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“Women and birthing people. “

473 replies

Riapia · 13/05/2024 18:11

Who said that?
A doula on the PM Programme on BBC R4 tonight between 5.40 and 5.45.

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Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 16:46

duvelmonkey · 14/05/2024 16:42

Male Menopause Symptoms When someone has male menopause, they most often experience a low libido and erectile dysfunction. In fact, one study found that 12% experience low libido and 16% experience erectile dysfunction.4 Other common symptoms can include:15

  • Decreased muscle mass and strength
  • Increased body fat
  • Decreased bone mineral density
  • Increased risk for osteoporosis
  • Decreased vitality
  • Depressed mood
  • Concentration issues or short-term memory problems
  • Reduced hair growth or hair loss
  • Irritability
  • Decreased volume of ejaculate

Have you linked the correct article here?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/05/2024 16:47

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Another good rule is that respect is earned not demanded. Posters who make careless pronouncements that are easily disproved, along with making abusive comments to posters while claiming to work with vulnerable people in the NHS, shouldn't be surprised when others question their credibility or their knowledge base.

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 16:50

MrsOvertonsWindow · 14/05/2024 16:47

Another good rule is that respect is earned not demanded. Posters who make careless pronouncements that are easily disproved, along with making abusive comments to posters while claiming to work with vulnerable people in the NHS, shouldn't be surprised when others question their credibility or their knowledge base.

What have you disproved? So far you have been providing links that all say it doesnt exist.

One doesnt even seem to have the quote they said it does.

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 16:50

Oh i dont need any of you to respect me...

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 16:57

That wasnt the article linked originally linked

duvelmonkey · 14/05/2024 16:57

@Mackmacking

I have literally posted an article with the heading male menopause and symptoms but you still seem to think that "there is no literature about male menopause"

duvelmonkey · 14/05/2024 16:58

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 16:57

That wasnt the article linked originally linked

No, i just closed all my tabs so I found another one in about three seconds.

W0tnow · 14/05/2024 16:58

There is no such thing as male menopause. There is no menstruation to cease. Hth.

hayleyrabbit · 14/05/2024 17:03

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Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 17:06

From your link:

"There has been some controversy, though, about the diagnosis and treatment of andropause, especially since there is little agreement on how to accurately diagnose the condition and treat it."

"That said, there is no well-defined, universally-accepted threshold of testosterone levels.5"

"But the diagnosis of testosterone issues is controversial.5
For this reason, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) requires pharmaceutical companies to label all testosterone medications with a statement that their products are approved for use only in persons with low testosterone levels due to known causes.5"

All of this says its not a real thing. Plus the website is the kind of site HCPs steer service users away from.

Bad literature on the internet isnt the fault of trans people.

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 17:08

duvelmonkey · 14/05/2024 16:58

No, i just closed all my tabs so I found another one in about three seconds.

You linked this one originally in your hunt for an article to prove your non-point.

https://www.health.com/libido-7098982

What Is Libido? Defining Sex Drive

Libido is highly variable, but you may wonder if yours is high or low compared to the average person's. Here's how to know.

https://www.health.com/libido-7098982

duvelmonkey · 14/05/2024 17:08

@Mackmacking
You said there was NO literature about Male Menopause - there is

duvelmonkey · 14/05/2024 17:10

@Mackmacking
You said there was NO literature about Male Menopause - there is

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 17:12

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This is what I said. You have not provided literature by the NHS.

Swamphag · 14/05/2024 17:38

I sincerely hope the poster who claims to be working with vulnerable women in maternity services is doing nothing of the sort.
Your contempt for women is evident.
Language around healthcare needs to be clear. For the very reason it needs to be understood by everyone it affects. So that's speakers of English as a second language, those with learning difficulties and even those awful middle classes you seem to loathe so much. The average reading age for adults in the UK is something like 9 years old - these people need to be able to comprehend the information. The obfuscation around language in healthcare (not just maternity) make it difficult to effectively run targeted campaigns.
I'm disgusted by some of the things I've read on hear from someone purportedly working with vulnerable service users (women).

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 17:47

Swamphag · 14/05/2024 17:38

I sincerely hope the poster who claims to be working with vulnerable women in maternity services is doing nothing of the sort.
Your contempt for women is evident.
Language around healthcare needs to be clear. For the very reason it needs to be understood by everyone it affects. So that's speakers of English as a second language, those with learning difficulties and even those awful middle classes you seem to loathe so much. The average reading age for adults in the UK is something like 9 years old - these people need to be able to comprehend the information. The obfuscation around language in healthcare (not just maternity) make it difficult to effectively run targeted campaigns.
I'm disgusted by some of the things I've read on hear from someone purportedly working with vulnerable service users (women).

I work with all those women and none of them have the trouble interpreting simple language that you do.

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 17:50

From your link:

"Male menopause” is commonly used as a title because it affects men as they age, and has similar symptoms to the female menopause. But is it the same?
In truth, not quite – the term is something of a misleading tagline –'

So as i said, the only NHS resources will say it isnt real.

MushMonster · 14/05/2024 17:59

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 07:26

How are women affected by the fact that I assisted in a homebirth for someone called "Steve" last week who will be the daddy of the baby he birthed?

How will that affect "Mary" and her husband, "Paul" who are due for a homebirth this week? I am asking because they are even neighbours.

I think they will not be affected.
But I have read that terms like birthing partner have been used to fully replace mother in some texts. Now, that is wrong.
I do not care if people say women and...., mothers and .... But to have the whole word mother and woman deleted from the used vocabulary is a no, because I do identify as those and I want them there. Whichever term a partner, parent or female giving birth they want to use, I have no problem with that at all.
There has been a medical journal publishing an article with the terms bodies with vaginas. Now, that is flipping offensive! Not even persons with vaginas, but bodies?

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 18:02

MushMonster · 14/05/2024 17:59

I think they will not be affected.
But I have read that terms like birthing partner have been used to fully replace mother in some texts. Now, that is wrong.
I do not care if people say women and...., mothers and .... But to have the whole word mother and woman deleted from the used vocabulary is a no, because I do identify as those and I want them there. Whichever term a partner, parent or female giving birth they want to use, I have no problem with that at all.
There has been a medical journal publishing an article with the terms bodies with vaginas. Now, that is flipping offensive! Not even persons with vaginas, but bodies?

Yes it waa concluded that additive rather than a swap to gender neutral terms was preferred.

Again, I want to go back to the fact that this only applies when youre speaking to groups of people. Individually, you use what the person prefers. So most of the time, I speak about "women" to the woman in front of me.

MushMonster · 14/05/2024 18:07

Exactly!

hayleyrabbit · 14/05/2024 18:33

Swamphag · 14/05/2024 17:38

I sincerely hope the poster who claims to be working with vulnerable women in maternity services is doing nothing of the sort.
Your contempt for women is evident.
Language around healthcare needs to be clear. For the very reason it needs to be understood by everyone it affects. So that's speakers of English as a second language, those with learning difficulties and even those awful middle classes you seem to loathe so much. The average reading age for adults in the UK is something like 9 years old - these people need to be able to comprehend the information. The obfuscation around language in healthcare (not just maternity) make it difficult to effectively run targeted campaigns.
I'm disgusted by some of the things I've read on hear from someone purportedly working with vulnerable service users (women).

Yes well put. I hope to fuck this person is nowhere near vulnerable women and babies.

Mackmacking · 14/05/2024 19:31

hayleyrabbit · 14/05/2024 18:33

Yes well put. I hope to fuck this person is nowhere near vulnerable women and babies.

Yes i am. My caseload typically love me because I provide them individualised informed choice in my care.

StormingNorman · 14/05/2024 19:33

Birthing people? Are men pushing out babies now?

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