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AIBU to vote reform

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MeadowL · 30/06/2024 10:16

Anyone else sick of the Tories and Labour and will be voting reform?

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pandasorous · 30/06/2024 12:30

MeadowL · 30/06/2024 12:27

Reform are going to surprise a lot of people.

Everyone I know is talking about them.

that's nice

do they also refer to our PM with the P word?

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 30/06/2024 12:30

Very questionable that Reform have no constitution either. Nothing to hold their leadership accountable to members, nothing to enshrine their operating principles and governance. Very opaque and sinister.

Hayliebells · 30/06/2024 12:31

Viviennemary · 30/06/2024 12:26

I find it terribly irritating that the media are doing their best to smear Reform. Rishi Sunak accepted large donations to the Consevstive party from a person who made racist remarks. He admitted it this morning on TV. Hypocrital much.

An awful lot of people won't be voting for the Conservatives either, because of things like this.

rainingsnoring · 30/06/2024 12:31

pandasorous · 30/06/2024 12:24

only three kind of people vote for reform

  1. the ignorant misinformed
  2. the racists
  3. the misinformed racists

As I said upthread, dismissing people in this sort of rude, patronising way is part of the problem and you will simply encourage more people to vote for them too.

How about listening instead?

My young adult son (who has not voted Reform), has mentioned that a couple of his friends and some others he went to school with attended a Farage rally and some of them may vote for him. I'm interested to know why and would love to speak them about it, in a non judgemental way.

Angela455 · 30/06/2024 12:31

Gorgonemilezola · 30/06/2024 12:26

Those voting for Reform Limited (do you realise it's a company, not a political party), could you explain why. Not the things you don't like about alternative parties, but the things you do like about Reform. Do you think their costings are accurate?

Shut the borders, lower energy bills and hopefully shut people like you up.

Despair132 · 30/06/2024 12:31

pandasorous · 30/06/2024 12:28

in my experience, most toxic men are afraid and cowering when the shit hits the fan

they never "protect" women, whatever the hell that means

all this posturing is purely evolutionary and is usually a sign that they are desperate to mate. having been unsuccessful so far in securing a mate, the base instincts take over and they go around doing the human equivalent of puffing out their chest and shaking their tail feathers. it would be funny if they weren't so vile.

The problem is toxic traits women list are the same ones that cause men to protect the women they love. I am talking about traditional masculine traits

Jifmicroliquid · 30/06/2024 12:32

Vote for who you like OP and stuff everyone else.
I haven’t voted Reform, but if their policies align with your values and you believe it is the best party for you, then go for it.

We all live different lives and have different priorities. The amount of childish responses to other people’s choice of vote only further reinforces my belief that this country is doomed nomatter who is in charge. We live in a democratic society and are free to make a choice, and should be free from ridicule about that choice.

Happy voting everyone!

cardibach · 30/06/2024 12:32

MeadowL · 30/06/2024 12:27

Reform are going to surprise a lot of people.

Everyone I know is talking about them.

Pretty much everyone I know voted Labour in 2019. Pockets of like minded people don’t win elections.

ItsMeNotTheProblem · 30/06/2024 12:32

Despair132 · 30/06/2024 12:29

So please explain what your plan is when someone breaks into yo home. You just going to beg them not to hurt you. How naieve can you be

I don’t have a man in my home.

Mind you, it might’ve been nice for the last one to have a target that wasn’t me.

What do you suggest I do?

Hayliebells · 30/06/2024 12:32

MeadowL · 30/06/2024 12:27

Reform are going to surprise a lot of people.

Everyone I know is talking about them.

How so? What surprises do we have coming?

TooBusyGazingAtStarss · 30/06/2024 12:32

Despair132 · 30/06/2024 10:29

Not at all, everyone I know is voting reform. Don’t believe everything you read obviously there is a force to stop people voting for change.

Same

Ohhelpicantthinkofaname · 30/06/2024 12:34

What, you’re asking do I want that bloke who admires putin running the country? No thanks, I’ll pass.

cardibach · 30/06/2024 12:34

Angela455 · 30/06/2024 12:31

Shut the borders, lower energy bills and hopefully shut people like you up.

How? Those things are difficult, complicated and costly (leaving aside the last, which is rich coming from a group who say they think the left don’t want other people to have different opinions)

Despair132 · 30/06/2024 12:36

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SocoBateVira · 30/06/2024 12:36

rainingsnoring · 30/06/2024 12:31

As I said upthread, dismissing people in this sort of rude, patronising way is part of the problem and you will simply encourage more people to vote for them too.

How about listening instead?

My young adult son (who has not voted Reform), has mentioned that a couple of his friends and some others he went to school with attended a Farage rally and some of them may vote for him. I'm interested to know why and would love to speak them about it, in a non judgemental way.

I have a theory that part of the reason Reform passed the Tories for 2nd place amongst 18-24 year old voters is the failure of the parliamentary left to mount effective scrutiny of lockdown, and the restrictions related approach generally. There were people on the left doing that right from the start, but there was never an institutional based for it. And I'm not the only person who worried at the time about something like this happening.

Unsurprisingly, criticism of those policies finds a receptive ear in some of a group who were made to sacrifice the most and were at the lowest risk. Even in the context of Farage being a Putin felching traitor.

bombaybicycle · 30/06/2024 12:36

Yes you are unreasonable.

Bbq1 · 30/06/2024 12:37

Dontgonearthecastle · 30/06/2024 10:20

First they came for the Communists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Communist
Then they came for the Socialists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Socialist
Then they came for the trade unionists
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a trade unionist
Then they came for the Jews
And I did not speak out
Because I was not a Jew
Then they came for me
And there was no one left
To speak out for me

So no. I won't be voting for extremists, ever.

So well put
Absolutely.
Voting Labour to give the country a chance.

Jumpingthruhoops · 30/06/2024 12:37

VoteOutToHelpOut · 30/06/2024 11:40

Reform UK PLC is not going to win the election!

Edited

Not saying they are. Just that I think they will secure more votes than they otherwise would have.

Ginmonkeyagain · 30/06/2024 12:37

Ahh yes. Shutting borders and lowering energy bills. Those two easy policies to enact in a consequence free way in a modern, connected world.

Jumpingthruhoops · 30/06/2024 12:38

Bbq1 · 30/06/2024 12:37

So well put
Absolutely.
Voting Labour to give the country a chance.

Well, half the country... 🤷‍♀️

Gorgonemilezola · 30/06/2024 12:38

Angela455 · 30/06/2024 12:31

Shut the borders, lower energy bills and hopefully shut people like you up.

you've just illustrated the stereotype, well done you.

How do you think Reform Limited are going to close our borders when no other party has managed it?

How are they going to lower energy bills?

Is their aim to 'shut people like me up?' Who are 'people like me'? Doesn't it concern you that 'shutting people up' is the thin end of the wedge to shutting down any form of dissent? And if it doesn't concern you, why not?

9quidicecream · 30/06/2024 12:38

First past the post is designed to keep out extremists, hopefully that will be the case here

Sirzy · 30/06/2024 12:38

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You do realise women can be police officers to don’t you?

Kovus · 30/06/2024 12:39

Reform are going to surprise a lot of people.

Reform voters, that's for sure.

When they get only a handful of seats. When most candidates are made to stand down after the GE. When they fail to consolidate longer term voters over to the right, adequately to make the changes they want. You are all going to get gradually disillusioned.

9quidicecream · 30/06/2024 12:39

Reform seem to screech a lot about what they are going to do but absolutely nothing about how they are actually going to do it

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