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To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!

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TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:34

Just that really!

on holiday at the mo and I cant even count the number of times I have seen topless women sunbathing at the beach… next to kids!…on non-nudist beach!

I really don’t want to see titties out in the middle of the day

on top of that I don’t fancy my teenage boys or even my DH having a look at them either

its obvious they’re coming from certain European countries ! Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

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Usercyzabc · 30/07/2024 21:41

First time in Cyprus OP 😂

mondaytosunday · 30/07/2024 21:44

Breasts are normal. The sooner you realise that the better.
I was recently in Spain with my 20 year old son and a few women on the beach were topless. Was he ogling them with tongue hanging out? Or blushing with embarrassment? No. He's perfectly capable of glancing at a woman without his hormones overpowering his brain.

mrsDracoMalfoy · 30/07/2024 21:54

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 20:31

It is not reasonable to expect an entire country to change its cultural norms to appease tourists with different norms.

yes sure cause local Cypriots can’t wait to expose their kids to German titties !!

Thank you for your comments , off to bed, looking forward to more boobs tomorrow!

German titties 😂😂😂😂

Sinderalla · 30/07/2024 22:02

They don't bother me, it didn't bother me that I'm there with my husband and kids... It's life... Some women do it.

Sinderalla · 30/07/2024 22:06

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 12:48

They can take them out all they want

my Issue is where they are doing it
i am sure there are nudists areas where I am, there are definitely some more isolated areas

wtf does this happen in a very public and full of families area

they don’t need to do this to prove a point, and I don’t need to accept it. Breasts are private otherwise we d all take them out in the office too!

I don’t want to see someone else private bits !

I can see where you're coming from.
It's just a done thing tho x

StarlightLady · 30/07/2024 22:07

There is a huge difference between nudist areas (all off) and women being topless (equality with males!).

78Summer · 30/07/2024 22:08

Worse things going on in the world surely.

StarlightLady · 30/07/2024 22:09

Blondiebeachbabe · 30/07/2024 15:05

Absolute LOL at all the women saying "they're just breasts", and yet, if a woman sent a pic of her breasts to their DH phone, the LAST thing they would say is "oh, it's fine, they are just breasts". 🙄🙄Aye right then.

But they would react the same with a bikini pic!

RampantIvy · 30/07/2024 22:12

mondaytosunday · 30/07/2024 21:44

Breasts are normal. The sooner you realise that the better.
I was recently in Spain with my 20 year old son and a few women on the beach were topless. Was he ogling them with tongue hanging out? Or blushing with embarrassment? No. He's perfectly capable of glancing at a woman without his hormones overpowering his brain.

No. He's perfectly capable of glancing at a woman without his hormones overpowering his brain.

Hmm. Are you absolutely sure about that?
He would have more sense than to openly ogle them, but I'm sure he might have appreciated the view if his preference is for the female form.

StarlightLady · 30/07/2024 22:15

RampantIvy · 30/07/2024 22:12

No. He's perfectly capable of glancing at a woman without his hormones overpowering his brain.

Hmm. Are you absolutely sure about that?
He would have more sense than to openly ogle them, but I'm sure he might have appreciated the view if his preference is for the female form.

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Same could apply with a woman in a stylish one piece, surely?

Same logic could apply to someone who is lesbian.

NonPlayerCharacter · 30/07/2024 22:19

RampantIvy · 30/07/2024 22:12

No. He's perfectly capable of glancing at a woman without his hormones overpowering his brain.

Hmm. Are you absolutely sure about that?
He would have more sense than to openly ogle them, but I'm sure he might have appreciated the view if his preference is for the female form.

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He's a young, heterosexual man. He probably sees women he's attracted to 500 times a day and more often on a beach. We can't control people's thoughts and most of us don't want to and aren't going to live our lives with that as our priority. Seems he was capable of being on a beach with topless women and behaving appropriately; that's all we need.

JL690 · 30/07/2024 22:42

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 30/07/2024 16:00

That must be one seriously hardy woman!

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I'm not that hardy, it was 24 degrees 😂

SocksAndTheCity · 30/07/2024 22:48

RampantIvy · 30/07/2024 22:12

No. He's perfectly capable of glancing at a woman without his hormones overpowering his brain.

Hmm. Are you absolutely sure about that?
He would have more sense than to openly ogle them, but I'm sure he might have appreciated the view if his preference is for the female form.

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And that would be nobody's business but his own, just like anything else that goes on in any persons head. We don't yet have the thought police and thank fuck for that.

Dino11 · 30/07/2024 22:48

I love taking my girls to these type of beaches! They get to see lots of real bodies! Bodies of all shapes and sizes, And people confident about them! I think it’s really healthy with the likes of instagram and social media now showing filtered crap non stop.

prh47bridge · 30/07/2024 22:55

TittiesOutPutThemBack · 30/07/2024 20:31

It is not reasonable to expect an entire country to change its cultural norms to appease tourists with different norms.

yes sure cause local Cypriots can’t wait to expose their kids to German titties !!

Thank you for your comments , off to bed, looking forward to more boobs tomorrow!

Since, contrary to what you think, the locals do sunbathe topless, just not on the beaches generally used by tourists, I doubt they are worried.

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 30/07/2024 22:58

Oh no. Children might see breasts like they possibly fed off when younger...

They're just breasts. Unless you expect men to cover up too

SwordToFlamethrower · 30/07/2024 23:04

Bore off and get a bloody life. It's just skin!

gotmyknickersinatwist · 30/07/2024 23:07

I Googled holiday complaint topless beach to find this:

The 2nd search result was for a red-top article linked to this thread.

@TittiesOutPutThemBack
Are you working hard out there in the sunshine?

To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!
PointsSouth · 30/07/2024 23:10

Do they have no sense of what’s right or wrong ?

Yes, they do. I'm not sure you do though.

80smonster · 30/07/2024 23:43

Is this for fucking real? Get a life.

JL690 · 30/07/2024 23:53

I told a friend about this thread, she sent me this 😂

To not want to see t*ts on the beach??!
Illegally18 · 31/07/2024 00:21

mrsDracoMalfoy · 30/07/2024 19:24

Why the stars??? TITS TITS TITS. as a heterosexual female, I'd actually rather see female tits on the beach then male ones tbh.

TITS

Agreed, it's TITS!

Illegally18 · 31/07/2024 00:28

StarlightLady · 30/07/2024 17:22

Mine play “Born Free”! 😀

And swimming sans top, plus when you get out is far more comfy!

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yes, it is lovely swimming topless. If I'm quite far out from the beach, in the water and no one around, I take off my bikini bottom as well, and hold on to it. Bliss

GinAndBeerIt · 31/07/2024 00:32

If a bloke gets off on seeing my tits he'd need to seek psychiatric help.
They're like two wind socks on a flat calm day ( and German at that )

EasternEcho · 31/07/2024 02:42

😂😂

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