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Feminists against sex segregation in sports

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 21:22

AIBU to share a different perspective on a subject that seems to be almost entirely taken for granted on mumsnet? This is not something I have a definite opinion on myself (although I am against sex testing and I fully support the rights of trans women and women with differences in sex development to compete alongside other women in sporting competitions at all levels).

However I have found it really upsetting the degrading way that people have been speaking recently about top/ elite female athletes; denigrating their sporting prowess, and portraying them as weak, feeble and helpless, particularly in the wake of this boxing match controversy.

I started looking into opinions on the issue, starting with a search on “feminists against sex segregation in sport”. I came across this really interesting article.

AIBU to share?

journals.library.wustl.edu/lawreview/article/3150/galley/19983/view/

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LarkLane · 03/08/2024 23:25

@WickedSerious 👏Oh well done!

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:26

CocoapuffPuff · 03/08/2024 23:20

OP, are you a mother? Have you carried a child and given birth?
Now that, that takes strength. Physically, emotionally and mentally. Different kind of strength from on the track or in the pool, but still strength.
How dare you sneer at female strengths on this site?

How dare you sneer at female strengths on this site?

?? I certainly never did that

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ImASexFascistApparently · 03/08/2024 23:27

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:23

I’m doing it to highlight the percentage of posts that are just nasty, gratuitous,
personal attacks.

I think it’s important to show the gender critical mob for how it truly is.

When the few of us who are speaking out finally lose our temper in the face of all the bullying , we get our posts deleted and told we are the problem.

GC females are the ones who have been bullied over this by the TRA/MRA mob.

If your posts are regularly being deleted it's a you problem, not an us problem. Stick to the rules of posting and you won't be deleted. Simples.

People like you are part of the problem, a big part of the problem.

Saltedbutter · 03/08/2024 23:27

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:23

I’m doing it to highlight the percentage of posts that are just nasty, gratuitous,
personal attacks.

I think it’s important to show the gender critical mob for how it truly is.

When the few of us who are speaking out finally lose our temper in the face of all the bullying , we get our posts deleted and told we are the problem.

I’m doing it to highlight the percentage of posts that are just nasty, gratuitous,
personal attacks.

Hang on, if I put everything offensive to women that you said in bold I’d be here all night.

Igneococcus · 03/08/2024 23:27

I just don’t know that sex is the only or best way to do it.

Can you please, please tell us what other way there would be. I mean you're the one who is banging on about it, surely you must have some suggestion. Just say (type) it.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:27

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/08/2024 23:20

Ive always been uncomfortable with the idea of sex segregation in sports .

It doesn't exist to make the likes of you happy.

Are you OK? Your typing is going to pot. Have you slept since Thursday?

Are you OK? Your typing is going to pot. Have you slept since Thursday?

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Barbie222 · 03/08/2024 23:27

I just worry about the way it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and perceptions of female inferiority.

I really don't think anyone else is worrying that segregating sports by sex is doing this.

And now we have the concern of excluding sex and gender minorities.

They aren't excluded in any way?

KatieTaylorMadeMeDoIt · 03/08/2024 23:28

You ain’t no feminist, bruv 😉

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:28

ImASexFascistApparently · 03/08/2024 23:27

GC females are the ones who have been bullied over this by the TRA/MRA mob.

If your posts are regularly being deleted it's a you problem, not an us problem. Stick to the rules of posting and you won't be deleted. Simples.

People like you are part of the problem, a big part of the problem.

People like you are part of the problem, a big part of the problem.

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Shennie100 · 03/08/2024 23:28

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:23

I’m doing it to highlight the percentage of posts that are just nasty, gratuitous,
personal attacks.

I think it’s important to show the gender critical mob for how it truly is.

When the few of us who are speaking out finally lose our temper in the face of all the bullying , we get our posts deleted and told we are the problem.

I'm quite relieved you are confessing to just be a troll. I had thought you meant it at first. And btw.... screenshot everything, not just random parts. You know, just honesty.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:28

KatieTaylorMadeMeDoIt · 03/08/2024 23:28

You ain’t no feminist, bruv 😉

You ain’t no feminist, bruv 😉

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:29

Shennie100 · 03/08/2024 23:28

I'm quite relieved you are confessing to just be a troll. I had thought you meant it at first. And btw.... screenshot everything, not just random parts. You know, just honesty.

I'm quite relieved you are confessing to just be a troll.

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CocoapuffPuff · 03/08/2024 23:29

How else should sports be categorised?

Hair colour?

Height?

Foot size?

Right handed or left handed?

Wipe from front to back, or from back to front?

Seriously, OP, how?

SilenceInside · 03/08/2024 23:29

@Tandora it only reinforces inferiority if you think women's sport is inferior! Why would you think that?

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/08/2024 23:29

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:25

I don’t know. I do think there has to be stratification for women to participate in elite sports, I just don’t know that sex is the only or best way to do it.
But I’m not sure… perhaps it is, I just worry about the way it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and perceptions of female inferiority. And now we have the concern of excluding sex and gender minorities.

You don't think the belief that wearing a dress and liking pink makes one a woman perpetuates a stereotype?

And you are in favour of stratification for everything except the biggest, most comprehensive, most indisputable, most easily categorised quality of all?

NonPlayerCharacter · 03/08/2024 23:30

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:27

Are you OK? Your typing is going to pot. Have you slept since Thursday?

It is. Have you?

CocoapuffPuff · 03/08/2024 23:30

I think maybe one Monster too many has been consumed.

titchy · 03/08/2024 23:30

I do think there has to be stratification for women to participate in elite sports, I just don’t know that sex is the only or best way to do it.

Hmmm. One of these sentences is not like the other.

ImASexFascistApparently · 03/08/2024 23:31

CocoapuffPuff · 03/08/2024 23:29

How else should sports be categorised?

Hair colour?

Height?

Foot size?

Right handed or left handed?

Wipe from front to back, or from back to front?

Seriously, OP, how?

Toilet roll over or under?... ooh controversial! 😂

Shennie100 · 03/08/2024 23:31

I'll keep that too.

I'm quite relieved you are confessing to just be a troll

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:31

Igneococcus · 03/08/2024 23:27

I just don’t know that sex is the only or best way to do it.

Can you please, please tell us what other way there would be. I mean you're the one who is banging on about it, surely you must have some suggestion. Just say (type) it.

I don’t know def don’t have all the answers, but people have suggested height, weight, hormones…

one poster also brought up an interesting point about disabilities. That her son was not disabled enough for paraolympics, but too disabled for regular sport and had no opportunities. That’s a who other area I’d be really interested to learn more about and how there could be more stratification to enable inclusion of people with all diff types of abilities.

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CheatingMenz · 03/08/2024 23:31

BlueLimeRun · 03/08/2024 21:49

What’s your PhD in @Tandora

Media Studies? Golf Course Management? PPE?

Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:32

Shennie100 · 03/08/2024 23:31

I'll keep that too.

I'm quite relieved you are confessing to just be a troll

I'm quite relieved you are confessing to just be a troll

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Tandora · 03/08/2024 23:32

CheatingMenz · 03/08/2024 23:31

Media Studies? Golf Course Management? PPE?

Media Studies? Golf Course Management? PPE?

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titchy · 03/08/2024 23:32

but people have suggested height, weight, hormones…

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