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Why r some men so disgusting

105 replies

Andtheworldwentwhite · 21/06/2024 11:51

Twice in the last month have come across men pleasuring themselves in public.

one when I was walking the dog. And was facing the pond and having a go. And just now. Some man laying on the grass on the side of the road. Hand down his pants. Just laying their pleasuring him selves. What is it.

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Andtheworldwentwhite · 21/06/2024 14:12

The man by the lake had his trousers pulled down. The man today was right by car as I stopped at the traffic lights. So easy to see. It’s disgusting.

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Summerfreezemakesmedrinkwine · 21/06/2024 14:15

Bloody hell, I think I must go around with my eyes closed - never been subjected to this, let alone twice in a month.

AlwaysGinPlease · 21/06/2024 14:25

DonnaBanana · 21/06/2024 13:18

I think men caught doing this sort of thing should be forced to go on a strong SSRI with monthly drug tests. Will get rid of their libido and stop them being so inappropriately horny and society will benefit. The only time a man needs to be horny is when he is reproducing. To be honest maybe we should do this to all men.

I think they should be physically castrated with no anesthetic. Then have pervert tattooed on their face

BitOutOfPractice · 21/06/2024 14:30

The man who raped and killed Sarah Everard was into public wanking wasn't he? I'm no criminologist but I bet this is behaviour that often escalates even further.

Report them!

GreenTeaPea · 21/06/2024 14:30

AlwaysGinPlease · 21/06/2024 14:25

I think they should be physically castrated with no anesthetic. Then have pervert tattooed on their face

I concur.

I used to think that "chemical castration" meant men flopping their junk onto an examination table, and then having corrosive acid poured onto it.

I thought it was a good idea. I was gutted when I found out it didn't mean this.

xILikeJamx · 21/06/2024 14:34

I'm 41 and have never seen anyone wanking in public - where do you people all live?!!

KikiShaLeeBopDeBopBop · 21/06/2024 14:39

Report to the police. They recognise it as a serious crime because men who do this often go on commit worst sexual offences

ByCupidStunt · 21/06/2024 14:39

xILikeJamx · 21/06/2024 14:34

I'm 41 and have never seen anyone wanking in public - where do you people all live?!!

The Cotswolds, apparently

astarsheis · 21/06/2024 14:40

Was this in the UK?

ASimpleLampoon · 21/06/2024 14:40

#NotAllCotswoldsMen 🤣😊😜

GingerPirate · 21/06/2024 14:45

Narcissisticflipflop · 21/06/2024 13:35

This happened to me whilst living in England, a shout of get tae fuck ya dirty fucking bastard in my loudest most pissed off Scottish accent certainly gave him cause to stop ferreting around in his chinos, dirty wee perv.

Whatever, but you are right!
😂

OnAndOnAndonAgain · 21/06/2024 14:45

I've never seen this either thank fuck !

TheShellBeach · 21/06/2024 14:49

Andtheworldwentwhite · 21/06/2024 14:12

The man by the lake had his trousers pulled down. The man today was right by car as I stopped at the traffic lights. So easy to see. It’s disgusting.

Edited

Exactly.

They choose where to do this in order to cause maximum distress.
They know that women and children will absolutely see them, and that is why they do it.

It has nothing to do with lacking impulse control. It is all about male power and dominance.

Masturbating in public is done in order to disgust and frighten women and children. It does often escalate to much more serious sexual offences.

For that reason, it should always be reported to the police.

whyhavetheygotsomany · 21/06/2024 14:50

I have noticed a trend recently with teenage boys walking along with their hand down their pants. Just horrible.

FLOWER1982 · 21/06/2024 14:50

The world would be a better place without men.

GreenTeaPea · 21/06/2024 14:51

FLOWER1982 · 21/06/2024 14:50

The world would be a better place without men.

Amen.

Disturbia81 · 21/06/2024 14:58

whyhavetheygotsomany · 21/06/2024 14:50

I have noticed a trend recently with teenage boys walking along with their hand down their pants. Just horrible.

That's been forever. My brother and cousins and all their friends who grew up in 80s/90s always had their hands down their pants, as a young girl I was grossed out, as an adult.. still grossed out.
I think they're just in love with their bits, look how they love to photograph it

pontipinemum · 21/06/2024 15:02

Manky!! Like really there is just no need what so ever. I have never come across that. Closest was in the T.A. out doing a field exercise we came across 'an amorous' teenage couple who tbf were in a woods and weren't expecting us 😂

Hydrangealilac · 21/06/2024 15:06

Oh gosh, I’m happy to report that I’ve never ever seen anyone doing this. How vile.
I’d report.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 21/06/2024 15:09

Beautifulbythebay · 21/06/2024 12:01

Omg a local man was caught wanking in a local frozen food supermarket!! Bloody grim.. Thankfully he was arrested...
But same man flashed at ds and his mates a few weeks ago.

Where is Mrs Bobbitt when you need her?

Should have taken careful aim with a frozen chicken

CeasarS · 21/06/2024 15:12

I live somewhere generally considered a bit rough and dodgy and spend a lot of time in the woods on my own, but have never experienced this. It must be a posh people thing.

Treaclewell · 21/06/2024 15:13

I have a friend who watches programmes about UFOs. The ancient astronaut theorists argue that aliens modified human DNA so that we evolved into better beings. I used to argue that it's amazing how much we share with chimps if that is the case. Not now. Evolved males spend all their time fondling their bits? Really? This is the best Homo sap can do?

ApocalypseNowt · 21/06/2024 15:20

I've seen this too unfortunately. Once in a busy city square (I alerted some nearby BTP who were really good actually).

And we also have a Park flasher who is a regular topic of conversation on the local community FB group.

I'm up north but maybe the Cotswolds are doing some sort of flasher outreach programme Grin

wavingfuriously · 21/06/2024 15:21

ByCupidStunt · 21/06/2024 11:54

Take a photo and report to police.

Or move to the Cotswolds. That sort of thing doesn't happen here.

😄

wavingfuriously · 21/06/2024 15:23

CeasarS · 21/06/2024 15:12

I live somewhere generally considered a bit rough and dodgy and spend a lot of time in the woods on my own, but have never experienced this. It must be a posh people thing.

Yes think so🤣 I live in an affluent part of London , saw man sitting in jag spanking the donkey in v busy area recently 🤪 just parked there with tons of peeps walking past..

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