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Totally disgusted by those rioting in Southport

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Bex5490 · 30/07/2024 22:18

Southport has experienced the most unbelievable tragedy.

Their emergency services had to respond to probably the most traumatic calls they’ve ever had, yet tonight they are being attacked by thugs?

The latest is that these people are destroying people’s homes to get bricks with which to throw at the police.

I am heartbroken, bewildered and disgusted. How dare they destroy the homes of that grieving town.

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TwigletsAndRadishes · 31/07/2024 14:58

Mugcake · 31/07/2024 14:51

Yep it's disgusting. The EDL and other right wing pricks have immediately tried to capitalise on those poor little girls deaths. I've seen reports that it was committed by a Syrian refugee (false) and illegal immigrant (false) and a Muslim gang (false). The 17yr old who did it was BORN IN CARDIFF his parens are Rowandan and presumably have been here legally for decades.
Unfortunately you can fight stupid.
You'd think though given the grief and trauma those poor kids and their families are going through Tommy Robindon et al would have a tiny amount of respect. The fact that some of them have been reported as carrying weapons (including knives) is sickening given what's just happened. I hope they're all locked up. Utter scum.

Has Tommy Robinson actually made a statement about this? Did he organise the protest last night or call for people to protest at the mosque?

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 14:59

He's hiding in Spain.

Hateliars34 · 31/07/2024 14:59

justasking111 · 31/07/2024 14:41

It's so difficult we live in a cul de sac of ten. Nine white Welsh families. Then a mixed race Asian family moved in at first everything seemed fine, but slowly we realised our Welsh children aren't welcome to play in the cul de sac.

Five of us have dogs and cats which are considered disgusting 💩 on four legs

. A couple of properties have come up for sale at prices that they think ridiculous, they'd have bought if they'd been cheaper.

Their oldest went to the local secondary and hasn't excelled like his cousins elsewhere. So he's in trouble. They're very critical of our Welsh schools which ain't perfect I'll admit.

My grandchildren play with them at school but are shunned by them when they visits us. Very confusing for a six year old. They're lovely kids but not allowed to birthday parties or play dates ever.

They are just so angry about everything these days. We're all walking on eggs here.

But honestly we haven't done anything.

That might just be because they're a weird family rather than Asian.

I have Asian neighbours and they're great. Asian birthday parties in my experience have also been the best for parents because they make so much food for grown-ups! I also know Asians who I don't get on with. Just like I know some brilliant white families and some I don't like.

FixTheBone · 31/07/2024 15:00

Livelovebehappy · 31/07/2024 14:39

Thing is no go areas go both ways. I live in a very Muslim dominated area where there are several no-go areas. I cant risk my son walking anywhere outside our own street as there are many attacks on white oeople. It's pretty scarey. We have to drive him everywhere. My point being by diluting white people, the situation can then flip.

Bigotry and conscious bias, even If you don't recognise it.

why can't your kids go anywhere? what has happened to them? what do actual stats say? I say this as someone who lives in a very mixed area of Bradford, whose kids go out by themselves and never have a problem.

I grew up in Birkenhead North, don't think I ever saw a non-white person for most of my childhood. That was a much scarier place to walk around, crime robbery, I was knifed aged 14.

The problems in these cities aren't because of immigrants, they're because of poverty, bigotry and exclusion.

Fluufer · 31/07/2024 15:01

Hateliars34 · 31/07/2024 14:59

That might just be because they're a weird family rather than Asian.

I have Asian neighbours and they're great. Asian birthday parties in my experience have also been the best for parents because they make so much food for grown-ups! I also know Asians who I don't get on with. Just like I know some brilliant white families and some I don't like.

They're mixed race anyway. So its not even like it's a homogeneous Asian culture is to blame. Lovely Asian neighbours here too.

CantDealwithChristmas · 31/07/2024 15:04

TwigletsAndRadishes · 31/07/2024 14:58

Has Tommy Robinson actually made a statement about this? Did he organise the protest last night or call for people to protest at the mosque?

He put out a statement saying he understood people were angry but the riot was not the answer.

the sad thing about last night's thuggery is that people are forgetting the victims of Monday's horror and the heroes who rushed in to save them

I wish everyone could get back to that

Scirocco · 31/07/2024 15:04

Hateliars34 · 31/07/2024 14:59

That might just be because they're a weird family rather than Asian.

I have Asian neighbours and they're great. Asian birthday parties in my experience have also been the best for parents because they make so much food for grown-ups! I also know Asians who I don't get on with. Just like I know some brilliant white families and some I don't like.

Yeah, they sound rude and odd.

We're a mixed-race family, have had pets, DC love animals, playdates and parties all year round, etc.

Cornettoninja · 31/07/2024 15:05

samarrange · 31/07/2024 14:50

Hopefully they will all feel like absolute fuckin idiots and stfu.

Good luck with that. Their logic will be "Well, he could of [sic] been a migrant off a boat, there [sic] all like that". Or "The police are hiding the truth". In conspiracy world (RW politics is closely tied to conspiracist thinking), evidence against an argument can always be turned into evidence in favour of it.

That’s the thing isn’t it, once you start down the conspiracy/fake news road then anything that you don’t want to believe or hear immediately becomes further evidence of coverup or ‘fake news’. There is zero that would convince these people they’re wrong (which is always a useful question to ask yourself if you’re wondering whether your affected or not). They’re brainwashed.

even getting Farage or whatever-hes-called-this-week Robinson on side to calm things wouldn’t work. That’s why Russia and China invest so heavily in troll farms for disruption - outrage takes on a life of its own and self perpetuates.

SerafinasGoose · 31/07/2024 15:07

Soroe · 31/07/2024 14:28

Exactly. Lack of information is fuelling the fire.

The priority of the justice system is not to prejudice any trial. Due legal process is these grieving families' only hope of justice for their daughters. This is far more important than satisfying the 'need' of an over-curious, prurient, and in some cases volatile populace to know every last detail about a suspect who is a minor (hence in accordance with UK law) and hasn't even been charged yet. Vigilantism is the preserve of the terminally ignorant and ill-informed: the sort who are unable to tell the difference between a paediatrician and a paedophile. There's a reason we don't do things that way in this country.

Responding to a different point other than that of the PP above, the commentary upthread about questioning the 'ideology' that led to this tragedy is just as myopic. How to 'debate' when we don't even know his motivation, and won't, unless he's charged and the case goes to trial? All we know about this suspect is that he's male, 17 (a minor), from Cardiff, and that his parents are from Rwanda.

He's male. His victims are female. Only last week we heard reports that VAWG in the UK is at the level of a national emergency. THIS is the one common denominator surrounding similar cases: male pattern violence. What will happen if 'The Ideology' proves (again) to be nothing more than the misogynistic patriarcy in which we live? (And don't kid yourself that misogyny is imported. We have plenty of home-grown violent, sexist pricks). Will the victims then become mere statistics, like all the other women and girls murdered at the hands of violent, vengeful males; a drop in the ocean amid all the other tragic names read out annually in parliament by Jess Phillips? Will there be rioting in the street if this turns out to be the (far too commonplace) eventuality?

My confident prediction is this. Will there fuck.

Soukmyfalafel · 31/07/2024 15:08

When I see this sort of response to such an awful tragedy, I just assume it's a bunch of men who are angry because showing up with a cock and a narcisstic personality doesn't equate to automatic success anymore. I'm guessing its a paradigm shift they are unable to cope with. They have to blame someone for being so pointless.

OneBadKitty · 31/07/2024 15:16

Why has my post been deleted? How did I break the talk guidelines? Says it all really.

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/07/2024 15:17

PandoraSox · 31/07/2024 14:04

I do understand what you are saying, but since Monday there has been a lot of racism on MN relating to this case and a lot of deliberate misinformation spread. I do think we have to call that out and combat it.

We absolutely need to call it out. Because it's Russian lies and bullshit being spread by useful idiots🤦‍♀️ in the UK. It directly lead to last night's thuggery.

Looting. Rioting. 50 odd police officers injured, more than 20 hospitalised. £££££s of damage. A traumatised community further traumatised.

Everyone who spread rumours or conspiracy theories after the tragedy in Southport is responsible for this. Stop it! Stop allowing yourselves to be used to destabilise the UK! And have a word with yourself about your gullibility.

Livelovebehappy · 31/07/2024 15:17

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Appledoughnut · 31/07/2024 15:23

Soukmyfalafel · 31/07/2024 15:08

When I see this sort of response to such an awful tragedy, I just assume it's a bunch of men who are angry because showing up with a cock and a narcisstic personality doesn't equate to automatic success anymore. I'm guessing its a paradigm shift they are unable to cope with. They have to blame someone for being so pointless.

Pretty much.

Inlaw · 31/07/2024 15:31

TwigletsAndRadishes · 31/07/2024 14:58

Has Tommy Robinson actually made a statement about this? Did he organise the protest last night or call for people to protest at the mosque?

He was calling for all uk cities to rise up.

I don’t know what input he had with Southport specifically.

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 15:34

BBC is not reporting the whole story. The added information was reported (with pictures) on daily mail.

But I would like to add a little bit of European perspective here, since I’m an immigrant from EU. The riots are of course not a common occurrence where I am from, and I always prefer staying out of them as it’s very bonkers to ever be involved in violence.

a story from my childhood: I grew up and went to school with unusual girl, she was Azerbaijani and from fully Azerbaijani family. We were very close when we were in primary school, I went to her home and she went to mine. We spoke same language and shared all sorts of girl activities. She Waldo has an older brother. Very ordinary family, very friendly parents. In the EU country where I’m from it’s forbidden to wear cultural appropriation items in schools, and tbf I’ve actually never seen hijab on the streets either. The family was fully assimilated and integrated, dressed in clothes everyone else did and there was no way to distinguish them from any “natives” so to call them. (A small note, there are only 0.08% of Muslims in my original country)

After I graduated from high school, she moved to London. Got married to Azerbaijani, had two kids.. all ordinary. Until 7th October came. Then she started posting severely pro-Hamas anti-Jewish slurs. Didn’t condemn the attacks on Jews, instead moved in to actively support Hamas. In the meantime her brother got married with a Pakistani lady. Now all of them, the whole family that I knew as a child and loved as friends have turned into some extremists, wearing hijabs and using social media to promote hamas material. I dismissed it. I’m still following her and wish her happy birthday out of respect for my childhood memory.

But I can’t help to notice: I’m from EU, we have 0.08% of Muslims in my country. There’s not been a single racial attack, bombings or shootings or stabbings. In fact the most of our crimes are alcoholisms, drug overuse and male suicides (which isn’t great at all, but is not even reported in British MSM because it seems it became normal here!)

so here you go, just food for thought.

Lampzade · 31/07/2024 15:35

midgetastic · 31/07/2024 12:20

I fail to see what current immigration had to do with this case

The person who attacked the girls was not an immigrant - he was born in wales .

Wales is part of the UK

The people who rioted also were not immigrants

They do appear to be the sort of people who like to stir up racial hatred however whatever flimsy excuse they can find

Exacty
This young man was born in Wales and grew up in Southport.
I don’t even know why his immigration status is even an issue
The police have indicated that it is not a terror attack
His religion is unknown
Despite this, there are people banging on about immigration being at the root of this issue
There were people on social media claiming that this young man came to Britain illegally last year. All lies to stoke up hatred.
It is truly disgusting and anyone who condones or excuses the vile racists should be thoroughly ashamed

Piggywaspushed · 31/07/2024 15:37

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 15:34

BBC is not reporting the whole story. The added information was reported (with pictures) on daily mail.

But I would like to add a little bit of European perspective here, since I’m an immigrant from EU. The riots are of course not a common occurrence where I am from, and I always prefer staying out of them as it’s very bonkers to ever be involved in violence.

a story from my childhood: I grew up and went to school with unusual girl, she was Azerbaijani and from fully Azerbaijani family. We were very close when we were in primary school, I went to her home and she went to mine. We spoke same language and shared all sorts of girl activities. She Waldo has an older brother. Very ordinary family, very friendly parents. In the EU country where I’m from it’s forbidden to wear cultural appropriation items in schools, and tbf I’ve actually never seen hijab on the streets either. The family was fully assimilated and integrated, dressed in clothes everyone else did and there was no way to distinguish them from any “natives” so to call them. (A small note, there are only 0.08% of Muslims in my original country)

After I graduated from high school, she moved to London. Got married to Azerbaijani, had two kids.. all ordinary. Until 7th October came. Then she started posting severely pro-Hamas anti-Jewish slurs. Didn’t condemn the attacks on Jews, instead moved in to actively support Hamas. In the meantime her brother got married with a Pakistani lady. Now all of them, the whole family that I knew as a child and loved as friends have turned into some extremists, wearing hijabs and using social media to promote hamas material. I dismissed it. I’m still following her and wish her happy birthday out of respect for my childhood memory.

But I can’t help to notice: I’m from EU, we have 0.08% of Muslims in my country. There’s not been a single racial attack, bombings or shootings or stabbings. In fact the most of our crimes are alcoholisms, drug overuse and male suicides (which isn’t great at all, but is not even reported in British MSM because it seems it became normal here!)

so here you go, just food for thought.

No shootings or stabbings in an entire country?? Wow.

Whippetlovely · 31/07/2024 15:38

Beth216 · 31/07/2024 09:57

The EDF are a disgusting bunch of racist men who just enjoy destroying other people's things. They are just a vile mob.

its EDL , EDF are a. Energy company not sure what they have to do with it

GoldenLegend · 31/07/2024 15:39

An additional factor is the weather. It's very warm at the moment. Stuff like this notoriously happens more frequently in hot weather.

Lampzade · 31/07/2024 15:39

Soukmyfalafel · 31/07/2024 15:08

When I see this sort of response to such an awful tragedy, I just assume it's a bunch of men who are angry because showing up with a cock and a narcisstic personality doesn't equate to automatic success anymore. I'm guessing its a paradigm shift they are unable to cope with. They have to blame someone for being so pointless.

Yep

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 15:40

orchiddottyback · 31/07/2024 14:45

Plenty Blackburn, Nelson, Dewsbury, Batley, Bradford to name only a few. But again some one will come saying the opposite. But then again this is MN and full of people who make an excuse for anything to push their left wing agenda.

*footnote: for the MN loons who quote me I don't read your replies haha.

I've been to those areas. no such thing as no go areas. there are poverty ridden areas with high knife crime etc. where anybody and everybody is at risk late at night etc. that has nothing to do with race.
as long as people don't go around flashing expensive watches/jewellery or get involved with the gangs, they are fine.

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 15:45

DecusCulinae · 31/07/2024 15:34

BBC is not reporting the whole story. The added information was reported (with pictures) on daily mail.

But I would like to add a little bit of European perspective here, since I’m an immigrant from EU. The riots are of course not a common occurrence where I am from, and I always prefer staying out of them as it’s very bonkers to ever be involved in violence.

a story from my childhood: I grew up and went to school with unusual girl, she was Azerbaijani and from fully Azerbaijani family. We were very close when we were in primary school, I went to her home and she went to mine. We spoke same language and shared all sorts of girl activities. She Waldo has an older brother. Very ordinary family, very friendly parents. In the EU country where I’m from it’s forbidden to wear cultural appropriation items in schools, and tbf I’ve actually never seen hijab on the streets either. The family was fully assimilated and integrated, dressed in clothes everyone else did and there was no way to distinguish them from any “natives” so to call them. (A small note, there are only 0.08% of Muslims in my original country)

After I graduated from high school, she moved to London. Got married to Azerbaijani, had two kids.. all ordinary. Until 7th October came. Then she started posting severely pro-Hamas anti-Jewish slurs. Didn’t condemn the attacks on Jews, instead moved in to actively support Hamas. In the meantime her brother got married with a Pakistani lady. Now all of them, the whole family that I knew as a child and loved as friends have turned into some extremists, wearing hijabs and using social media to promote hamas material. I dismissed it. I’m still following her and wish her happy birthday out of respect for my childhood memory.

But I can’t help to notice: I’m from EU, we have 0.08% of Muslims in my country. There’s not been a single racial attack, bombings or shootings or stabbings. In fact the most of our crimes are alcoholisms, drug overuse and male suicides (which isn’t great at all, but is not even reported in British MSM because it seems it became normal here!)

so here you go, just food for thought.

wearing hijab is not extreme
stop policing what other women do with their bodies.
are you sure it was pro hamas propaganda and not simply pro Palestinian activism. a lot of people conflate the two. give us an example of her prohamas sentiment. and even if she is extremist, so the fuck what? what has that got to do with general Muslim population or brown people in this country? are you responsible for the nazis because you are European?

if you are reading the daily mail, that says a lot about you, frankly.

Motomum23 · 31/07/2024 15:45

The problem is that many people believe that knife crime in general is more common in Asian and black countries - so regardless of the ethnicity of the perpetrator - they 'bought' the knife crime to the UK. We do need to tackle knife crime. How I don't know considering there is apparently not enough prison space in this country.

pandasorous · 31/07/2024 15:47

@justasking111 aah yes, you met one weird mixed Asian family. we must all be weirdos then. I will give my neighbours a call and make sure I am not weirding them out with my brown skin and Asian food smells.

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