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To not offer two types of beef burger at summer fair (halal and non halal)?

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NameChangedJune · 18/06/2024 21:31

In addition a veggie option?

I’ve took responsibility for sorting the burgers for BBQ at summer school PTA fair.
I was thinking, I can buy all burgers as halal only. A good portion of the school population are either non-religious or Muslim.

However, DH is saying we should also offer a non-halal burger option (he is religious - Sikh and avoids halal due to his beliefs). However I think he is a minority and could have veggie? There are Hindus but they wouldn’t eat beef anyway so it’s a tiny amount of people other than DH who I think would care if we go full halal for the burgers.

IMO one type of beef burger that is suitable for most would be easiest. AIBU?

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Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:09

Simonjt · 19/06/2024 00:05

It’s a cd, if you can ignore a cd with songs about jesus for example, why can’t you ignore a cd about allah? It isn’t a live person doing anything (not in the UK anyway).

I've already explained above, please read that.

Genevieva · 19/06/2024 00:09

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:04

It’s not about animal welfare for them though. Anyone who has been in a slaughter house knows that it’s a cruel industry, regardless of method.

But as pp have said, people only care about that when it’a halal meat.

Some people, I agree. For other people it is animal welfare. Not to the extent of a vegan, but to the extent they they are content with standard U.K. law. As I said above, I’m not vegetarian. I buy free range meat. I also avoid chicken I haven’t cooked myself because it is invariably battery farmed, whereas in the U.K. we are blessed with a bedrock of small family farms raising livestock for general consumption. 87% of our beef cattle are free range.

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:10

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:07

Meanwhile you begrudge those who prefer to avoid halal......and the circle continues ....

I’m saying it makes sense to cater to the majority. Which happens to be non-Muslim in most situations in the UK.

And here we have a situation where OP says a lot are Muslims and a tiny amount of people who won’t eat halal (like the Hindu people who will eat veggie) and yet you STILL don’t want the Muslims catered for.

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:12

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:07

To be fair, actual veggie ones do taste nicer.

They are all made of vegetables

you might prefer one type but that doesn’t make it nicer/better for everyone.

also not quite what I was getting at. The people who eat mashed up cow carcass like to tell vegans that their mashed up peas are unhealthy

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:12

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:10

I’m saying it makes sense to cater to the majority. Which happens to be non-Muslim in most situations in the UK.

And here we have a situation where OP says a lot are Muslims and a tiny amount of people who won’t eat halal (like the Hindu people who will eat veggie) and yet you STILL don’t want the Muslims catered for.

Has op determined who is actually likely be coming, not just those who will potentially come?
That might be helpful.
Whatever she opts for it needs to be clearly labelled and cooked appropriately.

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:13

TheArtfulWriter · 19/06/2024 00:09

Non-halal is the default in the UK - not a Muslim country.
Just as how in my Muslim country of origin, halal is the default, for obvious reasons.

So why is @Leidenschaft24 wrong for arguing that the default is as it should be?

I think in this case, halal should be the default, as most customers are Muslim.

But in all other cases, arguing for non-halal as the default isn't wrong as long as Muslims are provided for with vegetarian food. Why is there a need to ensure that they can eat the meat?

If you say 'well it should be halal' then what about the people whose beliefs prevent them from eating it?

Someone has to give in. If you say that people CAN eat halal, they don't want to... Well, not wanting to is a belief.
Religion is also a belief.
In both cases there is no physical reason preventing anybody from doing anything just that they believe that they shouldn't.

Beliefs are all just beliefs IMO and in the same category. Religious or otherwise.

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I think in this case, halal should be the default, as most customers are Muslim.

That’s what I’m saying too. But Leiden disagrees and is saying non-halal should be the default at this event too.

No one has said halal should be the default in the UK overall.

PrincessTeaSet · 19/06/2024 00:15

FixTheBone · 18/06/2024 22:02

Why shouldn't they.

My muslim friends and colleagues always ask or check whether Halal food is available when whe choose a restaurant and when we order. I have never witnesssd a non muslim acquaintance ever ask or seem to care one way or the other.

I'm going to call it as i see it and say I think a lot of the people that have a problem do so because its Muslim, not because its Halal, because ive never seen a non vegan give a shit about how meat is slaughtered in any other context.

Yes. Also... school dinners, hospital food, much restaurant food is all halal. Honestly most people don't care.

I have spent quite a bit of time in slaughterhouses for my job. Don't kid yourself that non halal slaughter is necessarily humane either. It's really to do with the skill and care of the slaughter man more than anything else. Most big abattoirs are killing hundreds or thousands of animals per week. Sometimes staff get desensitised and stop caring. Also it's not a job that attracts people who love animals or who have other job options open to them. Many slaughterhouse workers have criminal records.

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:15

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:12

They are all made of vegetables

you might prefer one type but that doesn’t make it nicer/better for everyone.

also not quite what I was getting at. The people who eat mashed up cow carcass like to tell vegans that their mashed up peas are unhealthy

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There are different kinds of 'veggie burgers' - some designed to look like meat, some with visible veggies and some which are apparently designed to look like grey sludge.....

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:16

Pinkbits · 18/06/2024 23:54

The only way is normal, halal and veggie isnt it?

lol “normal”

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:17

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:13

I think in this case, halal should be the default, as most customers are Muslim.

That’s what I’m saying too. But Leiden disagrees and is saying non-halal should be the default at this event too.

No one has said halal should be the default in the UK overall.

If you're going to mention me can you please use stop calling me Leiden?

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:17

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:15

There are different kinds of 'veggie burgers' - some designed to look like meat, some with visible veggies and some which are apparently designed to look like grey sludge.....

All tasty in their own way, none made of tortured animal parts

Pinkbits · 19/06/2024 00:18

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:16

lol “normal”

Thats right normal, we just call burgers burgers in the UK, normally.

Putting · 19/06/2024 00:18

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:17

All tasty in their own way, none made of tortured animal parts

I think “tasty” is having to stretch a long way to make the grey sludge burgers appealing

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:18

PrincessTeaSet · 19/06/2024 00:15

Yes. Also... school dinners, hospital food, much restaurant food is all halal. Honestly most people don't care.

I have spent quite a bit of time in slaughterhouses for my job. Don't kid yourself that non halal slaughter is necessarily humane either. It's really to do with the skill and care of the slaughter man more than anything else. Most big abattoirs are killing hundreds or thousands of animals per week. Sometimes staff get desensitised and stop caring. Also it's not a job that attracts people who love animals or who have other job options open to them. Many slaughterhouse workers have criminal records.

A sobering read. Animal welfare is an oxymoron, My DH works in the food industry and says there will be a time when future generations will be baffled that we ate meat.

RafaistheKingofClay · 19/06/2024 00:18

Not sure the average person buying a burger at a school fete is too worried about animal welfare standards. Anyone who has thought about it is taking the vege option surely?

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:19

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:17

All tasty in their own way, none made of tortured animal parts

Correct.
Clearly lots of people enjoy eating animal parts though.
TBH I can't stand the meat lookalike burgers but I do like the ones with chunks of veghies encased in breadcrumbs. I'm partial to a cauliflower cheese grill too.

arialllla · 19/06/2024 00:19

Why is this fair considering cooking burgers. Just avoid a BBQ and sell ice creams instead 😂 avoid the hassle you can't make everyone happy

LiterallyOnFire · 19/06/2024 00:20

WittyFatball · 18/06/2024 22:13

Funny how people suddenly care about animal welfare when it comes to halal meat.

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from that. People go out of their way to buy dolphin friendly tuna and free range eggs. Clearly they're not vegans making these purchases, so many consumers who eat animal products do seem to care about animal husbandry and ethics.

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:20

Putting · 19/06/2024 00:18

I think “tasty” is having to stretch a long way to make the grey sludge burgers appealing

Cow mince is more grey sludge than anything else. Festering away on the shelves, full of sinewy sadness

Genevieva · 19/06/2024 00:21

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:13

I think in this case, halal should be the default, as most customers are Muslim.

That’s what I’m saying too. But Leiden disagrees and is saying non-halal should be the default at this event too.

No one has said halal should be the default in the UK overall.

I’m inclined to agree that the OP needs to buy what her consumers would eat.

I think Leiden’s point is a different one. Objecting to back door mission creep, which is happening. 71% of British sheep are already slaughtered using halal methods. This means it is being sold to non-Muslims without its halal status being labelled. Furthermore, around a third of it on average is not stunned. Ditto 22% chickens. This is not what religious slaughter exemptions exist for. It lowers overall animal welfare standards in the U.K. and creates an industry that is dominated by religious exemptions to the law, rather than the law itself.

Putting · 19/06/2024 00:21

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:20

Cow mince is more grey sludge than anything else. Festering away on the shelves, full of sinewy sadness

If a cow burger is grey it’s gone off and needs to be thrown away.

countcalculia · 19/06/2024 00:21

LiterallyOnFire · 19/06/2024 00:20

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from that. People go out of their way to buy dolphin friendly tuna and free range eggs. Clearly they're not vegans making these purchases, so many consumers who eat animal products do seem to care about animal husbandry and ethics.

Have you seen what happens in a slaughterhouse?

Leidenschaft24 · 19/06/2024 00:22

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:20

Cow mince is more grey sludge than anything else. Festering away on the shelves, full of sinewy sadness

The cow mince we buy is most definitely not grey sludge.

Simonjt · 19/06/2024 00:22

LiterallyOnFire · 19/06/2024 00:20

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from that. People go out of their way to buy dolphin friendly tuna and free range eggs. Clearly they're not vegans making these purchases, so many consumers who eat animal products do seem to care about animal husbandry and ethics.

But in reality those people don’t actually know what dolphin friendly or free range actually is.

SergeantDawkins · 19/06/2024 00:23

LiterallyOnFire · 19/06/2024 00:20

I don't think you can draw any conclusions from that. People go out of their way to buy dolphin friendly tuna and free range eggs. Clearly they're not vegans making these purchases, so many consumers who eat animal products do seem to care about animal husbandry and ethics.

It’s because they’re drawn in by marketing speak and lies to help their cognitive dissonance. Save the dolphins, massacre the tuna.

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