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To think the Khelif issue is now raising more big questions in sport

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FishersGate · 02/08/2024 05:56

Biological men should not be fighting women how is this even happening ?? Two 'women' failed eligibility tests by the IBA. Yet the IOC deem them suitable it's mind boggling

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tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 02/08/2024 11:20

EatMoreFibre · 02/08/2024 08:16

Some of the social media hate for Khelif is shocking.

I have some sympathy for Khelif's situation- legally a female but likely having found out at some point she is genetically male. It can't be easy in Algeria.

However Khalif is 25, likely never had a period. Deprived upbringing or not, by your late teens you'd be wondering if you have a health issue. Your parents would be asking questions. Being involved in international sports a some point Khalif must have had at least conversations with doctors, if not an ultrasound.

My point is that Khalif must have been aware for a while that she is genetically male and has an advantage that female boxers cannot overcome. Following that she decided to keep on fighting against females knowing it's not a fair fight and she can cause harm. That's on her.

That's where people's censure comes from. Most decent people are deeply repulsed by the images of a man punching a woman as hard as he can. However in the current climate of VAWG I am aware some men do not see a problem with this (Carini is a wimp, Michael Phelps' feet, TERFs).

Clear IOC regulations that do not ignore complexity and don't prioritise social justice over fair play and safety would avoid this situation. An open category and xx category would protect DSD athletes' dignity and be inclusive of all. It's odious that private medical details are being discussed because we can all see the unfairness and obfuscation. 100% the IOC's fault.

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Helleofabore · 02/08/2024 11:21

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I find the constant disregard for female boxer's safety by posters to be sadly unsurprising but still, it is remarkable to see a post such as this.

Male people, who have gone through male puberty have, in general, more than 160% the punch power of a typical female. These athletes that the IOC have allowed to compete, have at least that much more power behind their punch. We know this because the IBA stated they were not female people and that they had been assessed to have advantage over female athletes. ie. these are male athletes.

There are many physical advantages that these male athletes have. I am happy to list more if you need. Bone density which is also a significant factor between the sexes feeds into this too.

The significance of this is that the female athletes that they are punching have safety needs that are rather different than male people needs.

Female people have a greater risk of brain damage due to our more delicate brain fibres. This has been studied and is documented, particularly by the Swansea University who did studies around female athletes playing rugby.

So... that 160+% power difference is significant to the safety of female athletes.

Additionally, our bones are less dense. So not only are female people more prone to brain damage from a punch, but we are more prone to have our bones broken by that punch. Especially facial bones.

So it is indefensible that the IOC has put female boxers into this position where they are more likely to suffer life limiting, even life shortening, damage caused by the IOC's policy to prioritise inclusion above fairness. Something that Budgett announced after the Tokyo Olympics where they devolved the IOC's responsibility (maybe even accountability) to the international federations for each sport.

nietzscheanvibe · 02/08/2024 11:22

BenchyMcBenchFace · 02/08/2024 09:41

Some of those babies absolutely were “assigned” a gender. They were dressed in feminine ways, given feminine toys, their hair grown long and styled in a feminine way, their true sexual preference ignored or denied so they were pushed towards heterosexuality instead - all the while many of them fighting against it because they never felt feminine. That was absolutely having a gender “assigned”, and many of them also had their sexual organs operated on and consequently lost sexual function and fertility as a result. Some adults are still discovering the truth about their own bodies and how they were born and how they were operated on, because many of those families also keep the truth from their children.

this is certainly not the universal experience for those born with differences of sex anatomy, but it is a common story. And in those cases gender WAS assigned at birth, as well as sex.

You're debating semantics here; in most cases, sex is observed, but in this case it was observed incorrectly because of the DSD and "assigned" (again, incorrectly) as female. Just because the person was subsequently raised in a "feminine way" doesn't make them female (look at the tragic consequences of the Reimer twins for proof of that).

Helleofabore · 02/08/2024 11:22

Naunet · 02/08/2024 09:40

So we’ve moved from ‘you’re all racists’ to ‘he doesn’t win all the fights’ and now to ‘well boxing is dangerous anyway so why not let men hit women’.

Any other excuses to come or do you want to just own your stance and say outright that you support sanctioned male violence against women?

naunet you have nailed it here and I am only half way through this mess of a thread.

Midgegreenstreet · 02/08/2024 11:22

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They aren't women's bodies when they aren't women and of course the bodies of elite athletes are "policed" that's how doping is detected. It's been going on for decades.

If athletes don't like the "policing" they don't have to compete. If you participate in sport at a high level it's going to come with scrutiny as many roles in the public eye do. Participation in sport is a choice, if you don't like everything that comes with it then stop competing.

willowtolive · 02/08/2024 11:22

Yea that seals the deal who cares about 51% of the population being able to compete fairly in sport it's all about the odd individual like Laurel Hubble ffs

ALovelyCupOfNameChange · 02/08/2024 11:23

Earbuddy · 02/08/2024 11:18

Rio 2016 Olympics- all 3 medals went to men with DSDs in the women’s 800m

and the British competitors were incredibly gracious in their defeat. It was like watching two separate races

PaterPower · 02/08/2024 11:23

MidnightPatrol · 02/08/2024 07:23

Very simply all women competing in high-level sport are going to need a DNA test.

It’s a shame for those with DSDs raised as girls who will no longer be able to compete due to their XY chromosomes.

I don’t see much other option though. How can you sensibly run events with male competitors.

This has been an issue for several years now, the lack of a resolution is because each sport / country has their own rules and the IOC doesn’t enforce a specific standard of testing across all sports.

This is not a transgender identity question - as with Caster Semenya, these competitors have probably lived their whole lives thinking they are female.

Caster Semenya has NOT “lived their whole lives thinking they are female.”

Most of the social media posts I’ve seen from or about him (regarding his earlier life) show he’s lived a very ‘male-typical’ (for want of a better description) lifestyle for some time.

differentideas6578 · 02/08/2024 11:24

@GiddyMember
You are actually serious quoting me stating 'Again, white woman's tears weaponised to inflict harm' because I said I felt sad for Angela carini crying in the ring because all her hard work and training and Olympic dream was taken from her. This has nothing to do with skin colour.
In embarrassed for you

Cailin66 · 02/08/2024 11:24

UpThePankhurst · 02/08/2024 11:12

For those all confused about sex and chromosomes and the rest of it, can I suggest a really simple test?

Look at who the IOC goes to enormous trouble for and enables, forces the media to lie for, and protects to the hilt, child rapists included. And then look at who gets sent home for smoking, and gets to be smashed in the face and left crying in 46 seconds despite being a world class boxer. Look at who gets sent into a ring and has to hand over their match and career in fear of serious injury because the IOC don't care what happens to them.

The IOC has absolutely no difficulty with a binary, sex based standard of treatment and knowing precisely who gets what.

Don't forget the Japanese woman sent home for smoking, the British female sent home over a horse, but the male rapist stays.

Then we get the IOC rulebook about diversity, fairness and lovely fluffy pink bunnies. Including this time full on censorship of normal words.

londonmummy1966 · 02/08/2024 11:26

Tommeetippee · 02/08/2024 10:21

After the farce of the opening ceremony it doesn't surprise me that the IOC takes this stance at this Olympics. Over on twitter someone has uploaded a video of Khalif groping their opponent, because breaking her nose wasn't enough

Isn't unwanted groping an offence in France? So Carini could do a Hermosa on Khelif? That would be amusing. I cannot imagine any woman in any sport would consider it acceptable to gratuitously grope her defeated opponent.

Midgegreenstreet · 02/08/2024 11:31

There's some absolute bollocks being talked on this thread. I have a child with a rare chromosome disorder which we didn't discover until he was 12. It was a huge shock and I have sympathy for any family navigating this but it doesn't alter the fact that if an individual has a Y chromosome they shouldnt be competing in female categories.

Everyone has a choice about how they spend their time and I have to question the motives of anyone with a Y chromosome knowingly competing against women particularly when your chosen activity involves punching your opponent in the head.

indignantpigmy · 02/08/2024 11:31

@GiddyMember
I think we're also forgetting that every woman targetted by this obsession with biology has been a woman of colour.

Let's not forget Roviel Detenamo, a woman of colour from a deprived background, who lost her place at the Olympics to a white, rich woman with a dick.

I'm sure that I read somewhere that DSDs are more common and less likely to be diagnosed in African countries so that might explain the link to 'woman of colour'. If my DD hadn't started her periods by 16 I would be seeking an medical opinion, something that Algerian parents of a girl might not do due to resources, tradition or stigma.

I feel that this interview with Caster Semenya highlights that Caster doesn't think that he is a woman and actually shows his contempt for women, a similar vibe came through in the Imane Khelif after fight interview.

heathspeedwell · 02/08/2024 11:32

Shocking that anyone still thinks Caster Semenya 'lived his whole life thinking he was female'. In interviews it's clear that even as a child he played with other boys. He refers to women as them (not us). His voice broke when he hit puberty and if he was still in any doubt aged 18, it was confirmed by tests that he was a man with 46 XY DSD. Here's an interview where he talks about women as 'them'.

Caster Semenya on THE LINK - EP42 Season 3

South African Olympian Caster Semenya joins Lerato Kganyago in studio to chat about her childhood and how she got into running as well as upping her game on ...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hvg50P4FwTk&t=201s

forgotmypassagain · 02/08/2024 11:32

Read Glamour magazine’s latest Instagram post.

unbloodybelievable

Portakalkedi · 02/08/2024 11:32

Borninabarn32 · 02/08/2024 08:09

People are being incredibly cruel about the "male" competitor. This isn't a man who has decided to pretend to be a woman so he can win easier or hit women. This is a woman, assigned female at birth, raised as a girl, with all the disadvantages of being a woman in our society. Who has been found to have a genetic condition that corrupts her entire identity. People deliberately calling her "him" and a "man" and comparing her to domestic abusers are quite frankly, vile, uneducated bullies.

She has XY chromosomes, she also doesn't have the same advantages as a man becuase of her genetic condition, she has some physical advantages but not all. She can't compete against men becuase of her genetic disadvantages to them. She can't compete against women because of her genetic advantages to them. It is very unfortunate and she is not a villain.

Funny how this person has chosen to fight against women though, knowing they have a genetic advantage, rather than against men. So clearly men having advantages over them is not ok, but the other way round is fine?

heathspeedwell · 02/08/2024 11:32

Sorry for cross post @indignantpigmy

willowtolive · 02/08/2024 11:35

Thank you @Midgegreenstreet

halava · 02/08/2024 11:38

XX or XY? Male when it suits, Female when it's necessary.

halava · 02/08/2024 11:40

Image of the female boxer.

Edited as I had a picture to post, but it's not showing. Sorrrryyy!

Helleofabore · 02/08/2024 11:41

protectourchildren · 02/08/2024 10:00

Personally I don't think it's the medal that matters, it's the punching down.

I bet there are lots of althletes with DSDs who, once they realise what a huge physical advantage they have and how unfair it would be, choose not to risk others' lives and safety. You know, true sportsmanship - it would be nice if there was a category for these competitors too, but no, the ones not giving a shit about anyone else take precedence.

There are many other reasons elite athletes have to retire from their sport, it sucks for the individual but for women's sports to exist and mean anything, the sex class category has to be preserved. For every athlete with male advantage you 'include' to be 'kind' there's a woman being EXCLUDED and who everyone being UNKIND to. Funny how that obvious truth is never mentioned - fairness to women isn't even a consideration apparently.

And all this rubbish about 'we don't know the details'. You really do just have to watch the video to see what is going on. It's so 1984 - “The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”

This!

I know it has been said on this thread by different posters in different ways, and fuck knows, we have been making posts like this ever since we knew about these male athletes. But every time someone centres a male athlete and uses emotional reasoning and philosophical theory to leverage their inclusion into the female sports category, that person is supporting misogyny. Whether that is their intention or not.

Because for every male athlete that enters the female sport event, there is likely to have been a female athlete harmed for reasons from missing their own opportunity through to the worst, physically harmed.

Whether that male athlete, one with a body formed around the production of small gametes, regardless of the state of that gamete production, has a medical condition or has a gender identity that means they wish to be included. The impact is the same.

That is misogyny. Right there.

By all means, extend those male athletes sympathy, empathy, whatever. But they should never have been included in the female sports category.

And once those male athletes realise that they have an advantage, or even that they are male, the onus is on them to either choose to respect the needs of female athletes or to ignore those needs. It is their choice to compete in a protected category that they were excluded from by the IBA but due to regulations allowed to compete at the Olympics.

They made it knowing that they are competent male adults.

They chose not to respect the needs of female athletes.

MarkWithaC · 02/08/2024 11:41

Hobbesmanc · 02/08/2024 07:40

So much of the media noise around this has confused trans athletes with intersex ones and tabloid coverage is just stoking it. Khelif and other athletes such as Barbara Banda from Zambia were assigned female gender at birth and brought up as girls. They aren't trans gender.

Some of the social media hate for Khelif is shocking.

Khelif failed a recognised gender test (they call it, although 'sex' is of course the accurate term here) by his own sport's ruling body, and accepted the result.
While I don't condone hate speech or venom towards anyone, he is not an innocent who has accidentally found himself competing in the wrong category.

BreatheAndFocus · 02/08/2024 11:43

PaterPower · 02/08/2024 11:23

Caster Semenya has NOT “lived their whole lives thinking they are female.”

Most of the social media posts I’ve seen from or about him (regarding his earlier life) show he’s lived a very ‘male-typical’ (for want of a better description) lifestyle for some time.

Absolutely right! Caster’s actual sex would have become very apparent at puberty; CS wore the boys uniform at school; there is a photo of CS as a teen wearing men’s swimming trunks and looking very obviously male; CS talks about women as ‘other’ - ie a different group to CS.

Coaches look out for people like CS, knowing full well what their sex is and how initial missexing would have led to a female marker on ID documents.

GiveMeSpanakopita · 02/08/2024 11:44

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"Gaggle" of friends eh?

Gaggle.

Don't tell me - we're all "hysterical", right? Are we also "hysterical"? "Frothing", perchance?

Do we need to "calm down"? "Dear"?

GoodieMcTwoshoes · 02/08/2024 11:46

MagpiePi · 02/08/2024 08:16

@GiddyMember they are men.
Let’s not forget all the women of colour who have lost prizes, sponsorship, a route out of poverty through sport, and in some cases have sustained serious injuries because of this obsession.

Would you go routinely go round calling women born with disorders of sexual development, presumably with vaginas, men?

These issues are going to happen fairly often because some women with DSD will find that they're talented (compared to the average woman without their particular DSD) at sport.

Women with DSD are part of the natural range of women and so should be able to compete against other women, because they're women too.

Maybe with some restrictions that they have to have treatment for their conditions to lower any excessively raised testosterone for their sex category etc.

This is not a new phenomenon, these women will've been acing in women's sport for decades/centuries.

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