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David Tennant: women should "shut up"

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jacksonlamb · 26/06/2024 13:36

As a (now ex) David Tennant fan I was so disappointed to hear his speech yesterday. Whilst talking about trans rights he told his audience that he wanted a world where "we wake up and Kemi Badenoch doesn't exist anymore. I don't wish ill of her, I just wish her to shut up."

(There's some devious doublespeak here: if you wish someone didn't exist, you obviously wish them ill).

But more importantly, how dare he tell women to shut up about women's rights. Yet again powerful and privileged men tell women what they are and are not allowed to say. They must shut up whilst men speak. Their views are wrong, men are right.

Anyone has the right to believe that the rights of trans people are more important than the rights of women (although I believe this is profoundly wrong). What they do not have the right to do is bully, belittle and threaten women who disagree with them; who are trying to protect their hard fought rights.

I despair.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:42

You don't have to agree with Kemi Badenoch on everything, or even on this, to recognise that Tennant is an arrogant misogynist.

SmudgeHughes · 28/06/2024 08:43

Itsprobablynotcominhome · 28/06/2024 08:34

It's also not a thread about Keir starmer or JK Rowling or Posie Parker but they've all been mentioned. The fact is, you know that KB has done fuck all for women and you have nothing to say about it apart from "what about...."

People on this thread are holding up KB as a champion of women's rights, and one said she's done more for women's rights than KS.

The evidence shows the opposite and KB's fan girls have nothing at all to say. Id have more respect if anyone of you said "yes actually KB's voting record is poor in terms of womens rights, and she doesn't appear to have done anything to improve the lives of women while she's been minister for women, but DT shouldn't have said what he said".

Of course DT was wrong to say what he said. But KB is not a champion or a hero. I would have thought feminists would be more careful about who they throw their lot in with.

I do not believe that Badenoch is a champion for women - except on gender identity issues, where she’s been a star. Despite huge opposition and foot-dragging from within her own party (for example, in education).

Every public statement that she’s made has shown that she’s bothered to engage in detail with the issue, to understand the nuances, to read the literature. In stark contrast to all of her Labour counterparts who, even when they have tried to belatedly issue support for women’s rights, have rarely got it right and have continued to misunderstand the issues. On this specific issue, she’s been hugely impressive.

ActivePeony · 28/06/2024 08:43

Women deserve well funded, excellent healthcare and to be able to be seen in person for assistance. Is there anything controversial about that?

ActivePeony · 28/06/2024 08:44

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:42

You don't have to agree with Kemi Badenoch on everything, or even on this, to recognise that Tennant is an arrogant misogynist.

Indeed.

Bunnyasmyname · 28/06/2024 08:44

cupcaske123 · 28/06/2024 07:31

A few women have voiced concerns about KB and her views and they've been swiftly shut down for wrong think.

I'd actually like to hear what others think of her but apparently that's not allowed.

Presumably because this is a thread about her support of single sex spaces rather than a discussion of her voting history.
DT said those things because of GC views, nothing else, and I for one am thankful Kemi does exist.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:47

You think that's how it happens?

How does it happen? I agree that abortion pills should be taken under medical supervision. I don't think you should have to jump through any hoops except for attending a medical appointment. I'm concerned about the circumstances in which they could be misused by abusive men or other people in the household, but also there can be complications.

Bromptotoo · 28/06/2024 08:49

ActivePeony · 28/06/2024 08:43

Women deserve well funded, excellent healthcare and to be able to be seen in person for assistance. Is there anything controversial about that?

No. But if they, and this applies equally to men, don't want or need to be seen then provided their needs can be met safely they shouldn't be forced to attend in person.

Itsprobablynotcominhome · 28/06/2024 08:49

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:47

You think that's how it happens?

How does it happen? I agree that abortion pills should be taken under medical supervision. I don't think you should have to jump through any hoops except for attending a medical appointment. I'm concerned about the circumstances in which they could be misused by abusive men or other people in the household, but also there can be complications.

Well that poster appears to believe women get pills thrown at them and told to fuck off.

Bromptotoo · 28/06/2024 08:50

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:40

I suspect that depends on what questions are asked and how they're phrased.

It does. What questions do you think should be asked? Yougov leans towards pro TRA, btw, so you're barking up the wrong tree if you think it's been manipulated to suit GC views.

I'm not suggesting it's manipulated but in trying to understand the outcome it's helpful to know what exactly was asked.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:51

They clearly don't actually mean that, do they? They think it's an excuse to cut costs etc.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:53

I'm not suggesting it's manipulated but in trying to understand the outcome it's helpful to know what exactly was asked.

Some questions (this is from the YouGov website)

https://yougov.co.uk/topics/politics/explore/topic/Transgender

https://d3nkl3psvxxpe9.cloudfront.net/documents/LabourTogetherLabourMemberss231027TransgenderrRights_W.pdf

CupboardTV · 28/06/2024 08:56

DT wanted KB not to exist and shut up because she held GC views, he was not attacking her for any other reason. I don't believe the Tories give a shit about women but they are the only party who are supporting us on this issue - all the other parties think we should shut up and just be kind.
I spoke to a Lib Dem candidate who came door knocking - she said she didn't know much about the issue but shared that quite a few women had raised it on the doorstep - now you'd think she'd read up on it but no, quite a few women's views don't matter enough for her to spend some time trying to understand the issues!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 08:57

x.com/yougov/status/1549692153365991424?s=46&t=SPorwN-mokktL467rcZ57g

Yougov tweet in 2022

/ Where does the British public stand on transgender rights in 2022?

The key finding from our third major study into trans attitudes is that support for trans access rights has eroded since 2018, a shift which has taken place across all social groups

yougov.co.uk/topics/lifesty…

cupcaske123 · 28/06/2024 08:58

SmudgeHughes · 28/06/2024 08:36

Rory Stewart says that voting record is not an accurate indication of an MP or Minister’s personal achievements and interests, as they are whipped by the party and have to vote with the party on most issues. If you continually vote against your party, you’re not going to last for long.

Exactly, most would realise they were not in a party that fundamentally aligned with their values.

cupcaske123 · 28/06/2024 09:00

CupboardTV · 28/06/2024 08:56

DT wanted KB not to exist and shut up because she held GC views, he was not attacking her for any other reason. I don't believe the Tories give a shit about women but they are the only party who are supporting us on this issue - all the other parties think we should shut up and just be kind.
I spoke to a Lib Dem candidate who came door knocking - she said she didn't know much about the issue but shared that quite a few women had raised it on the doorstep - now you'd think she'd read up on it but no, quite a few women's views don't matter enough for her to spend some time trying to understand the issues!

Aren't Reform supportive? I thought they wanted to get rid off 'woke' thinking and trans ideology.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:00

I spoke to a Lib Dem candidate who came door knocking - she said she didn't know much about the issue but shared that quite a few women had raised it on the doorstep - now you'd think she'd read up on it but no, quite a few women's views don't matter enough for her to spend some time trying to understand the issues!

Alex Cole Hamilton, Scottish Lib Dem Leader was savaged in a radio interview yesterday on Tennant and his own support for Beth Douglas, abusive TRA.

https://x.com/forwomenscot/status/1806234471852544212?s=46&t=SPorwN-mokktL467rcZ57g

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:01

Aren't Reform supportive? I thought they wanted to get rid off 'woke' thinking and trans ideology.

Are you canvassing for them @cupcaske123 ?

ActivePeony · 28/06/2024 09:04

Itsprobablynotcominhome · 28/06/2024 08:49

Well that poster appears to believe women get pills thrown at them and told to fuck off.

Seriously? For goodness sake. I have made my point clearly above - maybe I sounded pissed off because I AM pissed off that all too often cost cutting measures mean that women lose out. 🙄

cupcaske123 · 28/06/2024 09:10

Bunnyasmyname · 28/06/2024 08:44

Presumably because this is a thread about her support of single sex spaces rather than a discussion of her voting history.
DT said those things because of GC views, nothing else, and I for one am thankful Kemi does exist.

It comes across to me that some people don't want to hear any criticism of KB or her views. She's a politician and her views on a particular issue can't be taken in isolation. I'm wondering what exactly she's achieved regarding women's rights and what the party she represents has achieved.

I think it's a bit rich to criticise someone for telling someone to shut up when women who are expressing dissenting opinions are being jumped on.

cupcaske123 · 28/06/2024 09:12

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:01

Aren't Reform supportive? I thought they wanted to get rid off 'woke' thinking and trans ideology.

Are you canvassing for them @cupcaske123 ?

Simply making a point. I know women who have voted for Reform because of their stance on trans ideology.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:12

As pp said, unlike Starmer etc she took time to understand women's concerns and concerns about safeguarding children. Maybe the bar is set very low but that's something I value in a politician, no matter what I make think of some of their other views.

ActivePeony · 28/06/2024 09:13

cupcaske123 · 28/06/2024 09:12

Simply making a point. I know women who have voted for Reform because of their stance on trans ideology.

What already? All postal votes I guess? 🤔

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:14

Just pointing out that if you want women not to vote for Reform, it's probably not a good idea to big them up @cupcaske123 🤷‍♀️

ActivePeony · 28/06/2024 09:14

I think it's a bit rich to criticise someone for telling someone to shut up when women who are expressing dissenting opinions are being jumped on

Disagreement is not being 'jumped on'. 😂

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/06/2024 09:14

What already? All postal votes I guess?

Must be.

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