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To stalk a stranger in A&E

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TheRozzers · 26/06/2024 22:13

Witnessed a nasty accident today. An elderly lady had a fall in the street and was bleeding badly. I was coming back from the gym and had a towel with me so used it to help stem the bleeding and stayed with her until the paramedics arrived. Others helped too.

We were talking to her and trying to reassure her as she was very distressed and in a lot of pain. I'm pretty sure she's broken a bone.

I asked if there was anyone we could call. Partner, children, friends. She said she had nobody.

I can't stop wondering how she is, she's probably in the hospital A&E corridor and will be for the next week knowing the state of the NHS.

I have tried to call the hospital to enquire after her but no answer.

Would it be really weird and stalker like to go to the hospital and check up on her? Maybe take her something to eat and drink? I know her full name and date of birth so assume I could track her down?

Or would that be an invasion of her privacy?

It's also quite late now.

OP posts:
deltablue · 18/08/2024 23:03

To all the people saying it's "an invasion of privacy" - are you actually human? Why on earth wouldn't the OP visit? It's a wonderfully human thing to do and I hope if you're ever in that position you don't have jobsworth humans debating the rights and wrongs of it, or our society is f.....d

Pearl97 · 19/08/2024 06:04

I can just imagine how venerable and sad she felt say in the hospital … before you arrived.
I told my daughter about this thread today. Always look for the good people. You were the good person that day. Thank you for being there for her. It makes my heart so happy to read this thread xx

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