Depends what you mean by ‘something a bit wrong with the woman’. If you mean, ‘she’s different in her tastes from me’, you’re being very unreasonable!
Many posters have cited their own preferences as if they’re a reason for judging others’ choices. I might not be able to share in the sexual attraction towards much younger men, but I also can’t feel sexual attraction towards women because I’m heterosexual. So whilst it might be true that I couldn’t imagine that a sexual relationship with a woman would work for me, it doesn’t follow that there’s something wrong with a woman who does desire that.
If your son wanted a sexual relationship with an older woman, and the older woman wanted that too, who are you to say it’s ‘wrong’? I’m sure he’s capable of making his own decisions.
There will be some older women whose emotional, as well as sexual, needs are met by a much younger man. We’re all different.
I don’t know - perhaps it’s because I’m not a mother of boys, but I don’t see men in their twenties as little kids who need protecting from scary middle-aged women. I feel the power lies largely with the virile young man! And I’m willing to acknowledge that their may be a bit of ‘woah I scored a milf’ from these lads - but that simply underscores the idea that these men are very comfortable with what they’re doing. Most middle-aged women would be sharp enough to gauge whether notch-scoring was going on, I’m sure. And to decide if they were comfortable with that.
Come on, all this hand-wringing about what women are allowed to do sexually (with consenting adults) is quite absurd; meanwhile men are dressing as dogs in broad daylight and demanding the general public ‘respect their kink’ or whatever. Let’s stand up for women ffs!