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A woman has to box a man today at the Olympics. AIBU to be scared for her?

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ilovemoney · 01/08/2024 10:28

Lin Yu-ting and Imane Khelif: Boxers cleared for Paris Olympics - BBC Sport

They are both biological males. Its to IOC, International Olympic committee. There will be a protest and i know another female Irish boxer has pulled out but surely this cant stand. The women could be seriously injured.

Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-ting

Lin Yu-ting and Imane Khelif: Boxers cleared for Paris Olympics

Two athletes are cleared to compete at the women's boxing at the Paris Olympics, having been disqualified from last year's World Championships for failing to meet eligibility criteria.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/articles/c4ngr93d9pgo

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Naunet · 01/08/2024 12:18

Maireanto1 · 01/08/2024 12:15

It's not difficult for transgender athletes. They can lobby & demand sections for transgender competitors or they can compete in their birth sex category.
It is difficult & in my opinion tragic for all the females who are suffering at the hands of males infiltrating their women only catagory. Prime example bring Angela Carini having her nose broken just under an hour ago 42 seconds into the most important match of her career...

And let’s not forget, we have a transman also in the womens boxing. TRAs are utter hypocrites.

RogerApGwilliam · 01/08/2024 12:18

Has this knocked Angela out now, or is it a group stage with other matches?

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:19

Didn't both of these fighters appear to be female at birth? These aren't trans women. The language used in this thread about them is pretty disgusting.

TinkerTiger · 01/08/2024 12:20

HappierTimesAhead · 01/08/2024 12:11

That isn't remotely what I was implying though was it?

Well PP said ‘While ever the biological women allow it, then it will continue unfortunately.’

And you replied that you had an issue with it because it implied that women were the problem. You didn’t use the words ‘victim blaming’, but that’s what victim blaming is.

Helleofabore · 01/08/2024 12:20

Tandora · 01/08/2024 12:13

What makes me scared for women is the attitudes, sexism and misogyny all over this thread 😢😢

Edited

And yet, disregarding the needs of female people and prioritising a sub group of male people for their emotional needs such as you are advocating for is the very definition of sexism and misogyny.

It is very misogynistic to elevate the desires of any male person above the safety needs of female people. Well done for recognising it. .. oh wait....

TheDefiant · 01/08/2024 12:20

Not RTFT I have a horrible feeling the DSD competitors will throw the match and lose to the women to "prove" that there is no issue.

cupcaske123 · 01/08/2024 12:20

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:19

Didn't both of these fighters appear to be female at birth? These aren't trans women. The language used in this thread about them is pretty disgusting.

They're both blokes.

Nanny0gg · 01/08/2024 12:21

GinAndBeerIt · 01/08/2024 10:35

I don't understand why the woman is even entering into the competition with him.
If the biological women all said no, we're not playing with a man on the team, or against a man then the officials would have to ban men.
While ever the biological women allow it, then it will continue unfortunately.
The real question for me is....what sort of bloke would hit a woman, sport or not, gender change or not.

Edited

Yet again the women have to give their years of training and the opportunity they've been working for because Men.

bombastix · 01/08/2024 12:21

Guardian has a mealy mouthed commentary on this. Pathetic

TheNuthatch · 01/08/2024 12:21

Its disgusting that this has been allowed. These Olympic games have been awful. They have men boxing women and a convicted child rapist competing in volleyball.

Legendairy · 01/08/2024 12:21

Maireanto1 · 01/08/2024 12:15

It's not difficult for transgender athletes. They can lobby & demand sections for transgender competitors or they can compete in their birth sex category.
It is difficult & in my opinion tragic for all the females who are suffering at the hands of males infiltrating their women only catagory. Prime example bring Angela Carini having her nose broken just under an hour ago 42 seconds into the most important match of her career...

My post is clearly in support of female athletes, is IS mentally hard for transgender athletes however than doesn't mean they should be able to compete in women's sports if they are biologically male. They may find that decision difficult but tough shit. I just can't comprehend how anyone has ever agreed to them being allowed.

urghbrotherurgh · 01/08/2024 12:21

F*ck. abandoned after 46 seconds as he broke her nose!

Nanny0gg · 01/08/2024 12:21

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:19

Didn't both of these fighters appear to be female at birth? These aren't trans women. The language used in this thread about them is pretty disgusting.

They are XY

They are men

WickedSerious · 01/08/2024 12:22

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:19

Didn't both of these fighters appear to be female at birth? These aren't trans women. The language used in this thread about them is pretty disgusting.

Calling a man a man is 'pretty disgusting'?

Nanny0gg · 01/08/2024 12:22

urghbrotherurgh · 01/08/2024 12:21

F*ck. abandoned after 46 seconds as he broke her nose!

Disgraceful

It's sanctioned assault

gailforce2 · 01/08/2024 12:23

In their report the Daily Mail keep referring to the Algerian as "she" yet saying there is controversy about their sex.

TheKeatingFive · 01/08/2024 12:23

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:19

Didn't both of these fighters appear to be female at birth? These aren't trans women. The language used in this thread about them is pretty disgusting.

🙄

You don't think man beating up woman in the name of sport is what's actually disgusting? You're that captured?

Helleofabore · 01/08/2024 12:23

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:19

Didn't both of these fighters appear to be female at birth? These aren't trans women. The language used in this thread about them is pretty disgusting.

The fact remains that these male athletes are not female athletes.

If the regulatory board has conducted testing and found advantage based on multiple tests and parameters, as the IBA has stated they have, whether these male athletes 'appeared to be female at birth' is, to be blunt, irrelevant. Many people have to deal with finding out they are not eligible to compete in a protected category that they wanted to compete in. Their back story is irrelevant to the outcome.

PruneInTheNest · 01/08/2024 12:23

For one if I was competing I would be scared to speak out too loudly for fear of backlash (being called transphobic etc) and that ruining my career.
I also would feel I couldn’t pull out and take a stand without risking my career and everything I had worked hard for.
but I would be absolutely terrified of fighting someone who was born biologically male- it’s not a fair fight.

realistically I feel that the women competing are stuck between a rock and a hard place, it’s up to others to put a stop to this not the poor women competing.

UpThePankhurst · 01/08/2024 12:23

If your main concern about what just happened is whether it's not kind to call a man a man, you just enabled the battering and injury of that woman.

Someone with XY chromosomes is a man. How they feel about their material reality becomes absolutely irrelevant when they want to be enabled to injure women on live tv.

JusteanBiscuits · 01/08/2024 12:24

cupcaske123 · 01/08/2024 12:20

They're both blokes.

But 'assigned female at birth'.

They are not cheats. They are also people who have spent a large proportion of their lives leading to the olympics and have been found to have a medical condition. This is not simple black and white and as I said, the language used toward them in this thread is appalling.

HappierTimesAhead · 01/08/2024 12:24

TinkerTiger · 01/08/2024 12:20

Well PP said ‘While ever the biological women allow it, then it will continue unfortunately.’

And you replied that you had an issue with it because it implied that women were the problem. You didn’t use the words ‘victim blaming’, but that’s what victim blaming is.

Because it is not as simple as women 'standing up against it'. To decide not to compete would come with heavy consequences for those women. They will have considered it very carefully. It doesn't make them wrong for deciding to compete anyway and we should not judge them for doing so.

The corrupt institutions that allow and support this to happen are reprehensible.

TheKeatingFive · 01/08/2024 12:24

gailforce2 · 01/08/2024 12:23

In their report the Daily Mail keep referring to the Algerian as "she" yet saying there is controversy about their sex.

They have to as per the reporting guidelines.

Thats another battle we have to fight. If the press can't actually report accurately we cannot communicate clearly

elgreco · 01/08/2024 12:24

It's absolutely fucking disgraceful.

Men beating women is now officially sanctioned.

They can get a medal for it now.

Maireanto1 · 01/08/2024 12:24

Legendairy · 01/08/2024 12:21

My post is clearly in support of female athletes, is IS mentally hard for transgender athletes however than doesn't mean they should be able to compete in women's sports if they are biologically male. They may find that decision difficult but tough shit. I just can't comprehend how anyone has ever agreed to them being allowed.

I know you are supportive. However hard it is for trans athletes mentally imagine how awful it is for female athletes who have to deal with feelings & resentment on top on everything else.
Why should women's comfort levels & safety be compromised for mens feelings?

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