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Totally disgusted by those rioting in Southport

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Bex5490 · 30/07/2024 22:18

Southport has experienced the most unbelievable tragedy.

Their emergency services had to respond to probably the most traumatic calls they’ve ever had, yet tonight they are being attacked by thugs?

The latest is that these people are destroying people’s homes to get bricks with which to throw at the police.

I am heartbroken, bewildered and disgusted. How dare they destroy the homes of that grieving town.

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Fluufer · 31/07/2024 16:09

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:03

It is a source of patriotism for us, we’ve voted many times to keep our borders more intact and have stringent checks on who comes in and out. I’m not Hungarian btw. They have it worse!

it’s a proud moment because we, ordinary citizens, feel in control. And our children play on the streets without supervision. Whereas France is struggling with riots, killings, jihadists, journalists’ murders l. It’s scary to live in the country like that and I have a concern that the UK is beginning to take after France in many ways. Strangely l, even after BREXIT! surely not to do with geography, but with failing government policies. We’re 3 days into stabbing and still not a single word about policies to tackle knife crime.

Hungary is not the utopia you describe it as. Crime statistics and gender equality statistics are freely available.

BehindTheSequinsandStilettos · 31/07/2024 16:09

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 15:51

yep these people definitely look like they are respectfully grieving. apparently this is British culture (so the twats in this riot kept saying). as a Muslim mumsnetter who has had to performatively apologise every time a twat in the Muslim community does something, I would like to see the English/British mumsnetters (although I am one too, so not sure where this leaves me) apologise and distance themselves from this behaviour. I would also like a detailed discussion about how English culture leads to these kinds of behaviours. thanks.

https://youtube.com/shorts/-Gw4fIGRSYA?si=P7l3fiWcoIfEqCF

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I'm so sorry this has happened and am ashamed those gleeful wankers think that kind of thuggery and idiocy and incitement is okay. I hope they identify and arrest every one. They don't represent me.
Many MNetters on the thread below distancing themselves and standing with you X
Page 3 | Hope you’re all doing ok | Mumsnet

AvrielFinch · 31/07/2024 16:10

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:08

In the interests of accuracy the family were Romany, not Romanian. The rioters were varied. One arrested was called something like Mark Mitchell.

They were romany romanians.

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:12

Inlaw · 31/07/2024 15:31

He was calling for all uk cities to rise up.

I don’t know what input he had with Southport specifically.

He condemned the violence and riots last night. And explicitly said throwing bricks and anger at police isn’t a solution. Which is true! Police are doing their job and trying to keep everyone safe!

he did say there are “other ways”, but wasn’t explicit about that. Which left me wondering what else can be done.

I’ve actually tried to write a Petition for Parliament, but (to Jo surprised) the Parliament Petition Commitee has been dissolved due to General Election and it is still to be reinstated.

I don’t know what else to do and how to get to Westminster so they actually do something about the knife crime.

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:12

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 15:47

@Piggywaspushed yup. Impossible to get a gun, and we have special places for sports shooting. As for stabbing a they are incredibly rare - we can go whole year without a single one. If stabs happen, they are in drug gangs near borders, and there’s a lot of coverage of it. Generally biggest crime is drug possession! Second largest is theft. Then there are a few rapes happening too. But nothing ever targeted in girl, randomly, and no child grooming gangs like in the UK.

we’ve taken migrants when EU made us take them, but they left less than a month later to France 🤣 goes without saying that the public loved it.

You are going to have to bame this voluntary with no knife crime. It may not feel like it, but the UK has low murder rates, compared internationally.

Wox · 31/07/2024 16:13

It was an absolute disgrace.
The bereaved families have enough to deal with & these idiots think it’s appropriate to turn up at a peaceful vigil and cause havoc & violence. Honestly they should be ashamed. They are embarrassing.

Thepeopleversuswork · 31/07/2024 16:13

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 15:51

yep these people definitely look like they are respectfully grieving. apparently this is British culture (so the twats in this riot kept saying). as a Muslim mumsnetter who has had to performatively apologise every time a twat in the Muslim community does something, I would like to see the English/British mumsnetters (although I am one too, so not sure where this leaves me) apologise and distance themselves from this behaviour. I would also like a detailed discussion about how English culture leads to these kinds of behaviours. thanks.

https://youtube.com/shorts/-Gw4fIGRSYA?si=P7l3fiWcoIfEqCF

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I’m very happy as a non Muslim Mumsnetter to say that some of the comments on this thread make me ashamed to be English.

We are not all as bigoted as some of the posters.

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:16

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:12

You are going to have to bame this voluntary with no knife crime. It may not feel like it, but the UK has low murder rates, compared internationally.

I’ve just quickly googled the crime rates UK vs other countries, and there is useful wiki page https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate

country I’m from has 2x lower homicide rates. So very very low internationally. I think there’s something to be said about border control and strict profiling there.

List of countries by intentional homicide rate - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate

SincerelyTabi · 31/07/2024 16:17

CantDealwithChristmas · 31/07/2024 15:04

He put out a statement saying he understood people were angry but the riot was not the answer.

the sad thing about last night's thuggery is that people are forgetting the victims of Monday's horror and the heroes who rushed in to save them

I wish everyone could get back to that

This.

The sheer male brutal violence against our police from the EDL yesterday has overshadowed and is now covering up in the media the sheer brutal violence against a group of very young girls who were attacked in a frenzy when they thought they were in a happy, safe and fun place on holiday. People are now mostly talking about the riots and not as much about one of the most evil and frenzied attacks against children in British history. There will be people who know the 17 year old suspect and gossip about him will come out on x or elsewhere before long. Some of his teachers and school mates will have sussed him out a long time ago. Stabbing requires close proximity between the perpetrator and the victim and is a physically demanding act. The predatory, sustained and frenzied action indicates uncontrollable rage to me. What he might have been raging about or who he might have been raging against will hopefully come out in court. His family must be in hiding as their address was shared online?

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 16:18

SallyWD · 31/07/2024 16:05

I am absolutely not pro-Hamas. However, I can perfectly imagine being a Muslim, seeing what is done in Palestine and having some sense of affiliation with Hamas. I'm not saying it's right but seeing hundreds of Palestinian kids blown up can do funny things to you.

I can understand people can be angry but there can never ever be an excuse for supporting terrorists whatever their background (and I include edl thugs in this category). Muslims should know bette. Islam is very clear on rules of war and harm to civilians being absolutely forbidden. anger in general is also frowned upon. a man came to the Prophet SAWS and asked him, please give me some advice. and the Prophet SAWS said "do not be angry". the man asked again give me another piece of advice and the Prophet SAWS repeated "do not be angry" and then again a third time.

no good comes out of anger. although full disclosure I probably need that advice as well, I tend to get quite heated.🫣

Lentilweaver · 31/07/2024 16:19

Hang on @DecusCulinae you are an immigrant in the UK and you are proud of the fact that there is no immigration to your country of origin? Have I got that right?

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 16:19

SincerelyTabi · 31/07/2024 16:17

This.

The sheer male brutal violence against our police from the EDL yesterday has overshadowed and is now covering up in the media the sheer brutal violence against a group of very young girls who were attacked in a frenzy when they thought they were in a happy, safe and fun place on holiday. People are now mostly talking about the riots and not as much about one of the most evil and frenzied attacks against children in British history. There will be people who know the 17 year old suspect and gossip about him will come out on x or elsewhere before long. Some of his teachers and school mates will have sussed him out a long time ago. Stabbing requires close proximity between the perpetrator and the victim and is a physically demanding act. The predatory, sustained and frenzied action indicates uncontrollable rage to me. What he might have been raging about or who he might have been raging against will hopefully come out in court. His family must be in hiding as their address was shared online?

exactly. they won't even let the families and the community grieve in peace.

user556453 · 31/07/2024 16:19

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:03

It is a source of patriotism for us, we’ve voted many times to keep our borders more intact and have stringent checks on who comes in and out. I’m not Hungarian btw. They have it worse!

it’s a proud moment because we, ordinary citizens, feel in control. And our children play on the streets without supervision. Whereas France is struggling with riots, killings, jihadists, journalists’ murders l. It’s scary to live in the country like that and I have a concern that the UK is beginning to take after France in many ways. Strangely l, even after BREXIT! surely not to do with geography, but with failing government policies. We’re 3 days into stabbing and still not a single word about policies to tackle knife crime.

So you think your children are able to play on the streets without supervision because you've managed to run immigrants out of the country, which you apparently believe is something that calls for laughing face emojis?

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:22

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:16

I’ve just quickly googled the crime rates UK vs other countries, and there is useful wiki page https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate

country I’m from has 2x lower homicide rates. So very very low internationally. I think there’s something to be said about border control and strict profiling there.

Most murders in UK are committed by people known to the suspect. Predominantly white, British, male.

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 16:23

Thepeopleversuswork · 31/07/2024 16:13

I’m very happy as a non Muslim Mumsnetter to say that some of the comments on this thread make me ashamed to be English.

We are not all as bigoted as some of the posters.

and @BehindTheSequinsandStilettos I know of course that the bigots are the minority. my comment was tongue in cheek. just highlighting the absurdity of painting a whole community as awful because of individuals being twats.
there has been a lot of supportive comments too which I have taken heart it.

Fluufer · 31/07/2024 16:27

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:16

I’ve just quickly googled the crime rates UK vs other countries, and there is useful wiki page https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate

country I’m from has 2x lower homicide rates. So very very low internationally. I think there’s something to be said about border control and strict profiling there.

Which country are you from? It's an anonymous forum, there's no reason to be secretive. If it's so great, let us check it out.

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 16:28

Buddysbunda · 31/07/2024 16:07

I have family in one of those areas and they don't seem to have any problem getting out and about. What astonishing me as an outsider is the really high level of poverty. The level of education is shocking. We are talking about a basic lack of literacy from a lot of them not they don't have degrees or know Shakespeare but they cant really type out a legible sentence. The drug use is alarming, probably due to the poverty. Health is awful, so many of them die young, have stillbirths, have really life limiting illnesses.

We have 2 groups in the family one who stayed in the poverty ridden UK area and one who left to another country. So multiple family members UK and multiple family members somewhere else where an ancestor came from. The difference in the lives between the 2 is so pronounced. Degrees vs can't spell basic words. Careers vs long term unemployed/v low wage jobs. Healthy sport playing vs many illnesses. Healthy children vs multiple still births/premature births. The difference is so pronounced.

This is all to say the problem in their area isn't immigrants. It's appalling education, appalling healthcare, appalling quality of life and extreme poverty. They were failed from the very beginning, years and years of a lack of investment in the area and a lack of services. The government failed them and it's petty handy for the government that now every bodies fingers are pointing at immigrants rather than them.

couldn't agree more. ultimately it's poverty and lack of education that leads to these issues, not the colour of people's skin!! you would have thought that society has evolved enough now for people to be aware of this basic fact.

Katemax82 · 31/07/2024 16:28

I don't agree with mindless violence but people are ANGRY

SincerelyTabi · 31/07/2024 16:28

Lentilweaver · 31/07/2024 16:19

Hang on @DecusCulinae you are an immigrant in the UK and you are proud of the fact that there is no immigration to your country of origin? Have I got that right?

Hey lentilweaver, why is this a problem? Are you expecting immigrants to be good immigrants and only hold views that you approve of? Interesting how you hone in on her immigrant identity, it's more subtle but still othering. I've seen this kind of very inherent attitude in many who thought they are open minded and inclusive. What strings are you attaching to your version of edi?

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 16:29

Fluufer · 31/07/2024 16:27

Which country are you from? It's an anonymous forum, there's no reason to be secretive. If it's so great, let us check it out.

yes, maybe we can immigrate there?
also @Fluufer Hungary may have political and racism issues, but they can cook a duck like nobody's business! I can deal with a little racism to get some good food.

Omlettes · 31/07/2024 16:30

Bex5490 · 30/07/2024 22:18

Southport has experienced the most unbelievable tragedy.

Their emergency services had to respond to probably the most traumatic calls they’ve ever had, yet tonight they are being attacked by thugs?

The latest is that these people are destroying people’s homes to get bricks with which to throw at the police.

I am heartbroken, bewildered and disgusted. How dare they destroy the homes of that grieving town.

Its women getting killed by a man, and men making the situation infinitely worse, traumatising the victims and wrecking property.
50 police officers injured.
TR and his thugs ALWAYS ALWAYS makes things worse, and also impossible for anyone to say anything against illegal immigration because we get lumped in with him.
I despise his fake concern.
And now the police will be even more reluctant to discuss anything about future suspects.

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 16:30

I am mystified. The worst countries have very low immigration ( obviously US aside). Scotland and Ireland are doing well, England and Wales still the 142nd worst, similar to many EU countries. Marginal differences at the better end of the list. You can't read immigration easily into actual rates. Some people might examine rises , and changes in crime types.

PocketSand · 31/07/2024 16:31

We should all be concerned about the rise of the far right politically and the deployment of far right thugs exploiting tragedies to commit crimes to promote their beliefs. Nothing good can come from this.

But history teaches us what the antecedents are. It's not what you'd think. It's not immigration. Its inequity and inequality has increased hugely since Covid. Deal with inequality. Crush the ideology before it causes untold harm.

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:31

SincerelyTabi · 31/07/2024 16:17

This.

The sheer male brutal violence against our police from the EDL yesterday has overshadowed and is now covering up in the media the sheer brutal violence against a group of very young girls who were attacked in a frenzy when they thought they were in a happy, safe and fun place on holiday. People are now mostly talking about the riots and not as much about one of the most evil and frenzied attacks against children in British history. There will be people who know the 17 year old suspect and gossip about him will come out on x or elsewhere before long. Some of his teachers and school mates will have sussed him out a long time ago. Stabbing requires close proximity between the perpetrator and the victim and is a physically demanding act. The predatory, sustained and frenzied action indicates uncontrollable rage to me. What he might have been raging about or who he might have been raging against will hopefully come out in court. His family must be in hiding as their address was shared online?

Unverified info below, because that person may have lied to me. But I know someone from around there and she said her and her husband were approached by police officer asking to not spread, saying that public is being “manipulated” atm. Probably because of riots, which is fair enough. She thinks it’s orders from “above” suspecting the Home Office. She recons direct neighbours were made to sign non disclosure agreements. (Fair enough, he’s meant to be 17 and a minor)

I believe it, but as I said, may be a lie. Public needs to be manipulated to keep order, but I don’t like it personally. One thing to understand, another - to control emotions! Definitely finding it hard considering kids were attacked.

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 16:32

PocketSand · 31/07/2024 16:31

We should all be concerned about the rise of the far right politically and the deployment of far right thugs exploiting tragedies to commit crimes to promote their beliefs. Nothing good can come from this.

But history teaches us what the antecedents are. It's not what you'd think. It's not immigration. Its inequity and inequality has increased hugely since Covid. Deal with inequality. Crush the ideology before it causes untold harm.

Equally concerned about the far left. Because both are equally bad.

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