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to say women don't have XY chromosomes?

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taylorswift1989 · 03/08/2024 11:55

Seeing a lot of posts on social media with people admitting they were "wrong" to call Imane Khelif a man, and that they now understand "she's a woman with XY chromosomes."

Am I going insane? A person with XY chromosomes is male! (Regardless of how they identify, of course.) Why are people saying stuff that is obviously nonsensical? Are people really that ignorant of basic biological facts?

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BloodyHellKenAgain · 03/08/2024 18:51

AuntieEstablishment · 03/08/2024 11:58

She was raised as a woman, she was born with a vagina.

Do you think that people born with vaginas are men?

They are if they have a Y chromosome.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 03/08/2024 18:51

AIstolemylunch · 03/08/2024 18:26

Ha Ha That would be Exosex I think. Endosex must be when you keep your actual sex private and hide it inside you, much like this boxer and his 'external ovaries'

Or where an individual is so sick of talking about this shit they reach the end-o-sex and choose celibacy instead.

WickedSerious · 03/08/2024 18:51

Naunet · 03/08/2024 18:41

Well World Boxing has now said he’s a man, so well see when he sues them and proves us wrong…

He should do,if he's got nothing to hide.

Animatic · 03/08/2024 18:53

I don't think she can be defined as a male.

NeedyOpalViewer · 03/08/2024 18:54

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 03/08/2024 18:54

Hepwo · 03/08/2024 18:43

His birth certificate is dated 2018

So they are six years old or …….?

TheKeatingFive · 03/08/2024 18:54

Animatic · 03/08/2024 18:53

I don't think she can be defined as a male.

You don't know that because you're not a professional and it hasn't been tested.

So let's do the test. Very simple.

AIstolemylunch · 03/08/2024 18:55

Tandora · 03/08/2024 18:50

This is objectively true

Actually there’s nothing “objective” or “true” about it. It’s a matter of perspective. For example, as evidence this is true , someone mentioned how 57(?) men (something like this) in the swimming heats beat the female world record For 100m swimming . Theres about maybe 1 billion men in the world in the relevant age category. So being equivalent to the 58th man would make that woman faster at swimming 100 metres then 9.999999% of men. (A very silly rough sum but you get the point).

As for women’s football, tbf football hasn’t historically been a female sport so the opportunities for women aren’t there.

Yes, the top female athletes will be beaten by the top male athletes, but Comparing the sporting performance of top female athletes to “mediocre” and “shit” men is degrading, and it does make me feel despondent about women’s sports that people look at women this way.

Give it up. Men are physically stronger than women. That's why there's an epidemic of violence against women and girls perpetuated in the main by men. Get over it.

PowerTulle · 03/08/2024 18:55

Nike will be giving him a huge contract for being a female Olympian. Brands will line up to promote their diversity.

Good point. And remind me again about how much women’s sport sponsorship and commercial contracts are worth compared to men’s? Something like 3%.

But that’s ok because I’m sure there’s room for us to eek it out a bit further.

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 18:55

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 03/08/2024 18:26

Yes, it’s unhelpful to those of us - including me! - who want to make what should be a really straightforward argument: make people shouldn’t compete with female people in sports, and certainly shouldn’t be punching them.

Gotchas about clothes, hair, or jawlines don’t help women who present in a masculine way, or who are hounded for not looking feminine enough.

I understand that and agree to a point however there's a line though and one that's been crossed many times in recent history where we are presented with obvious men then told off for discriminating against masculine women.

I've met a lot of masculine presenting women in my life but never one I mistook for a man for more than half a second.

How far does this line of argument have to go? If Manny Pacquiao grew his hair out and the IOC told us he was a woman do we have to back down because it's 'offensive' to masculine women?

Hepwo · 03/08/2024 18:56

Is this boxer now a role model for Muslim women?

We've never seen him in a hijab or dressed modestly. He says Allah helped him win. Are Muslim leaders around the world celebrating this Muslim woman?

Tell me how that is going.

BMW6 · 03/08/2024 18:58

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But the ONLY way that a human could develop high levels of testosterone etc etc is the presence of a Y chromosome.

Without the Y there is a female.
With the Y there is a male.

However under or over developed the genitalia are, it comes down to Xor Y.

Always.

sunglassesonthetable · 03/08/2024 18:59

*There's a reasonable discussion to be had about policy for sports. None of that reasonable policy discussion involves calling her by the wrong pronouns or calling her a man. Try to remember that these are actual human beings. I don't understand how anyone can not feel compassion for someone like Caster Semenya finding out at 18 in front of the whole world that she has a DSD and losing her career.

If you found out as an adult, perhaps when trying to have children, that you had a DSD would you suddenly feel like a man? I'm very sure that I wouldn't.

By the way, this is why "define a woman" is a stupid demand.*

Agree with you @Everydayimhuffling

SweetcornFritter · 03/08/2024 19:00

Tandora · 03/08/2024 18:50

This is objectively true

Actually there’s nothing “objective” or “true” about it. It’s a matter of perspective. For example, as evidence this is true , someone mentioned how 57(?) men (something like this) in the swimming heats beat the female world record For 100m swimming . Theres about maybe 1 billion men in the world in the relevant age category. So being equivalent to the 58th man would make that woman faster at swimming 100 metres then 9.999999% of men. (A very silly rough sum but you get the point).

As for women’s football, tbf football hasn’t historically been a female sport so the opportunities for women aren’t there.

Yes, the top female athletes will be beaten by the top male athletes, but Comparing the sporting performance of top female athletes to “mediocre” and “shit” men is degrading, and it does make me feel despondent about women’s sports that people look at women this way.

I think you’ve got that wrong. Someone upthread said their 16 year old nephew could swim a lap faster than the female world record holder. I doubt she is referring to someone who is one of the Top 57 male swimmers in the world. In other words even mediocre competitve male swimmers stand a good chance of beating the very best female swimmers. Why is that?

Tandora · 03/08/2024 19:00

AIstolemylunch · 03/08/2024 18:55

Give it up. Men are physically stronger than women. That's why there's an epidemic of violence against women and girls perpetuated in the main by men. Get over it.

Give up what ? Challenging you on your attempt to spread simplistic and degrading generalisations about sex, and pass them off as “objective” and “scientific” “truths”.

Tandora · 03/08/2024 19:01

SweetcornFritter · 03/08/2024 19:00

I think you’ve got that wrong. Someone upthread said their 16 year old nephew could swim a lap faster than the female world record holder. I doubt she is referring to someone who is one of the Top 57 male swimmers in the world. In other words even mediocre competitve male swimmers stand a good chance of beating the very best female swimmers. Why is that?

Nah it was a pp discussing the Olympic swimming heats. Rtft.

Bambooshoot · 03/08/2024 19:02

sunglassesonthetable · 03/08/2024 18:16

Again, I ask, why is it the women that have to shift up and make room for these utterly gross, deluded (and/or) calculating individuals?

Wow. Are these the only categories you allocate to people born with these genetic complications?

"Utterly gross" Dems the breaks eh?

@Bambooshoot

The mindset of men who want to punch women as a sport and be lauded for it is utterly gross. Do you disagree?

3CustardCreams · 03/08/2024 19:03

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What medical condition would that be? If they are purely XX - the above would not happen.

Runningupthecurtains · 03/08/2024 19:03

sunglassesonthetable · 03/08/2024 18:44

Oh and thanks to unscrupulous people often the sporting dreams of those with a DSD that lead to them being incorrectly sexed at birth begin with diagnosis rather than ending with i

Such as?

Some of those those were sought out by dodgy coaches with an eye on a quick buck that scoured parts of southern Africa for men with DSDs and told them they would make them rich. Some of them will always have had sporting dreams but others wouldn't have considered it as a career until it was suggested to them.

FOJN · 03/08/2024 19:04

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There would have to be an SRY gene in the X chromosomes. This is a very rare DSD which affects men. They will have been masculinised (as you describe) by male puberty so no they should not compete in the women's category.

medlineplus.gov/genetics/gene/sry/#conditions

Changes affecting the SRY gene have been found to cause 46,XX testicular difference of sex development. Individuals with this condition have a female-typical chromosome pattern (46,XX karyotype) but develop male sex characteristics, including testes, though they may be small and undescended.
In most individuals with 46,XX testicular difference of sex development, the condition results from an abnormal exchange of genetic material (translocation) between the Y chromosome and another chromosome, most often the X chromosome. This exchange occurs as a random event during the formation of sperm cells in the affected person's father. In this condition, the SRY gene (which is on the Y chromosome) is misplaced, almost always onto an X chromosome. A fetus with an X chromosome that carries the SRY gene will develop male sex characteristics despite not having a Y chromosome.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 03/08/2024 19:04

Animatic · 03/08/2024 18:53

I don't think she can be defined as a male.

He can and he has been.

OvaHere · 03/08/2024 19:05

SweetcornFritter · 03/08/2024 19:00

I think you’ve got that wrong. Someone upthread said their 16 year old nephew could swim a lap faster than the female world record holder. I doubt she is referring to someone who is one of the Top 57 male swimmers in the world. In other words even mediocre competitve male swimmers stand a good chance of beating the very best female swimmers. Why is that?

I have a family member who is a very good competitive swimmer. Her younger brother who is athletically built but only swims for fun is faster.

Such is life.

BlueLimeRun · 03/08/2024 19:06

Please stop using cis. Women don’t need a prefix.

sussexman · 03/08/2024 19:06

Runningupthecurtains · 03/08/2024 19:03

Some of those those were sought out by dodgy coaches with an eye on a quick buck that scoured parts of southern Africa for men with DSDs and told them they would make them rich. Some of them will always have had sporting dreams but others wouldn't have considered it as a career until it was suggested to them.

So no actual examples then, as was asked for?

sunglassesonthetable · 03/08/2024 19:06

Some of those those were sought out by dodgy coaches with an eye on a quick buck that scoured parts of southern Africa for men with DSDs and told them they would make them rich. Some of them will always have had sporting dreams but others wouldn't have considered it as a career until it was suggested to them.

@Runningupthecurtains

Like who though?

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