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To not offer two types of beef burger at summer fair (halal and non halal)?

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NameChangedJune · 18/06/2024 21:31

In addition a veggie option?

I’ve took responsibility for sorting the burgers for BBQ at summer school PTA fair.
I was thinking, I can buy all burgers as halal only. A good portion of the school population are either non-religious or Muslim.

However, DH is saying we should also offer a non-halal burger option (he is religious - Sikh and avoids halal due to his beliefs). However I think he is a minority and could have veggie? There are Hindus but they wouldn’t eat beef anyway so it’s a tiny amount of people other than DH who I think would care if we go full halal for the burgers.

IMO one type of beef burger that is suitable for most would be easiest. AIBU?

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CastlesOnTheBeach · 19/06/2024 09:51

Vegan burgers are suitable for everyone: halal, kosher, sikhs, vegetarian, meat eater....

I don't eat meat, haven't for 20 years. I don't particularly want to eat meat, but one of the things that would put me off is that it's impossible to avoid unstunned slaughter methods, because so much of it is unlabelled.

I really don't give a shit if prayers were said during the slaughter process. I really care about animal welfare - and I retain that concern whether or not I'm eating it.

For what it's worth, the Jewish branch of my family chooses to be vegetarian because it removes the vast majority of requirements around kosher dietary laws.

I work with food and have many visibly Muslim customers. I have noticed that they don't ask "is it halal" they'll ask "is it vegetarian" - though I do have to point out at that stage that one of the desserts on the menu is vegetarian but not halal due to alcohol.

Afternoonteavirgin · 19/06/2024 09:53

Slightly off-topic but for those saying no hot dogs as many folk don't eat pork, a lot of them are actually made with chicken.

Solocup · 19/06/2024 09:54

We go to so much effort to cater for food choices based on moral/religious grounds, yet we still only provide our kids with food that’s bad for them at such events. Are you catering for celiacs, or those with allergies?

Wheresyourvote · 19/06/2024 09:59

I would do normal Beef & Veggie. Option for all that way.

CastlesOnTheBeach · 19/06/2024 10:01

ImNotReallySpartacus · 19/06/2024 09:07

I have to disagree with you there. I've tried plantburgers but haven't found one that didn't taste like sawdust.

I would recommend Beyond Burgers.

I haven't eaten meat for many years so I don't trust my own ability to compare meat and non meat options.

My partner, on the other hand, is omnivorous and tells me they're indistinguishable.

The other brands that pass muster with him as being indistinguishable are Quorn nugget, Richmond meat free sausages (if you're aiming for the cheap pork sausage taste) and This Isn't Pork sausages (the regular ones, the caramelised onion ones are a bit too sweet). Actually the entire This Isn't range is pretty good.

There are some crap meat replacements on the market, but there are some really really good ones now (cheese replacements are another story, don't bother, they might have cracked it in ten years though!)

Yellowbananasarebetterthangreen · 19/06/2024 10:05

@PrincessTeaSet Thats interesting information. But to be fair most male orientated environments are often like that. Obviously its not something I was aware of (how could I be?)
Do I refuse to eat meat because Im a feminist and there might be page 3 girls on the slaughterhouse wall? - Dont be ridiculous.

tara66 · 19/06/2024 10:05

BlueMum16 · 18/06/2024 21:46

Might be a dumb question but is it not easier to do hot dogs and veggie options? Or chicken and veggie.

Avoid beef altogether

Halal is the method of killing not the animal.

kαλοκαλοκαιρι · 19/06/2024 10:06

FixTheBone · 18/06/2024 22:02

Why shouldn't they.

My muslim friends and colleagues always ask or check whether Halal food is available when whe choose a restaurant and when we order. I have never witnesssd a non muslim acquaintance ever ask or seem to care one way or the other.

I'm going to call it as i see it and say I think a lot of the people that have a problem do so because its Muslim, not because its Halal, because ive never seen a non vegan give a shit about how meat is slaughtered in any other context.

I think you’ve called it totally correct.

Consciously or unconsciously, halal receives a totally disproportionate backlash compared to eg kosher, and the level of ‘morality’ policing is absolutely bonkers considering the very well documented and proven terror experienced by farmed animals both pre and prior to slaughter in both halal and non halal cases.

Not for me to tell someone their decision to consume meat/meat products is correct or incorrect, it’s a personal decision, but it’s absolutely nonsensical to present the halal aspect as the critical factor in terms of cruelty - the phrase ‘humane slaughter’ is a complete oxymoron and the idea a contradiction in terms!

Nannyogg134 · 19/06/2024 10:07

I think Mumsnet is a great indicator that you can't please everyone- buy the form of meat burger that is best for the majority (be it halal or no), then veggie for everyone else. If they don't like it, they can go get an ice cream.

Tiiina · 19/06/2024 10:08

kαλοκαλοκαιρι · 19/06/2024 10:06

I think you’ve called it totally correct.

Consciously or unconsciously, halal receives a totally disproportionate backlash compared to eg kosher, and the level of ‘morality’ policing is absolutely bonkers considering the very well documented and proven terror experienced by farmed animals both pre and prior to slaughter in both halal and non halal cases.

Not for me to tell someone their decision to consume meat/meat products is correct or incorrect, it’s a personal decision, but it’s absolutely nonsensical to present the halal aspect as the critical factor in terms of cruelty - the phrase ‘humane slaughter’ is a complete oxymoron and the idea a contradiction in terms!

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My work canteen is not kosher, it’s halal.
I would feel similar if I was forced to eat kosher often without even knowing.

Carota · 19/06/2024 10:09

My dad is Sikh, he does not eat Halal because of the Sikh belief that sacrificing an animal in the name of God is ritualism.

My mum is Jewish so you can imagine how fun my dad is at parties!

Devonbabs · 19/06/2024 10:13

Simonjt · 18/06/2024 21:42

No, thats Kosher, the majority of animals killed in Halal slaughter are stunned, there is zero reason not to stun in Halal, where as Kosher forbids any form of stunning.

Actually only types of stunning which cannot lead to death are allowed. Most reputable animal welfare organisations aren’t supportive of the way that halal meat is obtained.

Additionally, as the animal is sacrificed to a Muslim god, many might have ethical and religious issues round that element too.

it would be best just to serve the veggie burgers, that way no animal cruelty is supported at all.

JusteanBiscuits · 19/06/2024 10:14

Riversideandrelax · 18/06/2024 21:44

Absolutely. It is horrific. I think it is odd you see it as 'suitable for all.'

This is showing how little you actually know.

Stunning is used in majority of Halal slaughter. To be Halal the stunning must be reversible is all, so if the animal isn't slaughtered it would return to full fitness.

kinkytoes · 19/06/2024 10:18

bravefox · 18/06/2024 23:32

I wonder if all the posters advocating for 'non-halal' options realise a huge number of restaurants/caterers serve halal by default and just don't make a big deal out of it

This is a good example of illustrating who is most tolerant doesn't it?

andymary · 19/06/2024 10:18

Fun Fact: A majority of non-chain fast food / takeaways ONLY use halal chicken and beef. And then there's the chains including 1 in 5 KFC stores, 1 in 5 Nandos, 1 in 50 Pizza Huts, 1 in 10 Subways. Yet most people wouldn't know or even realise.

BeachParty · 19/06/2024 10:20

Abitorangelooking · 19/06/2024 08:45

Why would a meat burger contain eggs and flour? Burgers should contain meat and a bit of seasoning. local butcher provided ours for sports day and they were really nice. gluten free obviously

Burgers absolutely can contain eggs as some use eggs to "bind" them.

Wordsofprey · 19/06/2024 10:23

VisitationRights · 18/06/2024 21:49

I would have non halal and veggie options. I would not buy halal or allow my children to have it.

Genuine question, why? What's the problem with halal? I'm white and not religious and I don't care either way. I can't afford to buy free range as much as I'd like to go full organic and happy animals only, but I just can't. So id happily settle for whatever meat was offered, as long as it was real meat and not some kind of factory made substitute. I would follow the same logic as you OP - I thought non religious can eat whatever (depending on own ideologies), specific people want halal, so it might as well be halal. Correct me if I'm wrong please

ilikecatsandponies · 19/06/2024 10:24

kinkytoes · 18/06/2024 21:51

Just go 100% veggie for everyone then you won't offend anyone.

Are you in the UK?

If I turned up and halal was the only meat option I'd feel pretty pissed off tbh.

My cousin (not Muslim) is a butcher in London. He sells to trade and says that most meat sold in London is halal, most shops and restaurants prefer it. If you eat meat you probably eat halal.
Chris Van Tulekan did a podcast about chicken which was interesting - about how people are interested in red tractor and buying British and maybe rspca approved or organic if it's a whole chicken, but as soon as it's a sandwich or a curry they don't care anymore and the chicken will have been raised on antibiotics in a shed in Thailand or Brazil or china somewhere with minimal animal welfare laws, before being kept in a deep freeze for months.
We have some neighbours raising high welfare meat who slaughter themselves on farm and they don't stun.
Often this isn't about halal, it's about something else.

kinkytoes · 19/06/2024 10:26

@Wordsofprey if one single ideology can change how we produce ALL meat in this country, do you not wonder where that might lead in terms of other changes to our lifestyle and culture?

pocketaces · 19/06/2024 10:28

This is getting silly. Just buy halal but don't label it. If anyone asks tell them but non Muslims won't ask as they won't even think about it.

All these saying they won't eat halal probably don't understand what it means or will have eaten halal without knowing.

It makes no difference a burger is a burger. The last time I had a burger I have no idea whether it was halal or non halal as I didn't ask and don't care

sashh · 19/06/2024 10:32

PCcrisps · 19/06/2024 09:38

You won't know most of the time, there's no requirement to label halal meat.

In London loads of schools serve only halal meat, most "chicken shops" use halal chicken, Turkish restaurant?, probably halal. Indian (usually actually Bangaldeshi or Punjabi), very likely to be using halal meat. 80 Nandos branches in UK serve halal.

Punjabi usually means Sikh, which means not Halal.

1415isgreat · 19/06/2024 10:34

VisitationRights · 18/06/2024 22:14

Are you homophobic? Against free speech? Against political descent? Against women’s right? Most muslim countries fail in all these categories according to human rights indexes. Why would I support any country that didn’t hold my values?

Oh shut up @VisitationRights you sound boring. So tired of people making out Muslim women have no rights yadayadaya.

1415isgreat · 19/06/2024 10:35

Nannyogg134 · 19/06/2024 10:07

I think Mumsnet is a great indicator that you can't please everyone- buy the form of meat burger that is best for the majority (be it halal or no), then veggie for everyone else. If they don't like it, they can go get an ice cream.

I agree with this as well. Cater towards the majority, and what will generate more sales. It they don’t like it, they can lump it :)

Workhardcryharder · 19/06/2024 10:35

mamaandbump · 18/06/2024 22:12

These comments are disgusting. Please either leave vegetarian as an option or do put halal options out. Im a white english woman but not the bloody EDL like most of these comments.

? I’m not really sure I’ve seen any EDL comments.

Many ignorant ones regarding halal processes maybe, but barely EDL comments? Is that not a bit hyperbolic?

Loudhousefun · 19/06/2024 10:36

VisitationRights · 18/06/2024 21:53

I don’t and would not ever go to Muslim country for any reason.

Yes why not? Interested to hear your reasons

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