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Feminists against sex segregation in sports

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:22

AIBU to share a different perspective on a subject that seems to be almost entirely taken for granted on mumsnet? This is not something I have a definite opinion on myself (although I am against sex testing and I fully support the rights of trans women and women with differences in sex development to compete alongside other women in sporting competitions at all levels).

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I started looking into opinions on the issue, starting with a search on “feminists against sex segregation in sport”. I came across this really interesting article.

AIBU to share?

journals.library.wustl.edu/lawreview/article/3150/galley/19983/view/

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Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 00:00

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:31

I don’t know def don’t have all the answers, but people have suggested height, weight, hormones…

one poster also brought up an interesting point about disabilities. That her son was not disabled enough for paraolympics, but too disabled for regular sport and had no opportunities. That’s a who other area I’d be really interested to learn more about and how there could be more stratification to enable inclusion of people with all diff types of abilities.

I suggest you read and listen to Ross Tucker about just why the things you have suggested, height, weight, hormones will not work.

This information is out there for the reading. But to read it, you have to read widely and not just those sources you find acceptable.

Smallsalt · 04/08/2024 00:01

ReluctantSwimMum · 03/08/2024 21:32

Have you ever played sports, swam, or ran competitively OP?

No she was a bit busy getting her overnight PhD in Developmental Biology

Tandora · 04/08/2024 00:02

Catsmere · 03/08/2024 23:59

How so? You claim men can be women because they say so. You think men should be allowed in women's sports. You're on board with a male supremacist movement. Assuming you are a woman, I'd use the old term feMRA, or TRA, which amounts to the same thing.

Assuming you are a woman, I'd use the old term feMRA, or TRA, which amounts to the same thing.

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SilenceInside · 04/08/2024 00:02

Argh.

PermanentTemporary · 04/08/2024 00:02

I've read some of the article.

None of the 'sex is a spectrum' people ever say the numbers. Well over 99% of girls menstruate on a normal timescale for example. No boy has ever menstruated, or has had the equipment to menstruate. Talking about a spectrum or making statements about 'some' women having XY chromosomes etc is deliberately misleading. The real picture is of two sexes with easily defined characteristics, with an incredibly tiny number of variations from the norm within each sex.

As for the history, yes of course sexism had a huge and non-linear impact on girls' and women's ability to be active, and to excel physically. I competed to a reasonably high level in a power sport and I saw plenty of this close up. All.sorts of lies and nonsense has been said about active and competitive women. None of this invalidates physical competition for women, quite the opposite.

I think what I object to most in the article is the underlying subconscious assumption that women's sport would be a lot better if there were men involved. That's really what they're thinking - that physical activity that only involves women is genuinely worth less, and will be worth more the more it looks like men's sport.

I'm not unsympathetic to the idea that more mixed competition could take place. All.sports where at least part of the strength element is provided by mechanical equipment for example. It's noticeable that these sports tend to be much more sexist than sex-segregated sports (Formula 1 for example) or show a worrying lack of female champions (eg horse sports). But while the numbers are so unbalanced - most sports have far more male participants than female - to be arguing for less female visibility is not a positive imo.

The article is right that most sport, especially that which makes the most money, is designed for men's bodies. But a) not always and b) so what. I love watching women's tennis, women's football, women's rowing, women's athletics. Also women's gymnastics. I don't care that the women's times, serve speeds etc are different. The lives and actions of women are worth our attention on their own.

Catsmere · 04/08/2024 00:02

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:18

Anyways this has just turned into the typical bullying.

Ive always been uncomfortable with the idea of sex segregation in sports . The events of the last few days have really brought the issue out to the fore. I was interested in whether there might be other women who felt the same and what some alternatives might be.

Why are you so uncomfortable with giving women a fair chance? Do you prefer watching them being beaten to a pulp by men?

C0rdeliaChase · 04/08/2024 00:03

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:52

Was that necessary?

Yes, obviously.

Tandora · 04/08/2024 00:03

Smallsalt · 04/08/2024 00:01

No she was a bit busy getting her overnight PhD in Developmental Biology

No she was a bit busy getting her overnight PhD in Developmental Biology

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GailBlancheViola · 04/08/2024 00:04

I mean this is very childish

No more childish than you repeating ad nauseum that you are a feminist when you are nothing of the sort.

ImASexFascistApparently · 04/08/2024 00:05

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 23:52

I'm the woman you called a sexual fascist on one of the earlier threads. Nothing I've called you comes close to being that gratuitous.

Ha ha me too!

We're all sex fascists, flat-terfers and we're soooo meeeean!

As an aside flat-terfer made me imagine a cartoon-style 2D person, which did make me laugh 😂

Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 00:06

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:38

I have also been pointing out that you support and actively celebrate abusive posters and you, yourself, have crossed over to abusiveness of others

Excellent. I suggest readers go back and read the remnants of your posts on threads over the last few days that you have had deleted and the remnants of the posts from the deleted posts of those you supported.

Thanks for highlighting that.

I don’t actually think you thought that through at all.

Smallsalt · 04/08/2024 00:06

Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:44

one of the central points made in the article: accepting sex segregation in sport as the universal default reinforces harmful gender stereotypes, as well as sex segregation in other domains

Harmful gender stereotypes?
As in men being stronger than women which isn't in fact a stereotype but a fact.

Catsmere · 04/08/2024 00:06

LarkLane · 03/08/2024 23:21

Why, why, Y Tandora?
<channelling my inner essence of Tom Jones>

😆😆😆

Tandora · 04/08/2024 00:07

PermanentTemporary · 04/08/2024 00:02

I've read some of the article.

None of the 'sex is a spectrum' people ever say the numbers. Well over 99% of girls menstruate on a normal timescale for example. No boy has ever menstruated, or has had the equipment to menstruate. Talking about a spectrum or making statements about 'some' women having XY chromosomes etc is deliberately misleading. The real picture is of two sexes with easily defined characteristics, with an incredibly tiny number of variations from the norm within each sex.

As for the history, yes of course sexism had a huge and non-linear impact on girls' and women's ability to be active, and to excel physically. I competed to a reasonably high level in a power sport and I saw plenty of this close up. All.sorts of lies and nonsense has been said about active and competitive women. None of this invalidates physical competition for women, quite the opposite.

I think what I object to most in the article is the underlying subconscious assumption that women's sport would be a lot better if there were men involved. That's really what they're thinking - that physical activity that only involves women is genuinely worth less, and will be worth more the more it looks like men's sport.

I'm not unsympathetic to the idea that more mixed competition could take place. All.sports where at least part of the strength element is provided by mechanical equipment for example. It's noticeable that these sports tend to be much more sexist than sex-segregated sports (Formula 1 for example) or show a worrying lack of female champions (eg horse sports). But while the numbers are so unbalanced - most sports have far more male participants than female - to be arguing for less female visibility is not a positive imo.

The article is right that most sport, especially that which makes the most money, is designed for men's bodies. But a) not always and b) so what. I love watching women's tennis, women's football, women's rowing, women's athletics. Also women's gymnastics. I don't care that the women's times, serve speeds etc are different. The lives and actions of women are worth our attention on their own.

I agree with a lot of this (apart from first paragraph which I won’t get into here) .

I didn’t see the article as presuming that female-only sport is worth less because it’s female only, but rather acknowledging that that does seem to be the general perception… Women’s sports are viewed as less interesting and important etc..

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Tandora · 04/08/2024 00:07

Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 00:06

Excellent. I suggest readers go back and read the remnants of your posts on threads over the last few days that you have had deleted and the remnants of the posts from the deleted posts of those you supported.

Thanks for highlighting that.

I don’t actually think you thought that through at all.

I suggest readers go back and read the remnants of your posts on threads over the last few days that you have had deleted and the remnants of the posts from the deleted posts of those you supported

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theveryhungrybum · 04/08/2024 00:08

Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:44

one of the central points made in the article: accepting sex segregation in sport as the universal default reinforces harmful gender stereotypes, as well as sex segregation in other domains

You can't be serious!

Tandora · 04/08/2024 00:08

GailBlancheViola · 04/08/2024 00:04

I mean this is very childish

No more childish than you repeating ad nauseum that you are a feminist when you are nothing of the sort.

No more childish than you repeating ad nauseum that you are a feminist when you are nothing of the sort

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Helleofabore · 04/08/2024 00:08

ImASexFascistApparently · 04/08/2024 00:05

Ha ha me too!

We're all sex fascists, flat-terfers and we're soooo meeeean!

As an aside flat-terfer made me imagine a cartoon-style 2D person, which did make me laugh 😂

Oh yes. I remember the ‘flat-terfers’ and well as the sex fascists.

SilenceInside · 04/08/2024 00:08

"Women’s sports are viewed as less interesting and important etc.."

I hope you now recognise that getting rid of women's sports is not the answer to this issue.

LarkLane · 04/08/2024 00:11

Women’s sports are viewed as less interesting and important etc.
Not by the women here.
Just yourself and people like Joey Barton.

RobinStrike · 04/08/2024 00:12

OP, what did you think of the graphics in @Theeyeballsinthesky 9.15 or thereabouts? What is your answer to the fact that Alfred from St. Lucia who won the women's 100m would t even qualify to race in the men's final ? You keep avoiding looking at these examples

CheatingMenz · 04/08/2024 00:12

@Tandora
Why are you quoting other PP's posts and then repeating what they've said in bold. What is the point of this?

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