The thing is, I want to vote Labour but two things keep coming back to me - that quote "Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety.", and the old canard about Mussolini making the trains run on time.
The gender thing isn't just a difference of opinion, it's something deeply, deeply wrong and unfair. It's blatant lying and bullying. It's gaslighting women. It's an openly asymmetric application of "rights" and "respect".
And sure, you might think women having a political voice and legitimacy is nice and all but a bit airy fairy compared to the immediate practical needs of a country on its knees, but how do you know it'll stop with women?
When someone tells you who they are, believe them.
So the question I'm dealing with is not "can I vote for party that I think will improve the country even though I don't agree with all their policies?" - of course I can. No party will ever be 100% what I want them to be. It's "Is this thing so so rotten that ignoring it is like voting for the guy who's going to make the trains run on time?"