To find many People on Mumsnet are fake!

[leavingabusetoday]

im writing here litreally from observation of a few threads.
One the other day was about a song lyrics which was wrong being about anal sex and some of the posters made out the word sex was crude.
on one today about a women with a hangover all the comments was on 7 year old shouldn’t have been left till 10am.
there was one about a women missing a wedding with a newborn and many people were commenting saying the dad should come back that night (because imagine a women having to look after kids on her own for one night)

i read Mumsnet regularly and I find nearly every other poster to act as if they are middle class have a husband who works a good job. Have never left a child unsupervised for half a hour up to the age 10….

i don’t know if it’s me (I’m a single mum council flat which is temporary) but it seems everyone on here acts as if they live comfortably large houses if you read a thread in houses everyone’s got a en-suite I got 3 people in one room 🤣 and I’m not jelous I had a horrible life that I’ve left now have a degree and nearly a home of my own and I’m really happy just wondered if it’s fake Reply’s , fake OPs or that genuinely the demographic of users.

I know where you're coming from, but even in those posts, they're usually married, it changes it a bit

😂

I know where you're coming from, but even in those posts, they're usually married, it changes it a bit

Is marriage unusual in your social circle?

It's really bizarre isn't it? How do you even check the previous things that someone uploads?

It's like the dating threads where apparently you are very needy for wanting 1 text a week, those saying such things have been married for 20 years and have no idea of the brutally crap atmosphere of online dating.

No, but it usually increases household income, and we are not really seeing the whole of society on this site

I reckon as long as you feel horribly judged by half the posters and you feel like the other half are making terrible choices then you’re probably fine.

I’m not fake, if you’ve a spinal doctor in hiding please send them round.
Happily show them all these dodgy records and operated on twice. I’ve had enough and walked out on my family tonight as roast served so angry with it all. I would like to say I’m joking but I’m not.

Someone helped find a meeting where I can talk about all it next Saturday. Hope they’ve big ears to hear it’s 18 months of misery. Before age of 40 I was as
fit as a fiddle now I wait for the worst to happen - they are going to cut pieces of my bowel out.

All I did was go for a walk 3rd December 2022. I didn’t go out angry, didn’t have my foot roll under a can in the supermarket I just went for a walk. Please god.

👆This!!!

Exactly that.
Also, I think Op is remembering some more than others (higher earners, etc) because of who op is. And because of who I am (an immigrant) my subjective take is that there are a lot of immigrants posting (because of how lonely it can be when you live abroad, I guess).

OP, this degree of yours… would it be Lang&Lit by any chance?

My degree is in childhood study's I got a 2/1 I'll thank the dsa for supporting me with my adhd and dyslexia. You do realise some people have disabilities where spelling and letters and words might not read the same. It's like saying to a man with one arm who swims in the Paralympic who could be worst then you at swimming but with help and support it's possible. Never mind me having a degree I feel for if you have children who you make comments trying to bring people down.

This is exactly why I did the post all of the internet has fake things and mean people but on a website made for women and mums trying to ask for advice. You will see normally at least one mean comment that's only purpose is to put someone down.

Well I hate the way people write on here. It's overread, and artificial.

I am tipical mumsnet here. SAHM, DH is high earner. I used to be a psychologist back home but my qualifications not approved here. But i’m not middle class. I’m not british. I’m from southeast asia. My grammar sometimes all over the place as english its not my first language. And lots of munsnetter thinks i lied. Why? Whats the point?. Maybe if people live unhappy life then they want to make a rich, happy persona on the internet. But not me. I’m quite happy and content with my life.

Do you identify as a female or male dog? it makes a real difference.

on a website made for women and mums trying to ask for advice. You will see normally at least one mean comment that's only purpose is to put someone down

Surely, that's because they are honest and direct. Not fake.

OP well done for turning your life around 👍 congrats on your degree and hopefully you secure your own property soon.

Rude ,hope you enjoyed pressing the post button!

This is exactly why I did the post all of the internet has fake things and mean people but on a website made for women and mums trying to ask for advice. You will see normally at least one mean comment that's only purpose is to put someone down

You've started a thread about thinking other posters are fake. I don't think you can take offence or even be suprised when someone disbelieves something you have said.

What a dick thing to say.

I don't get it

I'm not sure they are fake. It's just much easier to give advice than to follow it. So it's easy to see from a post that someone should LTB, but the reality is much more difficult.

Well @LizTruss ive also seen Starmer on MN 😉
It would be great to do a head to head

I do not know why people do it, but there are a lot of made up posts. Go to meet ups and you will find the mums are just ordinary mums.