Eww just found out my fiance voted UKIP before

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Just that really. And the fact that he likes Nigel Farage and agrees with him. I feel very disturbed.

I would never marry a deadbeat of any persuasion. Who would knowingly?

It's the basic values though.
Farage is a fascist. His beliefs are small minded racist populism. Anti environment, anti Europe, anti environment, anti open mindedness. Pro The UK and flag waving.
I am the opposite I love Europe and the EU, love other cultures, love freedom of movement, don't care much about nations and am definitely bot nationalistic. I like supporting the vulnerable and happy to be taxed more (a bit) to help others. I am not very well off, but would share a bit more to make the place better for everyone. I think this is possible by an assets based approach of using the best of what we have and building on it not by negatively berating change.
Farage doesn't give on tiny shit about the UK. He only cares about his popularity and his wealth and anyone who can't see that I would struggle to respect enough to share my life with

In 2014? Voted for UKIP in what?

Dump him from a great height. You do not need someone who is so full of hate in your life.

Many couples vote for different parties. If it’s a big deal for you, then walk away. Everyone’s different, and can vote for who they want. Many vote differently year on year depending on what matters to them at that particular time. Coming on her asking people what you should do is a tad pointless, as what matters to you, doesn’t necessarily matter to others. Just do you.

Wth is wrong with being Pro The UK and flag waving? So you’re anti UK?

I think DdraigGoch is talking about the European Elections in 2014.

I disagree. It’s perfectly possible to have a civil discussion about contentious issues and agree to differ on them while maintaining a solid relationship. It does entail a degree of both emotional maturity & intellectual self-confidence which not everyone possesses, however.

A man who thought Farage was anything but a fucking, lying, self serving, odious shithole, who is partly responsible for the reason our kids don’t have freedom of movement throughout Europe, whilst his still do…

No.

No.

NO.

Couldn't he answer you? That strongly suggests he likes Farage because he's racist but doesn't want to say so openly.

It's not about 'all political'... But a fundamental difference....

I just could not shag /live with a bloke who was racist... Any more than I could a non feminist or anti-anortionist

As @BringMeSunshineAllDayLong pointed out, the reality is Farage is not pro the UK, and he just pretends he is and goes in for all the ostentatious flag waving etc as a charade to con people. That is one of the many reasons people dislike him. He'd leave tomorrow if it was in his personal interests.

I'm pro the world. Love the UK, Love Europe, Love the bits of Africa, Asia, Americas I've been to. Find flag waving really weird.
I don't love the UK more than many other places. It's great but I'm not more pro the UK than anywhere else. It's all made up boarders anyway. The UK could easily not exist and just be England or England and Scotland or With Wales and no Cornwall. Just nationalist rubbish. Few of us are from any one place. And none of us if you go back long enough. If we were less protectionist and more globalist the world would work much better.

That's a firm no from me, as it would make travel and living and socialising impossible

My working class,pretty poor Mother loved Margaret Thatcher, no idea why. Still loved her to bits, people are allowed opinions.

If his opinions mean you don’t think he’s a nice or decent person then obviously don’t marry him. It’s a shame you’ve come to this realisation after having a child together.

Are you really going to dump him?

I dunno about you, but I'm discerning enough in picking a partner that I'd narrowed the pool to much smaller group than 75% of the 2014 electorate...

Cheers.

I honestly think some people take politics far too seriously than is good for their own mental wellbeing when politics starts to take over every aspect of how they view society and people around them.

I agree. Who stops speaking to their parents because they vote for something different to you! Unless you already hated your parents & we’re looking for an excuse.

Op, this wouldn’t bother me. I like a healthy debate. As long as he was treating me how I expected him to, all good.

Apart from everything? Lying during the brexit campaign, referring to refugees as insects, going on IACGMOOH, squatting on the beach with bins scanning the coastline like a sad act, getting sacked from LBC for being a knob, the fact he looks like a melted bonfire bin, throwing a hissy fit because coutts binned him off and going on about it for eons, singing Hitler youth songs as a kid, idolising Enoch Powell, going to promote a criminal presidential candidate
... feel free to research a bit more if you need some more help on why he needs salting like the slug he is

Your post doesn’t read that way. You stated pro UK following declaring him a facist, as if him being pro UK was a bad thing. I never voted UKIP, but I love my country, and no-one should be made to feel bad for saying that.

Nope, she didn’t say that…

I'd leave him.