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AIBU to vote reform

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MeadowL · 30/06/2024 10:16

Anyone else sick of the Tories and Labour and will be voting reform?

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TizerorFizz · 30/06/2024 22:50

@rainingsnoring Im not far off 70 and I would never ever vote for Farage. I do see and hear discussions about him “telling it like it is” but non of my friends will vote Reform. Mainly because he couldn’t deliver what he says and it totally ignores the difficulty of getting uk people to do certain jobs.Farage is a loud mouth disruptor. He’s conned people once and they are letting him do it again. It’s unbelievably ignorant and foolish. It’s shameful.

Silviasilvertoes · 30/06/2024 22:50

rainingsnoring · 30/06/2024 22:38

I don't think it's as straightforward as that. I think, for the majority, their financial situation/ QOL are the most important factors when it comes to voting. Many people, across many Western countries, have become less prosperous over the last 20 years. They therefore want to vote for a party or individual who promises change, who promises to listen to them and who promises them that they will see more of their earnings or perhaps better public services, especially in the case of the elderly or people who don't work. They are therefore prepared to overlook the fact that some Reform candidates have made racist remarks because they primarily want their lives to be better. They may well have bought into the messaging that immigrants are bad and have taken their jobs, which is true to some degree in some places.

Agreed @rainingsnoring. It’s not just the racism they overlook though, it’s the fact that as Reform don’t stand a chance of actually forming a government, they don’t have to worry about any of their other manifesto pledges being implemented, so they can make up the maths and promise what they like.

rainingsnoring · 30/06/2024 22:50

fliptopbin · 30/06/2024 22:47

The thing is, Farage is horrible, but comes across as very convincing -he is terrifyingly good at it, despite the fact that his manifesto is bollocks. And for a "man of the people" he is about as establishment as it gets. It seems to me that a good amount of Reform voters are not evil, but rather people who have fallen for a very very convincing scam.

I agree. Ditto Trump, who is about as privileged as anyone can be but portrays himself as anti establishment and 'down with the common man'.

TinklySnail · 30/06/2024 22:51

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 30/06/2024 22:46

@TinklySnail

Not sure how much clarification you need?

I reserve the right to think badly of people who are willing to effectively demonstrate support for the BNP. If they want to think badly of me for not being a right wing cunt they can knock themselves out, couldnt care less about their opinion tbh.

Do I think that people who put the milk in tea first are cunty..? No
Putting cream in a scone before the jam? Also no.
Voting for a right wing fascist party? Yes

Have to disagree with the milk first in tea. That’s just wrong on every level and can be called cun-tea.
Back to topic, what makes Reform a fascist party?

TheNoonBell · 30/06/2024 22:52

Sparticusoctopus · 30/06/2024 21:53

Extremes at either ends of the political
spectrum are unhelpful at best, dangerous at worst.

I disagree. Fascism is the warped lovechild of socialism and communism. It inherits the key tennets of authoritarian collectivism and ruthless crushing of decent.

The rest is just the usual flim flam of the elite justifying killing anyone who disagrees.

Left/Right is a myth. The reality is collectivist versus individualistic.

twodowntwotogo · 30/06/2024 22:55

TinklySnail · 30/06/2024 21:24

Tea and fags, very British. 80 years on and we still put the kettle on in times of trouble. I wish we could all go put the kettle on and support one another.

Such bullshit, there's so little 'support' of 'one another' in Britain today, and in particular since the Brexit vote. British people's tea and polite queues self-image is so at odds with how they're often seen in the rest of the world, which is often as a hotbed of xenophobes, football hooligans and nostalgists for their part in a war that ended 80 years ago, a blood-soaked lost Empire and in thrall to an unelected monarch.
Anything that suppresses the total shame of racism such as just a flirtation with voting Reform normalises fascism.

rainingsnoring · 30/06/2024 22:57

TizerorFizz · 30/06/2024 22:50

@rainingsnoring Im not far off 70 and I would never ever vote for Farage. I do see and hear discussions about him “telling it like it is” but non of my friends will vote Reform. Mainly because he couldn’t deliver what he says and it totally ignores the difficulty of getting uk people to do certain jobs.Farage is a loud mouth disruptor. He’s conned people once and they are letting him do it again. It’s unbelievably ignorant and foolish. It’s shameful.

I totally agree. However, I would hazard a guess that, as well as being nearly 70, you are also in a very comfortable position financially, as are (most of) your friends. The people considering voting for Reform are generally not in extremely privileged positions and feel desperate for change.
I also totally agree with @Silviasilvertoes that the manifesto is 'pie in the sky' and that the maths clearly doesn't add up. Again though, I suspect that you and I are in the privileged position of having a high level of education compared to many.

TinklySnail · 30/06/2024 23:01

twodowntwotogo · 30/06/2024 22:55

Such bullshit, there's so little 'support' of 'one another' in Britain today, and in particular since the Brexit vote. British people's tea and polite queues self-image is so at odds with how they're often seen in the rest of the world, which is often as a hotbed of xenophobes, football hooligans and nostalgists for their part in a war that ended 80 years ago, a blood-soaked lost Empire and in thrall to an unelected monarch.
Anything that suppresses the total shame of racism such as just a flirtation with voting Reform normalises fascism.

🙄
I take it you dislike anything British?

FeelingHotHotHotFeelingHotHotHot · 30/06/2024 23:05

twodowntwotogo · 30/06/2024 22:55

Such bullshit, there's so little 'support' of 'one another' in Britain today, and in particular since the Brexit vote. British people's tea and polite queues self-image is so at odds with how they're often seen in the rest of the world, which is often as a hotbed of xenophobes, football hooligans and nostalgists for their part in a war that ended 80 years ago, a blood-soaked lost Empire and in thrall to an unelected monarch.
Anything that suppresses the total shame of racism such as just a flirtation with voting Reform normalises fascism.

Sounds like you've had a bad day. Are you OK? 😕

twodowntwotogo · 30/06/2024 23:21

TinklySnail · 30/06/2024 23:01

🙄
I take it you dislike anything British?

Edited

No, I admire certain things in British history - eg christian socialism, chartism, the welfare state but just as the course and effects of British colonialism tend to be studied so much more outside Britain, I find the self-image really hard to reconcile with reality.

I don't think this weird nostalgic appeal to 'Churchillian' tea and fags is useful or authentic in any way, and having spent a lot of time living in different places, it's just not how the rest of the world sees Britain a lot of the time - there are countless jokes and cartoons about it.

The post-imperial, post-industrial nostalgia-fest that was mobilised by Trump and to encourage people to vote for Brexit is utterly hollow, cheap and devised to appeal to the sentiments of people who identify as descended from 'winning' participants in that history that they've now somehow been cheated out of. Reform are pressing certain buttons and playing an utterly divisive zero sum game.

Just look at Farage's speeches - there's nothing positive in them, he just rails on and on about what he hates and tries to stir up hatred in voters. Like Trump, he really can bring out the worst in people.

justasking111 · 30/06/2024 23:47

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 30/06/2024 22:23

@TinklySnail

Of course not!

Only thicko reform voters

Had to be asked because your vocabulary is somewhat limited.

Asiatoyork · 01/07/2024 01:05

The manifesto is one of a party who can promise anything knowing they don’t have a hope of getting in. The costings are absolute fantasy and we would be in deep financial shite (even more than now!) if they actually were to implement it.

Even if this were not the case, the tax cuts in it overwhelmingly benefit the rich. So, life would not get better unless you are one of these wealthy people and don’t ever need to use public services.

This assumes that they would get in, or even want to get in. They don’t - they would hate to actually have responsibility for delivery something rather than agitating on the sidelines.

It’s all about how he is being persecuted, sidelined etc to try and exploit hard times and harness people legitimately feeling like they are being left to rot.

The immigration over the last few years has been very high (partly due to Hong Kong and Ukraine). It’s legitimate to ask questions and have concerns about this, but this is not the answer, and reform will not make anything better.

Catpuss66 · 01/07/2024 01:53

MeadowL · 30/06/2024 12:27

Reform are going to surprise a lot of people.

Everyone I know is talking about them.

Says more about you if everyone you know is bigging them up. He lied about Brexit, bailed on Trump as he is now a felon, I do believe Putin might be funding him & Trump. He has nothing to offer the this country he will divide this country.

Catpuss66 · 01/07/2024 02:07

Wonder what the Germans were thinking when Hitler was voted in, I thought lots of them didn’t vote. There are similarities with today .
www.nationalww2museum.org/war/articles/how-did-adolf-hitler-happen

Yesitisnotthatitbe · 01/07/2024 05:57

AllTheChaos · 30/06/2024 12:12

Gosh the Russian bots are out in force today! Sorry, I mean the ‘reform supporters’ of course..

That's so pathetic. I suppose the 20% intending to vote reform according to the polls are all these mythical "russian bots" are they?

XChrome · 01/07/2024 06:08

TheNoonBell · 30/06/2024 22:52

I disagree. Fascism is the warped lovechild of socialism and communism. It inherits the key tennets of authoritarian collectivism and ruthless crushing of decent.

The rest is just the usual flim flam of the elite justifying killing anyone who disagrees.

Left/Right is a myth. The reality is collectivist versus individualistic.

Fascism isn't collectivist, it's corporate statism. Not at all the same. I'm tired of people saying all authoritarianism is a form of communism or socialism. That's factually incorrect. There is authoritarianism on both the left and the right. Fascism is right wing, nationalistic authoritarianism. Yes, left and right do exist. The far right serves corporate interests at the expense of the people. The far left serves collectivism at the expense of individual liberty. There is a continuum and fascism is as far right as it gets. Marxism is as far left as it gets, but Marxism is mostly an economic system rather than strictly political. The part of it that's political is the authoritarianism. It's literally outlined as the dictatorship of the proletariat. Fascism is political rather than economic, though the economy of a fascist society will be capitalistic.

The opposite of authoritarianism is libertarianism, but even that has a left and a right. Right wing libertarianism serves corporate interests, but, unlike fascism, doesn't subvert individual liberty to it. Left wing libertarianism serves collectivism, but unlike Marxism, it keeps individual liberties. Private ownership would remain, for example, but the governing body would not serve private interests if they came at the expense of the people as a whole.

IOW, it's really fucking complicated.

Opleez · 01/07/2024 06:42

Teateaandmoretea · 30/06/2024 13:37

Rishi is very much a centre politician, as is Starmer.

The Tories have done a lot of taxing the rich, are feeling the effects of the Laffer curve just like you would usually expect from the left. The Covid policies were left and cost £££££££££

Austerity was more right, but it’s over and it went way too far causing expense in the long run. We have a very high tax burden in this country z.

The Laffer curve is widely discredited as inapplicable for real world economics. Lowering the debt burden as a way to promote growth (austerity) has also been shown to be based on incorrect data, and thus entirely wrong. Countries with lower debt perform worse than countries with higher debt - austerity is an ideology not a sound economic practice.

Conservatives have mismanaged the public purse in a disgusting way. I can’t wait for them to be removed.

Nigel Farage has said racist things and surrounded himself by racist people. Anyone who votes for him must be happy to associate themselves with racism, whether or not they are themselves racist.

If the OP can stomach that, they are free to exercise their democratic right.

Opleez · 01/07/2024 06:52

Bringonthesunforthewashing · 30/06/2024 13:59

I am voting reform. So is everyone I have discussed the election with.

All my dd18 friends, their boyfriends etc.

Just saying we aren’t all morons surely? I am well educated.

My parents are too, they are also well educated.

So as far as I can see it, teens right up to the retired are looking for change and voting reform…

Farage is well educated. He’s also a racist.

kikisparks · 01/07/2024 06:57

Angela455 · 30/06/2024 12:45

I feel like a few of us need a good fist fight over this to clear the air, good old punch up

It only just occurred to me that some of those “supporting” Reform are actually just being tongue in cheek and making fun of those who do. Well played, it’s pretty telling that even when you go to silly extremes we still believed you might be a genuine Reform supporter! Someone might be along to suggest Channel 4 paid you to make the posts though.

Jonisaysitbest · 01/07/2024 06:58

One word answer:YES

Kovus · 01/07/2024 06:58

Where is Reform's roadmap?

AreYouVeryAnti · 01/07/2024 07:03

I've just checked betting odds and Nigel is significantly ahead of Rishi for next PM (although both massively behind Keir). So if YABU, you're certainly not alone.

Kovus · 01/07/2024 07:07

Farage is a pirate. No feasible plan. Like a pirate ship aimlessly drifting until he finds another object to plunder and destroy. There is nothing positive about Farage. Real power is in building and Farage has no proven ability to do that. Somebody else will have to come along and take Reform to a winnable position - it is certainly not Farage.

Shakeoffyourchains · 01/07/2024 07:10

I imagine the Venn diagram of those who plan to vote reform and those who put milk in before tea is a circle.

Kovus · 01/07/2024 07:10

Farage does not have the experience or inner strength to lead a nation.

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