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To think it’s completely and utterly unacceptable for men to compete in women’s sports?

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SwainedFreed · 24/07/2024 20:42

How the hell is this being allowed! I’ve seen the volume of medals they are earning - medals which should be earned by women. Men and women are not physically comparable and this is just a line which once again shouldn’t be crossed.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:17

Sisterdeloris · 24/07/2024 21:46

no one is saying trans ppl can’t play sport but they need to compete against members of their own sex. Trans women can compete against men because that’s what they are

They're outcasts sadly. They may have been born men but they would look out of place playing a "man" and equally they're not accepted by women given the many reasons on this thread. Its a shame really as I dont think most are going through the trans process solely to win sports (though maybe some are??)

It doesn't matter why they're doing it.

OK, they feel really really sad that they were born the "wrong" sex and they really really deeply feel that the universe played a cruel trick on them.

Why are the feelings of this small number of individuals more important than safety and fairness for all women and girls.

(I'll give you a clue. It's because they're something that begins with M and rhymes with "hen", and so their needs are considered more important. If they actually were women, no one would give a shit about their feelings.)

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:19

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down

amp.theguardian.com/sport/article/2024/jun/12/transgender-swimmer-lia-thomas-out-of-olympics-after-losing-legal-battle-swimming

Lia Thomas does not compete as a woman anymore. This was changed ages ago. Also British swimming and world swimming have a female and open/male catagory.

There was a time when the world went mad as it happened. But it was responded to pretty quickly and she has lost a legal case to be able to compete as female.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:24

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:19

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down

amp.theguardian.com/sport/article/2024/jun/12/transgender-swimmer-lia-thomas-out-of-olympics-after-losing-legal-battle-swimming

Lia Thomas does not compete as a woman anymore. This was changed ages ago. Also British swimming and world swimming have a female and open/male catagory.

There was a time when the world went mad as it happened. But it was responded to pretty quickly and she has lost a legal case to be able to compete as female.

Until it's the case in all sports, at all levels, worldwide, there is still a problem.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/07/2024 07:26

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:19

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down

amp.theguardian.com/sport/article/2024/jun/12/transgender-swimmer-lia-thomas-out-of-olympics-after-losing-legal-battle-swimming

Lia Thomas does not compete as a woman anymore. This was changed ages ago. Also British swimming and world swimming have a female and open/male catagory.

There was a time when the world went mad as it happened. But it was responded to pretty quickly and she has lost a legal case to be able to compete as female.

*He.

Women have still lost out and suffered because of biology deniers and people insisting men can become women. Maybe people like yourself seeing as defending Lia's position and calling him she are the main points of your post.

Just because sporting bodies are finally standing up to the 'men's feelings takes priority over everything' brigade brings no comfort to the women who have already lost out.

SamW98 · 25/07/2024 07:28

We are in this situation because we all (or most of us) agreed that male people could be women. And the only way out of it is to acknowledge that they are not actually women, and never can be.

I don’t believe most of us ever did agree male people could be women. The majority of the federal public had no idea this batshittery was going on until it started to get out of control and we got to where we are.

i think a poll among the public would show that the majority don’t believe anyone can change sex. Most people imo are sick and tired of this whole #bekind being forced upon us at the expense of women’s safeguarding because of men who can’t understand the word ‘no’

butterbeansauce · 25/07/2024 07:33

SamW98 · 24/07/2024 21:30

Because they’re misogynistic pricks who are proud of screwing women over.

They don’t give a shit how many women lose their dreams - they see it as validation that they’re women.

Yes. It's so weird that these men that want to be women seem to really hate....
women.

mitogoshi · 25/07/2024 07:34

It all depends on at what level and personal circumstances. I have a reletuve (F-M) that plays a team sport and is fully accepted as a "man" but it's just for fun, yes a league but no one takes it that seriously.

At the other extreme, international governing bodies have rules and in most sports trans women cannot compete if they have been through male puberty. There is a breakdown of rules for the Olympics on one of the newspaper websites, can't remember which one I read it yesterday. Some sports have renamed men as open to be "inclusive" but women are protected and there is hormone testing as well as the trans restrictions.

FrancescaContini · 25/07/2024 07:36

SamW98 · 25/07/2024 07:28

We are in this situation because we all (or most of us) agreed that male people could be women. And the only way out of it is to acknowledge that they are not actually women, and never can be.

I don’t believe most of us ever did agree male people could be women. The majority of the federal public had no idea this batshittery was going on until it started to get out of control and we got to where we are.

i think a poll among the public would show that the majority don’t believe anyone can change sex. Most people imo are sick and tired of this whole #bekind being forced upon us at the expense of women’s safeguarding because of men who can’t understand the word ‘no’

Edited

I didn’t agree to it either, and neither did many women I know. I doubt many sportswomen agreed either.

butterbeansauce · 25/07/2024 07:39

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:08

Just like female rape survivors should set up and fund their own single sex rape crisis support?

Er, no. Men just need to stay the hell out of places which are for women. However they identify.

Shouldn't it be the other way round though? Because it was largely women who set up the rape survivor services and the DV services. So they shouldn't have to do this all over again. Transwomen should set up their own separate services.

mitogoshi · 25/07/2024 07:40

As for mentioning cricket, women are allowed and do compete alongside men at the amateur level, have done for years. It's not a contact sport and ability on a typical team will be very varied. I don't know the rules at professional level in the U.K. but the ones I see look like natal women

hollyblueivy · 25/07/2024 07:45

Parkrun is another example A they don't publish sex based results now as men identifying as women was making the results impossible for women to beat.

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:47

Accidentally** I call her a she because she's trans.

I DO NOT condone sports being competed in in any other way other than birth sex.

Luckily that's changing.

But do not judge. My ds is an elite para sportsman so I've done my fair share of working towards equality in sport.

There is a long way to go to improve equality - for example all governing bodies adopting female birth sex and make/open categories.

However the forth of what happens isn't as sore as people on the internet (who often read media reports rather than actively are involved) would have others believe.

And they are the ones who spout about "truth".

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 07:48

mitogoshi · 25/07/2024 07:34

It all depends on at what level and personal circumstances. I have a reletuve (F-M) that plays a team sport and is fully accepted as a "man" but it's just for fun, yes a league but no one takes it that seriously.

At the other extreme, international governing bodies have rules and in most sports trans women cannot compete if they have been through male puberty. There is a breakdown of rules for the Olympics on one of the newspaper websites, can't remember which one I read it yesterday. Some sports have renamed men as open to be "inclusive" but women are protected and there is hormone testing as well as the trans restrictions.

Absolutely.

However the internet would have you believe otherwise 🙄

ArtFartGunkel · 25/07/2024 07:51

Runsyd · 24/07/2024 22:55

Fair Play for Women exposed the US Rowing rules: "You pick your “gender” at the start of the season, and you’re done. No more fair racing for females then, because any male can declare themselves a woman and race in women’s and girls’ events."

There is one exception in the US Rowing policy. It is for mixed crew races, which require equal numbers of male and female rowers in each boat. In those events, the females must be “assigned female at birth”. Yes, they can see that letting males claim female seats in the boat gives that crew an unfair advantage, but in this case it affects their male opposition, so it’s not allowed."

There is one exception in the US Rowing policy. It is for mixed crew races, which require equal numbers of male and female rowers in each boat. In those events, the females must be “assigned female at birth”. Yes, they can see that letting males claim female seats in the boat gives that crew an unfair advantage, but in this case it affects their male opposition, so it’s not allowed.

Men with DSD winning women's Olympic medals is fine, men playing women's grassroots sports is fine, men changing in women's changing rooms is fine, men pushing women out of women's sports is fine, women not being able to play mens sports is fine because they'd be doping is fine - the men making these decisions are fine with it because it doesn't effect them. They know it's cheating which is why when it does affect them - in mixed teams, they don't allow it.

It's like when the Gender Recognition Act was written, a clause was included which says if a man obtains a Gender Recognition Certificate, he would not be excluded from inheriting a title, even if he had an older sister, even if she also had a GRC! Men's rights.

Imustgoforarun · 25/07/2024 08:01

What about Eddie Izzard? We all love them running marathons and setting records as a she.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/07/2024 08:04

mitogoshi · 25/07/2024 07:34

It all depends on at what level and personal circumstances. I have a reletuve (F-M) that plays a team sport and is fully accepted as a "man" but it's just for fun, yes a league but no one takes it that seriously.

At the other extreme, international governing bodies have rules and in most sports trans women cannot compete if they have been through male puberty. There is a breakdown of rules for the Olympics on one of the newspaper websites, can't remember which one I read it yesterday. Some sports have renamed men as open to be "inclusive" but women are protected and there is hormone testing as well as the trans restrictions.

I'll bet that 'just for fun' sport isn't boxing.

How many transwomen applied for the Open category after the Workd Aquatics changed it. I'll give you the answer- none. Why do you think that is?

SidekickSylvia · 25/07/2024 08:04

Imustgoforarun · 25/07/2024 08:01

What about Eddie Izzard? We all love them running marathons and setting records as a she.

Bit of an odd assumption. I can't stand him, and completely disregard his recorded times, because they aren't female records.

FrancescaContini · 25/07/2024 08:04

Imustgoforarun · 25/07/2024 08:01

What about Eddie Izzard? We all love them running marathons and setting records as a she.

I don’t

EasternStandard · 25/07/2024 08:10

Yanbu so many posts say it well

Makes me want to rage. It’s beyond what women and girls should have to deal with

I can’t even type how strongly I feel on it

IcedPurple · 25/07/2024 08:13

YANBU.

And I don't think any reasonable person would disagree with you.

Princessfluffy · 25/07/2024 08:14

What's wrong is that men are allowed to trample all over women's rights under the banner of "women need to be kind".
It's Taliban style oppression dressed up in Trans ideology.

butterbeansauce · 25/07/2024 08:15

Imustgoforarun · 25/07/2024 08:01

What about Eddie Izzard? We all love them running marathons and setting records as a she.

I think you can only speak for yourself. Eddie Izzard gets on my nerves. And I'm not claiming Eddie Izzard as a she because Eddie Izzard has male musculature and oxygen capacity.

Ozgirl75 · 25/07/2024 08:15

SamW98 · 25/07/2024 07:28

We are in this situation because we all (or most of us) agreed that male people could be women. And the only way out of it is to acknowledge that they are not actually women, and never can be.

I don’t believe most of us ever did agree male people could be women. The majority of the federal public had no idea this batshittery was going on until it started to get out of control and we got to where we are.

i think a poll among the public would show that the majority don’t believe anyone can change sex. Most people imo are sick and tired of this whole #bekind being forced upon us at the expense of women’s safeguarding because of men who can’t understand the word ‘no’

Edited

I agree - we were just being polite - no one can change sex, we just didn’t realise that this politeness would lead to the insanity of men invading women’s spaces, sports etc.

Princessfluffy · 25/07/2024 08:16

For the record we certainly don't all love Eddie Izzard.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 25/07/2024 08:16

It all depends on at what level and personal circumstances.

And no it does bloody well not. No male should be competing in women's sports, whether that's Olympic swimming or the local 'fun' cricket club. At all.

Your relative is FtM (which is impossible btw) so does not possess the same physiological advantage as males. It's not the same. It's an insult for females everywhere for you to try and find loopholes and excuses.