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To think it’s completely and utterly unacceptable for men to compete in women’s sports?

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SwainedFreed · 24/07/2024 20:42

How the hell is this being allowed! I’ve seen the volume of medals they are earning - medals which should be earned by women. Men and women are not physically comparable and this is just a line which once again shouldn’t be crossed.

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PeachyKeane · 24/07/2024 23:29

SamW98 · 24/07/2024 23:21

The penis pandering #bekind handmaidens actually annoy me more than the entitled men. They’re betraying their own sex to support extreme dangerous misogyny. They disgust me

Me too, women can be so naive and easily manipulated unfortunately. All the men I know think it's stupid but laugh as it doesn't affect them in the least. Their view is it's good for them, less competition.

FOJN · 24/07/2024 23:31

LaeralSilverhand · 24/07/2024 23:14

We don’t demand to see the birth certificate of a child to check whether they really are a U12, or of an adult in a sport with age groupings. You do it on an honesty basis and the same applies for sex. When you register as an athlete with a governing body you are asked for your DOB and birth sex and expected to answer honestly. If you are later found to have lied you get sanctioned, just the same as if you had lied about your DOB.

I was responding to someone who said it would be difficult and expensive to police participation in the correct sex category not commenting on current practices.

viques · 24/07/2024 23:32

LaeralSilverhand · 24/07/2024 23:17

@viques the rules around DSDs in athletics have been massively tightened. There’s not going to be another repeat of Rio 2016.

Which is good news for now, but reducing testosterone levels for two years doesnt take away the in built physical advantages of going through a male puberty, and while Paris might be safe I bet there are National Teams working out how they can subvert the new rulings for 2028 and get their boys back on the female rostrum. Let’s face it, developing DSD athletes to win medals is a lot more of a sure thing than initiating a grass roots system to find, develop , nurture, and train promising female athletes who despite all the input might not end up winning on the day.

Sarahzb · 24/07/2024 23:32

Theses people are cheats
Pure and simple
Oh look I've won!
Eff of you cheating idiot, you're three times as bloody big!
Sorry, I need a lie-down now...

AtomHeartMotherOfGod · 24/07/2024 23:44

It's so weird; there's all the angst about drugs and then essentially a point of admin (a label) means that a whole raft of people can come along and shit all over the competition in the most unfair terms possible.

It would be great if every woman athlete at the Olympics just put a big two fingers up to the competition until governments everywhere legislated against it. Trans women are welcome to be women, just not when competing to be fastest, highest or strongest.

TheKeatingFive · 24/07/2024 23:49

It's obviously absolute horseshit and anyone with a brain and a conscience knows that.

Yet so many are prepared to sit back and let this happen. Or worse, bully and harass women standing up for themselves.

It just shows you how little women count to some people. The last few years have been absolutely eye opening to me. I had no idea how ingrained this casual misogyny is. 🤬

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/07/2024 23:57

Unbelievable that this has to be said. Long overdue for cricket, football and the other sports bodies pandering to these men cheats to wake up and start doing what they're meant to be doing. Ensure that women's sport is for women - no exceptions.

RedToothBrush · 25/07/2024 00:24

Circumferences · 24/07/2024 21:24

I don't know how these men sleep at night

Probably with boners.

BreadInCaptivity · 25/07/2024 01:11

Yes.

Of course it is. It's bizarre that the question even needs to be asked.

But here we are.....because male entitlement knows no bounds nor the glee in mediocre sportsmen demonstrating their biological superiority over women (often literally when you look at their clothing where the anatomy is very evident).

Relaxandunwind · 25/07/2024 01:22

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/07/2024 20:49

You'd think it would be obvious. However, I think it's the Emperor's New Clothes. If you say something that's obviously at odds with the facts, people assume it must be true that there's been a new scientific discovery, or how could you hope to get away with it? In this case, millions of years of human evolution is just being batted aside as if somehow something massive's changed in the last few years. Well, spoiler alert, it hasn't. Women have separate sports for the same reason children and older athletes do - it means like is competing with like. Male bodies that went through male puberty are still male bodies that went through male puberty even if the male is taking oestrogen and wearing stereotypically female clothing.

(And it's right and proper that they went through male puberty. Everybody has to go through puberty, even if it's tough. It's an essential part of human development and the children currently being given blockers are getting drugs that have a lot of very nasty side effects. Huge medical scandal in the making.)

Yes I agree. It’s the Emporor’s New Clothes again.

” I just happen to have a penis but you must agree with me I’m as much a woman as all you lot with vaginas «

Yes, of course ! Whatever you say ! 🤣

Relaxandunwind · 25/07/2024 01:25

Women with vaginas should boycott sport until the women with penises stop participating.

ClickClack300 · 25/07/2024 01:42

I feel so sorry for the women that have trained all of their lives for this race. Mind you, isn’t this the same country where women aren’t allowed abortions? Enough said. Disgusting.

hollyblueivy · 25/07/2024 06:37

XenoBitch · 24/07/2024 23:23

Maybe my view on this is too simplistic, but I think that if you were born with a penis, then you should not compete with people who were not born with a penis.

This is the nail on the head.

There does appear to be quite a uniform view on this post. It sounds as though the UK are further ahead than America in trying to sort he mess out.

Is there any appetite in the USA to put a stop to this?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 06:40

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 24/07/2024 20:48

Politicians don't govern sports, and even if UK politicians kicked up a stink, that's inconsequential for sports where the governing bodies are based outside the UK anyway.

It's a problem for the governing bodies of individual sports to tackle.

Why is saying no to men a problem at all?

It's easy.

"You can't compete in women's sports, because you're male. End of discussion."

Why is this apparently so difficult?

ChaToilLeam · 25/07/2024 06:53

Sick of all the virtue signalling bullshit. It’s always women losing out. To help with #bekind, sport should #befair.

Keepingcosy · 25/07/2024 06:56

It's batshittery on a grand scale.

And all the opinionated male pros and ex pros don't say a bloody word about it.

Any male competing is a narcissist cheat who treats women as props.

The fact people enable situations like this and then say their concerned about VAWG is unbelievable. Always knew women are seen as less than, but this really told me just how less than we are.

itsgettingweird · 25/07/2024 06:57

Most British sports bodies and also world sports bodies have updated their transgender policies the past year or so and have female and male/open categories.

Cycling certainly has so despite the link above I'm not how sure how it's happening at club level.

My ds is a swimmer. Clubs have to follow aquatics gb/ home nations gender policy when they run meets.

You can only swim in the female category if you are biologically born with female sex.

I know there's threads continuously on here with regards makes competing as females but in the real world of elite sport it just isn't happening.

MargaretThursday · 25/07/2024 07:01

If TWAW, so it's fair that they compete against women, then TMAM should be taking equal numbers in men's sports....

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:05

MargaretThursday · 25/07/2024 07:01

If TWAW, so it's fair that they compete against women, then TMAM should be taking equal numbers in men's sports....

Funnily enough that's not happening because their female bodies make them uncompetitive against men so they have to compete in women's categories or not at all.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:08

SSpratt · 24/07/2024 21:16

Women need to leave the control of these governing bodies and set up their own competition. For women, run by women. Leave the men to run their own two categories (for men calling themselves men and men calling themselves women).

Just like female rape survivors should set up and fund their own single sex rape crisis support?

Er, no. Men just need to stay the hell out of places which are for women. However they identify.

LlynTegid · 25/07/2024 07:08

If the previous government actually had really cared about women, instead of empty rhetoric, it would have been easy to effectively ban those who have gone through male puberty from competing in women's sports. No public (usually lottery) funding, no use of public facilities for competitions.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:12

thursdaymurderclub · 24/07/2024 21:27

i have absolutely no issue with anyone wanting to be whatever they want to be! but when it comes to sport... have you noticed its males who have chosen to be females who are stealing and cheating other women out of medals.. i cannot think of one example where a woman who has chosen to be a man has won any medals in any field of sport... and we all know why this is. i don't care what operations you have, what blockers or medications you take. the male body, with or without certain appendages is always going to be so much stronger than that of a biological female! its sad and its cheating.

look at leah thomas the swimmer.... was at the bottom of his league as a male swimmer, and now, hey presto he is now a she (i have no issue with this) and she is now competing and beating bilogical woman hands down.

cheats!

Follow that train of thought through to the end.

You say you have no issue with Lia Thomas now being a "she".

But that's how we've ended up with Lia Thomas competing in women's swimming events.

Because we all agreed that people like Lia are now "she", and so the next step was, "Well since she's a she, she can compete in women's sports."

The International Olympic Committee said something along the lines of, "Everybody understands that trans women are women" when defending its decision to let Laurel Hubbard compete in the women's weightlifting in Tokyo. Hubbard didn't win, but still deprived an 18 year old female athlete from a developing country of the opportunity to compete.

We are in this situation because we all (or most of us) agreed that male people could be women. And the only way out of it is to acknowledge that they are not actually women, and never can be.

If you are willing to say someone is a woman is becomes very difficult to explain why that person should not be allowed in places or sports which are for women.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2024 07:14

Sisterdeloris · 24/07/2024 21:36

It doesnt make sense does it. But then should the trans people compete against men? Or should they just give up on competitive sport unless its mixed sports but other than darts it doesnt really happen does it.

They can do what they like as long as they don't make it women's problem.

FrancescaContini · 25/07/2024 07:15

Ten years ago we would have laughed at the idea of this and said, don’t be silly, that’ll never happen. Yet it is happening. I still struggle to believe it every time I read about men taking medals from women in women’s sports.