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Feminists against sex segregation in sports

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:22

AIBU to share a different perspective on a subject that seems to be almost entirely taken for granted on mumsnet? This is not something I have a definite opinion on myself (although I am against sex testing and I fully support the rights of trans women and women with differences in sex development to compete alongside other women in sporting competitions at all levels).

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I started looking into opinions on the issue, starting with a search on “feminists against sex segregation in sport”. I came across this really interesting article.

AIBU to share?

journals.library.wustl.edu/lawreview/article/3150/galley/19983/view/

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Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:21

4timesthefun · 04/08/2024 02:17

Should athletics and swimming remain sex segregated? Or should they be combined and we accept the end of female born participants in the Olympics in many of those events?

and we accept the end of female born participants in the Olympics in many of those events

No. I definitely wouldn’t support that outcome.

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Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:22

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:19

I don’t think trans people should always have to be put in side rooms to make women more comfortable. That is part of trying to make trans people disappear from public life and making them feel like stigmatised or second class people. And by outing themselves - I also mean to the medical staff! Plenty of trans girls and women are really private about being trans and the pass as women, it wouldn’t even necessarily be on their medical records.

And why can't they use a bed on the men's ward?

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:22

viques · 04/08/2024 02:17

50% of whom are women.

So if I was a politician, which I am not, I would be a little bit wary of
disaffecting 50% of my electorate to pander to a really teeny tiny proportion of my voters, no matter how loudly they shouted, threatened me with retaliation and rape , disrupted my electoral hustings, abused my staff and stalked my family.

But not all women agree with you? I think probably most don’t: certainly most younger women

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4timesthefun · 04/08/2024 02:23

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:21

and we accept the end of female born participants in the Olympics in many of those events

No. I definitely wouldn’t support that outcome.

So you agree that in the discus throw, people who have been through male puberty have physical advantages and it is appropriate for the discus throw to be a sex based event?

Demonhunter · 04/08/2024 02:23

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:20

whining on about "personal abuse" and thats why you're hughlighting it, while you sit behind your screen backing female athletes to be physically harmed, many who would be seriously harmed and maimed, even killed. The absolute audacity of it.

😂😂😂

Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:23

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:22

But not all women agree with you? I think probably most don’t: certainly most younger women

But some women do not consent for all women. If some women say no that means no.

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/08/2024 02:24

Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:22

AIBU to share a different perspective on a subject that seems to be almost entirely taken for granted on mumsnet? This is not something I have a definite opinion on myself (although I am against sex testing and I fully support the rights of trans women and women with differences in sex development to compete alongside other women in sporting competitions at all levels).

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I started looking into opinions on the issue, starting with a search on “feminists against sex segregation in sport”. I came across this really interesting article.

AIBU to share?

journals.library.wustl.edu/lawreview/article/3150/galley/19983/view/

Is this a joke?

You support males beating up women?

The misogyny is terrifying.

Helias · 04/08/2024 02:26

Lesson of this thread: Do not put 'feminist(s)' in your OP if you do not want feminists to show up and point out your misogyny. And yeah, that includes feminists who are trans but not misogynist and don't like opportunists speaking for them.

(Edited to remove stray quote mark.)

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:26

Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:22

And why can't they use a bed on the men's ward?

Because they are not men. That would be firstly outing, secondly deeply degrading and violation of rights , third induce dysphoria, forth the risk of putting a passing trans woman alone on a male ward would be far greater than the risk to women of putting a trans woman on a female ward. It would basically make it impossible for trans women to access healthcare if that were the rule. They just wouldn’t because it would be an unliveable, untenable situation for them.

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SilenceInside · 04/08/2024 02:26

A hospital ward isn't "public life". It's a medical setting where women and girls are vulnerable. And it's not about making women more comfortable. It's about not traumatising and distressing them, and about not exposing them to additional risk, when it can easily be avoided.

Being treated in a private room is not being treated as a second class citizen! It is preferential treatment.

If medical staff on a hospital ward are unaware of the sex of the person they are treating due to that information being obfuscated on medical records then that is dangerous for the person concerned. Male and female bodies are different and treatment may need to be adjusted accordingly. The NHS is putting people at risk for the sake of ideology if that is genuinely occurring.

ImASexFascistApparently · 04/08/2024 02:26

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:10

I don’t think it’s proportionate to always put trans women in side rooms, in case they upset someone with their transness . This is the transphobia bit and wanting trans people to disappear from public life. And it would be outing. What if a trans person doesn’t choose to disclose they are trans ?

What if a trans person doesn’t choose to disclose they are trans ?

And this would be very very stupidly dangerous because knowing someone's sex is vital to receiving proper health care. If they receive the wrong sex health care that can be fatal!

You don't seem to understand the basics for trans health care either?

This is yet again another good example of why biological reality is so very important.

Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 02:27

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:10

I don’t think it’s proportionate to always put trans women in side rooms, in case they upset someone with their transness . This is the transphobia bit and wanting trans people to disappear from public life. And it would be outing. What if a trans person doesn’t choose to disclose they are trans ?

And it has been explained to you in the past. It is not their ‘transness’. It is that they are identifiably male.

Are you saying that in a medical situation a person who is the opposite sex to their gender identity would not disclose this status? That would be very dangerous indeed. And if that is going to be the case , the NHS should never allow medical records to be changed or for new records to be started if that person wishes to hide such life threatening data.

But not only that, if they don’t disclose they are male and are put in a female bay/room, doesn’t that show immense disrespect for the needs of female people? Are you saying that males with trans identities cannot respect female people’s needs?

Is that how you see them? We have been assured by our friends and by others who know trans people that this is not the case, yet there we have it? I guess that is why policies are needed.

And ‘wanting trans people to disappear from public life’ is hyperbole. It is catastropising. This is an overly dramatic misrepresentation. Having a male person accommodated in a private room is not ‘disappearing’ them.

It is also legitimate discrimination to provide high levels of safeguarding based on female people’s needs. When safeguarding is needed, sex matters and no sub group from
that sex is to be exempt from risk assessment at the sex level. Because that is how safeguarding risk should be applied.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:27

Helias · 04/08/2024 02:26

Lesson of this thread: Do not put 'feminist(s)' in your OP if you do not want feminists to show up and point out your misogyny. And yeah, that includes feminists who are trans but not misogynist and don't like opportunists speaking for them.

(Edited to remove stray quote mark.)

Edited

I’m a feminist and I’m not the least bit misogynistic. Transphobia is rooted in misogyny.

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baroqueandblue · 04/08/2024 02:27

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:13

I’m not asking for your sympathy and of course I don’t wish to harm female athletes . What nonsense

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Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:28

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:26

Because they are not men. That would be firstly outing, secondly deeply degrading and violation of rights , third induce dysphoria, forth the risk of putting a passing trans woman alone on a male ward would be far greater than the risk to women of putting a trans woman on a female ward. It would basically make it impossible for trans women to access healthcare if that were the rule. They just wouldn’t because it would be an unliveable, untenable situation for them.

But they are men when a woman is requesting a female doctor?

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:29

Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:28

But they are men when a woman is requesting a female doctor?

No. But a woman has a right to refuse a doctor for any reason imv. If she wants to refuse a doctor because she is uncomfortable that they are trans, I think that’s ok.

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Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:30

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:29

No. But a woman has a right to refuse a doctor for any reason imv. If she wants to refuse a doctor because she is uncomfortable that they are trans, I think that’s ok.

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No she's uncomfortable with a male

SilenceInside · 04/08/2024 02:31

@Tandora not because they are trans! Because they are male!!

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:31

Ok ladies, I need to go to sleep. 😴

this thread has been..:. An experience

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Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 02:31

Runningupthecurtains · 04/08/2024 02:06

Motor racing and snooker (along with darts) are sports in which a few women have competed with men but the opening of the male category to occasional women hasn't lead to the end of a female category too.

yep. Because having an open category works.

It also allows female people to develop having fair competition available to them.

Those women are exceptional, indeed on numerous levels, to compete in the open category.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:32

SilenceInside · 04/08/2024 02:31

@Tandora not because they are trans! Because they are male!!

If that’s her opinion and she wants to change her doctor for that reason , then so be it

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Alucard55 · 04/08/2024 02:33

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:32

If that’s her opinion and she wants to change her doctor for that reason , then so be it

Still struggling with the logic but nevermind.

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/08/2024 02:33

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:13

I’m not asking for your sympathy and of course I don’t wish to harm female athletes . What nonsense

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Well it was you who said you support transwomen competing against women at all levels.

In boxing that could easily result in the woman's death or serious injury. You can't have it both ways.

Smallsalt · 04/08/2024 02:34

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:10

I don’t think it’s proportionate to always put trans women in side rooms, in case they upset someone with their transness . This is the transphobia bit and wanting trans people to disappear from public life. And it would be outing. What if a trans person doesn’t choose to disclose they are trans ?

Nobody wants trans people to disappear from public life. They do want them to disappear from women's spaces .

ImASexFascistApparently · 04/08/2024 02:34

Tandora · 04/08/2024 02:29

No. But a woman has a right to refuse a doctor for any reason imv. If she wants to refuse a doctor because she is uncomfortable that they are trans, I think that’s ok.

Edited

So self exclude from health care then?

And I see you've done the N+1 argument on how many woman are acceptable collateral damage too!

The misogyny just keeps unfolding!

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