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To let you all know :Jane the mntter held keir to acct, brilliantly on radio today and it's viral.

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JaneVapeman · 28/06/2024 19:56

Unfortunately I can't link to her clip, but she's a star and a hero. She pinned him down and cut through the "twaddle". I am a swing voter and would have been proud of a mntter holding any mp to account on an important issue like Jane did. Jane is/was even trending on twitter.

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FOJN · 29/06/2024 13:17

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/06/2024 13:12

You asked me if I believed in freedom of speech and democracy.
My answer was yes.

I know, I read your reply. It still doesn't explain why women discussing a Labour policy they disagree with bothers you so much.

Wheresthebeach · 29/06/2024 13:18

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/06/2024 12:51

As I said upthread, disappointing when it starts to get personal. I enjoy a discussion, shame when this happens.

But you're the one who claimed the thread was an attempt to stop people voting Labour. It isn't - its a thread about the issue, and Labour's position on it.

We all have the right to discuss this without being accused of having an ulterior motive.

I think the rise of misogyny is a massive issue - attacks on our reproductive rights, the refusal to recognise biological sex, allowing any man to announce he's a women and enter toilets, changing rooms, rape crisis centre's, women's jails, compete against biological women in sports, take women's scholarships - it matters to me. Our rights are disappearing before our eyes and Labour is a big part of that. The Tories have been very clear on the issue. Starmer is trying to fudge it to avoid upsetting either the TRA's or the Terfs. He needs to be clear so everyone knows what they are voting for.

maddening · 29/06/2024 13:19

anotherside · 29/06/2024 07:58

Not for the vast majority though. Not compared to, say, being able to put food on the table. Or the prospect of you or your kids never being able to afford your own home. Polls in fact suggest that women are likely to vote for Labour in greater numbers than men, quite significantly so in some polls.

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Because women are socially and possibly biologically conditioned to put other needs before their own.

This is the time to be selfish women.

redfacebigdisgrace · 29/06/2024 13:20

So so so disappointing. Did my postal vote yesterday and nearly cried. I so wanted to vote Labour but couldn’t do it. KS is such a disappointment. He treats us like fools.

ricestardust · 29/06/2024 13:20

dayswithaY · 28/06/2024 23:16

I have a question about spoiling your ballot paper, cos I can’t vote for any of these clowns.

Is there anything specific you should write, and does it get recorded? Do any of the parties actually care, or will they just think you’re a loon? How will it impact the vote count, if at all?

Literally, anything other than a valid vote (a clear mark for a single candidate) counts as a spoilt ballot and will be recorded in the spoilt ballot tally. You don't have to write or draw anything on the paper (although many people do); it is sufficient to leave the entire paper blank (which is also common for spoilt ballots). Some voters think that spoilt ballots are a good opportunity for crude expression; idk who they think sees this stuff - it's mostly middle-aged women and older people who do the counts.

Please go ahead and spoil your ballot (nicely) if you don't want to vote for a candidate. I would like to see "no thank you" or cute cat drawings this time. The "big" elections have more candidates on the ballot papers so people feel they have more room to write/draw srsly questionable stuff. The "small" elections are nicer because the ballot papers are too small to scribble much on them.

Itsprobablynotcominhome · 29/06/2024 13:20

Oblomov24 · 29/06/2024 10:23

No, church view, I think your'll find that any woman with 1/2 a brain cell, does think that this is all twaddle.

Look on the boards. None of us can even believe that this 'debate' still goes on.

I'm so sad about KS. Highly intelligent man, so much potential, so wasted. Loads of my friends meet him regularly. When he was just about to become party leader many thought : finally, here we go. It's never materialised. No one can work out why.

He's about to lead Labour to a historic landslide victory over the Tories from a position of absolute ridicule under corbyn.

Id say he's done very well.

OneSugar1 · 29/06/2024 13:21

I’m tired of women being told to shut up, move over, be kind and put others first.

JaneVapeman · 29/06/2024 13:21

I'm a swing voter whose voted Labour more than anything else.
I want change, change is essential to democracy no party should just go on and on. Everyone gets fatigue. I like policies from all the parties.

I like other Labour policies.

My thread is totally highlight Jane the amazing mumsnetter who is the only person questioning starmer on this issue who unveiled him.

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Wheresthebeach · 29/06/2024 13:23

'If you want my X, support my Sex' is the best way to spoil your ballet if that's the issue for you.
My understanding is that it will be recorded.

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/06/2024 13:23

FOJN · 29/06/2024 13:17

I know, I read your reply. It still doesn't explain why women discussing a Labour policy they disagree with bothers you so much.

It seems to bother some people that I disagree with them.
I have never once been critical of another poster.
For about the 4th time: I believe in democracy and freedom of speech.
I was going on Reclaim the Night marches before there was even Thatcherism. I know how radical and unpopular it was being a feminist back then.
Women's rights are paramount, it's clear that folks disagree about how they can be achieved. Each to their own.

Kendodd · 29/06/2024 13:25

iamtheblcksheep · 28/06/2024 21:39

I’d rather have fifty more years of conservative government with Biden in charge of economic policy than risk having a guy with his dick out parading around my daughters changing room in a bikini.

What do you people not understand about this?

Frankly as a mother of teenage daughters, I'd rather a dick in a changing room (that we have now under the Tories) than essentially, rape being decriminalised (that we have now under the Tories).
Each to our own though.

izimbra · 29/06/2024 13:27

Wheresthebeach · 29/06/2024 13:23

'If you want my X, support my Sex' is the best way to spoil your ballet if that's the issue for you.
My understanding is that it will be recorded.

The only person to see it will be the person who counts the ballots, and they don't give a crap, it'll go into a pile with all the others that have a cock and balls drawn on them/people who've arsed their ballot paper up accidentally. Nobody is logging your comments to feed back to Starmer.

(by the way - this is according to someone who actually does this work who made a similar comment about spoiling their ballot on another mumnset thread)

TheKeatingFive · 29/06/2024 13:28

It seems to bother some people that I disagree with them.

No. It was your assertion that we were 'putting people off' voting Labour.

If what we're doing is clarifying their position on a particular issue - it's not our fault if that puts people off, now is it? It's labours fault for the policy in the first place.

TheKeatingFive · 29/06/2024 13:31

Kendodd · 29/06/2024 13:25

Frankly as a mother of teenage daughters, I'd rather a dick in a changing room (that we have now under the Tories) than essentially, rape being decriminalised (that we have now under the Tories).
Each to our own though.

Well what about the dick in the changing rooms, that results in rape, that's then denied because everyone in the changing room was a 'legal woman'.

An equivalent incident has already taken place in the NHS. Under Tory rules, but under Labour policy I expect we'll see more of this.

izimbra · 29/06/2024 13:32

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/06/2024 13:23

It seems to bother some people that I disagree with them.
I have never once been critical of another poster.
For about the 4th time: I believe in democracy and freedom of speech.
I was going on Reclaim the Night marches before there was even Thatcherism. I know how radical and unpopular it was being a feminist back then.
Women's rights are paramount, it's clear that folks disagree about how they can be achieved. Each to their own.

"Women's rights are paramount"

If you've spent more time and energy raging about the rights of 50K transgender women to carry on using the same women's spaces they've been using decades without most of us ever noticing, than you have about the impact of austerity and cuts to the criminal justice system on the health, wellbeing, safety and life expectancy of millions of women in the UK since 2010, then you've been completely radicalised by the GC movement, and have zero sense of perspective.

Curlysusie · 29/06/2024 13:32

OneSugar1 · 29/06/2024 13:21

I’m tired of women being told to shut up, move over, be kind and put others first.

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JaneVapeman · 29/06/2024 13:32

@EmpressOfTheThread you implied I started the thread to turn people against starmer. See my explanation

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GailBlancheViola · 29/06/2024 13:33

Women's rights are paramount, it's clear that folks disagree about how they can be achieved. Each to their own.

Women's rights cease to be if you include men in the definition of women.

ilovesooty · 29/06/2024 13:33

JanefromLondon1 · 29/06/2024 12:55

I only actually text to ask a question because he hadn't answered this question each time it had been broached during question time and interviews. I knew what he was going to say DPP, women, violence but that did not answer my question. I wanted him to answer it and be honest before I was cut off.

If he had been polite to me, not ignored the question I had asked, I wouldn't have had to cut him off.

He did eventually answer my question. He is going to make obtaining a GRC easier and those woMen that are in possession of those certificates will then be legally entitled to access women's spaces.

I've listened to it. My perception is that he'd hardly begun to answer before you began to shout over him. I think you were rude.

borntobequiet · 29/06/2024 13:37

Morriata · 29/06/2024 12:59

I've tried to do what Starmer suggested in the last debate - go away and read the legislation. Crikey it's abstruse.

However I can't see anything that says a GRC changes "biological sex" or "birth sex", so I am frankly a bit confuddled by why the phrase "safe spaces for biological women" isn't good enough. I'm not being snarky - genuinely can someone explain it to me?

This https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/equality/equality-act-2010/separate-and-single-sex-service-providers-guide-equality-act-sex-and seems clear(ish!) to me that it is lawful for a leisure centre to exclude a birth male with a GRC saying they are now female, from a women's only changing room. The legislation does allow for birth/bio sex to be treated differently to legal sex when there is good enough justification, and privacy and dignity are included in the justifications.

What has really horrified me is that I can't see anything about women having a RIGHT to safe spaces. This legislation seems to be all about how and when the leisure centre/service provider is legally allowed to exclude trans people from single sex spaces. There seems to be nothing protecting women's rights to them. Maybe - - hopefully - I'm just looking in the wrong place, but it seems we are just depending on trying to convince the operator that they are "allowed" to exclude trans people, if they do it right. All too often the default assumption seems to be that they should allow trans people into all single sex spaces these days. That is wrong, and to follow Starmer's argument, not what the law says anyway.

Absolutely Starmer is choosing to be unclear on this, which is really frustrating. It would have only taken one sentence to spell out that a GRC does not create a biological woman, and safe spaces for biological women does not mean for "people born as women plus anyone with a certificate". He won't say it for fear of alienating the trans lobby, but I'm not convinced that means he will open the floodgates to allow trans people into biological sex spaces.

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I think this is the judgement that’s currently being appealed, as mentioned by a pp. It’s all as clear as mud.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-scotland-politics-63956604

izimbra · 29/06/2024 13:37

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ilovesooty · 29/06/2024 13:39

ilovesooty · 29/06/2024 13:33

I've listened to it. My perception is that he'd hardly begun to answer before you began to shout over him. I think you were rude.

My perception however doesn't mean that I felt you didn't have the right to ask your very clear question. I just don't feel that you came across well once you'd asked it.

EmpressOfTheThread · 29/06/2024 13:40

izimbra · 29/06/2024 13:32

"Women's rights are paramount"

If you've spent more time and energy raging about the rights of 50K transgender women to carry on using the same women's spaces they've been using decades without most of us ever noticing, than you have about the impact of austerity and cuts to the criminal justice system on the health, wellbeing, safety and life expectancy of millions of women in the UK since 2010, then you've been completely radicalised by the GC movement, and have zero sense of perspective.

With all due respect. You have no idea what I have done.
Once again, it gets personal.

TheKeatingFive · 29/06/2024 13:40

This is a good thread for anyone trying to understand the complexity of all this. Basically the law is extremely unclear and the case above is very important in establishing a president here.

x.com/michaelpforan/status/1805570786448576928?s=46&t=OKyRO4eweTteo5FEt_J1MQ

TheKeatingFive · 29/06/2024 13:41

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Here's the case, read for yourself

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2022/03/17/h

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