because I think'.

It's total at odds with science and every historical battle that feminists have fought.

Feminism isn't about being 'equal to men'. It is about recognising we are different and have different strengths and not being harmed as a result of those differences. Whether that be emotionally, physically or financially.

It about resisting the concept of 'default human' which is male and actively makes life harder and more difficult for women.

Misogyny stems from ownership of women and the concept that women must fit into the wants and needs of men without regards to how it impacts women.

Try harder.

In the meantime there are plenty of my posts expanding on this if you can be bothered to even try to understand what feminism is.

RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:55

At it's most simple it's about women not being allowed to define who and what a woman is. It is being imposed by males.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 10:57

RedToothBrush · 04/08/2024 10:54

I think I can.

In fact. I think there are many posts on this subject that show I can.

I just can't be arsed to engage with you at this present time because you have come out with such a level of incomprehensible nonsense which has depth to it other than 'because I think'.

It's total at odds with science and every historical battle that feminists have fought.

Feminism isn't about being 'equal to men'. It is about recognising we are different and have different strengths and not being harmed as a result of those differences. Whether that be emotionally, physically or financially.

It about resisting the concept of 'default human' which is male and actively makes life harder and more difficult for women.

Misogyny stems from ownership of women and the concept that women must fit into the wants and needs of men without regards to how it impacts women.

Try harder.

In the meantime there are plenty of my posts expanding on this if you can be bothered to even try to understand what feminism is.

Sorry I was just quoting what you said to me to highlight it, not saying the same as you:

Feminism isn't about being 'equal to men It is about recognising we are different’

. Well that’s a bold statement! Thats one brand of “feminism” I suppose, although I think even difference feminists include an element about equality..

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LilyBartsHatShop · 04/08/2024 10:57

Tandora · 04/08/2024 08:31

You can change your name , title and gender marker on nhs administrative systems.

Hospitals do not typically have easy access to notes detailing a patients medical history. They are usually all site specific on the nhs

I actually took your claim to be knowledgeble about trans issues at face value so I'm astonished at the ignorance you display here.
I speak from my experience as a nurse.
Anyone who advises a trans woman who is sick enough to need addmitting to hospital to withhold any of her medical history from staff is a very strange sort of ally indeed.
Hospital staff are perfectly capable of caring respectfully for trans patients, and for the small number of trans women who do not disclose to many people that they are male the most discrete way of doing this is to give them a private room. Otherwise a whole ward will hear conversations about their oestrogen treatment, their surgical history, or any other healthcare needs specific to trans women.
It's really odd to claim expertise in this area when you are clearly so misinformed about the health care needs of trans women.

Runningupthecurtains · 04/08/2024 10:57

I worry about the impact that it has on gender stereotypes, reinforcing simplistic binary ideas about gender, perceptions of female inferiority, and the denigration of female sports in general.
Why do you think see women winning at sports, particularly those that are not regarded as 'feminine' such as boxing, weightlifting, shot putt etc re-enforces gender stereotypes?
It shows women of all shapes and sizes have value, that you don't have to be tiny and graceful to be female. Sport allows women to display their strength (both physical and mental) their bravery (from Simone Biles vaulting again after the Twisties to the woman hurtling down the bike tracks) I have watched amazing and inspiring women all week.
If there was no female category there would be no female representation in the vast majority of sports. Hey girls you can't dream of making it in rowing, athletics, cycling, fighting sports, team sports or many others but there's always equestrianism and the synchro swimming.

Waitwhat23 · 04/08/2024 10:58

Tandora · 04/08/2024 07:59

Yes, I agree with the current rules around letting trans people compete.

I meant I don’t have a strong opinion about sex segregation in sports more generally. I suppose I think it’s probably necessary to ensure women can fully compete, but I worry about the impact that it has on gender stereotypes, reinforcing simplistic binary ideas about gender, perceptions of female inferiority, and the denigration of female sports in general. I was reflecting on whether there was a better way of doing things, and came across that article. I was interested in the views/ knowledge of others .

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As far as I can see, you haven't replied to my post which was specifically discussing the article and at least another one poster who did the same.

I mean, fair enough, you may have missed both those posts but that's probably because you've seemed far more interested in bolding any post who doesn't agree with you.

Naunet · 04/08/2024 10:58

We get it Tandora, you’re a male supremacist, you’ll find a more agreeable crowd on an incel forum.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 11:00

LilyBartsHatShop · 04/08/2024 10:57

I actually took your claim to be knowledgeble about trans issues at face value so I'm astonished at the ignorance you display here.
I speak from my experience as a nurse.
Anyone who advises a trans woman who is sick enough to need addmitting to hospital to withhold any of her medical history from staff is a very strange sort of ally indeed.
Hospital staff are perfectly capable of caring respectfully for trans patients, and for the small number of trans women who do not disclose to many people that they are male the most discrete way of doing this is to give them a private room. Otherwise a whole ward will hear conversations about their oestrogen treatment, their surgical history, or any other healthcare needs specific to trans women.
It's really odd to claim expertise in this area when you are clearly so misinformed about the health care needs of trans women.

Anyone who advises a trans woman who is sick enough to need addmitting to hospital to withhold any of her medical history from staff is a very strange sort of ally indeed

I didn’t advise this at all.

Hospital staff are perfectly capable of caring respectfully for trans patients

many trans people disagree with you there I’m afraid.

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