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To stalk a stranger in A&E

602 replies

TheRozzers · 26/06/2024 22:13

Witnessed a nasty accident today. An elderly lady had a fall in the street and was bleeding badly. I was coming back from the gym and had a towel with me so used it to help stem the bleeding and stayed with her until the paramedics arrived. Others helped too.

We were talking to her and trying to reassure her as she was very distressed and in a lot of pain. I'm pretty sure she's broken a bone.

I asked if there was anyone we could call. Partner, children, friends. She said she had nobody.

I can't stop wondering how she is, she's probably in the hospital A&E corridor and will be for the next week knowing the state of the NHS.

I have tried to call the hospital to enquire after her but no answer.

Would it be really weird and stalker like to go to the hospital and check up on her? Maybe take her something to eat and drink? I know her full name and date of birth so assume I could track her down?

Or would that be an invasion of her privacy?

It's also quite late now.

OP posts:
Freeme31 · 27/06/2024 22:01

You have just restored my faith in human beings 😻. Thank you for being so kind you are exactly the kind of friend the world needs

coldcallerbaiter · 27/06/2024 22:01

Yes, become friends!!!

Shefliesonherownwings · 27/06/2024 22:03

OP you sound absolutely lovely, what a wonderful thoughtful thing to do and sounds like you will become firm friends. You’re a good egg.

Sunshineandrainbow · 27/06/2024 22:04

I bet she was over the moon to see and chat with you, love the update 💞

Pillows are scarce in a and e but I think if someone has been there that long a member of staff should be sourcing one. I hope they have her on a hospital bed and not a trolley.

I don't miss working in a and e, I do miss the extra little bits that made a difference to people though and made it feel like I had made it a better experience for people, like hot tea and toast or an extra blanket.

Baileysandcream · 27/06/2024 22:04

What a lovely update, so glad that you found her.

I think it's wonderful that you followed up, I'm sure she was very touched by your kindness.

The world would be a much nicer place with more people like you in it @TheRozzers

Alwayswonderedwhy · 27/06/2024 22:05

In the past I would've said no but I actually think considering how things are at the moment that would be a good idea. My neighbor in her 80's spent all night on hard plastic chair in a&e last week after her blood pressure dropped and she fainted. Maybe take a pillow or cushion and some refreshments.

HolyPeaches · 27/06/2024 22:05

You’re a good egg OP 🥚 💐

More people should be like you.

FannyFifer · 27/06/2024 22:07

Awww bless you OP, poor wee woman.

herbygarden · 27/06/2024 22:08

Aw OP @TheRozzers this is so lovely! I am so glad you went. No pillows makes me want to cry for her! What a mess :(

TheChosenTwo · 27/06/2024 22:09

I’m really glad you went too op, didn’t see this thread until now and thought that she’s said she had literally no one - you must have been a really welcome face for her to see. Lovely goodies you took for her aswell, it’s nice that there are still kind and thoughtful people in the world 💐

Sunshineclouds11 · 27/06/2024 22:09

Lovely update.

So sad she's still in A&E, you will have made her day op considering her circumstances.

I hope your goodness is returned to you

MinecraftBee · 27/06/2024 22:09

People like you honestly make the world such a better place OP. What a kind thing to do. Sending best wishes to you both.

TheRainItRaineth · 27/06/2024 22:10

This is really heartwarming. What a brilliant thing to do.

DAZZlanch · 27/06/2024 22:10

TheRozzers · 27/06/2024 21:59

Aw thanks everyone, yes it feels like we may end up being friends.

She's an only child and never wanted a husband or kids 'not for me dear' and lost two of her closest friends recently.

I lost my mum a few years ago so I don't have the caring responsibilities that lots of women have.

You are a good human being OP and the world needs more like you. This story has fully warmed my jaded soul. Thank you for being so kind xx

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 27/06/2024 22:11

❤️

Happilyobtuse · 27/06/2024 22:12

TheRozzers · 27/06/2024 21:59

Aw thanks everyone, yes it feels like we may end up being friends.

She's an only child and never wanted a husband or kids 'not for me dear' and lost two of her closest friends recently.

I lost my mum a few years ago so I don't have the caring responsibilities that lots of women have.

Well done! Wonderful thing to do! It is great that you have made a new friend! 😊

obsessedwithfreshbread · 27/06/2024 22:14

This thread is the most heartwarming thing I have ever read on here.
@TheRozzers you really one of a wonderful human, much love to you xx

retirementrocks · 27/06/2024 22:14

I would go and see her. If she has nobody (which is sad) she will appreciate your kindness. You sound as though you are a very caring person.

EmeraldRoulette · 27/06/2024 22:16

OP you are fab 💐

ohpoowhatnow · 27/06/2024 22:16

This is lovely. You are a very good person. I hope you two can be friends.

Pearl97 · 27/06/2024 22:16

Omg at first I thought you wanted your towel back. This thread has really made my day. The world needs more people like you @TheRozzers

darksideofthestudio · 27/06/2024 22:18

@TheRozzers this is the loveliest of updates and so glad you were able to visit, and with such thoughtful gifts. I hope she’s out of A&E soon, and your friendship
blossoms! Please keep us updated if you can

cloudydays2 · 27/06/2024 22:20

Aww op what a lovely update ! You have made that wee lady’s night, we need more people like you in the world. Absolute heart of gold ❤️

spiderlight · 27/06/2024 22:20

What a lovely update! Sounds as if you've got a new friend 💕

XiCi · 27/06/2024 22:23

Wonderful thing you have done there OP. What a difference you will have made to her! Absolutely horrendous she is still sat in A&E though

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