To feel repulsed by my husband and hate my life right now?

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I’m typing this as I’m lying in my 8 year old daughters room. I’m miserable. I got everything ready for work and the kids stuff for morning and just wanted to drop into bed but yet another night where I feel sick as I walked into mine and husbands bedroom and the stink of faeces just hits me! He’s gone to the toilet in the Ensuite and not sprayed and I know there will be disgusting marks left in toilet which he won’t clean. I feel so sick I couldn’t even take my contacts out. I’m too tired to find the air freshener which one of the kids has moved. If it’s not the disgusting smell he leaves he snores and a few times when I’ve told him I’ve got an important day at work and please not to wake me up I’m woken to him banging around the room looking for things and also I feel embarrassed writing this but he’s been wanking himself whilst I’ve tried to sleep. That’s why I always let him go up first and then I go to bed around 10:45/11:00. I’m knackered, I just want to sleep and have a good night sleep. I feel
so sleep deprived. Even tonight in my DD’s room I won’t have a good night sleep as she will be tossing n turning in her sleep and bed is so tiny I will wake up to an arm or leg hitting me (obviously she’s not doing on purpose). I’m sorry to write this on here but I’m so fed up I’m just really fed up of my life. I just need some sleep. I often nap after coming from work (try to) but kids wake me up, I put tv in for them but can’t even manage 10 mins nap.

sorry for any typos and sorry for TMI.

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I don’t think the odd fart and too-quick hand wash are grounds for divorce, though I have considered it.
If however dh started stinking out the en-suite when I’m about to go to bed, leaving skid marks in the bog and blatantly spanking the monkey when I’m laying next to him I would be up for divorce.

There are levels of disgustingness.. My own dh is probably teetering into amber - op’s is slsp-bang in the red zone!

I do think that if all was well in your marriage the issues you have mentioned would not feel so insurmountable. To read some of the responses on the post it would appear that a MumsNetter's poos don't stink and that they would delicately draw their skirts away rather than brush against a man.
Yes, if he leaves skidmarks in the loo he should clean them off
Yes constantly pleasuring himself while in the bed beside you is unacceptable.There are other times and places.
The banging around could perhaps be solved if he organised himself before bedtime and had his clothes etc ready for the next day.
Could you bring yourself to discuss these issues with him ? Because to me, at the moment, it seems like you are simmering away and will soon explode...maybe in his direction but more likely you will no longer be able to cope and your health will suffer.
If you can't talk to him, or he refuses to engage then, sadly, I think your marriage is over.

Ask him very nicely not to dump in the en suite, and ask him to use the bog brush. And please do it without having a row.

Oh and, OP, please remember to put a ribbon in your hair and ask prettily. 🙄

Ew.

No arguments from me. He sound's disgusting.